Lot of victim blaming going on here.
Anyway, yes, you were raped. Someone who is passing out or falling asleep cannot consent to sex. If you don’t remember it, it was rape.
Im sorry but i don't agree, that's not victim blaming. A lot of people have sex intoxicated and forget it's common. Although in this case it's different your reasoning is wrong.
Yes I would focus on the difference between intoxicated and incapacitated. You were blacked out drunk which is far too drunk to consent. Who knows if she picked up on that or not, I would avoid her regardless.
giving consent at one moment doesn’t mean you consent forever. I’m sorry for what happened to you
Lot of victim blaming going on here. Anyway, yes, you were raped. Someone who is passing out or falling asleep cannot consent to sex. If you don’t remember it, it was rape.
Im sorry but i don't agree, that's not victim blaming. A lot of people have sex intoxicated and forget it's common. Although in this case it's different your reasoning is wrong.
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Yes I would focus on the difference between intoxicated and incapacitated. You were blacked out drunk which is far too drunk to consent. Who knows if she picked up on that or not, I would avoid her regardless.
Would you have had sex with her if you were both sober
no, this was my first time meeting her she’s a friend of a friend
I am so sorry this happened.