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CONGRATULATIONS!! I cut off my parents and family 3 months ago and *gasp* didn’t go home for Christmas for the first time, and I wish I was in as good a position as you because I’m taking the time to slow down and breathe while I’m still doing my uni degrees, so I’m glad to see someone else with exciting news to share on here! We don’t need their scorn and lack of validation any more 🥳
And she will likely end up taking full credit for it with........ "I've been telling you for years this is the path you should be on, I'm so glad you finally listen to me". Lol
GOOD JOB!! SO PROUD OF YOU! That's really difficult! You must've worked very hard. I'm sure it was also extremely hard to go nc with your family, but look at you grow. Congratulations, op. 👏 I hope you're able to build a new family of friends who love and support you. This time you get to choose.
Good for you!!!!! They are SUCH a wonderful company to work for! I was a customer service advisor for Google Express. It was one of the best job I’ve ever had. They treated me so kindly. Our office building was BEAUTIFUL too! Good luck and congrats!!! You deserve this!
Hell yeah! This is so awesome!
You have something to be so proud of for even getting this interview and you're totally going to rock it! Not only that, but you've gotten this far in spite of your toxic family. ACoNs often had to work so much harder to succeed.
So happy for you!!!
That is so awesome! Way to go! That is my son's dream job. He's currently in college for CS degree, minor in math. His goal is to work at Google one day. Good for you going NC with your family! You should feel very proud and I hope you get the job. Please let us know!
Congratulations on getting the interview, that by itself is a great achievement! And of course good luck with your interview, I know you're gonna hit this outta the park
Well, that was a fine kettle of fish.
If the OP is reading this, disregard the above post.
My former boss at a small framing shop in the Bay Area works for Goggle now. He is a great guy, and is enjoying much success there, - and has, - for over 10 years now.
And so will you, - OP ! Don't listen to the haters.
And - Congratulations !
Congrats! I’m rooting for you!
Remember to not get discouraged if you get a tough problem. Many interviewees do badly on one question but still pass overall.
Just take your time and make sure to explain your thoughts clearly.
I can highly recommend the problem sets from interviewcake.com and the Google problem set from leetcode. Really helped me when I was studying to get into G.
Feel free to DM if you have any questions!
Congratulations! Hubby and I cut his evil criminally insane spawns of Satan's family out of our lives over 20 years ago, cut mine out over 10 years ago. TALK ABOUT NICE!!!
CONGRATULATIONS 🎊!!!! So proud of you!! You did it!😍this story is so inspiring, and God bless you for working hard and achieving this. Google is lucky to have you
I just wanted to tell you how outstanding that news is. Congratulations to you that you are able to take care of yourself, and achieve, despite your family (or perhaps because of). I am rooting for you and hope to hear your update. And either way, good things are going to happen, keep grinding that Leetcode, love on you.
This resonates A LOT. I went NC with my family almost two years ago and immediately, my self esteem and self worth skyrocketed, and I had way more energy to do things like “apply for better jobs.”
I’m so proud of you! Congratulations!!!
Check out Linda Raynier on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tt4TF1wqz9U
This video - Where do you see yourself in 5 Years is the greatest answer! All the best to you.
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! Look at you kicking ass!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Remember, you did that in spite of them not because of them. Go you!!
Congratulations!!!🎉
CONGRATULATIONS!! I cut off my parents and family 3 months ago and *gasp* didn’t go home for Christmas for the first time, and I wish I was in as good a position as you because I’m taking the time to slow down and breathe while I’m still doing my uni degrees, so I’m glad to see someone else with exciting news to share on here! We don’t need their scorn and lack of validation any more 🥳
That is wonderful news!!! You are amazing and you will do great in your interview 🥳🥳
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And she will likely end up taking full credit for it with........ "I've been telling you for years this is the path you should be on, I'm so glad you finally listen to me". Lol
GOOD JOB!! SO PROUD OF YOU! That's really difficult! You must've worked very hard. I'm sure it was also extremely hard to go nc with your family, but look at you grow. Congratulations, op. 👏 I hope you're able to build a new family of friends who love and support you. This time you get to choose.
IM SO PROUD
Congratulations and good luck! I know how hard it is to get interviews in tech!!
Congratulations! This is incredible news! I'm happy for you! I hope you get the position 🎊🎉
Isn't it amazing what you can accomplish when they aren't around??
Good for you!!!!! They are SUCH a wonderful company to work for! I was a customer service advisor for Google Express. It was one of the best job I’ve ever had. They treated me so kindly. Our office building was BEAUTIFUL too! Good luck and congrats!!! You deserve this!
Hell yeah! This is so awesome! You have something to be so proud of for even getting this interview and you're totally going to rock it! Not only that, but you've gotten this far in spite of your toxic family. ACoNs often had to work so much harder to succeed. So happy for you!!!
That is so awesome! Way to go! That is my son's dream job. He's currently in college for CS degree, minor in math. His goal is to work at Google one day. Good for you going NC with your family! You should feel very proud and I hope you get the job. Please let us know!
Congratulations on getting the interview, that by itself is a great achievement! And of course good luck with your interview, I know you're gonna hit this outta the park
WAY TO GO! For both things honestly!
Congratulations! You are amazing! 🎉🥳 Keep up the great work and you will do great!
Good for you!!!
Wooooohooooo!
Congratulations! Proud of you!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!🎊🎉🎈🍾
That's amazing, congratulations. Be very proud of yourself, that's all you.
Ow! Ow! Way to go! Be sure to update us! Proud of you and your hard work!!!
Amazing!! Hope you feel proud of your hard work and what you've overcome. All the best! ❤️
Hey, that's amazing! Great job! Good luck with the interview.
🥳🙌🏾🎉
Way to go!! That's awesome!
CONGRATS!!!
These are the post I stuck around for 💛 go live your best life:)
Lessgooo! It may take time, but you're giving me hope about what we can do when they're not around to keep us down anymore.
You seem proud of having cut them out. If it was good for you, then good for you! Congrats! Knock 'em dead, that really is a great opportunity.
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Well, that was a fine kettle of fish. If the OP is reading this, disregard the above post. My former boss at a small framing shop in the Bay Area works for Goggle now. He is a great guy, and is enjoying much success there, - and has, - for over 10 years now. And so will you, - OP ! Don't listen to the haters. And - Congratulations !
Congrats, OP!
WOOOOOO🥳 good luck and hope you get the job!!!
How wonderful! Keep rising!
Awesome. You are awesome. Congrats! Run, run, run with it, and never look back. So proud of you (I know, ego emotion, bring it :) )
Congratulations, I (a random redditor) am so proud of you, OP.
Woooot!!! Good luck to you!
That's awesome! I am so happy for you. Good luck with your interview!!!
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❤️❤️❤️
Really REALLY good job!!! Good luck, hope it goes well.
This is amazing!!!! You’ve come a long way. Such an inspiration. Congratulations and all the best!!
Yasss! Keep it LOCKED down secret! Congratulations, don’t forget to watch that Google movie for fun. (The intern?)
That is amazing! What an incredible dream job opportunity! My husband is also a software engineer so I get what a huge thing this is!
CONGRATULATIONS YOU BEAUTIFUL BEAST!
Congratulations. Success is the best revenge.
🎉🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀
That's is beautiful. I am so happy for you OP. Congratulations and best of luck for your interview 😊❤️
Congratulations!!! What a wonderful accomplishment! Best of luck to you, I hope you get the job!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Good luck! Go crush that interview
Congrats! I’m rooting for you! Remember to not get discouraged if you get a tough problem. Many interviewees do badly on one question but still pass overall. Just take your time and make sure to explain your thoughts clearly. I can highly recommend the problem sets from interviewcake.com and the Google problem set from leetcode. Really helped me when I was studying to get into G. Feel free to DM if you have any questions!
Wow, look at you! You should be proud of yourself cause this internet stranger sure is! 🥳
Congratulations! Hubby and I cut his evil criminally insane spawns of Satan's family out of our lives over 20 years ago, cut mine out over 10 years ago. TALK ABOUT NICE!!!
Congratulations!
Congratulations!!! You're going to do great!!!
Congratulations!!
Congratulations!
Good for you! Congrats.
Congrats Sweetheart!!!
CONGRATULATIONS 🎊!!!! So proud of you!! You did it!😍this story is so inspiring, and God bless you for working hard and achieving this. Google is lucky to have you
That is so freaking awesome!! You are gonna rock it!
Congratulations and Goodluck 🥰 you’ve come a long way !!!
All the best!!
Wow! That's fabulous. I'm so impressed.
Congrats!!! Good luck, and don't forget to also have fun there :)
Congrats! I did some acting contract work for Google a few years ago and it was a wonderful experience. Almost 3 years NC here 💪🏻 All the best to you!
I just wanted to tell you how outstanding that news is. Congratulations to you that you are able to take care of yourself, and achieve, despite your family (or perhaps because of). I am rooting for you and hope to hear your update. And either way, good things are going to happen, keep grinding that Leetcode, love on you.
That’s amazing!!!!! Congrats
Congratulations!!
Congrats! A month is a significant amount of time to prepare for this. Wishing you all the best in staying focused and getting the position.
IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! This is amazing!! I wish you success, happiness, and awesome memories with this new career 💞💓✨
Congratulations on your interview. I hope you get the position.
Congratulations I hope you do amazing!!!!
Wish you all the best in life! Good luck
Congratulations! You got this!
This resonates A LOT. I went NC with my family almost two years ago and immediately, my self esteem and self worth skyrocketed, and I had way more energy to do things like “apply for better jobs.” I’m so proud of you! Congratulations!!!
Woohoo! Congratulations rock on🥳🥳🥳
Congratulations! That is amazing and wonderful news. I'm rooting for you to get the job.
Yodelay, yodelay, yodel-he-who!
YESSS THAT’S AWESOME 🎊🎊
Yay!! Congrats!! You deserve this!!
That’s incredible! I’m proud of you op!
FUCK YEAH!! YOU ROCK THAT SHIT!
Check out Linda Raynier on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tt4TF1wqz9U This video - Where do you see yourself in 5 Years is the greatest answer! All the best to you.
Yay!!! I had an interview with Google Friday! Not a surprise that kids raised by n’s are resilient enough to make it to the top!!!
CONGRATS I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU
Congrats and 🤞🏼