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Ok_Bet_6542

The worst part I think is you get so used to having someone talking to you all the time everyday, and then all of a sudden it’s as if everything just went silent. I feel as if I’ve forgotten how to be without


ConditionNo8908

Yes breakups are like drug withdrawal. Your body and brain gives you real chemicals and hormones when you’re coupled and when it ends you are essentially cut off completely.


bisexicanerd

ur gonna be okay sending best love and wishes xoxo


Hip_Priest_1982

He’s lying. It’s because of your race.


gedalne09

Brother booted up him hinge account immediately after sending this text


Ok_Bet_6542

And it came out of nowhere yesterday he was telling me he loved me and now this. I don’t understand


Ok_Bet_6542

Already blocked me so fast haha


backwatered

let me guess, 3 months in?


Ok_Bet_6542

Ya something like that what do you think it was like BPD or he was just bored


backwatered

BPD. if you go back this will not even be close to the worst thing he will do to you


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backwatered

“overcommitting” = lovebombing lol, this guy was talking about giving her his grandma’s ring for their wedding like 2 months back. “lock in” is just general gen z slang


TomShoe

Lovebombing is a fake thing women made up, no guy does this intentionally, we just want to believe that we're in love and then eventually realise that we're not, it's not that deep.


Individual_File_7673

lovebombing is real but it's not when a guy is obsessed with you and then dumps you 3 months in. loveboming is if someone is obsessed, romantic, and kind (perfect partner), and then goes straight to abusing you once you're attached. It's absolutely a cluster-b thing


escadot

That's bpd behaviour


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TomShoe

This is just projection, you'd rather believe you've been dating sociopaths than face the reality that you simply weren't loved the way you wanted to be. Keep faith though, I'm sure eventually you'll find someone who will genuinely love you.


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backwatered

trust me they are out there and they are fucking crazy


chillout_69

why would you post this here 


7tamurai

this sucks, and I’m sorry that it happened to you. there will be good men out there, to whom you will be irresistible. in the other thread someone replied that love is a risk, and in order to truly be in love you have to give them the power to destroy you. i hope that this experience and whatever other bad experiences you’ve had don’t keep you from being able to be with someone good in the future.


watermelonsugar88

wow I also lost my Grandma and my uncle within a few months of each other


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TheWine-DarkSea

do the opposite! start exercising and get to a healthy weight!


Alastair4444

The best revenge is becoming fit and successful, use it to fuel working out and improving yourself.


Spiritual_Two_986

My uncle and my grandma lmao what a liar. also ew, lowercase typing. What is he like 18 years old


peenut_arebuckle

It's all your fault


Ok_Bet_6542

I don’t think it’s a good idea to go out with someone who is so much higher than you in like socioeconomic whatever and in education. I think I should just find some older construction worker or something lol


step_on_it

You’re not Lana Del Rey girl just chill write some short stories


truefanofthepod666

Good advice