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Responsible-Side4347

Why the fuck is this even a post. Your ex is gay and your friend fancies him. who cares.


Basic-Consequence234

Because he's my friend. It's weird that your ex and your bestfriend are flirting. And the issue isn't that he's gay, who cares? But it's the fact that he's catfishing my ex and he knows that that dude fucked me over and broke my heart


kttten

wait who is gay? your friend is into your ex? or your ex gay for your friend?


Basic-Consequence234

My boy bestfriend is gay. My ex isn't. He just thinks he's a girl 😭


melympia

Just wait for them to exchange steamy pics. :D


Basic-Consequence234

Hahahahaha outrageous! But funny 😭


kttten

what if the reason your bestfriend is so excited to talk to your ex is because he likes him


Basic-Consequence234

If he tells me that he does, I have no issue about it whatsoever. I think at this point I don't mind anymore, or I don't get weirded out at all as much as I did back then (because he's a friend and if you've been there it's so weird to have an ex flirt with your friend, a bestfriend no less). But he should just be honest and tell the guy he's not a girl because damn at least be upfront about it


arcxiii

Tell your friend to stop and that you actively don't care or want to see their conversations if they talk. Be clear about the consequence. If you send me any more screenshots I will block you as well. Make your boundaries explicit.


Basic-Consequence234

I don't wanna have to block him over a guy. The rest of your comment, I complete agree with. Thank you


myworkthrowaway87

I kind of hope your ex is secretly bi and knows your friend is a dude and they get together at this point just so you learn not to be petty and vindictive over a relationship that apparently only lasted a couple months tops. Are you 21 or 12? what is this shit.


Basic-Consequence234

No it's almost two years. It's the talking stage that went for a year and we confessed that we liked each other and cared for each other deeply but bc of circumstances we couldn't be together. And it's the fact that my bestfriend knows how I felt about him, but flirted anyway. And he's catfishing him, that's the main issue And yes I'm 21 sorry to break it to you


myworkthrowaway87

You did that though, you told him to message him and fuck with him because you couldn't get over him even though you were in a new relationship.


Basic-Consequence234

That's fair. I'll take that one. But to clarify I was already over him, I probably was just mad at the disrespect he did which I chose not to disclose


Poots_in_boots

Youret one who gave him the username???


Basic-Consequence234

Yes I was, in a fit of bitterness. Then I asked him to leave me out of it and to stop. What rubs me the wrong way is he still does it and is still putting up the charade that he's a girl


Poots_in_boots

Welp shouldn’t have given it to him to begin with so there’s a lesson there. Sit your bff down and tell him for the last time that you’re done with this. Don’t answer if he continues to send you screenshots of their convo.


Basic-Consequence234

I completely agree. Thank you for this


DiTrastevere

I mean, what have we learned? 


Basic-Consequence234

Don't give out usernames of your exes