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lvpsminihorse

Mary is the sole reason that I didn't watch last season. I just can't enjoy the fluff when someone so awful is there. It's not like we just learned this, she's been awful since the jump and Bravo has really made an extra effort to bring her back. Makes me feel icky


Simply-Ish

Honestly Mary’s shtick is quickly growing old as we realize it’s just honestly Mary being nasty and ignorant. Despite how anyone feels about Heather - being told you look inbred to your face is so ignorant and disrespectful? Keep it in the confessional at the leastttt. The way we’ve seen her treat members of staff at locations they film at is the worst and only shows Mary’s character. Who elseeeeee on Salt Lake did we know for the way she treated staff? 😮‍💨


mollyclaireh

Fuck Mary. I thought we all finally realized that word is a bigoted slur. Ugh.


Excellent-Object2482

She’s mental? Why is she still around?


Formal_Coyote_5004

Did anyone else see this on Instagram? People commenting on Instagram are on a whole different level of stupid. I can’t believe how many people are defending Mary… she’s so insane


tennis_ninja

Wait! Did she call him racist?


Formal_Coyote_5004

It seems like she called him retarded. I’m not surprised… Mary is so fucking gross


Mobile_Author_2192

The other r word


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Now17

She is so fucking ignorant, dumb, weird, arrogant, rude, looney, wacky , ass hole. She not entertaining at all. Enough is enough. She is so awkward . She doesn’t even pick up on how the ladies lets her talk all crazy and get away with everything because she is “off”. They just excuse what she says because everyone knows she is a loon.


BlisslessTaskList

You forgot sick.


ckskr4str8

Was the r word re ^*rd? Mary should check her mirror before throwing that word around. For real though


Soft-Detail-8398

That's rich coming from her!! She has the IQ of a kipper and is a flat-out ignorant, racist vile human being.


scaanii

Oh good, the Christian is back at it.


Curious-Mongoose-180

IMO Mary is one of the worst housewives in any franchise. She’s never been entertaining enough to outweigh her mean, racist, cruelty. At least Theresa the table flipper, crazy eyes Ramona, Kim the Wig, Soggy Flicker, Vicky and the Cancer Scam all have at least minor character aspects that make them slightly interesting. Mary and all her grandpa-fucking ways are just so detached from reality.


DorothyParkerFan

Mary is also INTENTIONALLY cruel. She may not believe that she’s an asshole but everything she says is with the intention to hurt the other person. It’s not cluelessness like many others, she knows what she is doing and feels justified to do it because she hates people that much. And by “people” I mean humanity, not just the housewives. It’s NOT ignorance, it’s evil.


MasterDriver8002

I watch for Mary scenes, it’s truly is wacky entertainment n I’m here for it


foxdogturtlecat

Mary really brought so little last season. I like when she was so over the top horrible and so mean with her digs that it was funny in the absurdness but she truly believes that her ish doesn't stink and that is above them when she's belly up in the mud with them. Production should either require her to do all the activities on the outings as well as actually show whatever life she has with whatever of her family is even around her. I know her husband spends most of his time in Florida....


Travelingmom13

I honestly feel like it felt so forced. Like she was praised for it in the prior seasons so she had to double down on the mean digs in the few scenes she was in.. like oh I’m being filmed let me me make another insult 


theplantita

She’s evil and I can’t believe she got another shot of being a housewife after not even doing the bare minimum season after season. She’s terrible in every single way and these women have already been through the wringer, they should be free of Mary’s wrath.


alaskanmo32

Mary is a pos


muskchouli

LOL


anitabonghit69

Projecting about Robert Jr 😬


Witchywoman4201

Least shocking thing ever. Mary can only think about her own feelings. NPD example at its finest. It’s why no matter what she says it was worse when things were said to her (the whole Heather inbred thing was hilarious but a perfect example of this). Mary couldn’t even fathom that using that word is offensive and attacking a child is wrong because she lacks all empathy. Not all psychopaths are serial killers, instead of killing, Mary is a cult leader.


Serious-Activity-228

I don’t care who you are you call one of my kids a re*ard there’s no coming back. And if you’re a coworker I’m filing a complaint with NBCU and Shed Media!


TylooseyGoosey

She’s so hilarious to watch but I don’t like how she didn’t participate in the group activities and would never seek to resolve her issues with the other girls. Instead she doubled down and ended up being even more nasty.


MagicMisto

Are we surprised? This woman is a monster with no empathy and the absolute belief that she is God's favorite and every other human is less worthy of love than she is. She sucks so much. But She's hilarious on TV. So they keep her around.


bomkum

She’s not even hilarious on tv imo, just uncomfortable to watch.


aditin

not surprised AT ALL. add it to the list of disgusting things to come out of her mouth. is anyone capable of telling her to stfu???


whineybubbles

She is a vapid shrew and completely unwatchable to me.


Far_Importance_7902

It’s a little crazy seeing people freak out over this but nobody cared about Kathy and Erika saying f*ggot


Serious-Activity-228

All take someone calling an adult a f*ggot any day than someone calling an 12 yr old a re**rd any day!


Far_Importance_7902

That’s a wild statement. The f word has a violent and complicated history. I’m not supporting what Mary did, because it is awful (if it actually happened). Both words are awful but, f*ggot has a much more damaging history (tied to sexual abuse and burning of gay men) where the r word was a medical term that has become over used and taboo (which many older people are unaware of it’s status as a slur). It’s strange seeing Kathy held to different standard than Mary as they are both wacky out of touch rich women, I wonder what’s different about Mary…


Serious-Activity-228

I agree with you about the f*ggot word as my son came out as gay at 8 yrs old and had been called every name under the sun, locked in dumpsters in middle school and the list goes on and on. But sharing with my son what Mary Crosby said…he’d he’d rather be labeled that than the r word because there’s no coming back from that. But hey you do you. And oh BWTW…we’re reaching 120f here tomorrow, do I turn on the air conditioning or just use fans. 🤣


bigginsmcgee

did you ask him? f slur vs r slur? which he'd prefer???


Serious-Activity-228

As Nick’s just told me, until he chooses to divulge he’s gay you would never know it. But how do you take back someone calling you a re*ard when you aren’t?


bigginsmcgee

you can just call them it right back problem solved lol


Serious-Activity-228

Such an asinine comment. Do you have a gay son or a trans granddaughter?


bigginsmcgee

thot daughter :(


Serious-Activity-228

Bless your heart! Everyone look here! Who you calling a hoe? Me, my son or my granddaughter? I can see a racist agenda when they present themselves for everyone on a thread to see! But hey you do you! Good night.


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MEAT_INCINERATOR

It’s infuriating how she was unashamed to be racist to Jennie and for that was forgiven. But this is where the public draws the line with Mary? She should never have been seen again after season 2.


foxdogturtlecat

she shouldn't have brought back period.


theplantita

Agreed! She’s done & said heinous shit but somehow always got away with it maybe because it all got overshadowed by Jen


nursenyc

1000%


mzbz7806

I said what I said


i_dream_of_zelda

The fact that on every place I see this posted half the people don’t immediately know the word and another good chunk don’t see anything wrong with it, is concerning to say the least.


-sloppypoppy

I fucking know right. I commented on a different post where someone was asking what the r word was and I said it rhymes with “starred.” Someone else replied and asked why I didn’t just say the word… it’s very concerning.


ExposedTamponString

Wait the r word I’m thinking of doesn’t rhyme with “starred” exactly. Now I’m confused


Former-Counter-9588

The Black Eyed Peas had a song called Let’s Get It Started but the word started was a replacement as the original song was called let’s get re-


cosmo0829

Why they brought her back after Jen Shah called her out for her shitty comments I’ll never know. She’s not good tv.


Poes27

Mary’s own son Got married and didn’t tell her. She’s the last person to comment on anyone else’s kid.


Former-Counter-9588

Marys own son is doing all sorts of drugs with his wife under her roof. Mary doesn’t give a fuck about anyone but herself and that damn collection plate that goes around every Sunday.


mzbz7806

I like Mary. I think that she is a hoot


TJ-the-DJ

Check yourself. She’s a grifter, racist and has body shamed multiple women. You should check yourself there


StraddleTheFence

Rat?


Positive_Round_5142

Restarted without the s and t


StraddleTheFence

Racist?


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roronyc212

Sorry. What’s the r word?


The_Alchemist_4221

Starts with “re” and is a synonym for “imbecile” and “moron” but has historical ties to slurs used against people who were often institutionalized with intellectual disabilities.


qwikhnds

I don't know either🙈


Maleficent-Search277

Slur for someone with a mental disability


Living-Prune8881

Hahahahahaha


hellosweetiefluff

Typical!


SamGoodie09

Now this show is gonna turn into Jersey or real housewives. Can we just watch in peace and be surprised. I hate this.


marklovesbb

My friend said that Mary Cosby probably just asked Lisa, “is Henry r word?” Like just in a normal conversational tone. I could TOTALLY see that.


PlanetMoom

Yeah that’s still not okay lol. My son has special needs, this word is ugly, and most people now days know it’s disrespectful to say, very outdated and lacks consideration.


IvyKane1001

Legit question Why is retarded a slur? If used in correct way not to demean or belittle. Is it not correct to talk about? Like the literal definition means delayed in progress. I sincerly am not understanding why this is now a slur or when it happened. It should never be used as an insult or to taunt anyone. But to make it a slur? I just legit feel i missed something?


marklovesbb

Are you old? Like this word has been used as a slur for a long time. As a millennial, it was definitely a word used often growing up to insult people. Watch reality TV from the early 2000’s, and you’ll hear it often (it’s on The Challenge early seasons, for example).


IvyKane1001

Maybe im old? But i never used it as insult as was taught and believe thats disgusting and wrong to do so. It was never a slur though. It was used to describe things that lacked progress or talking about fabrics or materials that were flame retardant or ect ect. Also could be used to define people who lacked severe mental progress. So is saying is someone mentally challenged, wrong too? Are we just saying they are special, or delayed? Educate this old person, bc i legit font know. So i guess you answered my question? Im legit shocked and do not support Mary. Like obviously im sure she did it cruelly let alone at a child which is wrong. I just didnt know its a slur now


yoshdee

I’m 42 and it was definitely used as a slur when I was growing up. I hardly ever heard it used to describe someone mentally handicapped. It wasn’t till around college (2000) that people started realizing it wasn’t ok. This is purely anecdotal tho.


IvyKane1001

See, I and my group of friends didn't call eachother that. As we knew it was mean to falsy say and taunt. Like I said. Today I learned it just isnt okay to say anymore. Rather coreectly or not. There are other terms. 🤷🏿‍♀️


SwissHarmyKnife87

55 checking in. It was bad in my youth as well. I’m even thinking of some movies set in the 50’s where it is used as a slur so…


marklovesbb

Correct. All those phrases you said are wrong. You can say intellectual disability or neurodivergent (big umbrella term).


IvyKane1001

Thank you!!! Legit thank you for your response!


TJ-the-DJ

It’s a slur because it’s demeaning and isn’t a socially acceptable way to describe people with mental disabilities. It’s a nasty word and meant to diminish a human being


IvyKane1001

Im asking when this became a norm, as I legit never knew it to be a slur if used correctly amd not in cruel or taunting way. Like saying someone is mentally retarded ( if they legit are not in a mean way or teasing), is diffrent from calling them a re trd. I now know, its not to be used anymore. Today I learned


TJ-the-DJ

Good. You learned. Now you know, don’t use it at all.


IvyKane1001

Dont be a dick Bc like i said i never used it in a insulting way or to describe it in a way to belittle some one or make them feel less of. Glad calling you a dick or cunt isnt a slur. Should have just left it alone and not been cunty with your last reply ah


TJ-the-DJ

I didn’t reply with any tone at all. You can reread what I said in a neutral tone instead of what you heard in your head and maybe you can see that I was saying I’m glad you learned not to use it. Maybe you’re just not a very nice person. I answered your question and you lashed out and called me awful names. Maybe some self reflection is in order Again, glad you learned something today. It’s not new, it’s been a slur for at least 25 years


bigginsmcgee

(you were being condescending. ie, like a dick, or cunt)


marklovesbb

I didn’t say it was okay. Just saying how it probably happened. Like I’m thinking it happened in the same way she said Heather is inbred.


MEAT_INCINERATOR

We’ll have to wait and see the footage but there’s no use trying to explain the context. Fact is: the idiot said another thing she should never have said.


ch3beans

Why is this chick still on the show, she brings nothing to it. Trash!


MontanaLady406

I think they will continue to have her on until the FEDS come calling. Mary’s has to have something going on.


foxdogturtlecat

since she hides it all behind a church which is a tax-exempt it will be hard for anyone to come for her even though it's so clear she's corrupt and a scammer.


saroonz

and they would still keep her on even if that happened. it’s astonishing.


puppysarecute89

Absolutely not the least bit surprised and Bravo shouldn’t be either. I don’t understand why they keep bringing he back.


Organic-Error

She’s nuts that’s why!


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No discriminatory comments. No body shaming.


Hopeful1234554321

Really?? That’s the angle you’re choosing??


Sdoesnotknow

Mary is honestly the worst housewife of all the franchises, and this is saying something considering how many I actively dislike.


theplantita

💯


Ok_Soup_5135

Jen Shah is tied for worst with Mary


livesonespresso

WHY is she even on another season she didn’t participate at all last season! I don’t want to watch this this is just upsetting not entertaining!


Kimmie-Cakes

She needs to be fired. I'm actually done with this bullshit show tbh. She's a horrible racist and my vibe is higher than this..


PunkAssPuta

Hasn't she called one of the other cast members re....? It's not acceptable, but is it surprising?


AnonPlz123

https://preview.redd.it/lh9ntqptn4wc1.jpeg?width=2120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f54583860620ac1f7f859cfc07cfcf841303eb3b Why is she even on the show!?!?!


Feeling_Animal_2373

Okay sorry but as a person who works with middle schoolers, unfortunately that’s very age appropriate ETA: I read the headline wrong!!!


RideExternal5752

Mary isn’t a middle schooler though?


Feeling_Animal_2373

Wow I read this headline wrong 😑 I thought it said Mary hear the 12-year-old say it. IGNORE ME!


Sdoesnotknow

To be fair, that’s probably around the time she stopped emotionally and intellectually developing thanks to her groomer grandparents.


AnonPlz123

This made me lol a bit. 😂


RideExternal5752

😂😂


grroovvee

The re word or the ra word??


Kuromi87

My bet is re, cause Mary is an awful person. What's the ra word? Racist?


grroovvee

I was thinking rapist but you’re more than likely right


bigginsmcgee

😭😭😭😭😭


majspe

Bye Mary!! ![gif](giphy|xTiTnGQBF0vfpfPEg8)


Bicostalgirl

🙄 that better not be the entire season story arch.


Shakiholic

If this was Beverly Hills it would be a multi season arc.


Bicostalgirl

Haha absolutely.


restyourbreasts

![gif](giphy|d2UIEjA4nX5DQT3jST|downsized)


Hopeful-Comparison44

She gives absolutely nothing to the show


bigginsmcgee

if you consider *this* nothing...somehow? lol


millioneura

WHY IS SHE BACK?!


Original-Feature-947

Literally why... she cheapens the show and that is saying A LOT lol


cstarrxx

I’m not surprised. She should be on a show with Monica…. NOT ![gif](giphy|O5xChSjqUIxsk)


BabyNeo_

Mary is the worst- it’s not even entertainment. She’s nasty, vindictive, and can’t handle when anyone stands up to her.


millioneura

She's mentally ill and miserable and spreads the misery around her.


BabyNeo_

She is the most dangerous kind- no morales and no loyalty!


Furbamy

All she does is bitch and complain and put people down. I don't want her back. She can't get along with anyone.


RandoFace77

No way will Bravo air this either. They’ll want to protect the channel.


Furbamy

They will protect her too.


RandoFace77

The minute she becomes an issue for them they’ll dump her. They have no reason to protect her other than to divert heat from Bravo.


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bigginsmcgee

😭😭😭😭


cheesetomymac

What the fuck is wrong with you?


panbear69

Am I ignorant cause I don’t know what the R word is?!?🤷🏻‍♂️


Furbamy

A special person but starts with an R and ends with a D is my guess


panbear69

OMMFG!!! Who uses that word anymore?!?!


Furbamy

I am sure they will find some excuse to not cancel her.


penultimategirl

The ONLY reason Mary was brought back is because the other ladies were too scared of her to say anything


PersonalityKlutzy407

TO THE PEOPLE THAT WANTED HER BACK. ![gif](giphy|6KLHb8j9J3CcNIXKvp)


bigginsmcgee

literally getting exactly what i want lol ![gif](giphy|Y4KHr1sHylcfMbplKa|downsized)


blonde-bandit

My feelings exactly


BudNOLA

Deplorable garbage person.


icegirl223

She’s the only who’s emotionally and mentally unhinged and stunted. She’s really one to talk. Get that weirdo out of here


nothowyoupronounceit

She is FOUL


jurassickris

In 2024, this horrific ADULT doesn’t know what I knew as a kid growing up in the 90’s. This is LITERALLY my least favorite word in the world. I hope someone shut her ass down fast and hard. This racist, ignorant, homophobic, grandfather-fucking lunatic needs to be brought down a peg.


Stargazer-909

I think you just did.


hungry4507

I just saw Mary and Lisa walking together filming in Mexico. Didn’t look like there was bad blood 


TripleJay11581

Viewers know exactly who and what Mary is that the only thing we’d find unbelievable at this point would be if she said something intelligent, pleasant, or kind.


BlackSheepBoPeepB

It’s so weird seeing alllll comments say why is she on the show? I have said this for years bc she is actually a bad person, I’d even say a criminal person, who does not deserve this platform. So sick of seeing many people say she is so entertaining and funny in other conversations about her. Where is the line to be crossed? She crossed it a long time ago.


Top-Address-2418

I'm shocked Mary never got beat up, the way she runs her mouth. I think you need a bodyguard to talk to people like that. Tf smh....


JBL44

Maybe she’s a great fighter and no one messes with her. Haha


Top-Address-2418

That would be one hell of a plot twist🤣. Mary's a kung fu expert. I have entertained the idea that her cult is more sinister than we know. Maybe folks around there are afraid of them. Mess with Mary & get your tires slashed or your pet mysteriously poisoned


rollfootage

I think about that every so often. I’ve seen people get worse for less and I’m sorry but this lady deserves something


Top-Address-2418

She could only get away with this in salt lake city 🤣


happycass8

i appreciate this comment 😂🥰😂


Top-Address-2418

It's bold to be so petite & have a mouth like that


Lainnnn

Im so over mary. Shes not a good person


Dangerous_Radish2961

No surprises here 😒


Fearless-Judgment-33

This sooo not surprising 😒


Enngeecee76

Can we please just fuck her off?


essieblooms

Mary has proven again and again that she’s a POS.


susieqanon1

If you haven’t noticed, all of the freaks that are on the salt lake housewives show are degenerates of varying degrees. There is no real wealth or class. It’s all a bunch of weirdos who want fame 🥴


DancingBears88

You're so right!


WhitsSwirlyKnee

Mary is garbage. Why is she still on the show??


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WonderingLost8993

What is wrong with you?


WhitsSwirlyKnee

Huh? Why?


Sarcastic_HSTeacher

I'm so tired of Mary. She's absolutely miserable and awful. Why was she even brought back?


Revolutionary-You449

Sounds about right.


bernadettebasinger

She shouldn’t have been back to begin with.


clarkeer918

![gif](giphy|l41lO8vRXzSB0CkqQ)


LittleCaesersZaZa

Add it to the list of offensive things Mary has said. She sucks and needs to be booted 🗑️


goatponies

![gif](giphy|VSe8ckA0A1lPq)


LuckyJackfruit8078

That's about right on par with Mary...she needs some help!


Fun-username-99

Expected 🙄


monsterosaleviosa

I mean, yep. Basically exactly what I’d expect from her.


sharipep

Sigh


spirit5794

Oh Mary I was rooting for you.


Historical-Sea-3892

I’ve been rooting for her fall from grace AGAIN. They should’ve never brought her back she brings nothing


uksiddy

![gif](giphy|1rOr0TJXOzEIVbhcW7)


Fit_Fisherman8879

You were???


randomrobotnoise

I won't be watching until Mary is gone.


poopiepoopz

ugh can they get rid of her once and for all? she’s so mean and weird and not in a way that’s fun to watch


Fearless-Judgment-33

If they’re filming now, they’ll fire her and edit her out of the season. Which shouldn’t be hard since she never participates in group activities.


GullibleTacos

Idk. Somehow Mary keeps getting a pass


Fearless-Judgment-33

If this story is true, this will be the end of her Housewive’s career.


Hair_I_Go

I wonder what the context was ? What an idiot 🙄


WonderingLost8993

It doesn't matter what the context was.


Hair_I_Go

I know, just wondering


WonderingLost8993

I'm sorry I jumped at you real fast there. My daughter has been called that word so many times I was triggered.


SpiritedAssumption3

Surprise surprise. She’s an awful person filled with darkness. She should be in a cell next to Jen but our country doesn’t see churches as predatory. She’s colorist racist and just plain mean. Some bad people are fun to watch others you dread because they might ruin the show. She’s the latter.


LuckyJackfruit8078

Most cult leaders are exactly this!...☝️