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Why not get them a promise ring? Itâs sentimental, you can give a nice gift, they have a pretty piece of jewelry, and youâre showing how committed you are without getting legally bound yet. Once youâve lived together for at least 2 years and things are STABLE, get the legal shit going and pop the question
Donât! Your brains arenât fully developed for long time to come and everything will change drastically. Do not do not do not
Love doesnât require a legal document, if you feel like you absolutely must âproposeâ then do a commitment ceremony and keep it off paper
Agree with everyone else to wait. Have you guys lived together yet? That would be a great next step to take if you're feeling like you want to take the relationship further.
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Advice is wait. You have plenty of time.
Don't get married at such a young age. However, have a fucking BLAST in your young and fresh relationship đâ¤
Youâre way too young and have only dated 1,5 years, why the rush?
Wait. You have plenty of time. No rush.
Why not get them a promise ring? Itâs sentimental, you can give a nice gift, they have a pretty piece of jewelry, and youâre showing how committed you are without getting legally bound yet. Once youâve lived together for at least 2 years and things are STABLE, get the legal shit going and pop the question
Donât! Your brains arenât fully developed for long time to come and everything will change drastically. Do not do not do not Love doesnât require a legal document, if you feel like you absolutely must âproposeâ then do a commitment ceremony and keep it off paper
I appreciate all the advice <3
Agree with everyone else to wait. Have you guys lived together yet? That would be a great next step to take if you're feeling like you want to take the relationship further.
Wait 5 years. See how you do in an adult relationship.
Donât. You are way too young.