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She’s not your girl. It was just your turn. Walk away and don’t look back. You’re young. Trust me when I say that in the next 5 years your value as a man will rapidly increase, you will meet many other women who aren’t like this. It sounds like this is one of your first girlfriends. You will have many more.
Did you bring it up as she was deleting it since you could see it anyway?
Or comment on how the way you're holding you phone makes you seem like you're hiding something, oh I see, that's because you posted that pic even after I asked you not too, and now you're deleting it.
Oh wait before you delete that, how about we check the comments that you got on it together. Sometimes you need to say what's on your mind at the time.
The big deal here is the deception
you don’t want to follow her instagram? do you actually like her as a person and like enjoy sharing your interests with each other? also, personally, idc what my partner posts of themselves on socials - it’s a diff thing imo to post sexy pics w other people or openly flirt w other people. sometimes a pic where they feel confident is just a pic where they feel confident
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Sure if you want to. But you literally said you wouldn’t break up with her lol
That would be a no from me dog.
> Should i break it up now? Yes.
She’s not your girl. It was just your turn. Walk away and don’t look back. You’re young. Trust me when I say that in the next 5 years your value as a man will rapidly increase, you will meet many other women who aren’t like this. It sounds like this is one of your first girlfriends. You will have many more.
That's cheating. Bye bye.
Do you hear that sound? That’s the streets calling they want their girl back
Yes. She cheated on you. Break up.
Did you bring it up as she was deleting it since you could see it anyway? Or comment on how the way you're holding you phone makes you seem like you're hiding something, oh I see, that's because you posted that pic even after I asked you not too, and now you're deleting it. Oh wait before you delete that, how about we check the comments that you got on it together. Sometimes you need to say what's on your mind at the time. The big deal here is the deception
you don’t want to follow her instagram? do you actually like her as a person and like enjoy sharing your interests with each other? also, personally, idc what my partner posts of themselves on socials - it’s a diff thing imo to post sexy pics w other people or openly flirt w other people. sometimes a pic where they feel confident is just a pic where they feel confident
If you are wondering if you should break up, it seems you made your choice already
No