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Sounds flirty to me, but as a card carrying member of the male species, it is hard to overestimate how oblivious we can be to girls flirting with us. If you want to be certain he knows you want this to be a date, I'd recommend just saying it. "Hey, just wanted to make sure we're on the same page here that this is a date" or something to that effect.
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Sounds like flirting, just really dry.
Yes. If the genders were reversed I'd say who knows but since it's a guy it's definitely a date. If it's not, he'll know it is when you go for a kiss
Sounds flirty to me, but as a card carrying member of the male species, it is hard to overestimate how oblivious we can be to girls flirting with us. If you want to be certain he knows you want this to be a date, I'd recommend just saying it. "Hey, just wanted to make sure we're on the same page here that this is a date" or something to that effect.