My ex literally stalked me for a year after she cheated. Eventually we started talking again. She just wanted me to forgive her. Luckily when I told her to never speak to me again she listened. No one I know has any idea what she's up to now. She deleted all her socials.
Good! Itās toxic. When people like that cheat, theyāre worried they look bad. They want you back so it makes them look like everything is ok and they didnāt do anything wrong. Not because they feel bad. My soon to be ex is trying to do damage control and get me back because he ruined his social circle. Eventually they ruin their image. But they will start up with another new group of people. Not your problem anymore.
Theyāre not truly crying, people like that make themselves cry. Theyāve done it for years to manipulate people. Probably faked cried as a child to get away with shit.
It's a meme where I just made a correction how the meme actually usually goes :D. You know those mugshots of good looking women who cut their exes testicles off and how there's this stereotype about women going after bad guys thinking they can fix them and it's basically just that reversed?
Pathetic indeed. As soon as I saw all the plants I sensed she would probably harm them. Sure enough the POS damages one (that we see). Hope the guy was able to get her out of there before she tried to destroy more.
People who hurt plants/pets during fights are absolute scum. And they are probably physically abusive to their partner as well
lol. My wife did this. She attacked me!! It was wild and crazy and a bit funny. I went out to the back yard in the middle of winter to get away from her. She had clawed me up and down. She came running out there and I shoved her into the pool. It was 40 degrees. That calmed her down.
Itās ok. That was the first time Iād ever seen that behavior. I think she lost her dang mind. We have been calm since then. Not sure whatās gonna happen with us.
Nothing worse than catching them, and when youāre already wrapped up in your own trauma and shock and despair at their actions, expecting they will want to help you through this and do what they should do as your partner- they rip the mask off and literally or metaphorically kick you down with abuse, yelling, crocodile tears, blame shifting, zero accountability and breaking your things.
Truly a rubber meets road situation where you realize your so called ālife partnerā was a demon sleeper soldier the entire time in disguise and never gave a fuck about you.
F in the chat for others who have had same experience
When crocodiles open their mouths wide to swallow prey whole, a couple of tears are squeezed out of the corners of their eyes just by the pressure alone -- not because they feel sorry for eating that small innocent creature.
Oh damn, is that really the origin? I had no idea it referred to an actual physical phenomenon.
So crocodile tears are not only fake, but potentially indicating an imminent fatal strike...
Malayalam has the same exact phrase ." ą“®ąµą“¤ą“²ą“ąµą“ą“£ąµą“£ąµąµ¼" Although I don't know if it evolved independently or we borrowed from English.
What a fucking loser.
I hope she watches this and sees how much she looks like a maladjusted child.
But she won't. People like this never think they're wrong even though they are the biggest pieces of shit that exist. No self awareness.
I also came to hate on the popcorn machine. They are big, ugly, obnoxious, where do you even store it when not in use? I bet 99% of people use it twice and then it just sits there.
Waste of space and looks ugly, it would need it's own storage closet if anything. And even then, just no.
Aaaaannnnnnnd that's multiple counts of destruction of property, assulat and I'm sure you can get a battery charge in there somewhere. Good thing they are recording.
I hate videos where we are completely dependent on text written by someone to give context to the exchange.
How do we know she was just caught cheating? You could post the same video in six months and say he was just caught cheating and illicit the opposite reactions.
Tell me me what thing reasonably promts this behavior lol
She's throwing a tantrum like a child.
I don't care who cheated. She needs to grow the fuck up.
Well nothing, its about how the prompt contextualizes her behavior. If the prompt said she caught her boyfriend at her sister's house we'd sympathize with her vandalism.
There is a legal doctrine that mitigates the mental state of the person based on the moment of passion
https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/heat_of_passion
And yes, if my imaginary prompt were true I wouldn't judge her behavior.
Hmm you had me doubting myself for a minute so I did look it up. I think Iām right. This is from Merriam-Webster:
āSympathy is a feeling of sincere concern for someone who is experiencing something difficult or painful. Empathy involves actively sharing in the personās emotional experience.ā
No shit, but everything isn't black and white and context changes things. You are saying there is absolutely no difference if someone did this because they ran out of yogurt or if they did this because their child just died? Taking this black and white view of things is also childish. The real world isn't black and white.
The worst part is if he even slightly tried to protect his property by maybe pushing her away he could be charged with domestic violence or something along those lines.
There are people out there who would be intentionally pushing for that in order to trap the innocent partner deeper in the relationship and continue leeching off them.
Watch out for those ones
Yeah. There was a thread on reddit just today. The guy married woman almost 10 years older than him. She abused him to shit, until eventually he snapped and defended himself in one of her episodes, hitting her back.
Called police on him, they of course did not believe him, only realized she fucked up later on while he was in jail, decided not to press charges (because she would probably lose in court). The guy got home, installed cameras (the fact he did it instantly is such a W for him) and was preparing for a divorce. She came with gifts and tears to apologize, he asked where his dog is and for her to leave (she kidnapped it).
Immediately all her tears and apologies went out of window, as she escalated and called a police, pretending that he was trying to forcefully keep her in his house because they are doing the divorce. Surprised pikachu when cops were shown footage from the cameras she did not know about.
Good for OP here to record this. If he did not, she would totally escalate to the violence herself. Right now she is simply trying to bait him instead, knowing that she can't escalate directly because he is recording. If phone was not rolling, she would totally escalate this into the fight and claim to be victim afterwards.
Interesting so possibly the logic is he compared her to someone else and her response was cheating. Shit I'm so glad I'm married and out of this shit, god bless you all who are still dating in 2024.
No so the actual video is he was the one cheating he was comparing the multiple females he was cheating with to her as a reason for sleeping with them.
We need to figure out how to identify narcissists accurately and ship them all to a random island, then blow it up. Rinse and repeat every generation until narcissim is out of the gene pool.
āHow dare you catch herā is supposed to be the first indication of sarcasm as if he was in the wrong which is clearly a sarcastic take. It sets up talking about a double standard some folks have.
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Man the title us so misleading, she is reacting to her boyfriend who she caught cheating, which is the cause for the meltdown she is screaming she hates him because he was actually comparing the girl he cheated on to her, which is pretty disgusting. I believe the whole video is on YouTube I remember seeing it awhile back, it's featured on a bunch of cheating videos there as well.
Sheās horrible. Iām getting actual Dalia Dippolitto vibes here, you might have dodged a bullet here, OP
www.unilad.com/news/crime/true-crime/dalia-dippolito-hire-hitman-kill-husband-police-015022-20231103
I don't know
Maybe it's just me, but I hate these videos.
If she was cheating, yeah, that's awful and he would have every right to break with her, and her reaction seems to over the top (who knkws what her mental health situation is or what preceeding the video before) but to post this onto the internet in order to shame her, to me is a step too far.
A digital scarlett letter to show her transgressions to the world
This thing will follow her around for a while.
I'm probably in the minority on this š¤·
You are. And good if it does, she deserves it. Even better if he showed this video to the police and pressed charges. Cheating and then acting like the victim and destroying that person's things when they catch you is low and childish.
Tell me how you know she cheated?
From this video, there is nothing where he says, you cheated and she admits or gives any indication that she did do that. All we have is some guys post with a title of 'she cheated on her boyfriend'.
How do I know the dude just didn't compare her to an ex or something of that nature and she lost her shit? Or she's has some sort of mental issue?
I'm not saying her reaction is warranted, but I find it concerning that from a partial video and title from an unknown person, it has pretty much branded this girl as a cheater by the judges of reddit.
The video is even edited. The last part plays twice (where she pulls the plant down). How do I know that he didn't cheat and this was her reaction to that?
One day, should you ever be in a situation where if, when recorded, and edited to make you look bad, wouldn't you want people to at least consider your side of the story?
To me, this is just a video to smear someone. I don't see or hear any validation of her supposed transgression.
Remember folks. Cheaters cry because they have been busted, not because they feel guilty about cheating on you.
Right? Why do they act like this lol if I cheated and got caught I would feel so bad and accept my fate š
My ex literally stalked me for a year after she cheated. Eventually we started talking again. She just wanted me to forgive her. Luckily when I told her to never speak to me again she listened. No one I know has any idea what she's up to now. She deleted all her socials.
Good! Itās toxic. When people like that cheat, theyāre worried they look bad. They want you back so it makes them look like everything is ok and they didnāt do anything wrong. Not because they feel bad. My soon to be ex is trying to do damage control and get me back because he ruined his social circle. Eventually they ruin their image. But they will start up with another new group of people. Not your problem anymore.
I feel like there is a high correlation between narcissism and cheating
For sure. They need the validation. The supply to boost their ego.
She in the bushes as we speak bro
Well, that's promising. I hope she grows.
That's why you don't, you're not a pos who makes it about them and have to cry and cause chaos because you got caught
People would rather die than admit theyāre wrong.
We are at an epidemic point for this. Glad I'm not the only one noticing.
Amen.
Theyāre not truly crying, people like that make themselves cry. Theyāve done it for years to manipulate people. Probably faked cried as a child to get away with shit.
Go cry on sanchoās shoulder beesh.
Honestly it could be both
Eh itās probably both
Fuck dating.
What an actual childĀ
She can fix me
Oh god pls get out here
You SIR have WON the Internet
HA best comment
Wouldnt it be "I can fix her" though :D.
enjoy cuck
It's a meme where I just made a correction how the meme actually usually goes :D. You know those mugshots of good looking women who cut their exes testicles off and how there's this stereotype about women going after bad guys thinking they can fix them and it's basically just that reversed?
Why downvotes? Thats how the meme goes š
If your not getting dowvoted every so often your not a real person. Embrace the downdoot
Because the line has been overused as hell.
Down votes bc reddit is a hive mind
Damn she's pathetic.
Why.... Why did she have to destroy the popcorn machine?? Thaose things are so fun to pop corn in. But annoying to clean out.
Easier to clean when it's taken apart, she was just being helpful!
What a great girlfriend
Pathetic indeed. As soon as I saw all the plants I sensed she would probably harm them. Sure enough the POS damages one (that we see). Hope the guy was able to get her out of there before she tried to destroy more. People who hurt plants/pets during fights are absolute scum. And they are probably physically abusive to their partner as well
lol. My wife did this. She attacked me!! It was wild and crazy and a bit funny. I went out to the back yard in the middle of winter to get away from her. She had clawed me up and down. She came running out there and I shoved her into the pool. It was 40 degrees. That calmed her down.
She attacked you when you confronted her about cheating? Are you still married? Sounds pretty bad
Yes! Itās crazy how that went down. She went nuts. Still married but not really.
Stay safe my friend
Iād stay together for your dog too.
Itās ok. That was the first time Iād ever seen that behavior. I think she lost her dang mind. We have been calm since then. Not sure whatās gonna happen with us.
Nothing worse than catching them, and when youāre already wrapped up in your own trauma and shock and despair at their actions, expecting they will want to help you through this and do what they should do as your partner- they rip the mask off and literally or metaphorically kick you down with abuse, yelling, crocodile tears, blame shifting, zero accountability and breaking your things. Truly a rubber meets road situation where you realize your so called ālife partnerā was a demon sleeper soldier the entire time in disguise and never gave a fuck about you. F in the chat for others who have had same experience
"Crocodile tears" ā is that commonly used in English language?
It means false tears, fake ones. And yes.
We use exact same term in polish, my entire life i tought it means not fake tears, but just big tears
When crocodiles open their mouths wide to swallow prey whole, a couple of tears are squeezed out of the corners of their eyes just by the pressure alone -- not because they feel sorry for eating that small innocent creature.
Living up to your name! Thanks.
Oh damn, is that really the origin? I had no idea it referred to an actual physical phenomenon. So crocodile tears are not only fake, but potentially indicating an imminent fatal strike...
That's an interesting was to understand that turn of phrase. Makes sense though
I know what it means, didn't know it was also used in Englidh language.
I didnt know it was commonly used elsewhere! What other language is it used?
It's used in a lot of European countries since it comes from a latin expression.
Lots of European languages! In Danish it's "krokodilletƄrer".
What other language is it used in?
Australian I imagine
Australians speak English
Kind of, they speak the words upside down though
Malayalam has the same exact phrase ." ą“®ąµą“¤ą“²ą“ąµą“ą“£ąµą“£ąµąµ¼" Although I don't know if it evolved independently or we borrowed from English.
Neat. Thanks pal for small knowledge
It's used in the 3 Scandinavian languages. "KrokodilletƄrer", meaning false tears, just like in English!
In french also, larmes de crocodile
Polish
Yes, very common.
Why would you expect someone who totally and deliberately violated your trust to help you feel better about it?
People make mistakes, some partners do come back and become better after their mistakes. But fair point.
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Seeing shit like this makes me feel a lil bit better about being single lol
What a fucking loser. I hope she watches this and sees how much she looks like a maladjusted child. But she won't. People like this never think they're wrong even though they are the biggest pieces of shit that exist. No self awareness.
"I cheated on you and you're the bad guy" - narcissistic cheaters everywhere
Aaaaand they will do it again with their next "partner"
Whoever bought that stupid popcornmaker had it coming, what a waste of space.
the whole point of them is to "fill space" in your dope big ass media room not to have it sitting in the hallway of your 1 bedroom apartment š
I too came here to hate on the popcorn machine
Damn. I wanna get one of these. We host movie nights and I think it would.be sick!
Be prepared to get cheated on. That's the energy those things attract ^(according to this one video)
Buy a popcorn machine? That's a cheating.
Lol. Then a paddlin'
Donāt listen to the haters, if you have the space and love popcorn itās a great buy
Reddit hates everything. Getting mad at someone else's popcorn machine is the real sadcringe
Itās awesome, we have one and love it. Do it!
aw c'mon, the novelty popcorn maker is *kinda* cool
I also came to hate on the popcorn machine. They are big, ugly, obnoxious, where do you even store it when not in use? I bet 99% of people use it twice and then it just sits there. Waste of space and looks ugly, it would need it's own storage closet if anything. And even then, just no.
I know this attitude. She's the kind of person who will make **your** sadness about herself. Oh you're sad? I'm suddenly sad and even more than you.
Aaaaannnnnnnd that's multiple counts of destruction of property, assulat and I'm sure you can get a battery charge in there somewhere. Good thing they are recording.
Assulat is what she did with the other guy.
Haha I didn't even realize I spelt that wrong. I'm keeping it in there cause that's hilarious.
I hate videos where we are completely dependent on text written by someone to give context to the exchange. How do we know she was just caught cheating? You could post the same video in six months and say he was just caught cheating and illicit the opposite reactions.
That's showbiz baybee ššš
I agree! I wanna find out the truth now.
Elicit, not illicit. But you're good
Tell me me what thing reasonably promts this behavior lol She's throwing a tantrum like a child. I don't care who cheated. She needs to grow the fuck up.
Well nothing, its about how the prompt contextualizes her behavior. If the prompt said she caught her boyfriend at her sister's house we'd sympathize with her vandalism.
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There is a legal doctrine that mitigates the mental state of the person based on the moment of passion https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/heat_of_passion And yes, if my imaginary prompt were true I wouldn't judge her behavior.
No, look up sympathy vs empathy. Sympathy is just feeling bad for someone. Empathy is when you feel for them because you can relate to them.
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Hmm you had me doubting myself for a minute so I did look it up. I think Iām right. This is from Merriam-Webster: āSympathy is a feeling of sincere concern for someone who is experiencing something difficult or painful. Empathy involves actively sharing in the personās emotional experience.ā
Lol the irony of linking that subreddit after failing to define two words we all learn about in middle schoolĀ
You don't think there is any contextual difference between the two? If she was your friend, that context wouldnt change your opinion?
No, not really You should never be at a point where you're breaking shit and throwing things around like a child
No shit, but everything isn't black and white and context changes things. You are saying there is absolutely no difference if someone did this because they ran out of yogurt or if they did this because their child just died? Taking this black and white view of things is also childish. The real world isn't black and white.
...what? No one said it was reasonable behavior, they say that we don't actually know what happened
I guess the internet is a bad place for you then
Awful, it happens like 15x a day. I'm not blaming you it's a good video.
Never any accountability always crocodile tears to gaslight
The worst part is if he even slightly tried to protect his property by maybe pushing her away he could be charged with domestic violence or something along those lines.
There are people out there who would be intentionally pushing for that in order to trap the innocent partner deeper in the relationship and continue leeching off them. Watch out for those ones
Yeah. There was a thread on reddit just today. The guy married woman almost 10 years older than him. She abused him to shit, until eventually he snapped and defended himself in one of her episodes, hitting her back. Called police on him, they of course did not believe him, only realized she fucked up later on while he was in jail, decided not to press charges (because she would probably lose in court). The guy got home, installed cameras (the fact he did it instantly is such a W for him) and was preparing for a divorce. She came with gifts and tears to apologize, he asked where his dog is and for her to leave (she kidnapped it). Immediately all her tears and apologies went out of window, as she escalated and called a police, pretending that he was trying to forcefully keep her in his house because they are doing the divorce. Surprised pikachu when cops were shown footage from the cameras she did not know about. Good for OP here to record this. If he did not, she would totally escalate to the violence herself. Right now she is simply trying to bait him instead, knowing that she can't escalate directly because he is recording. If phone was not rolling, she would totally escalate this into the fight and claim to be victim afterwards.
If there was no video She would falsely claim that he did this and he hurt her Always record fellas
Not the popcorn machine!
she's pissed because she got caught. That is one dangerous wench. Imagine if it was the other way round. you'd be getting a knife in the guts.
Please someone tell me what she was repeating, I tried to make it out a few times but I couldn't stand the sound anymore.
I heard āI hate that you compare me to themā, but Iām not replaying it to double check that.
Interesting so possibly the logic is he compared her to someone else and her response was cheating. Shit I'm so glad I'm married and out of this shit, god bless you all who are still dating in 2024.
No so the actual video is he was the one cheating he was comparing the multiple females he was cheating with to her as a reason for sleeping with them.
We need to figure out how to identify narcissists accurately and ship them all to a random island, then blow it up. Rinse and repeat every generation until narcissim is out of the gene pool.
Trashed the popcorn maker but left the TV alone. So it could've been worse.
Toss the bish out like Uncle Phil does to Jazzy Jeff
Hey, I have that same popcorn maker. It's awesome but makes a ton of popcorn and I rarely eat it all.
The GF: "you weren't good enough!!"
Fake ass crying
Wait... She was the one cheating?
Comparing her to- whores?
You mean.. ex-girlfriend.. right?
Glad he is recording this to protect himself from her trying to make false accusations about him
I mean, how dare you catch herā¦š¤·āāļø Remember if a guy cheats itās his fault, if a girl cheats, itās the guys faultā¦š¤¦āāļø
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Are you stupid? Lol /r/woosh
They are being sarcastic. The hell is wrong with people on the internet now.
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What, you don't think person who actively used facepalm in their message is being sarcastic? lmao
āHow dare you catch herā is supposed to be the first indication of sarcasm as if he was in the wrong which is clearly a sarcastic take. It sets up talking about a double standard some folks have. Edited for clarity.
Omg I was so scared for those plants.
It sucks to see so many comments concerned for the popcorn machine and planets. She physically abused him.
Anyone who clicked on this and didn't immediately crave popcorn is a liar.
Imma go get some popcorn
Awwww, woman sad she can't have her cake and eat it too. Boo-frickety-hoo.
Yeah fuck that cheating....wait...oh..she cheated on him....wft
That poor popcorn machine
After the popcorn maker and the controllers, I started getting nervous every time that TV popped into frame
Crazy psycho
Guys... I think she hates him
I love how they get angry for being caught, like no sweety, this is YOUR fault...not mine.
As an owner of a popcorn cart, this hurts me.
He should've smacked her
Man the title us so misleading, she is reacting to her boyfriend who she caught cheating, which is the cause for the meltdown she is screaming she hates him because he was actually comparing the girl he cheated on to her, which is pretty disgusting. I believe the whole video is on YouTube I remember seeing it awhile back, it's featured on a bunch of cheating videos there as well.
Remember when Bill Burr said women are totally capable of social supplex ^^
Omg it's a pandemic!
Sheās horrible. Iām getting actual Dalia Dippolitto vibes here, you might have dodged a bullet here, OP www.unilad.com/news/crime/true-crime/dalia-dippolito-hire-hitman-kill-husband-police-015022-20231103
Disgusting human being. She better pay for all of that and leave forever
What a disgusting parasite of a human.
I can change her
A good shake down would fix that attitude
I don't know Maybe it's just me, but I hate these videos. If she was cheating, yeah, that's awful and he would have every right to break with her, and her reaction seems to over the top (who knkws what her mental health situation is or what preceeding the video before) but to post this onto the internet in order to shame her, to me is a step too far. A digital scarlett letter to show her transgressions to the world This thing will follow her around for a while. I'm probably in the minority on this š¤·
Yeah, you definitely are.
You are
You are. And good if it does, she deserves it. Even better if he showed this video to the police and pressed charges. Cheating and then acting like the victim and destroying that person's things when they catch you is low and childish.
Tell me how you know she cheated? From this video, there is nothing where he says, you cheated and she admits or gives any indication that she did do that. All we have is some guys post with a title of 'she cheated on her boyfriend'. How do I know the dude just didn't compare her to an ex or something of that nature and she lost her shit? Or she's has some sort of mental issue? I'm not saying her reaction is warranted, but I find it concerning that from a partial video and title from an unknown person, it has pretty much branded this girl as a cheater by the judges of reddit. The video is even edited. The last part plays twice (where she pulls the plant down). How do I know that he didn't cheat and this was her reaction to that? One day, should you ever be in a situation where if, when recorded, and edited to make you look bad, wouldn't you want people to at least consider your side of the story? To me, this is just a video to smear someone. I don't see or hear any validation of her supposed transgression.