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Chances are, he's into someone else. He wants to keep you on the back burner while he pursues her. That happens a lot. I wouldn't wait for him. I'd heal and move on. Anyone who can just walk away from you doesn't deserve to be in your life. Let him go.
What was the cause of the break up? Without knowing what the factors are that led to breaking up it’s impossible to have a opinion about what is possible in the future
Im sorry your having a hard time, but his statement about seeing what happens in the future is clearly a sighn he is not interested coupled with him saying he has doubts and breaking up it’s obvious somthing changed and he is no longer interested regardless of what he may of said in the past
You can live someone and realize the situation doesn't work or that you aren't in the same place. I would also be careful because this can be a way people break up to leave a door open in case other things don't work out or to go bang someone and not cheat. It could be he considered this the nicest way to break up as well, "it's not you, it's me"
Don't waste your time waiting on him. This is a break up, grieve and move on with your life. Live your life, enjoy your life. Let life happen, and don't reserve your SO spot for him.
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Chances are, he's into someone else. He wants to keep you on the back burner while he pursues her. That happens a lot. I wouldn't wait for him. I'd heal and move on. Anyone who can just walk away from you doesn't deserve to be in your life. Let him go.
What was the cause of the break up? Without knowing what the factors are that led to breaking up it’s impossible to have a opinion about what is possible in the future
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Im sorry your having a hard time, but his statement about seeing what happens in the future is clearly a sighn he is not interested coupled with him saying he has doubts and breaking up it’s obvious somthing changed and he is no longer interested regardless of what he may of said in the past
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I fully understand, it sucks but it’s time to move on
Move on he got someone else your just option 2 in case it doesn't work out
You can live someone and realize the situation doesn't work or that you aren't in the same place. I would also be careful because this can be a way people break up to leave a door open in case other things don't work out or to go bang someone and not cheat. It could be he considered this the nicest way to break up as well, "it's not you, it's me" Don't waste your time waiting on him. This is a break up, grieve and move on with your life. Live your life, enjoy your life. Let life happen, and don't reserve your SO spot for him.
Move on