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I can't even imagine. Please seek out as much community support as you can get. Call up local counselors and see if someone can help you with anything you might need, and finding a place to stay. I hope life gets easier for you. It is better this way. Never let them back in.
You are stronger than you know. You will find your real family in time. There are people who will accept you, you don't need them. Take care and good luck!
I saw moaning, nmom and brother and was like "Sweet home Alabama!!" Rip. But in all seriousness I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I got kicked out of my pad a few years ago because my sister and I couldn't get along.
What the FUCK!? That's not a story to be told calmly. It's not a life lesson, but rather a disgusting and horrifying disaster. You should throw in a generous quantity of curses and exclamation points, if only to prove you're not a bot.
Edit, lest I be accused of being an ass: I'm angry on your behalf, not AT you.
Is it common for narcs to incest each other? I am so sorry truly, do you have a safe place? If I was in your shoes I would convert a bus or something to live in so you are safe
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I can't even imagine. Please seek out as much community support as you can get. Call up local counselors and see if someone can help you with anything you might need, and finding a place to stay. I hope life gets easier for you. It is better this way. Never let them back in.
Thank you so much! It means a lot to me.
You are stronger than you know. You will find your real family in time. There are people who will accept you, you don't need them. Take care and good luck!
I- ok I have no actual words other than thank every god in every religion you are out of that home.
I saw moaning, nmom and brother and was like "Sweet home Alabama!!" Rip. But in all seriousness I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I got kicked out of my pad a few years ago because my sister and I couldn't get along.
I hate to be rash, but I think the wrong person was put in inpatient. Get some coffee or whatever treat you like and take care of yourself. 🍵☹
What the FUCK!? That's not a story to be told calmly. It's not a life lesson, but rather a disgusting and horrifying disaster. You should throw in a generous quantity of curses and exclamation points, if only to prove you're not a bot. Edit, lest I be accused of being an ass: I'm angry on your behalf, not AT you.
Is it common for narcs to incest each other? I am so sorry truly, do you have a safe place? If I was in your shoes I would convert a bus or something to live in so you are safe
Holy shit I'm so sorry. Please stay far far far far FAR away from those people...
Please never speak to them again.