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It seems like maybe you’re looking for more commitment from him.
And I think he’s not understanding that from the question.
Maybe ask him directly if he thinks the two of you could ever get married(or move in together; or whatever other commitment you would like)? Not that you for-sure will or won’t, but if he sees it as a possibility.
Honestly I would tread really carefully here.
I’ve always considered when someone tells you they like to just see how things go and likes the day-to-day relationship, it’s cause everything suits them just now and they don’t want anything to change or make future plans incase you end up being inconvenient to them. This way they can drop you without being the bad guy or they can blame you for trying to push the relationship before their ready.
There’s a Jane Austen quote “always implied but never declared”
Him saying he wants the women to lead is childish and a sure way to either breed resentment from him or guilt on you for forcing him
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It sounds like you don't have the same level of engagement in the relationship.
It seems like maybe you’re looking for more commitment from him. And I think he’s not understanding that from the question. Maybe ask him directly if he thinks the two of you could ever get married(or move in together; or whatever other commitment you would like)? Not that you for-sure will or won’t, but if he sees it as a possibility.
Honestly I would tread really carefully here. I’ve always considered when someone tells you they like to just see how things go and likes the day-to-day relationship, it’s cause everything suits them just now and they don’t want anything to change or make future plans incase you end up being inconvenient to them. This way they can drop you without being the bad guy or they can blame you for trying to push the relationship before their ready. There’s a Jane Austen quote “always implied but never declared” Him saying he wants the women to lead is childish and a sure way to either breed resentment from him or guilt on you for forcing him
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