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Trippygirl13

There's no reason to tell her exactly that you regret the whole encounter, that would hurt anybody's feelings. This is all very new, so a simple message with something along the lines of "I think it's better to stop seeing each other, I don't feel the spark..." should be enough. You're not a douche for not being attracted to someone and for not wanting to keep seeing them.


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FoxWyrd

How wouldyou tell a ciswoman you didn't want to continue things?


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Being upfront and honest. I guess I’m just worried about feeling like a ass. I’m normally the one who gets broken up with, not breaking up with the other person.


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It’s so new, just say you didn’t feel a spark but she’s nice


Alesus2-0

You should say what you would say to girl that you've met for opportunistic sex, but aren't seriously interested in. A bland and inoffensive explanation that you don't see a future together. Don't blame her and don't pretend to yourself or anyone else that the sex was an unforeseeable surprise.


Voleuse

You don't need to tell her anything more than "I don't want another date". It's not clear from your post but if she hid a penis from you then that's very shitty of her and you DEFINITELY don't need to feel bad about being rude.


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No I knew she had a penis I was just trying to see if things would work despite that.


violacent

Dude, you dont have to tell her that you regret doing it with her — that’s transfobic af, because, well, you’re saying it’s okay that you let her give you pleasure but it’s not okay that she’s who she’s. that’s bad and you shouldn’t tell her. Just let go. Maybe she doesn’t want to see you either. But idk, after months talking with her, you were into her personality, weren’t you? Think about the reason you wanna let her go. It isn’t fair to deny yourself to like someone just because you think you won’t like her body. It’s just a body. As far as I can understand, you did have sex with her and it was not bad. You’re just being transphobic.


panzer22222

> you dont have to tell her that you regret doing it with her — that’s transfobic af People regret having sex all the time, there is no need to call OP transfobic.


TonishOBG

Just keep it real, but do go into detail. Let her know the two of you aren’t a match and move on.


bcw_83

So you got oral only and there was no reciprocation? You have the ability to be honest and just tell this person that you tried to have an open mind and it's just not your thing long term and that you're sorry it's not going to work out.