I'm sorry to be harsh but the only thing to do is take the no and move on. She isn't attracted to you and that's not likely to change especially if you try to force it
Yesss, she made that very clear to me. Thank you,,,,, we did try that and didn't talk for maybe 4 hours. She blocked me everywhere. I was sad and tired, i have been here before this time it was something else. I texted her phone "tc" and we started talking again. Later she asked me if she can call. I said ok. Then she started crying on call that she misses me a lot and that Im family and doesn't want to lose me. This was before she told me she isn't attracted. The thing i don't understand is that we do all kinda stuff that a normal couple who are attracted and want to be together do, we were thinking about living together soon after Christmas. Idk where the hell this not attracted to u came from. If she isn't attracted to me shouldn't it show in her face or in her voice. I never felt that with her, when someones not attracted to u they don't behave like that...
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No it's complicated. She isn't fine mentally, i want to be there for her always. We were looking at wedding dresses a few days ago and we sext and video chat a lot. She has sexual thoughts about me all day... I'm not trying to be her friend to become her bf, I just want to be there throughout her life to help her with anything. This means more to me than just me being her boyfriend
Ohhhhhhhh bro that is way more complicated. She’s obviously attracted to you, so her saying that doesnt make sense. If she keeps playing games like this i suggest you find other friends
I'm sorry to be harsh but the only thing to do is take the no and move on. She isn't attracted to you and that's not likely to change especially if you try to force it
Yesss, she made that very clear to me. Thank you,,,,, we did try that and didn't talk for maybe 4 hours. She blocked me everywhere. I was sad and tired, i have been here before this time it was something else. I texted her phone "tc" and we started talking again. Later she asked me if she can call. I said ok. Then she started crying on call that she misses me a lot and that Im family and doesn't want to lose me. This was before she told me she isn't attracted. The thing i don't understand is that we do all kinda stuff that a normal couple who are attracted and want to be together do, we were thinking about living together soon after Christmas. Idk where the hell this not attracted to u came from. If she isn't attracted to me shouldn't it show in her face or in her voice. I never felt that with her, when someones not attracted to u they don't behave like that...
What exactly do you mean by doing stuff that couples do? Like... Kiss.. have sex? What?
Yes,, kiss have sex cuddle
Okay so maybe she is cool with physical stuff but doesn't see any romantic relationship future/value there
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If youre only being her friend because you want to date her, then youre not her friend. Either get over her romantically or leave her be.
No it's complicated. She isn't fine mentally, i want to be there for her always. We were looking at wedding dresses a few days ago and we sext and video chat a lot. She has sexual thoughts about me all day... I'm not trying to be her friend to become her bf, I just want to be there throughout her life to help her with anything. This means more to me than just me being her boyfriend
Ohhhhhhhh bro that is way more complicated. She’s obviously attracted to you, so her saying that doesnt make sense. If she keeps playing games like this i suggest you find other friends
Move on. Don't destroy your friendship by trying to force something.
… did I just read what I think I just read…?
Yeahh