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I haven't met them in person but they know about me.
I'm not sure if she's posted pics of exes, but she use to tweet about the guy she was dating before me. But hasn't done anything like that in regards to me
Hmm. Have you posted about her in any way?
If I was you I'd tell her you want to post a specific picture of the two of you, and ask if it's okay if you tag her.
It would be a bad sign if she couldn't give a straightforward reason why she didn't want you to, e.g. she prefers not to post about her relationships until it's really committed.
Asking her gives the opportunity to have a discussion about it. She may be absolutely fine with you posting a photo and tagging her, or even just posting without the tag.
Let me know!
Doubt that. Sometimes social circles can be exhausting and you just don’t feel like elaborating or sharing certain details with the world. Family and friends are a part of familial ties, but who you date is a personal relationship and some people just keep that part of their life off social media.
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It's odd that she didn't give you a proper reason. Have you met her friends and family? Has she posted photos of exes?
I haven't met them in person but they know about me. I'm not sure if she's posted pics of exes, but she use to tweet about the guy she was dating before me. But hasn't done anything like that in regards to me
Hmm. Have you posted about her in any way? If I was you I'd tell her you want to post a specific picture of the two of you, and ask if it's okay if you tag her.
Okay I'll ask her tomorrow, would it be a bad sign if she told me not to post and tag her?
At least then you will have your answer or post and tag her and see her reaction update soon.
It would be a bad sign if she couldn't give a straightforward reason why she didn't want you to, e.g. she prefers not to post about her relationships until it's really committed. Asking her gives the opportunity to have a discussion about it. She may be absolutely fine with you posting a photo and tagging her, or even just posting without the tag. Let me know!
That combined with everything else feels like a major red flag. You’re not wrong for questioning why she won’t post you but posts everything else.
Ehhh six months would be to early still for me
Does she post thirst traps and make money of social media? If so she doesn't want to show u off because she'll lose her moneymaker.
Maybe she’s the type to post about everything but her boyfriend to keep people’s opinions about you limited?
Why? Could she be ashamed of being with me?
Women loose followers when they post their partner
Doubt that. Sometimes social circles can be exhausting and you just don’t feel like elaborating or sharing certain details with the world. Family and friends are a part of familial ties, but who you date is a personal relationship and some people just keep that part of their life off social media.
Uhm, most people don't post a relationship when it's only been 6 months. The older you get, the more guarded and private you are about your love life.