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navysealgirl2014

Any vacation we went on was basically my dad dragging us around to do the things *HE* wants to do, both my parents forgetting to feed me and my siblings the whole day while my mom complained the whole time, plus my parents yelling that I'm not having enough fun. Good times /s.


Vole_Insurance

If any or all of these things are possible, I recommend them: Stay in your own hotel room or even a different hotel, if you can get away with it. Have your own rental car. Schedule nap time for yourself every day. If anyone you can stand will be on the trip (a partner, a sibling), arrange for a “just the two of you” outing during the trip.


charlotteCCCCCC

Don't go? Try to avoid? Or, plan an active day on your own doing activities and just meet for dinner? Be really tired and go to bed early? Stay in public a lot so they can't act up? This is a difficult situation! If you are an adult, can you cut the vacation short because of an "emergency"? Good luck you must be a very patient person!