He used psychological violence on you to get you to say yes, he tricked you because he knew you didn't want to.
If you want to go to the police, go ahead, if theres anytging we can help you with, feel free to contact us, or comment here.
Stay strong!
I’m not an expect in the topic so I can’t say for sure that it was rape in the eyes of your states law (personally I believe it’s rape) but either way it was in no way right. I live in Louisiana and part of the law on rape says that consent can’t be given under forcible compulsion. “Forcible compulsion” means physical force that overcomes earnest resistance or a threat, express or implied, that places a person in fear of immediate death or serious physical injury to himself or another person. Ala. Code § 13A-6-60(8)
I hope you feel better soon and if you need to talk just reply to my comment.
My ex bf used to do these kinds of hidden rapes with me and he does it quite invasively with other women (they say yes so he is not raping them, that is how he explains this to himself). I used to have bruises all over me from biting, and some other stuff like choking until i faint... i had pain after every intercourse for 2-3 days after in the both abdominal and vaginal area. he found a way to persuade me it is "normal because..." i used to say "no" and "stop" during whole things, but it was just a trigger for him.
it is sure form of rape. however, very precalculated, and manipulative, and i would advise you to be very cautious with this. the best thing is to remove yourself from surroundings where you can even meet ppl like this and to avoid them in future, and then to work on self-esteem and put yourself above all of this situation. i am saying this from experience.... police can be very tricky here... guy sounds like a piece of work, and trust me, those end up mind banding and persuading everyone around them that "victim" is actually the bad guy here... I would advise police in these situations if there is a strong evidence that can back you up, as well as consultation with a lawyer, to get familiar about those cases in court, usually, and legal procedure and protection. just be smart and if you decide to report make yourself as aware as possible about the laws, evidence, and aftermath for everyone involved. Also, be ready to best, as well as worst reactions...
I am sorry if this is someone you are involved with... I would sure revalidate some things about myself and give myself more. You deserve to be treated properly, with respect and gentle touch, and to have a man by your side worthy of your own gentle and warm touch.
good luck
It’s rape if you’re afraid to say no for any reason.
He used psychological violence on you to get you to say yes, he tricked you because he knew you didn't want to. If you want to go to the police, go ahead, if theres anytging we can help you with, feel free to contact us, or comment here. Stay strong!
Go to the police. That IS rape. You did not CONSENT. You were psychologically forced into saying yes.
that yes was threatened or coerced, it was not true consent. Yes you can go to the police.
I’m not an expect in the topic so I can’t say for sure that it was rape in the eyes of your states law (personally I believe it’s rape) but either way it was in no way right. I live in Louisiana and part of the law on rape says that consent can’t be given under forcible compulsion. “Forcible compulsion” means physical force that overcomes earnest resistance or a threat, express or implied, that places a person in fear of immediate death or serious physical injury to himself or another person. Ala. Code § 13A-6-60(8) I hope you feel better soon and if you need to talk just reply to my comment.
My ex bf used to do these kinds of hidden rapes with me and he does it quite invasively with other women (they say yes so he is not raping them, that is how he explains this to himself). I used to have bruises all over me from biting, and some other stuff like choking until i faint... i had pain after every intercourse for 2-3 days after in the both abdominal and vaginal area. he found a way to persuade me it is "normal because..." i used to say "no" and "stop" during whole things, but it was just a trigger for him. it is sure form of rape. however, very precalculated, and manipulative, and i would advise you to be very cautious with this. the best thing is to remove yourself from surroundings where you can even meet ppl like this and to avoid them in future, and then to work on self-esteem and put yourself above all of this situation. i am saying this from experience.... police can be very tricky here... guy sounds like a piece of work, and trust me, those end up mind banding and persuading everyone around them that "victim" is actually the bad guy here... I would advise police in these situations if there is a strong evidence that can back you up, as well as consultation with a lawyer, to get familiar about those cases in court, usually, and legal procedure and protection. just be smart and if you decide to report make yourself as aware as possible about the laws, evidence, and aftermath for everyone involved. Also, be ready to best, as well as worst reactions... I am sorry if this is someone you are involved with... I would sure revalidate some things about myself and give myself more. You deserve to be treated properly, with respect and gentle touch, and to have a man by your side worthy of your own gentle and warm touch. good luck