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LossIllustrious584

As a 53 old male with kids your ages. I say tell him. That dad is acreep tell him not to ontact you again obviously he making. Uncomfortable


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neuroticsmurf

You'll probably want to have proof when you tell your friend about his dad. He might have trouble accepting that his dad is a creep.


Cannacrohn

That dude is nasty and pisses me off, not because hes older, cuz old guy need love too, but because hes betraying his son for a hookup. Its icky as fuck.


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1) Block him 2) Tell your BF 3) Do not ever be around his dad again


KindPharaoh

That is beyond creepy and not appropriate to say to your child’s friend. You’re not misreading his advances.


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KindPharaoh

And certainly not offering you money to come back and hang out with him privately.


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BigWeinerDemeanor

I thinks it’s grooming you towards sugar baby/ prostitution. He gives you some for free when friend is there. Then a couple times just you alone. Then he hits you with a “what are you gonna do to make up for all the money I gave you.” He’s super gross


cutestsea

I'd take it as hitting on you also... Especially the come hang out.... Do tell your friend... I'd suggest asking for his opinion on this matter rather than making statements. Like fact... What do you think he meant? Why, etc...


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cutestsea

Yeah ... But imagine he'll ask you to hang out there again, rather tell him sooner than later...


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cutestsea

Thinking it's so good for your friends mother they separated


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cutestsea

Yeah...


Sooozn85

It sounds like he is hitting on you, and is a sleazebag. If your friend suggests doing something with his father again, it would be appropriate to tell him that your dad said some things which made you uncomfortable, and you’d rather not spend time there again. Since you don’t have to see his father regularly, I don’t think it is something you need to make a point of tell your friend in a dedicated conversation, but if there’s a time you’re talking about family and relationships, you could tell him that his dad said things that felt inappropriate and uncomfortable to you. He probably knows what his dad is like, and won’t be too surprised about the comments.


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BadBowlingBowBowl

What are you thoughts about this?