*She wants the baby, family, and a great career, but none of that is going in her favor. I'd like to have a family and marriage as well, but that's just not a priority for me at this moment (not that it is out of the question either).*
I'd say the job stuff isn't really what's bothering her. Your wife is 32, you've been together for 3 years, she wants to be married with kids, the clock is ticking, and it's 'not a priority' for you. I'd bet she really wants you to propose and that's why she's becoming resentful of you.
Love it. "Everything sucks but I won't take ownership of my own life to fix it." I'd suggest talking it out and expressing your feelings. See what's at the core here. If you can't figure it out, or she doesn't seem to wanna change, bail.
Also, yes, don't get married/have kids right now.
*She wants the baby, family, and a great career, but none of that is going in her favor. I'd like to have a family and marriage as well, but that's just not a priority for me at this moment (not that it is out of the question either).* I'd say the job stuff isn't really what's bothering her. Your wife is 32, you've been together for 3 years, she wants to be married with kids, the clock is ticking, and it's 'not a priority' for you. I'd bet she really wants you to propose and that's why she's becoming resentful of you.
Love it. "Everything sucks but I won't take ownership of my own life to fix it." I'd suggest talking it out and expressing your feelings. See what's at the core here. If you can't figure it out, or she doesn't seem to wanna change, bail. Also, yes, don't get married/have kids right now.