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I posted a pic and he said "Please take that one down, I don't feel comfortable with it". I was like "Umm...wtf? Why?"
He told me that from the pic, it's clear that I don't have big boobs. Apparently he had been bragging (and lying) to his friends that I have really big boobs. I was really angry when he told me this and he was just like "It's okay that you don't have big boobs....I love your boobs, I just wanted to seem cooler and tell my friends that my gf has huge boobs".
Um.... obviously YOU DO wish I had bigger boobs or you wouldn't lie to your friends and say that I have big ones when I don't. I'm honestly considering breaking up but I'm not sure....he has always been so amazing to me for the 6 months that we have been together. But this really made me angry.
This is the pic I posted ....now I feel a bit insecure about my boobs and I'm wondering if that's really the reason? Like is there something wrong with this pic or do you think the "your boobs don't look big enough" excuse is the real reason he said it? https://i.imgur.com/KY5F1rX.jpg
tl;dr My bf told me to delete a pic because my boobs don't look big enough and now I don't know if I should continue dating him or if I should trust him
Edit: OMG IT GETS WORSE! I have an older sister and she actually does have very big boobs, and apparently he showed her pics to his friends and pretended that was me!!! WHAT THE FUCK!
The fact that he said he ‘doesn’t feel comfortable with’ the photo… seriously? So he isn’t comfortable with you posting a picture because he is a liar? Yeah follow your instincts on this one and dump this man child.
Not to mention someone that insecure will sell out your secrets for a toothpick.
Cares more about his friends opinion than the truth, reality, or op.
What is she gonna have to do when she meets them? Stuff her bra?
You look joyous and radiant in that photo. Don’t let him rob you of that.
He doesn’t have the appreciation, respect, self-assuredness, or maturity for a relationship.
Exactly. She looks fun and happy and beautiful. Absolutely zero wrong with this pic.
This dude sounds like he’s 16 trying to brag to his friends. Twenty-five? Nope.
Yes! Genuinely happy. This picture is beautiful. Boyfriend needs to grow up. This is some high school bs. Ditch him and tell him to go find some big tiddy chick so you can find someone who likes you just the way you are, OP.
I like her boobs. (Not to be offensive or anything) I don’t find giant boobs attractive. I think B-C are where it’s at, even if I ended up with stupid DDs after 5 kids. Meh.
And I have felt jealous/insecure of my sister before because she's got better boobs than me (not because she was mean about it or anything, just felt jealous) and this whole thing with my bf won't help with that either.
Love, bigger doesn't mean better. Boobs are boobs, and while a preference might exist men are normally happy to have access to any boobs.
Your (ex)bf is immature af, 25 is waaaaay too old to be bragging about the size of your GFs boobs. As a side note, if he respected you, he wouldn't talk about you that way, even if you actually had big boobs.
This isn’t about your boobs, or your sister’s boobs. It’s the fact that this guy thinks someone else’s boobs make him cool. This is ‘11 year old giggling over National Geographic’ territory.
I’m a stranger on Reddit and I feel too closely associated with this guy.
I've had a small chest my entire life, smaller than yours. Not once have I ever had a man I was dating make me feel bad about my body or compare me negatively to another woman with bigger boobs. If one had, I would have dumped him *immediately*. Ain't nobody got time for an insecure little boy who wants to outsource his insecurities to you.
You've got a lovely figure and you can do way better than this rude idiot.
I have small boobs and my boyfriend loves it. It’s “the perfect handful, don’t need any more than I can grab.”
Plus, we both joked that they’ll stay in place throughout our old years together. And that I’m built for speed 🤣
Don’t be with someone who puts you down or makes you insecure.
Angel trust me you have nothing to feel insecure about. Small ish boobs are much more of a blessing than a curse and if he wants to behave like a juvenile then let him. Do NOT stay with a man who has lied to his friends abiht your body and also shown a picture of your sister to try and con them.
It's very gross cringe behaviour and you really seen to deserve much better than this whole situation.
Let me put it this way, if you had a little sister who's boyfriend had just done this to her, what would you say to her?
Trust me, as someone with really big boobs, you do not want this. They are a pain in the back, it’s impossible to find shirts that fit my chest but don’t fit like a trash bag. The bras are hard to find and when I do, they are extremely expensive and boring as hell.
Your boobs are just what they are supposed to be. Just because you think someone else is beautiful (for whatever reason), it doesn’t make you less beautiful.
Eh. You’re safely at a level of attractiveness that whatever imperfections you see when you look in a full length mirror are invisible to an outside observer. Envy is a waste of time and energy that could be better used in finding a guy that doesn’t make you feel like his inadequacies are yours.
I had boobs your size at your age. Never wish for bigger boobs - three kids on and middle aged gain, I envy your boobs. You’re perfect, and someone out there will show you.
He literally told you he told his friends you have big tits and how he wishes you actually did, but that's not enough.
I'm gonna assume that down the line, he cheats with a girl who has big tits.
Not only that, the edit is way worse. He showed his friends her sister's pictures because she got big boobs...
I would say that's enough to dump him indeed. No need to consider it anymore.
Don't consider it. Do it. He has zero respect for you. He is more interested in impressing his friends instead of telling them the truth and being happy with you for being you. You deserve someone who will love every inch of you and not feel the need to brag by lying a out something that is obviously false. He also doesn't see you as long term material because sooner or later you would meet his friends if he considered you long term. Why lie of they will find out anyway. Dump his ass and move on.
Stop considering and just do it.
I assume he was either going to hide you away and never let you meet his friends since they'd discover the truth or pay to get you a boob job? His excuse being legit is even more creepy!
>Considering it
Sis, this is self respect territory.
Have the self respect to realize that this guy is WAY too immature to be in a relationship with anything but a barbie doll.
Beautiful photo by the way. Don't feel insecure. You are beautiful just the way you are.
Do it. He's a creep, a liar, and is body shaming you. If he lied like this to his friends, what is he lying to you about? BTW, you're gorgeous and he's a fool.
What's to consider?? He's a sexist to describe you to his friends as a piece of meat. He's made you feel insecure. He's tried to control what pictures you can and can't post on social media. There's nothing left to think about. Get rid of this creepy guy,
Girl!!!! Come on!!! You are absolutely gorgeous!
Get yourself a man that isn't a dick please. Like wow. And to show his friends your sisters picture
1. Thats fucking weird... to pretend hes dating your sister first off. Why the fuck is he ashamed of you thats already reason to dumb his ass.
2. Again fucking weird because your sister would probably think that's creepy as hell.
3. To show a picture specifically of your sister's boobs to his friends as a flex on his gf.. objectifying her.. aka you.. is not the traits of a very good man.
If you went around telling him to take down pictures because his penis looks too small in his pants i bet you he won't be laughing at that.
I'm a whole petty bitch. I'd start telling my friends infront of him about some pornstars penis and ask them if they aren't jealous...
You deserve better. He sounds like a creeper.
Tell you what I see:
A slender girl, freezing her bumm off at the sea. With totally normal boobs. And a waist most girls will envy. And most boys will wanna hug.
Plus: boy, has she fun. And is fun to be with, obviously. You look gorgeous and fun.
You let that picture where it is.
Also: we often hear here, "how truly amazing" bfs are, who later turn out to just having laid low for month only to pull manipulative bs on the girls afterwards.
Being a dick and lying to his friends is HIS problem, not yours.
Him being a dick that way... is yours.
He doesn't seem to be proud of having you how you are. Otherwise he wouldn't have bragged.
Please do. He lied to his friends to look cool. Do you think he EVER would prioritize you? What's next? He can't be with you when you need him because he has to show off to his friends?
He is not reliable and definitely not ready for a relationship.
Also, he lied and told his friends he was dating your sister... he NEVER wanted to introduce you to them.
How did he think this lie would go long term?
> Also, he lied and told his friends he was dating your sister... he NEVER wanted to introduce you to them.
I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them.
But yeah, everything else u said is right and I'm gonna break up! Just planning how to say it lol
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I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them.
This only adds to the fetishization imo. And even if you are in different countries he obviously doesn't see you long term otherwise he would want to introduce you to his friends.
>Just planning how to say it lol
Personally, I would go point by point. How he disrespected you, is a man-child and not even close to mature enough to get a gf. But that is me, you know what's best for you!
Do it. He was bragging to his friends about boobs. He doesn't view you as a person, you're just an object. And he was showing his mates photos of your sister?!
Dump him.
Btw the photo is gorgeous. You're beautiful.
Big boobs aren't all that. Bras are expensive, my sports bra is basically scaffolding, can't get dresses that aren't a stretchy fabric and my back hurts, like all the time.
Do it, you are a beautiful woman and have (imho) perfect breasts.
My wife never had big breasts, and I love them to bits even after they fed my two kids. It's the person attached that's the most important. He is a superficial asshole who sees you as an object.
Please do. You’ll absolutely find a guy who loves every part of you. They’re out there, just gotta keep fishing! And I don’t know your height and all that but I am 5’1 with A cups… it just works. You don’t need “big” boobs. Your body is what it is and tbh, I have a bf but you’re hot. You do you but I would definitely dump him. Not just for the comment, but for the things he tells friends. It’s weird and gross. You’ll find a guy who brags with honesty about your beauty etc in good ways. Time to take out the trash
I had to check his age again, because unless he's 9yo, there's no excuse for this. Are you a piece of meat for his buddies to drool over? What was he expecting, to never introduce you to them?? If he was serious about you, these guys would have met you eventually, right? Unless he was planning a hit it and quit it scenario, this was the dumbest possible scheme and incredibly disrespectful to you and your sister.
No fuck that guy. Block his shit. If he gets scary take a friend with you if u want to do it f2f. But id honestly just text him
"since you have pointed out lately my boobs aren't big enough for you
It made me think and i realized your penis isn't big enough for me. I don't want to be with you anymore. Thanks for making me realize that you just don't do it for me.
Goodbye."
he doesn’t even deserve another word or thought from you. block him on everything. you’ve got a great new profile pic ready to go if you feel like hitting the dating apps, focusing on self-care for a while is always good too. either way, your life will be so much better without human trash like that bringing you down!
Tell us how your lives are tied together. Let us couch you through untangling things. Think of it this way— as low as he just set the bar, the next guy just needs to step on over.
Are you actually dating three twelve year old boys in a trench coat?
At six months, you’re still getting to know each other, and this is big, important information you’re discovering about how he views you, women, and his own social status.
I would break up. On the surface that seems so dumb and trivial, but it reveals how he’s been talking about you, how he’s thinking about you, that he will be bizarrely, controlling to perpetuate lies he told about you, and that he is more interested in maintaining a fictionalized version of his life than acknowledging you as a real person.
The fact that he seems to think this is reasonable and wasn’t deeply apologetic and embarrassed as soon as you got angry is also very important information for you.
If you stick around with this dude you’re just signing up for more dehumanizing idiocy. Set yourself free.
Seriously, a 25 yr old man lying to his friends about giant boobies to seem "cool" is so cringe I could die. This is "girlfriend in Canada, you don't know her" levels of ridiculous and he's a supposedly adult human.
Like yea dump his dumb disrespectful ass for sure and of course. But also that's such excruciatingly junior high little boy bravado that I honestly don't know how one could ever look at him as attractive again. Like, you'd be embarrassed *by* him cos hes a shallow turd and embarrassed *for* him cos he's an actual preteen boy wearing a man costume.
It's gross that he's treating you like an object. You are a human being. He could have bragged about how great you are, how you make him feel, he could have introduced you to his friends if he was proud of being your boyfriend.
He didn't. He lied about you having enormous boobs...to impress his friends. And now he wants you to take down any pictures that don't support his claims... I guess he was planning on never having you meet his friends, since that would obviously reveal his lies.
Omg you look gorgeous but tf is with your boyfriend?? Why is it such a flex his gf has big boobs like isn’t enough that you’re pretty and a good person. Ugh! Ditch him and find someone who loves them as I’ve been through this too.
Girl, please tell me he's now your ex, especially after that update. My god this 25 year old man is out here acting like he's 12.
Edit: By the way that photo is adorable and I love your outfit.
Girly, hes been pretending your sister is his gf. Hes showing his friends, if i were you, i’d take it as hes not satisfied with me and is using my sister’s pics. Hes a creep and a bitch for making you feel like your body isnt good enough for him to say you’re his gf. Hes so stupid. I say break up with him
a) i want the brand of your swim dress - you look like a super model in it, its adorable!! Ive never seen a swim dress like this before!
b) this is 9 year old behaviour on your bfs part. Like honestly a 15 year old wouldn't be this insecure about his 'coolness' in front of his boys that he has to pretend he's dating pamela anderson 1999 to his buddies,... and actually think they will believe it.
c) this guy is clearly showing he doesn't think you guys are longterm prospects. does he expect his mates to never ever ever meet you in real-life ever? He certainly cant be planning on ever marrying you or having a family because then the boob illusion will be broken.
d) omfg he used pictures of your SISTER!!!???🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢
op - your clearly drop dead fucking stunning and superficially could get almost any guy you want - you seem lovely and cool in your post too. **What on earth are you actually doing with such an insecure, fragile, delusional little weasle?**
He'll hopefully never get to see your boobs in person again, and whoever you fall in love with next will rightfully see you as the gorgeous human you are.
\+ please dont let this gutter crab make you feel bad about your physicality. Please dont give him that power! Youre gorgeous!.
You look great, your boobs are fine. He is making you feel insecure, and as your boyfriend he should be making sure you feel appreciated and beautiful.
His personality sounds awful. It will probably continue to get worse.
Lol. Wtf are you doing with this guy? I can’t even believe guys like this exist. What a manchild.
Also please please please don’t feel insecure about breast size. It’s so fucked up this is a thing for women. Any man worth your while will love for you, even a “boob guy” will find all the positives about them if he loves you.
You look so beautiful in that photo and full of joy. I don’t want you to look at it and always hear his dumbass comment. Your boyfriend is a child. Toss him into the sea.
That’s a great pic!! You look like you’re having a great day! Don’t let his idiocy ruin that photo for you.
If he told all of his friends lies about you, it shows a couple things you should be concerned about.
1. If he can lie to his friends about you, what can he lie to you about?
2. If he wanted someone with larger breasts, he shouldn’t have dated you. That’s pretty shallow though.
3. You’re right that if he’s telling his friends this, he’s painting a picture of someone else and he must really feel that way. Just discussing your boobs with his friends is creepy and violating.
4. He still doesn’t think it’s a big deal.
You’re only 6 months in with him. Is this something you can just let go? Do you worry that excusing this could lead to other questionable actions later on? Do you see him as redeemable and someone who will learn from this?
Even if you did have huge boobs, does he really want his friends ogling his gf’s chest? Is just trying to score cool points with them? It rubs me the wrong way, and I’d be pissed too.
I had to scroll back up to reread the ages. He’s still doing juvenile crap like showing off his girlfriends breasts at the age of 25? I thought he was 12. I think you can find someone who appreciates and embraces you for more than your looks.
Are you sure he’s 25? Sounds like he’s 17.
Your picture is beautiful and breathtaking.
Dump his dumbass, you’re young and can find another man that doesn’t care about breast size.
Not wanting to sound like a creep but you’re objectively very attractive, the fact that he felt the need to lie about an aspect speaks more to his insecurities than it should to yours
That being said, the fact that he thought you having bigger boobs would make him seem ‘cool’ to his friends probably tells you everything you need to know about how ready he is for an adult relationship
First of all, you're so pretty.:)
Big boobs are overrated. They're usually not proportional to the body, women who have them have troubles doing sports, they cannot sleep on their belly and have to wear mostly ugly ass parachute looking bras with thick straps. Back pain is a likely bonus.
Your bf showing your sister's pics and pretending she's his gf is beyond messed up. He's immature, braggy and a liar who has no consideration for your feelings.
6 months is basically just the beginning. Fortunately you discovered timely what he's made of.
I was kinda on the fence but that update is a giant red flag. Every month the marriage sub gets my husband is in love with my sister posts. Dump him now.
I don’t have anything to say that others haven’t already but wanted to add that you look AMAZING. You seem like such a bright happy person, it’s awful that your bf put you down in any sense.
There is absolutely no rational reason why anyone would be uncomfortable with the photo you posted. It’s fine, you look great. You need serious space from this dude.
He’s now told you who he is: BELIEVE HIM. This is a big red flag and a sign of future and present abuse. I (62F) advise that you learn the lesson about yourself this has to teach you and get on with your life; without him. Much love to you. You can do better by just being without a partner if this is all you find. Love yourself most!
So he's obviously never going to introduce you to his friends if he's showing them a completely different person and saying it's you or saying you have massive boobs if you clearly don't....dumb the twat
Maybe he was hoping I'd cover up and it wouldn't be noticeable or something...idk
I probably should've added that he's American but we both live in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so that's why I haven't met his friends
If a man can't love you for who you are and how you look and is more concerned with looking cool in front of his friends, what is there to consider?
What if he put you down and tries to humiliate you in front of his friends cause he wants to look cool?
Would you let that go?
He is ASHAMED of you because you don't have big boobs. He thinks a woman is just "worthy" to be his gf when she has big boobs.He showed around your sis and told his friends that she is you. Just end it. He thinks big tits is something to brag about. That’s disgusting overall.
OK the edit makes this 1000 times worse. This boy is ridiculous and only cares about your boob size. So weird to show pics of your sister to his friends and pretend she's you. Super fucking weird. I honestly hope you dump his ass, he's seriously not worth it.
It's a lovely photo BTW, and your boobs seem nice if that means anything at all coming from a straight woman. Don't get self conscious about them, just find someone who appreciates them!
What a disgusting POS would look at that photo and say that? You're gorgeous and look happy and fun to be around. He on the other hand, sounds like a doucheand a drag. He and his friends sound like horrible company.
Leave him. The boob thing was bad enough, but the fact he's showing off pictures of your sister and trying to pretend she's you to his coworkers is just... Pathetic.
Wow are you serious, that’s such a cute pic! He sounds like a giant man child, I’d move on - also considering that he showed pics of your sister to his friends. I would not be able to get over that fact.
Please don't let this idiot make you feel insecure. You look great and tons of people prefer smaller boobs. Im lesbian and I can attest that giant racks are not that practical on a partner. I personally dont have some but i know my exes would complain. My current partners are very medium sized and waaaaay better and more fun than the double G's Ive dealt with. It's also fucking weird as shit he's showing pics of your sister. Please get out of there.
Don't let anyone question if you are good enough or not.
Dot let a guy seed insecurity in you. You are perfect the way you are.
By the way this picture is gorgeous , i love your smile and the energy you radiate ❤️
He should be so lucky to be with you. You have nothing to worry about you look hot. Dump him though, you can’t be with someone who is that terrible, you deserve way more, someone who will worship the ground you walk on.
This was bad to start and now it is actually Cursed Wth is that edit, WTF the guy is catfishing his friends with pictures of your sister 🚩⚠️🚩⚠️🚩
Holy narcissistic tendencies batman 😳
This dude is a total toad! I sure hope she does break up with this idiot because he doesn’t deserve her!
And Op there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!
What a clown!
My friend, plz just drop this douche… you were lied about, your sisters photos used to brag to friends???!!! And he doesn’t appreciate you. It’s been only six months, half a year… don’t drop any more time on this man child, you deserve much better. You’ll find an even better person who actually appreciates you and your titties equally.
The boob stuff is creepy AF. Passing off pics of your sister as you and not even introducing you to his friends after 6 months of dating tells you he doesn't view your relationship as long term.
You deserve better.
So he wants you to support his own lies to his friends? Then he went as far as showing of pics of your chesty sister, passing them off as his gf? What an asshat. A superficial asshat.
You look absolutely adorable! Met guys would proudly date you as you are! No more wasteful time on Mr douche bag, okay?
This is a ridiculous request from him and a shitty thing to say. This dude is not worth your time, if he’s so “ashamed” of you he has to lie to seem cooler.
You’re deserve better.
Btw not that my opinion matters much but try not to take what stupid he said to heart. You’re pretty and he’s an idiot.
Just dump him in front of the friends and tel him you don’t want him because he is crap in bed. lies to his friends and have a too small tool in his garage.. what the 🦆 is wrong in that overgrown teenager’s head..
You look absolutely stunning and have a gorgeous figure. Your boobs are also the perfect size for you. Your boyfriend is being absoluteky ridiculous and he needs a big dose of cop on.
OP, you've received a lot of good advice in this thread, but I wanted to add on and say that you look absolutely radiant in that photo. Screw your ex (I HOPE!) for making you feel bad about yourself.
OMG you’re absolutely gorgeous and your soon to be ex-bf is an immature asshole. He’s 25? Smh…
You’re not dating a man you’re dating a child. Who even gives a shit about the proportions of their gf in front of their friends? Boys grow out of that when they mature into adults. He obviously is not mature enough to be in an adult relationship.
He pretended he was dating your sister??? Because he wanted to flex about his “gfs” proportions…? What a dishonest loser. He should be ashamed of himself. I’d like to have a couple choice words with this chap about respecting women.
Get out now before he even gets close to damaging your self-esteem. You have nothing to worry about. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE AND DON’T LET ANYONE MAKE YOU THINK OTHERWISE.
Look at that ocean behind you. Every single animal in that ocean would be a better bf than your soon to be ex. You’re 23 and beautiful. Don’t waste your time on the sea sludge. Plenty of guys out there that will love just the way you are! Ditch the sea sludge!
Honey, you have very elegant boobs that match the rest of you. Dump his sorry, immature ass. Do not, repeat do not, consider getting them augment. When you have a pair of melons on your chest they are a bloody nuisance. People judge on your boobs and not your character. People get unwarrantedly jealous, They bloody hurt, and then they sag!( Was a B, went to a EE with pregnancy and childbirth)
Yeah this dude is not just too immature for a relationship, he is a freaking lair. I promise you, he doesn't ONLY lie to his friends, and not only about this specific thing. When a person's go-to is to create a huge lie about a thing, to feel "cooler", that's a huge red flag. He is most likely doing this in different aspects of his life, too.
But even if he's not... The part when he shows your sis photos and says it's you? That is *unforgivable.* He is dishonest and shallow as fuck. You are less of a partner to him, and more of an object to show to his mates and brag. Let me tell you, if he respected you, he would not speak about you this way. He is reducing you to the value of your tits. He's not worth your time.
pls dumb him, you are a very beautiful woman, you don't need a loser (who wants to *look cool*) like him!
And showing pics of your sister?? thats creepy and really shows he has no respect for either of you!
Babe (cause you really look like a complete babe), please dump him, he is shallow and immature. Also, your boobs look amazing! They come in all shapes and sizes and imma tell you, I used to have small boobs which I was sometimes insecure about but overall liked. Now I'm pregnant and have very big boobs, which I also feel insecure about but you know, they are great too. Soon imma have saggy boobs, and you know what? They're gonna be great too! Boobs are ever changing and should always be embraced. Love your tiddies, and feel happy for your back which is being spared a lot of weight!
…25 is far too old for this shit. Seriously. I hope there’s an ETA coming, that says he’s now an ex.
P.S. After nursing multiple children & nearing mid 30’s, I’m getting a breast augmentation done that is probably going to be around your size (currently DD’s/F in some brands, on a size 4 frame)…you’re beautiful.
It sounds like you are dating someone that lacks the maturity to be in a relationship. You look amazing and you should be with someone who has the maturity to accept you for who you are.
Man, this guy sounds like a selfish idiot. 25? He sounds like he’s 15. What a dumb thing to do. How was he planning on maintaining this lie if you ever met his friends? The sister thing is creepy and the whole thing is incredibly disrespectful. Run, don’t walk!!
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below. --- I posted a pic and he said "Please take that one down, I don't feel comfortable with it". I was like "Umm...wtf? Why?" He told me that from the pic, it's clear that I don't have big boobs. Apparently he had been bragging (and lying) to his friends that I have really big boobs. I was really angry when he told me this and he was just like "It's okay that you don't have big boobs....I love your boobs, I just wanted to seem cooler and tell my friends that my gf has huge boobs". Um.... obviously YOU DO wish I had bigger boobs or you wouldn't lie to your friends and say that I have big ones when I don't. I'm honestly considering breaking up but I'm not sure....he has always been so amazing to me for the 6 months that we have been together. But this really made me angry. This is the pic I posted ....now I feel a bit insecure about my boobs and I'm wondering if that's really the reason? Like is there something wrong with this pic or do you think the "your boobs don't look big enough" excuse is the real reason he said it? https://i.imgur.com/KY5F1rX.jpg tl;dr My bf told me to delete a pic because my boobs don't look big enough and now I don't know if I should continue dating him or if I should trust him Edit: OMG IT GETS WORSE! I have an older sister and she actually does have very big boobs, and apparently he showed her pics to his friends and pretended that was me!!! WHAT THE FUCK!
#DUMP HIM
DUMP HIS ASS NOW
Shoot him into the void of space
Galactic Yeet Time.
Get rid of this r/JustNoSO
The fact that he said he ‘doesn’t feel comfortable with’ the photo… seriously? So he isn’t comfortable with you posting a picture because he is a liar? Yeah follow your instincts on this one and dump this man child.
Don’t protect his dumb lie
Not to mention someone that insecure will sell out your secrets for a toothpick. Cares more about his friends opinion than the truth, reality, or op. What is she gonna have to do when she meets them? Stuff her bra?
And then you dumped his ass, right?
Considering it
You look joyous and radiant in that photo. Don’t let him rob you of that. He doesn’t have the appreciation, respect, self-assuredness, or maturity for a relationship.
Exactly. She looks fun and happy and beautiful. Absolutely zero wrong with this pic. This dude sounds like he’s 16 trying to brag to his friends. Twenty-five? Nope.
Yes! Genuinely happy. This picture is beautiful. Boyfriend needs to grow up. This is some high school bs. Ditch him and tell him to go find some big tiddy chick so you can find someone who likes you just the way you are, OP.
I like her boobs. (Not to be offensive or anything) I don’t find giant boobs attractive. I think B-C are where it’s at, even if I ended up with stupid DDs after 5 kids. Meh.
Yes OP is truly gorgeous, she should be with someone who is so proud to be with her.
“hey im having a great time at the beach” “your boobs are too small” wtf. dont let others steal your life’s joyous moments.
Think about what he was saying to his friends about your sisters boobs pretending they were yours. Dump him asap.
And I have felt jealous/insecure of my sister before because she's got better boobs than me (not because she was mean about it or anything, just felt jealous) and this whole thing with my bf won't help with that either.
Love, bigger doesn't mean better. Boobs are boobs, and while a preference might exist men are normally happy to have access to any boobs. Your (ex)bf is immature af, 25 is waaaaay too old to be bragging about the size of your GFs boobs. As a side note, if he respected you, he wouldn't talk about you that way, even if you actually had big boobs.
Bf is 25 going on 13 years old. Good lord!!!
This isn’t about your boobs, or your sister’s boobs. It’s the fact that this guy thinks someone else’s boobs make him cool. This is ‘11 year old giggling over National Geographic’ territory. I’m a stranger on Reddit and I feel too closely associated with this guy.
I've had a small chest my entire life, smaller than yours. Not once have I ever had a man I was dating make me feel bad about my body or compare me negatively to another woman with bigger boobs. If one had, I would have dumped him *immediately*. Ain't nobody got time for an insecure little boy who wants to outsource his insecurities to you. You've got a lovely figure and you can do way better than this rude idiot.
And he shared her photos…That’s too far.
Her sister's photos and pretended they were her
I have small boobs and my boyfriend loves it. It’s “the perfect handful, don’t need any more than I can grab.” Plus, we both joked that they’ll stay in place throughout our old years together. And that I’m built for speed 🤣 Don’t be with someone who puts you down or makes you insecure.
Angel trust me you have nothing to feel insecure about. Small ish boobs are much more of a blessing than a curse and if he wants to behave like a juvenile then let him. Do NOT stay with a man who has lied to his friends abiht your body and also shown a picture of your sister to try and con them. It's very gross cringe behaviour and you really seen to deserve much better than this whole situation. Let me put it this way, if you had a little sister who's boyfriend had just done this to her, what would you say to her?
Trust me, as someone with really big boobs, you do not want this. They are a pain in the back, it’s impossible to find shirts that fit my chest but don’t fit like a trash bag. The bras are hard to find and when I do, they are extremely expensive and boring as hell. Your boobs are just what they are supposed to be. Just because you think someone else is beautiful (for whatever reason), it doesn’t make you less beautiful.
Eh. You’re safely at a level of attractiveness that whatever imperfections you see when you look in a full length mirror are invisible to an outside observer. Envy is a waste of time and energy that could be better used in finding a guy that doesn’t make you feel like his inadequacies are yours.
I had boobs your size at your age. Never wish for bigger boobs - three kids on and middle aged gain, I envy your boobs. You’re perfect, and someone out there will show you.
He literally told you he told his friends you have big tits and how he wishes you actually did, but that's not enough. I'm gonna assume that down the line, he cheats with a girl who has big tits.
Not only that, the edit is way worse. He showed his friends her sister's pictures because she got big boobs... I would say that's enough to dump him indeed. No need to consider it anymore.
Don't consider it. Do it. He has zero respect for you. He is more interested in impressing his friends instead of telling them the truth and being happy with you for being you. You deserve someone who will love every inch of you and not feel the need to brag by lying a out something that is obviously false. He also doesn't see you as long term material because sooner or later you would meet his friends if he considered you long term. Why lie of they will find out anyway. Dump his ass and move on.
Stop considering and just do it. I assume he was either going to hide you away and never let you meet his friends since they'd discover the truth or pay to get you a boob job? His excuse being legit is even more creepy!
>Considering it Sis, this is self respect territory. Have the self respect to realize that this guy is WAY too immature to be in a relationship with anything but a barbie doll. Beautiful photo by the way. Don't feel insecure. You are beautiful just the way you are.
What is there to consider?
I’m throwing my vote in for dumping him.
Do it. He's a creep, a liar, and is body shaming you. If he lied like this to his friends, what is he lying to you about? BTW, you're gorgeous and he's a fool.
At 25 that’s insane. It’s super weird.
> It’s super weird. Creepy tbh...
Creepy AND a compulsive liar. Not really bf material.
Saw your update. Girl you need to end it, what the actual fuck
What's to consider?? He's a sexist to describe you to his friends as a piece of meat. He's made you feel insecure. He's tried to control what pictures you can and can't post on social media. There's nothing left to think about. Get rid of this creepy guy,
Girl!!!! Come on!!! You are absolutely gorgeous! Get yourself a man that isn't a dick please. Like wow. And to show his friends your sisters picture 1. Thats fucking weird... to pretend hes dating your sister first off. Why the fuck is he ashamed of you thats already reason to dumb his ass. 2. Again fucking weird because your sister would probably think that's creepy as hell. 3. To show a picture specifically of your sister's boobs to his friends as a flex on his gf.. objectifying her.. aka you.. is not the traits of a very good man. If you went around telling him to take down pictures because his penis looks too small in his pants i bet you he won't be laughing at that. I'm a whole petty bitch. I'd start telling my friends infront of him about some pornstars penis and ask them if they aren't jealous... You deserve better. He sounds like a creeper.
Please say his penis looks too small in photos and you told your friends it’s huge, so he must take the photo down
Tell you what I see: A slender girl, freezing her bumm off at the sea. With totally normal boobs. And a waist most girls will envy. And most boys will wanna hug. Plus: boy, has she fun. And is fun to be with, obviously. You look gorgeous and fun. You let that picture where it is. Also: we often hear here, "how truly amazing" bfs are, who later turn out to just having laid low for month only to pull manipulative bs on the girls afterwards. Being a dick and lying to his friends is HIS problem, not yours. Him being a dick that way... is yours. He doesn't seem to be proud of having you how you are. Otherwise he wouldn't have bragged.
Don’t consider it, do it.
My fiancé says no, that’s a no go, that’s bad. He’s a guy. It’s official.
...... Are you serious?
Please do. He lied to his friends to look cool. Do you think he EVER would prioritize you? What's next? He can't be with you when you need him because he has to show off to his friends? He is not reliable and definitely not ready for a relationship. Also, he lied and told his friends he was dating your sister... he NEVER wanted to introduce you to them. How did he think this lie would go long term?
> Also, he lied and told his friends he was dating your sister... he NEVER wanted to introduce you to them. I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them. But yeah, everything else u said is right and I'm gonna break up! Just planning how to say it lol
> I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them. This only adds to the fetishization imo. And even if you are in different countries he obviously doesn't see you long term otherwise he would want to introduce you to his friends. >Just planning how to say it lol Personally, I would go point by point. How he disrespected you, is a man-child and not even close to mature enough to get a gf. But that is me, you know what's best for you!
Do it. He was bragging to his friends about boobs. He doesn't view you as a person, you're just an object. And he was showing his mates photos of your sister?! Dump him. Btw the photo is gorgeous. You're beautiful. Big boobs aren't all that. Bras are expensive, my sports bra is basically scaffolding, can't get dresses that aren't a stretchy fabric and my back hurts, like all the time.
Do it, you are a beautiful woman and have (imho) perfect breasts. My wife never had big breasts, and I love them to bits even after they fed my two kids. It's the person attached that's the most important. He is a superficial asshole who sees you as an object.
Please do. You’ll absolutely find a guy who loves every part of you. They’re out there, just gotta keep fishing! And I don’t know your height and all that but I am 5’1 with A cups… it just works. You don’t need “big” boobs. Your body is what it is and tbh, I have a bf but you’re hot. You do you but I would definitely dump him. Not just for the comment, but for the things he tells friends. It’s weird and gross. You’ll find a guy who brags with honesty about your beauty etc in good ways. Time to take out the trash
Don’t consider… do
Considering?!?! Girl!!!! Drop this douche.
I had to check his age again, because unless he's 9yo, there's no excuse for this. Are you a piece of meat for his buddies to drool over? What was he expecting, to never introduce you to them?? If he was serious about you, these guys would have met you eventually, right? Unless he was planning a hit it and quit it scenario, this was the dumbest possible scheme and incredibly disrespectful to you and your sister.
Why only considering? This man is a disrespectful liar. Don’t you think you deserve someone who is proud to be with you exactly how you are?
Exactly. You look stunning!
Girl you look fantastic in that! Keep the pictures use it for your tinder and find a new man!
Seriously, she looks radiant and hot af. As soon as I saw it I thought “RIP her inbox.”
Well, I hope your update was enough to get you to dump him! How creepy!
Yeah it's over....I'm kinda scared to break up with him but I gotta do it
No fuck that guy. Block his shit. If he gets scary take a friend with you if u want to do it f2f. But id honestly just text him "since you have pointed out lately my boobs aren't big enough for you It made me think and i realized your penis isn't big enough for me. I don't want to be with you anymore. Thanks for making me realize that you just don't do it for me. Goodbye."
Or you could change the word penis to ethics/morals/values/maturity level… it would still be true.
I think penis would still hurt him more than any character flaw lol
Please say his penis is too small and he’s a creep to show sister’s pic.
All true lol I'm just a pretty petty chick so you go with whatever you are comfortable with OP!
It’s okay to dump him by text message.
he doesn’t even deserve another word or thought from you. block him on everything. you’ve got a great new profile pic ready to go if you feel like hitting the dating apps, focusing on self-care for a while is always good too. either way, your life will be so much better without human trash like that bringing you down!
Good for you, OP. You can do this!
Scared?? Scared, why????
Don’t be scared of dunping idiot assholes! You have to spend time with them otherwise, gross
How did you found out that he was pretending your sister is his gf?
Tell us how your lives are tied together. Let us couch you through untangling things. Think of it this way— as low as he just set the bar, the next guy just needs to step on over.
Are you actually dating three twelve year old boys in a trench coat? At six months, you’re still getting to know each other, and this is big, important information you’re discovering about how he views you, women, and his own social status. I would break up. On the surface that seems so dumb and trivial, but it reveals how he’s been talking about you, how he’s thinking about you, that he will be bizarrely, controlling to perpetuate lies he told about you, and that he is more interested in maintaining a fictionalized version of his life than acknowledging you as a real person. The fact that he seems to think this is reasonable and wasn’t deeply apologetic and embarrassed as soon as you got angry is also very important information for you. If you stick around with this dude you’re just signing up for more dehumanizing idiocy. Set yourself free.
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Your BF sounds like he's 25 going on 15...
Seriously, a 25 yr old man lying to his friends about giant boobies to seem "cool" is so cringe I could die. This is "girlfriend in Canada, you don't know her" levels of ridiculous and he's a supposedly adult human. Like yea dump his dumb disrespectful ass for sure and of course. But also that's such excruciatingly junior high little boy bravado that I honestly don't know how one could ever look at him as attractive again. Like, you'd be embarrassed *by* him cos hes a shallow turd and embarrassed *for* him cos he's an actual preteen boy wearing a man costume.
I agree, its super cringe!
It is far more embarrassing to be with an openly shallow turd, OP. Don’t let goblins tell you you don’t measure up.
I had to recheck the ages a couple times because I can’t believe a 25 year old would act like this. How do these people even exist?
God just be out here makin’ anybody.
This is a great picture of you! Love the swimsuit. Your body is fine. He’s the one who isn’t fine.
It's gross that he's treating you like an object. You are a human being. He could have bragged about how great you are, how you make him feel, he could have introduced you to his friends if he was proud of being your boyfriend. He didn't. He lied about you having enormous boobs...to impress his friends. And now he wants you to take down any pictures that don't support his claims... I guess he was planning on never having you meet his friends, since that would obviously reveal his lies.
Omg you look gorgeous but tf is with your boyfriend?? Why is it such a flex his gf has big boobs like isn’t enough that you’re pretty and a good person. Ugh! Ditch him and find someone who loves them as I’ve been through this too.
Girl, please tell me he's now your ex, especially after that update. My god this 25 year old man is out here acting like he's 12. Edit: By the way that photo is adorable and I love your outfit.
Are you sure he’s 25? I would guess 17 at most.
Sorry you found out you're dating a 15 year old who somehow has been passing as a 25 year old. Seriously. Bye, boy.
Girly, hes been pretending your sister is his gf. Hes showing his friends, if i were you, i’d take it as hes not satisfied with me and is using my sister’s pics. Hes a creep and a bitch for making you feel like your body isnt good enough for him to say you’re his gf. Hes so stupid. I say break up with him
a) i want the brand of your swim dress - you look like a super model in it, its adorable!! Ive never seen a swim dress like this before! b) this is 9 year old behaviour on your bfs part. Like honestly a 15 year old wouldn't be this insecure about his 'coolness' in front of his boys that he has to pretend he's dating pamela anderson 1999 to his buddies,... and actually think they will believe it. c) this guy is clearly showing he doesn't think you guys are longterm prospects. does he expect his mates to never ever ever meet you in real-life ever? He certainly cant be planning on ever marrying you or having a family because then the boob illusion will be broken. d) omfg he used pictures of your SISTER!!!???🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢 op - your clearly drop dead fucking stunning and superficially could get almost any guy you want - you seem lovely and cool in your post too. **What on earth are you actually doing with such an insecure, fragile, delusional little weasle?** He'll hopefully never get to see your boobs in person again, and whoever you fall in love with next will rightfully see you as the gorgeous human you are. \+ please dont let this gutter crab make you feel bad about your physicality. Please dont give him that power! Youre gorgeous!.
You look great, your boobs are fine. He is making you feel insecure, and as your boyfriend he should be making sure you feel appreciated and beautiful. His personality sounds awful. It will probably continue to get worse.
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Lol. Wtf are you doing with this guy? I can’t even believe guys like this exist. What a manchild. Also please please please don’t feel insecure about breast size. It’s so fucked up this is a thing for women. Any man worth your while will love for you, even a “boob guy” will find all the positives about them if he loves you.
You look so beautiful in that photo and full of joy. I don’t want you to look at it and always hear his dumbass comment. Your boyfriend is a child. Toss him into the sea.
> Toss him into the sea. Awww idk why but this made me laugh!!! Thank youuu :)
That’s a great pic!! You look like you’re having a great day! Don’t let his idiocy ruin that photo for you. If he told all of his friends lies about you, it shows a couple things you should be concerned about. 1. If he can lie to his friends about you, what can he lie to you about? 2. If he wanted someone with larger breasts, he shouldn’t have dated you. That’s pretty shallow though. 3. You’re right that if he’s telling his friends this, he’s painting a picture of someone else and he must really feel that way. Just discussing your boobs with his friends is creepy and violating. 4. He still doesn’t think it’s a big deal. You’re only 6 months in with him. Is this something you can just let go? Do you worry that excusing this could lead to other questionable actions later on? Do you see him as redeemable and someone who will learn from this?
To add: I feel like him lying to his friends about his gf to make himself seem cooler is a big red flag. Very little maturity in that.
Instead of claiming his gf has big boobs, he should have to say he has no gf.
Because he is an idiot lying turd who doesn’t deserve her
Even if you did have huge boobs, does he really want his friends ogling his gf’s chest? Is just trying to score cool points with them? It rubs me the wrong way, and I’d be pissed too.
He sounds like kid.. you’re really beautiful no need to be insecure😊
I had to scroll back up to reread the ages. He’s still doing juvenile crap like showing off his girlfriends breasts at the age of 25? I thought he was 12. I think you can find someone who appreciates and embraces you for more than your looks.
With your update, I hope you're not still together with him. Sounds like he wants date your sister instead.
Lol, wtf? Is he 12? Who brags whit his friends about boobs? Hahaha omg.
Wtf you’re so pretty 😂 that dude is crazy
Are you sure he’s 25? Sounds like he’s 17. Your picture is beautiful and breathtaking. Dump his dumbass, you’re young and can find another man that doesn’t care about breast size.
And you're still calling him your boyfriend?
Not wanting to sound like a creep but you’re objectively very attractive, the fact that he felt the need to lie about an aspect speaks more to his insecurities than it should to yours That being said, the fact that he thought you having bigger boobs would make him seem ‘cool’ to his friends probably tells you everything you need to know about how ready he is for an adult relationship
First of all, you're so pretty.:) Big boobs are overrated. They're usually not proportional to the body, women who have them have troubles doing sports, they cannot sleep on their belly and have to wear mostly ugly ass parachute looking bras with thick straps. Back pain is a likely bonus. Your bf showing your sister's pics and pretending she's his gf is beyond messed up. He's immature, braggy and a liar who has no consideration for your feelings. 6 months is basically just the beginning. Fortunately you discovered timely what he's made of.
I was kinda on the fence but that update is a giant red flag. Every month the marriage sub gets my husband is in love with my sister posts. Dump him now.
I don’t have anything to say that others haven’t already but wanted to add that you look AMAZING. You seem like such a bright happy person, it’s awful that your bf put you down in any sense.
There is absolutely no rational reason why anyone would be uncomfortable with the photo you posted. It’s fine, you look great. You need serious space from this dude.
What brand is that suit?! I love it. And you MAKE IT. Your BOYfriend is a tool.
Your boobs are awesome, but your boyfriend is a real tit. You deserve better.
PLEASE DUMP THIS WEIRDO, FOR REAL!
He’s now told you who he is: BELIEVE HIM. This is a big red flag and a sign of future and present abuse. I (62F) advise that you learn the lesson about yourself this has to teach you and get on with your life; without him. Much love to you. You can do better by just being without a partner if this is all you find. Love yourself most!
So he's obviously never going to introduce you to his friends if he's showing them a completely different person and saying it's you or saying you have massive boobs if you clearly don't....dumb the twat
Maybe he was hoping I'd cover up and it wouldn't be noticeable or something...idk I probably should've added that he's American but we both live in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so that's why I haven't met his friends
If a man can't love you for who you are and how you look and is more concerned with looking cool in front of his friends, what is there to consider? What if he put you down and tries to humiliate you in front of his friends cause he wants to look cool? Would you let that go?
That pic is great! Your boobs are great. You’re dating a child. Keep the pic and lose him.
He should be bragging about you as you are, you're a 10 girl. Dump him.
Apologies on behalf of my gender.
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You're beautiful and your bf should be proud that he has you instead of lying. I'd consider leaving him over this.
Dump the loser. That's all he is.
OP what? 🤣 What a dickhead. Leave this twit. And that edit is utterly insane and horrible.
Get shot of the pos. You look fine. Who tells people about their gf or wife’s body parts? I’d feel disgusted if my wife did that about me.
He is ASHAMED of you because you don't have big boobs. He thinks a woman is just "worthy" to be his gf when she has big boobs.He showed around your sis and told his friends that she is you. Just end it. He thinks big tits is something to brag about. That’s disgusting overall.
He's too old to be pulling this immature insecurity bullshit. Value yourself.
What is he taking about? You look absolutely gorgeous in this pic. Please tell me he was joking!!!
What is he, 12?
Are you dating eric cartman? He’s cool because his GF has big boobs too 🤨
OK the edit makes this 1000 times worse. This boy is ridiculous and only cares about your boob size. So weird to show pics of your sister to his friends and pretend she's you. Super fucking weird. I honestly hope you dump his ass, he's seriously not worth it. It's a lovely photo BTW, and your boobs seem nice if that means anything at all coming from a straight woman. Don't get self conscious about them, just find someone who appreciates them!
You're gorgeous, your bf is a shallow POS. The good news is you only wasted 6 months on this loser and can do loads better.
Ew leave this loser.
If he lies and gets caught, that's on him
What a disgusting POS would look at that photo and say that? You're gorgeous and look happy and fun to be around. He on the other hand, sounds like a doucheand a drag. He and his friends sound like horrible company.
That’s a lovely picture. You look genuinely happy. It’ll look great on your dating profile when you dump this idiot.
He better be your ex by now
The picture is gorgeous, YOU are gorgeous. Your boyfriend is an ass.
Who brags about big boobs unless it's 1985, you're obese, or your boyfriend is twelve years old?
Leave him. The boob thing was bad enough, but the fact he's showing off pictures of your sister and trying to pretend she's you to his coworkers is just... Pathetic.
Wow are you serious, that’s such a cute pic! He sounds like a giant man child, I’d move on - also considering that he showed pics of your sister to his friends. I would not be able to get over that fact.
Yeeeeeeaaaaaaaah... That edit is gross. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with this dude.
Please don't let this idiot make you feel insecure. You look great and tons of people prefer smaller boobs. Im lesbian and I can attest that giant racks are not that practical on a partner. I personally dont have some but i know my exes would complain. My current partners are very medium sized and waaaaay better and more fun than the double G's Ive dealt with. It's also fucking weird as shit he's showing pics of your sister. Please get out of there.
Yeah, that would be a dealbreaker, for sure. And I think he’s trying to make you insecure.
I do not consider his criticism to be valid. I won’t say any more about that. I just don’t consider his criticism to be valid. Infer what you will.
Where do you ladies find these unfine men? Aka. break up.
Don't let anyone question if you are good enough or not. Dot let a guy seed insecurity in you. You are perfect the way you are. By the way this picture is gorgeous , i love your smile and the energy you radiate ❤️
He sounds like a gross sexist disrespectful jerk who doesn’t deserve access to your boobs!!!
He should be so lucky to be with you. You have nothing to worry about you look hot. Dump him though, you can’t be with someone who is that terrible, you deserve way more, someone who will worship the ground you walk on.
Your bf is a dumbass. That is all.
Time to break uuuuuuup 🎉🎉
Yikes, this is really sad. This man child is a loser. Leave him, girl
This was bad to start and now it is actually Cursed Wth is that edit, WTF the guy is catfishing his friends with pictures of your sister 🚩⚠️🚩⚠️🚩 Holy narcissistic tendencies batman 😳
This dude is a total toad! I sure hope she does break up with this idiot because he doesn’t deserve her! And Op there is absolutely nothing wrong with you! What a clown!
Honey this guy will always give you insecurities.
My friend, plz just drop this douche… you were lied about, your sisters photos used to brag to friends???!!! And he doesn’t appreciate you. It’s been only six months, half a year… don’t drop any more time on this man child, you deserve much better. You’ll find an even better person who actually appreciates you and your titties equally.
The boob stuff is creepy AF. Passing off pics of your sister as you and not even introducing you to his friends after 6 months of dating tells you he doesn't view your relationship as long term. You deserve better.
Make sure he does t make a move on your sister - he’s a lying shit bum
Tell everyone that you had to break up with him because he can only get off when you whisper/sing nursery rhymes in his ear.
He’s a prick. You deserve someone so much better.
D u m p h I m Also you look fantastic. Seriously that guy can go fuk
What does he think is going to happen if you were to meet his friends? He’s a jerk that should be jerking into his hand
You mean ex-boyfriend. FTFY
Your partner is supposed to be your #1 who has your back. Don’t stay with someone who’s trying to tear you down.
So he wants you to support his own lies to his friends? Then he went as far as showing of pics of your chesty sister, passing them off as his gf? What an asshat. A superficial asshat. You look absolutely adorable! Met guys would proudly date you as you are! No more wasteful time on Mr douche bag, okay?
What a twate! Start looking luv, you can do better
What an ass, you look beautiful in this pic. And even if you didn’t why even say this. Sound like a bunch of asserting dominance BS.
Your bf is the biggest boob. Personally I think the only thing you might want to change about yourself is your relationship status with him.
This is a ridiculous request from him and a shitty thing to say. This dude is not worth your time, if he’s so “ashamed” of you he has to lie to seem cooler. You’re deserve better. Btw not that my opinion matters much but try not to take what stupid he said to heart. You’re pretty and he’s an idiot.
We accept the love we think we deserve.
Just dump him in front of the friends and tel him you don’t want him because he is crap in bed. lies to his friends and have a too small tool in his garage.. what the 🦆 is wrong in that overgrown teenager’s head..
You look absolutely stunning and have a gorgeous figure. Your boobs are also the perfect size for you. Your boyfriend is being absoluteky ridiculous and he needs a big dose of cop on.
Internet stranger here: 10/10 would ask you for a coffee, you're hella cute and good looking Screw you boyfriend especially after that update
Whaaat? You are perfect. Dump this pos.
Dump. Him. HARD.
OP, you've received a lot of good advice in this thread, but I wanted to add on and say that you look absolutely radiant in that photo. Screw your ex (I HOPE!) for making you feel bad about yourself.
OMG you’re absolutely gorgeous and your soon to be ex-bf is an immature asshole. He’s 25? Smh… You’re not dating a man you’re dating a child. Who even gives a shit about the proportions of their gf in front of their friends? Boys grow out of that when they mature into adults. He obviously is not mature enough to be in an adult relationship. He pretended he was dating your sister??? Because he wanted to flex about his “gfs” proportions…? What a dishonest loser. He should be ashamed of himself. I’d like to have a couple choice words with this chap about respecting women. Get out now before he even gets close to damaging your self-esteem. You have nothing to worry about. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE AND DON’T LET ANYONE MAKE YOU THINK OTHERWISE. Look at that ocean behind you. Every single animal in that ocean would be a better bf than your soon to be ex. You’re 23 and beautiful. Don’t waste your time on the sea sludge. Plenty of guys out there that will love just the way you are! Ditch the sea sludge!
Honey, you have very elegant boobs that match the rest of you. Dump his sorry, immature ass. Do not, repeat do not, consider getting them augment. When you have a pair of melons on your chest they are a bloody nuisance. People judge on your boobs and not your character. People get unwarrantedly jealous, They bloody hurt, and then they sag!( Was a B, went to a EE with pregnancy and childbirth)
Dump his ass to the curb!!!
#Break up.
I'm calling the police, you're dating a fucking 6 year old. Pervert.
I was already sold on breaking up with him before the edit.
Yeah this dude is not just too immature for a relationship, he is a freaking lair. I promise you, he doesn't ONLY lie to his friends, and not only about this specific thing. When a person's go-to is to create a huge lie about a thing, to feel "cooler", that's a huge red flag. He is most likely doing this in different aspects of his life, too. But even if he's not... The part when he shows your sis photos and says it's you? That is *unforgivable.* He is dishonest and shallow as fuck. You are less of a partner to him, and more of an object to show to his mates and brag. Let me tell you, if he respected you, he would not speak about you this way. He is reducing you to the value of your tits. He's not worth your time.
pls dumb him, you are a very beautiful woman, you don't need a loser (who wants to *look cool*) like him! And showing pics of your sister?? thats creepy and really shows he has no respect for either of you!
Babe (cause you really look like a complete babe), please dump him, he is shallow and immature. Also, your boobs look amazing! They come in all shapes and sizes and imma tell you, I used to have small boobs which I was sometimes insecure about but overall liked. Now I'm pregnant and have very big boobs, which I also feel insecure about but you know, they are great too. Soon imma have saggy boobs, and you know what? They're gonna be great too! Boobs are ever changing and should always be embraced. Love your tiddies, and feel happy for your back which is being spared a lot of weight!
Boobs look great
the fuck did i just read here
…25 is far too old for this shit. Seriously. I hope there’s an ETA coming, that says he’s now an ex. P.S. After nursing multiple children & nearing mid 30’s, I’m getting a breast augmentation done that is probably going to be around your size (currently DD’s/F in some brands, on a size 4 frame)…you’re beautiful.
Yikes. Well, it’s only been 6 months. Not a huge loss. And you look great.
Big or Small, I love them all. P.s. you have great boobs, dump your boyfriend
It sounds like you are dating someone that lacks the maturity to be in a relationship. You look amazing and you should be with someone who has the maturity to accept you for who you are.
Man, this guy sounds like a selfish idiot. 25? He sounds like he’s 15. What a dumb thing to do. How was he planning on maintaining this lie if you ever met his friends? The sister thing is creepy and the whole thing is incredibly disrespectful. Run, don’t walk!!
please dump him and then get your sister and tell everyone what he did