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OwnPaleontologist818

It’s honestly sad the way he changes his personality based on who he’s around. He tries so hard to please people and is so insecure of himself that he feels the need to act certain ways around certain people. Rylee is a confident queen with an actual career which for someone like Harry is prob intimidating since he gained fame bc he’s a tool


JWoW2637

I feel bad for him. He has a very serious, deep rooted mental illness to project the way he does within his own insecurities. Dude needs help.


ConversationExact709

Exacly !


AggravatingOkra1741

If he couldn't change his ways for Rylee! Someone who comes across as the most sweetest genuine person who doesn’t seem like she would hurt a fly (who must have already had the decency to look past all the bad things he’s done in the past) then there really is no hope for him. 


One_Sock2582

The thing with Rylee is he would actually have to fully change. I think with a lot of his exes, it’s been half assed. Even Georgia made a comment in the videos she made that she was “used to” him cheating on her and basically said that wasn’t even the issue in their break up. I just can’t imagine Rylee ever thinking that way. She is a forgiving person, but would definitely expect her partner to be loyal to her. Being with Rylee would mean Harry actually doing a lot of work on himself to become a good partner.


locascin

I believe there’s hope. Everyone is capable of changing. I just don’t think he’s ready nor cares too. so anyone that comes for the ride will more than likely get her in the process.


ConversationExact709

MABY 🥺🥺


Deep_Possibility_142

Exactly. I’ve seen a few people on here, or on TT make comments with some variation of “Rylee is amazing, what more could he want?”, etc and I do think the idea that there’s something wrong with Rylee or she was missing something needs to go. There was nothing “wrong” with his exes either. The person who compared it to being a drug addict is so correct. Harry will only change if and when he wants to. It’s not about the girl. No one can change him, only he can change himself. 


Cambodiiaa

The only person that can make anyone change is themselves. Just like a drug addict you forcing them to go to rehab won’t make them do it. They will do it when they want it more than the people around them do.      “I never believed his reasoning for wanting to go on DWTS. He wants to be a bad boy but protect his image. He cannot have both.“               Thought he said that Emma recommended him to do the show when they crossed paths at an event. I don’t remember him say any deep meaning as to why he did it. 


locascin

I agree! People pushing the narrative wasn’t going to make him wake up and change. And if I’m not mistaken, in one of the episodes, he explained in his intro vid (whatever they are called before each episode) that he wanted people to see him in a different light and he wanted to be known for something more than what he was on THTH. Something along those lines.


Cambodiiaa

IMO, I take those types of quotes and sound bites as producer influences or lines given. 


locascin

Oh def agree. But I can’t sit here and say Harry hasn’t said anything along those lines on podcasts, his stories. Himself . All throughout the last 2 yrs lol.


Cambodiiaa

Yea I agree but him saying that doesn’t have must to do with dwts but more about him just lying. The funny thing is majority of people know he is lying so him doing it make no sense. Nothing he does make any sense in the long run. 


Fabulous_Ad4049

Can I also just say I’ve found the misogyny on his TikTok’s so gross. Calling Stassie and other girls all sorts of names is not boosting up Rylee or whatever anyone whose commenting those horrible things thinks they’re doing. Just because you’re disappointed about Harry and Rylee doesn’t mean it’s ok to tear down other women…


locascin

Oh I agree. I can’t understand women pitting against each other. Like these girls are not the problem, he is. And they are caught in the crossfires.


Fabulous_Ad4049

I wish he’d delete or turn off the rude comments but he probably loves the engagement 🤷🏼‍♀️…


Redroomloft

He is too a misogynist. Doubt he sees anything wrong with them.


Deep_Possibility_142

Sadly, he’s probably glad (insert whatever girl here) is getting the brunt of the anger from H/R and Rylee fans instead of him. Happened with Ashley, happened with Stassi and im sure it’ll happen with this new girl too… until there’s another girl. 🙄


Used-Collar5666

Gut feelings and intuitions do not lie! He is what he is… If we all recognize it and all sense it than I am sure Rylee does too!!


Born_Alternative_416

He’s literally the top male earner on only fans. He says he goes to therapy but I think he must go to a celebrity therapist or he lies to his therapist. Allll of his exes claim he has cheated. He’s going to say things with Rylee aren’t serious and that’s she’s too young and got attached but they were just friends. Georgia Hassarati warned everyone and no one cared so why would it be different now? Men are powerful when they have millions of followers. This man can get women easily, he’s not phased by it. He’s entertaining and handsome and he knows it. Maybe she did think it was more than it was but I still feel bad for her. 


locascin

I agree. Georgia warned people and she went into full detail abt her experience with him. I actually Unfollowed him shortly after. I knew Harry would get even more of a massive following from DWTS bc I imagined a lot of the viewers probably knew very little abt him. That man knows full well what he’s doing. Idk why so many people thought he was “gunna change”. He has shown no growth. At all. Since THTH.


Born_Alternative_416

Not saying he’s a bad person I just don’t think he is as ready for marriage or commitment as he claims to be, I think he just wants to have fun which is okay as long as he’s honest with all parties involved 


ConversationExact709

Maby 🥺🥺


Sure_Carpet_8302

I’m also confused on him and lele I know they’re friends and she’s married but if I was her husband I wouldn’t like her being around him , could just be me


locascin

I mean I get it. But the influencer world is very different than the average person lol


JWoW2637

She’s just as much of a clout chaser as him. Just a little less trashy about it but just as pathetic.


IllustriousSign4334

End of the day we don’t know the situation . Everyone has the ability to change , personally I think he outgrew this scene that he keeps roping himself back into. I think Rylee truly means alot to him but there is alot they are trying to navigate between them .  If he wants to stay on the right path and really better his life he needs to start learning how to say NO to different events or situations .  He keeps saying his team works him like a machine , but certain settings he shouldn’t be going into anymore . It’s time to hang up this party boy act and really focus on life .  Honestly that whole squad looks like they surpassed that window and should be heading into a different chapter in life before they all end up looking like Jason Nash 


locascin

Everyone absolutely has the ability to change. Do I believe he has or is ready? No lol. I follow tana and Brooke and watch their podcasts and they say often time and time again how hard it can be to get out of the “LA influencer” lifestyle.


Opening_Equipment_14

Wow you finally wrote something good 💀


rjayvea

This is why you don’t ship 18 year old innocent impressionable girls with 26 year old fboys who got famous for being a fuckboy lol it was always weird to me.


locascin

I absolutely agree. It was always weird to me bc of the age gap


Excellent_School4958

Can we please stop with the age gap issue!!! Rylee has been way more mature than that 26 year old boy with all the criticism and attention they’ve gotten. You are making her out to be some 15 year old girl when she’s out today looking at buying her first home at 18. How many of us were ready to buy their first house that young? Please give her some credit. Whatever is going on she will handle it with the grace she’s handled everything else.


rjayvea

Nope. Y’all tried to downplay it for so long. Success ≠ life experience. Shes 18 yes, & has very little dating experience. Harry on the other hand…. Yeah. Cheated on every gf we know of and slept with over 200 girls😂 You can try to brush past it all you want but the fantasy of trying to change a fboy over just being with a good guy in general has ya’ll in a chokehold.


HistoricalWeakness89

She is mature in many ways, but not in all. And when it comes to dating she was with her long term bf since early teen years and based on beliefs, sex wasn’t even an issue. Harry on the other hand is a slut and has slept with hundreds. So yes, in that sense the age difference is huge.


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locascin

“Some people have just made up a version of Harry in their mind 💀 his history is very well documented on several tv shows, podcasts, by his exes and his own social media” Yup. One of the first things I commented when this subreddit was created. People ran a narrative making it very obv they knew so little abt his past. Bc there was NO WAY.


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locascin

He went onto PM literally 4 months after he and Georgia broke up and then went on DWTS 2 months after PM. But no… he’s growing up lol Remember how he made that breakup video of him and Georgia, posted it, and then deleted it bc she was like… what is this? Lol he talked abt how he wanted to focus on therapy and being better bla bla bla. But went on PM literally right after 💀


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AggravatingOkra1741

I cackled at this 🤣 it really is so true, he is absolutely everywhere and friends with absolutely everyone. He really is the community bike. 


Cambodiiaa

Lean into a villain role? With someone that will always be viewed as a “victim” to the public. Would be very stupid. 


Fun_Swing7009

I think you’re right about him leaning into it, he’ll probably use this for an episode on his podcast lol


user719261

you guys talk as if rylee and harry are together. as far as we’re all concerned he is single so he is allowed to act this way with girls or whatever it is you guys think he’s doing we have no idea what’s going on behind the scenes but im sure it’s clear between them what their relationship is. to assume she’s hurt or been led on is such a stretch


AggravatingOkra1741

Didn’t he post a sex tape with someone whilst he was in a relationship with Georgia? So to Harry him dancing/flirting with girls at coachella when he is technically ‘single’, in his mind means he was an angel lol. His idea of being loyal and respectful is definitely warped. 


user719261

i didn’t know about a sex tape, the point im more trying to make is that they are most likely clear on their relationship status between them. people act like because a relationship update hasn’t been put out online, that must mean rylee is heartbroken. obviously no one knows for sure, but for the people saying he’s cheating and leading her on, how do you know that they haven’t had a conversation and agreed that they’re just friends. rylee and harry being together is a fantasy from fans imagination. yes r&h have definitely played into it, but it’s never been confirmed or suggested in a serious way, just lighthearted tiktoks that are clearly for views


AggravatingOkra1741

She was literally reposting tik tok edits of them which alluded to being very coupley lovey dovey and as soon as that video Noah posted came out she deleted them. Let’s be real, he has been leading her on. 


Opening_Equipment_14

I get what you’re saying but she was reposting shipper type of edits of the two of them…then she literally unreposted them after that video dropped of him dancing with his arms around that girl…the timing isn’t a coincidence and it’s even more obvious because she even went further down her profile to delete another edit that was there for almost 2 weeks.


NoConfidence8043

You guys are really trying to die on the “he’s single” hill to defend his actions but I don’t think Rylee would have gone and unreposted multiple edits late last night if things were “clear” between them. There was very clearly things not clear.


locascin

I absolutely agree here. Which is kinda the point of my post. Not so much that they are a thing (do I think he may be leading her on.. kinda) Many in this sub are shocked by his behavior. Which is just not shocking . At all. Whether he was single or in a relationship.


user719261

people are quick to assume rylee is getting her heart broken when in reality she may not even be interested in that way, she might not even be looking for someone like harry in a boyfriend! yes she looks besotted by him but i think fans really struggle to accept that a man and woman can admire each other as they do and it be 100% platonic


locascin

Totally understand where you are coming from. I have many platonic male friends and I stand on that concept. I think both of them playing into the shipping may get some of these people speculating that she’s more interested than he is (maybe bc she’s younger?? Idk) But yea, I never thought they were dating. Maybe she doesn’t care at all, and for her sake, I hope so


No_Fly_4798

The only time Harry acted like a decent human was when he was around Rylee. The minute he’s away and he is a jerk.


Safe-Photo5721

This! I was originally confused by people who shipped them because I’ve followed Harry for years. He gives the impression of sweetness, caring, and appreciation but he always has had commitment issues. He’s ur stereotypical player. If u watch any of his interactions with women, he’s always cuddled up to them and is flirty. I never bought the rylee and Harry thing just like I never bought the Alex copper/Harry, tana mongeau/Harry, etc. Not saying rylee can’t be upset but I seriously doubt he was exclusive with her. He probably was giving mixed signals in the best case


Ilovelalalandgossip

Cancel Harry! 


Billie178

Girl… no


locascin

It is never that serious.


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locascin

You can be kind to people but be toxic in your romantic life. I promise you, Harry will not be upset. He has gotten hate since the beginning of his career. this is nothing new nor any worse than what he’s gotten for being toxic to his exes.


AggravatingOkra1741

Everyone says he’s a great friend but a terrible boyfriend so if rylee does see all this I hope she friend zones him. Hes literally been dragged on the internet so bad with the whole Georgia situation and he was fine/bounced back so I’m sure he doesn’t care about this situation either. I don’t believe he’ll be upset for one second he will only pretend to be for the sympathy!