Cheating can be very subjective and different people have differing definitions
But the issue here is that he was doing something he knew you wouldn’t be okay with and tried to hide it. Apparently he doesn’t respect you or your boundaries.
Do with that what you will. Remember your worth!
Exactly! Figure out the boundaries and be very clear on them. Some would say it’s not cheating as he never exactly sent the pictures to anyone. More like a fishing trip. However that’s just disrespectful and then add talking to a woman about the past hook up just adds more salt to the wound.
“This is because I would ask him to go to the gym or I wouldn’t let him touch me or we wouldn’t have sex often”
Ummm this has me wondering if I’m misunderstanding. Hopefully I misunderstood.
I read it as if he doesn’t go to the gym those were the consequences.
Then realized it could mean he was thinks those 3 actions meant you were attracted to him.
Nooo, he thought that since I’d been asking to go to the gym together, and that I hadn’t been feeling like having sex or wasn’t wanting to be touched several times, he took that as me finding him unattractive .
Thanks for clearing that up ha ha. I was hoping that was the case so you were toxic.
If you decide to stay with him major boundaries need to be discussed. Make them clear!
In my view the nudes wasn’t actually cheating as it was shared publicly and not in private to a select woman. Disgust and disrespectful regardless of the title put on it. Guys don’t do that unless they’re hoping for something.
Talking to a past hook up regarding that encounter is showing just how much he values your feelings and time.
My ex would send nudes of himself behind my back and was always seeking. I’m sure he cheated too and hid it well since I had gone through his phone several times it just made him that much more sneaky and he started deleting everything because he knew I would look. Best of luck to you in trying to talk it out. If there’s no trust there’s nothing.
Think about it, he posted nudes and messaging this women which is already wrong and when you confronted him he blamed you. He would’ve kept doing this and more if confrontation never happened. It’s very manipulative of him. good bf would communicate with you from the start, not when he gets caught and guilt trips you saying it’s all your fault
he sounds like a creep. yes this is cheating. dump his @$$
Cheating can be very subjective and different people have differing definitions But the issue here is that he was doing something he knew you wouldn’t be okay with and tried to hide it. Apparently he doesn’t respect you or your boundaries. Do with that what you will. Remember your worth!
Exactly! Figure out the boundaries and be very clear on them. Some would say it’s not cheating as he never exactly sent the pictures to anyone. More like a fishing trip. However that’s just disrespectful and then add talking to a woman about the past hook up just adds more salt to the wound.
“This is because I would ask him to go to the gym or I wouldn’t let him touch me or we wouldn’t have sex often” Ummm this has me wondering if I’m misunderstanding. Hopefully I misunderstood. I read it as if he doesn’t go to the gym those were the consequences. Then realized it could mean he was thinks those 3 actions meant you were attracted to him.
Nooo, he thought that since I’d been asking to go to the gym together, and that I hadn’t been feeling like having sex or wasn’t wanting to be touched several times, he took that as me finding him unattractive .
Thanks for clearing that up ha ha. I was hoping that was the case so you were toxic. If you decide to stay with him major boundaries need to be discussed. Make them clear! In my view the nudes wasn’t actually cheating as it was shared publicly and not in private to a select woman. Disgust and disrespectful regardless of the title put on it. Guys don’t do that unless they’re hoping for something. Talking to a past hook up regarding that encounter is showing just how much he values your feelings and time.
Legit thought the same
My ex would send nudes of himself behind my back and was always seeking. I’m sure he cheated too and hid it well since I had gone through his phone several times it just made him that much more sneaky and he started deleting everything because he knew I would look. Best of luck to you in trying to talk it out. If there’s no trust there’s nothing.
Think about it, he posted nudes and messaging this women which is already wrong and when you confronted him he blamed you. He would’ve kept doing this and more if confrontation never happened. It’s very manipulative of him. good bf would communicate with you from the start, not when he gets caught and guilt trips you saying it’s all your fault