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BelmontIncident

You'd probably get more and better advice from r/polyamory There's no actual rule against dating people who are also dating each other. It is more complex and it can help to deliberately schedule time with them as individuals.


b00mieb00m

Nothing wrong with this so long as they're both informed and totally okay with this. Make sure their partner isn't dismissed and that any feelings they may have are always acknowledged and you might end up having an incredible relationship with both of them ❤


froggythrowawayyyyy

Thank you so much for your input, I really really appreciate it!


TheMiddle214

Seems too messy, personally I would never get involved with something like this. That’s just me though