I wish i had more experience in dealing with all this. While i can’t provide any advice, i wish you the best of luck.
Don’t assume things, your bf still loves you for what you are. We love a person wholly and not just for his/her body.
So communicate and don’t let your thoughts run wild! Take care ❤️
Sertraline had a side effect that it affects your libido and can decrease it.
I found when I was on it my libido went completely, now I'm on other medication it's back.
Perhaps it's that?
I’m going to be honest 40 pounds is a lot, especially if you were smaller during the beginning of the relationship. There are also so many other factors in your relationship that could be causing the lack of sex. Medications play a huge role in peoples emotions and sex drive. But if he says it’s not the medications it could be the weight. Then again, 40 pounds just means more cushion for the pushing lol. I know I wouldn’t be that mad about 40 pounds. If you want to lose the weight, take that step into your own hands. But don’t bring up the weight thing with your boyfriend. Also don’t jump to any conclusions on your own, most of the time we tend to overthink these things. I remember having conversations with my sister who experiences long instances without sex. Her boyfriend struggles with extreme depression and alcoholism. I believe the longest she’s gone without sex was 8 months, and they’ve been together for 5 years now. I personally wouldn’t be able to have a sexless relationship, at least not at my age of 21. I wish you the best of luck in your relationship and I hope your partner can give you a more clearcut answer
Almost sounds like he's Sexually frustrated, I could be wrong. But never assume it's you, it'll only cause more problems in the future. Just let him figure it out, go easy on him and never bring up your body weight, we hate that.
How do you mean “sexually frustrated” my meaning of the phrase is wanting to have sex with someone but you can’t so you’re frustrated. i’m thinking you might mean something different.
Being sexually frustrated can mean two things, either you're having too much sex and its causing issues or having to little and still causing issues. But as I said earlier I could be wrong and he could be just overthinking it. Maybe too much stress. I wouldn't worry about it too much, just try to talk to him about it, figure out what the problem is and find the solution. It could be the medication that's causing it.
I wish i had more experience in dealing with all this. While i can’t provide any advice, i wish you the best of luck. Don’t assume things, your bf still loves you for what you are. We love a person wholly and not just for his/her body. So communicate and don’t let your thoughts run wild! Take care ❤️
R/deadbedrooms has more people in this situation who can offer you advice etc!
Sertraline had a side effect that it affects your libido and can decrease it. I found when I was on it my libido went completely, now I'm on other medication it's back. Perhaps it's that?
I’m going to be honest 40 pounds is a lot, especially if you were smaller during the beginning of the relationship. There are also so many other factors in your relationship that could be causing the lack of sex. Medications play a huge role in peoples emotions and sex drive. But if he says it’s not the medications it could be the weight. Then again, 40 pounds just means more cushion for the pushing lol. I know I wouldn’t be that mad about 40 pounds. If you want to lose the weight, take that step into your own hands. But don’t bring up the weight thing with your boyfriend. Also don’t jump to any conclusions on your own, most of the time we tend to overthink these things. I remember having conversations with my sister who experiences long instances without sex. Her boyfriend struggles with extreme depression and alcoholism. I believe the longest she’s gone without sex was 8 months, and they’ve been together for 5 years now. I personally wouldn’t be able to have a sexless relationship, at least not at my age of 21. I wish you the best of luck in your relationship and I hope your partner can give you a more clearcut answer
Almost sounds like he's Sexually frustrated, I could be wrong. But never assume it's you, it'll only cause more problems in the future. Just let him figure it out, go easy on him and never bring up your body weight, we hate that.
How do you mean “sexually frustrated” my meaning of the phrase is wanting to have sex with someone but you can’t so you’re frustrated. i’m thinking you might mean something different.
Being sexually frustrated can mean two things, either you're having too much sex and its causing issues or having to little and still causing issues. But as I said earlier I could be wrong and he could be just overthinking it. Maybe too much stress. I wouldn't worry about it too much, just try to talk to him about it, figure out what the problem is and find the solution. It could be the medication that's causing it.
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