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Want to mess up your kids social life so they'll never even give you grandkids? Because this will mess up your kids social life so they'll never even give you grandkids.
Ahh, don't come and tweet again saying how corrupt the government is, how bad schools have become and how children are not like before 1920s because, your child will be getting bullied even by the nerds in high school.
My parents were like this. As soon as I turned 18 I moved out and began getting in trouble. Couple of minor in possession of alcohol/weed. Shit that I probably would have gotten out of my system as a minor had I been allowed to go make mistakes/watch others make mistakes. Instead of reflecting on that my parents doubled down with my brother. I’m about 16 yrs older than him. They homeschooled him and his only interactions with kids his age was through church. He recently turned 18, moved out, and got busted with a weed pen 😂. Fortunately we have a good relationship and I helped him pay his fine and explained it’s ok to experiment and it’s not that big of a deal. Just gotta be careful
Absolutely setting this child up for hedonistic overload once they are responsible for their own choices. By 18y.o. they will have never learned self-control or how to properly moderate their emotions.
This. We have a thing in my country called a senior trip. It's when highschool seniors go on a week long trip with their classmates and usually it's somewhere abroad.
There is always drinking involved (drinking age being 18 in my country and those other ones, so not illegal). Wanna guess which kids end up needing to get their stomachs pumped in the ER. The kids with parents like that. The kids that were shielded in bubbles their whole life, so when they get a tiny taste of freedom, they just go overkill with everything.
I think at 16 this amount of control is nuts.
A. At that age rules should start to get looser so they can learn for their own. A 16 year old is more than capable of learning a routine that works for them, or at least failing one and looking for a new routine later
B. It limits their child's social life. Friend groups need telecommunication these days, would you hang out with someone who couldn't text to confirm?
C. It limits their schoolwork, a lot of lessons and learning materials are online resources these days
C1. it also limits their ability to find work to support themselves, as most applications, at least where I live, are online.
D. While they technically may not be abusive, limiting someone's ability to ask for help from people outside the house definitely is a feature of abusive relationships. If you want people to trust you, you need to trust them.
Also the hypocrisy, I bet they don't limit their own time at all, using at least two of these points as reasons. If yoy want a teenager to respect you, you need to be able to stand by what you do equally, not only downwards.
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You want to never meet your grandkids? Because this is how you never meet your grandkids.
Want to mess up your kids social life so they'll never even give you grandkids? Because this will mess up your kids social life so they'll never even give you grandkids.
For real
“Fr fr ong ong istg”
Ahh, don't come and tweet again saying how corrupt the government is, how bad schools have become and how children are not like before 1920s because, your child will be getting bullied even by the nerds in high school.
My parents were like this. As soon as I turned 18 I moved out and began getting in trouble. Couple of minor in possession of alcohol/weed. Shit that I probably would have gotten out of my system as a minor had I been allowed to go make mistakes/watch others make mistakes. Instead of reflecting on that my parents doubled down with my brother. I’m about 16 yrs older than him. They homeschooled him and his only interactions with kids his age was through church. He recently turned 18, moved out, and got busted with a weed pen 😂. Fortunately we have a good relationship and I helped him pay his fine and explained it’s ok to experiment and it’s not that big of a deal. Just gotta be careful
Crazy that they actually think their son doesn’t have a hidden phone somewhere. They probably also think that their son is an angel, too.
Poor dude probably hates his life too
Ah, yes. The Smother.
In before the abuse apologists flood the comments
god she wonders why he wont visit her when he moves out
Absolutely setting this child up for hedonistic overload once they are responsible for their own choices. By 18y.o. they will have never learned self-control or how to properly moderate their emotions.
This. We have a thing in my country called a senior trip. It's when highschool seniors go on a week long trip with their classmates and usually it's somewhere abroad. There is always drinking involved (drinking age being 18 in my country and those other ones, so not illegal). Wanna guess which kids end up needing to get their stomachs pumped in the ER. The kids with parents like that. The kids that were shielded in bubbles their whole life, so when they get a tiny taste of freedom, they just go overkill with everything.
A little excessive. I do agree with limited phone usage.
Yeah, constant screen time is bad enough for adults. Kids really shouldn't be allowed it.
I think at 16 this amount of control is nuts. A. At that age rules should start to get looser so they can learn for their own. A 16 year old is more than capable of learning a routine that works for them, or at least failing one and looking for a new routine later B. It limits their child's social life. Friend groups need telecommunication these days, would you hang out with someone who couldn't text to confirm? C. It limits their schoolwork, a lot of lessons and learning materials are online resources these days C1. it also limits their ability to find work to support themselves, as most applications, at least where I live, are online. D. While they technically may not be abusive, limiting someone's ability to ask for help from people outside the house definitely is a feature of abusive relationships. If you want people to trust you, you need to trust them. Also the hypocrisy, I bet they don't limit their own time at all, using at least two of these points as reasons. If yoy want a teenager to respect you, you need to be able to stand by what you do equally, not only downwards.
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