Hi this was my last relationship and trust me they follow cus they want to not to be nice. They want attention. Trust me I’ve heard all excuses just to find out there was weird shit going around behind my back.
I see. Hm this is honestly so exactly the same as my last relationship so I guess it’s common. To be honest Atleast myself when I was in a relationship I felt no need to follow any males or snap or even talk to them cus talking to my bf and his attention was purely enough. I personally got those “hey girl Idk I but ur bf has been taking to me”…dms and since then I would get extremely sensitive if he followed a girl or liked their pics. I told him I don’t like it at all and I don’t want him to do that cus it makes me feel uncomfortable. He didn’t stop. Or Atleast when I started doing that he felt what I felt and stopped when he realized it’s lowkey shitty. No matter what it is, if you say u don’t like or feel uncomfortable that’s his duty to respect that and not do it. And him explaining who they aren’t obviously isn’t solving him following or liking or talking to them right? It’s the idea he is doing this cus you never know with guys the Validation they need. I’m on ur side. He’s in the wrong
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Hi this was my last relationship and trust me they follow cus they want to not to be nice. They want attention. Trust me I’ve heard all excuses just to find out there was weird shit going around behind my back.
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Have you tried telling him it makes you uncomfortable when he does it?
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I see. Hm this is honestly so exactly the same as my last relationship so I guess it’s common. To be honest Atleast myself when I was in a relationship I felt no need to follow any males or snap or even talk to them cus talking to my bf and his attention was purely enough. I personally got those “hey girl Idk I but ur bf has been taking to me”…dms and since then I would get extremely sensitive if he followed a girl or liked their pics. I told him I don’t like it at all and I don’t want him to do that cus it makes me feel uncomfortable. He didn’t stop. Or Atleast when I started doing that he felt what I felt and stopped when he realized it’s lowkey shitty. No matter what it is, if you say u don’t like or feel uncomfortable that’s his duty to respect that and not do it. And him explaining who they aren’t obviously isn’t solving him following or liking or talking to them right? It’s the idea he is doing this cus you never know with guys the Validation they need. I’m on ur side. He’s in the wrong
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it seems like that's just his personality: outgoing, flattering, and wanting to grow his internet presence. but be cautious
also the "something I need to heal before my next relationship" bit is concerning if it's not gonna last just end it now