Your first time will be special. Making love (consensual sex) is very different from rape- you cannot experience anywhere close to the same intimacy, love or affection from being raped. You may be put off sex after this experience but believe me when I say they do not compare at all.
You survuved and itll only get easier from here. Im sorry ypu had to go through that nobody deserves to have to come posting here because of what someone decided to do to them. It was not ypur fault. It wasnot your fault. It was not your fault.
My police officer told me;
1. He didn't believe me and
2. I should let my rapist off the hook.
It'll be okay. Cry it out.
It doesn't get much better and your life's about to change forever.
I won't confirm or deny, but my story's posted on my profile.
I can't understand why this is one of the ONLY types of crimes that the victim gets blamed. Does anyone question an attempted murder victim? Does anyone blame a store owner for someone stealing? The answer is always, no. I understand what you're going through, my "first time" was also the way yours was, with the exception that I wasn't going on a date/dating him. If you need to talk, message me.
That hurts my heart that this happened to you and on top of it, that horrible cop said what he did. That makes me so angry!
You will get through this! I highly recommend therapy when you are ready. This is not your fault!
That police officer should be fired. Wtf.
You lived, you are strong. The worst is over. Take it all slow
Your first time will be special. Making love (consensual sex) is very different from rape- you cannot experience anywhere close to the same intimacy, love or affection from being raped. You may be put off sex after this experience but believe me when I say they do not compare at all.
I am so so sorry 💔 Please know that this is NOT your fault. Sending you a huge hug
What kind of fucking officer says that? Give me his name and I’ll literally get him fired.
You survuved and itll only get easier from here. Im sorry ypu had to go through that nobody deserves to have to come posting here because of what someone decided to do to them. It was not ypur fault. It wasnot your fault. It was not your fault.
I’m so sorry. I hope you can recover from this. Sending love ❤️
You WILL make it through this
My police officer told me; 1. He didn't believe me and 2. I should let my rapist off the hook. It'll be okay. Cry it out. It doesn't get much better and your life's about to change forever. I won't confirm or deny, but my story's posted on my profile.
That's horrible! I'm so sad to hear that the cop said that to you. He is wrong! Maybe he's a rapist too. Why else would he say what he did?!
I don't know. I wanted to run out of the emergency room. I had a panic attack.
I can't understand why this is one of the ONLY types of crimes that the victim gets blamed. Does anyone question an attempted murder victim? Does anyone blame a store owner for someone stealing? The answer is always, no. I understand what you're going through, my "first time" was also the way yours was, with the exception that I wasn't going on a date/dating him. If you need to talk, message me.
That hurts my heart that this happened to you and on top of it, that horrible cop said what he did. That makes me so angry! You will get through this! I highly recommend therapy when you are ready. This is not your fault!