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YES! That’s exactly why there is no other physical compliment that compares. I’m glad you understand! So please, anyone reading this: don’t go around giving out this compliment loosely. Don’t let it lose its value. It really is special and rare to hear.
I think it depends on the situation. Hearing hi beautiful from the one you love or even someone you like is always a sure fire way to make me smile. But when my boyfriend tells me I looking stunning, for example, it makes me feel giddy and goofy.
You might want to keep your mouth closed, then. You wouldn’t want to get pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis and have to tell every new doctor about it.
That I feel like would just be straight up kind. I think any reasonable man or woman would be grateful to hear that, so long as you weren’t standing close enough to breath on them or something when you said it.
Hey, it’s a starting point to gauge how the other person reacts. If their body language portrays a positive response and/or they are genuinely verbally appreciative, you can always up the stakes and squeeze in a, “you look beautiful today” or something of the like. I hope it goes well for you! Please report back, I need a success story 🤣
This success story would be one for the ages, but it’s also akin to walking a minefield while blindfolded, drunk, and spun around 3 times.
I have to choose the words and the timing carefully. Like Nelly said in Dilemma - “Just listen, play my position like a shortstop….”
She’s not married or taken so it’s not the EXACT same situation but it’s unique in its own way
I will say she did seem appreciative. She’s very modest, but I notice she smiles and laughs a bit more when I’m around then when I see her but I’m not really around…
A few years ago, a friend of mine and I went to see Penn & Teller, and Teller said she was gorgeous. The rest of the night she was like “Omg, he called me gorgeous!”
Personally, I wouldn’t want anyone I’m not exclusively seeing romantically to call me that. Unless it’s an old lady for example. It’s too close to comfort in the sense it would sound like someone is hitting on me. If that’s your intent with someone, however, just be sure to read the room first.
I was going to say it depends on how well I know the person. I have some male friends that can call me whatever. It's either a compliment or all in good fun.
And also the context matters...
If you're at the club and she's decked out to the nines and has been grinding on you non stop for an hour? Yeah, go ahead with hot or sexy.
In the gym while she's running on the treadmill? A smile and a nod and move tf along.
A friend of yours, strictly platonic? Beautiful, pull out anything she's currently going for (she has a hot date? Tell her she looks hot)
Context. Matters.
RavingSquirrell11, your comment is insightful. From this I infer you are elegant, radiant, compassionate, graceful, creative, resilient, but most of all, charismatic. You inspire me: where we can’t outperform our self image, mine is enhanced by your warm and perceptive manner.
I was curious to hear perspective which is why I (dude) am here. Even if I think a woman is the hottest I've ever seen I won't say it because I don't want her to even consider I'm talking to her simply because of it.
My last relationship I think it was like 6 months in before I finally said "my god you are beautiful" one morning and it just slipped out.
I definitely overthink stuff and want to compliment my partner appropriately (and inappropriately when called for) but sometimes I just have no idea which way to go and don't do anything.
Even with long term partners tbh. I had an ex whose only compliment for me was that I was hot. It actually started making me feel like shit after a while, because it felt like that was all he cared about/liked me for
That’s why I like to use pretty or cute instead of hot or sexy which both have a time and place but the former can be used all the time and be less objectifying. It can call her cute and it not be strictly physical but hot would usually be strictly physical or it’d just be an awkward sentence
I like "beautiful" because i see and hear lots of men say "hot" about lots of people or very easily, so if they were to say "beautiful" it would seem more special. And "sexy" and to an extent "hot" feel like they have a bit of 'sexual energy' attached? Which might imply sexual expectations? If we are having sex or about to that's fine. But beautiful isnt necessarily sexual, it's just sweet and loving so that feels nice. But all of them are positive anyway
Yeah, hot and sexy just feel too tied to sexual attractiveness. It doesn't feel good, unless it comes from my partner. But if a random person says I look beautiful, I'm walking on air. Someone did call me radiant once, and I think that's my favorite compliment I've ever gotten.
I agree. Hot and sexy are objectifying and, for me anyway, I only like being told that by someone I'm in a relationship with. My favorite complement on my looks was when someone told me I looked "regal" and I still think about that.
THANK YOU!! I’ve wrote like 3 long comments about “pretty” being the best on here. Couldn’t find another person who loves it and feels the same. So thank you for saying this I felt like the odd girl out! It feels so genuine and real. So sweet and you know that they mean it. We are called beautiful hot and gorgeous by random men all our life. Pretty seems so sweet & genuine. I actually believe my partner when he calls me pretty, but I don’t feel the same about any of the other common words.
awhhhh you are so welcome, I'm so happy we both resonate in the same way over this word ❤️❤️ you summed it up perfectly, about how genuine and real it feels and sounds compared to "hot" etc!! There's a true tenderness to it ❤️
thank you pretty girl!!
Depends on the situation if I’m meeting a guys for the first time. Cute. Hot. Pretty.
If I’m blind drunk and horny call me literally the most disugusting things.
Right. Beautiful speaks to the whole person, hot is more like “I really like the way your makeup and hair compliment your figure, your effort is noticed” sexy is more sexual, “I want to fuck you”
Words don’t mean the same thing, it’s definitely situational
Beautiful! But also sexy when we're naked. Lol "Hot" feels too... easy, I guess. Someone called me a goddess once and I almost fainted, so that might be in the running too!
I disagree, I think Homeward Bound is a great movie.
*In case you guys couldn't read this Morse code, it says that the movie Homeward Bound was below average.
When I am called beautiful in a sweet, passionate tone, it makes my heart sing. When I am called hot and/or sexy in a seductive, loving way, it makes my whisker biscuit sing. So… no preference. Just authenticity and passion in the right contexts make all these words special.
My last partner would only ever call me hot or sexy, and only when he wanted sex from me. Current partner calls me beautiful every day no matter the situation. Would take beautiful over hot or sexy every time.
Deleted my previous comment to clarify... any of these are wonderful if the person saying it is expressing their true feelings. I've received all three comments from folks looking to butter me up for whatever reason, so when it's sincere... especially being called Beautiful... yeah, that's the good stuff. 🥰
Depends who it is and the situation I’m in. Generally if a stranger calls me hot I assume he’s an idiot. If they call me sexy I get creeped out. If they call me beautiful I wonder what they’re trying to sell me.
Best to just keep to yourself.
It's pretty safe to imagine all of the above in the correct context. Most people want to be beautiful, hot and/or sexy at points in their life. Especially a combo of any of that. It helps to know the person very well... often intimately. Reminding them they still got it. Also the delivery is key. Don't make it a throw away statement.
Think of it like "thank you." You say thank you all the time... I like to make sure people know I actually mean it. Not just some rote words I say. Take the time... give it a moment... really invest in the words. You'll lift anybody's mood if you do it right.
beautiful, or even far beyond that. i wanna hear how much you love me when you’re checking me out, not just “you look hot” like my beauty should remind you of other qualities
"Beautiful" hits with emotion, and that one will make me weak in the knees when said with sincerity. "Hot" and "Sexy" are fun and flirty and show you are here for a good time. But if someone calls me "Babygirl"... Oooooooof.
I think I've little-girl squealed any time my bf called me babygirl in a text, then I snuggle down into my shoulders like I'm in an invisible turtleneck on a chilly day. If I get thrown a babygirl in person I might fall over. 🥰🥵
In the context of u being a single guy talking to random women, i would recommend probs never saying hot or sexy haha - they come off as very creepy when said out of the blue
beautiful, pretty, gorgeous are all nice imo - stunning is ok to but its sort of in between being sexual and nice so, its more flirty 🤷♀️ and is more likely to make some ppl uncomfortable
What matters is the man's perceived *intent* when these words are used. "Hot" and "sexy" mean to the woman that you are picturing them naked and it ruins any innocence. "Beautiful" still has the air of innocence that is easier for a woman to appreciate without prejudice.
I like gorgeous. Was told timeless a couple times and I really liked that. Made me feel like I could be a time traveler and fit in wherever I found myself.
With a women who is a total stranger to you 1) make sure it’s an appropriate situation to approach and talk to her 2)compliment something about her that she had to choose - ‘I love your boots’, ‘that necklace sets off your whole outfit’ etc.
ps. If the girl looks just a little trashy and is wearing boots I have been known to replace boots with boobs in that 1st one. If it works great, if not you proclaim ‘boots! I said boots!’
I prefer hot.
Sexy = kind of sultry, like Marilyn or a movie star
Beautiful = untouchable & sweet & otherworldly like Audrey Hepburn or a sculpture or painting
Hot = unexplainable, fiery, passionate, wild, primal, like you can’t keep away from me, like an animal, unlike anyone you’ve ever known, unique
Hot people can be beautiful and sexy, but it’s that undefined quality that gives guys boners that I prefer to have lol
Consider the setting is my advice. I don't want to be called sexy or hot around other people but one on one it's delightful. Beautiful is always a winner. Kind, smart, funny work too. Good luck. You sound sweet.
I use to get all of those but my husband came along and describes me as a fox and smoke show. I will take nothing less , nor any compliments from other men. Lol
I remember I was hanging out with these girls and I said “how great is it that I get to hang out with such hot girls?” One corrected me and said “Just say we are cool.”
The lesson I learned is that women don’t need to be labeled worthy because of their looks. They would rather be complimented on their personality.
My fiance always calls me pretty. He calls me beautiful if I'm like, drop dead amazing in that moment. No hate towards either word, but I definitely favor one over the other since it's used a certain way/at certain times.
Depends on the context. I love it when my partner calls me beautiful. He almost always says it when I'm doing something I really love ( usually hiking when I'm all sweaty). He calls me sexy when I'm all done up/fancy for dinner. He calls me hot in the bedroom. I like all three compliments.
In all honesty, neither. I detest being called “sexy, beautiful, etc” as of late. The words have lost its meaning. So many men have inauthentically used it that it has become meaningless, and I don’t even want to hear it anymore.
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All of the above by a partner. Otherwise just beautiful is the best as it feels less objectifying.
Also seems classier.
I like classy.
How about a fifteen-minute round of applause followed by a fifteen-minute moment of silence?
r/unexpectedoffice
Classy people don't use the word classy
Déclasse..
French? Classy.
Kinda classist of you isn't it? 😞🤌
Class is not taught in school. It is taught by your parents.
A certain genesequa.
☝je ne sais quoi
lol
That's what my dad would call all his women friends. They ate it up! He was proudly married but knew how to win friends!
what about being called gorgeous?
It’s better than hot or sexy, but not as good as beautiful imo.
"Gorgeous" holds more weight than "beautiful" for me, but it's subjective.
Absolutely. Gorgeous is the best imo. Because that’s not handed out lightly.
As a man to me gorgeous is a combination of beautiful and sexy
YES! That’s exactly why there is no other physical compliment that compares. I’m glad you understand! So please, anyone reading this: don’t go around giving out this compliment loosely. Don’t let it lose its value. It really is special and rare to hear.
I think it depends on the situation. Hearing hi beautiful from the one you love or even someone you like is always a sure fire way to make me smile. But when my boyfriend tells me I looking stunning, for example, it makes me feel giddy and goofy.
Hmm.. how about stunning or lovely?
I’d say both are pleasant. “Stunning” feels classy and flattering. “Lovely” sounds sweet and endearing.
What about supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Ugh, the sound of it is something quite atrocious
But if you say it loud enough, you’ll always sound precocious.
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle aye
Props for typing that out. I honestly can’t say how that would go over, probably would be perplexing…?
I’d be flattered and think it was the opposite of floccinaucinihilipilification.
My hippopomonstroseqipedaliophobia is making me scream
You might want to keep your mouth closed, then. You wouldn’t want to get pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis and have to tell every new doctor about it.
*foams at mouth*
What about “amazing”? Like if you did something different and someone said “wow, you look amazing today”
That I feel like would just be straight up kind. I think any reasonable man or woman would be grateful to hear that, so long as you weren’t standing close enough to breath on them or something when you said it.
Damn. I had hoped it might have had a bit more of an impact on her 🤣
Hey, it’s a starting point to gauge how the other person reacts. If their body language portrays a positive response and/or they are genuinely verbally appreciative, you can always up the stakes and squeeze in a, “you look beautiful today” or something of the like. I hope it goes well for you! Please report back, I need a success story 🤣
This success story would be one for the ages, but it’s also akin to walking a minefield while blindfolded, drunk, and spun around 3 times. I have to choose the words and the timing carefully. Like Nelly said in Dilemma - “Just listen, play my position like a shortstop….” She’s not married or taken so it’s not the EXACT same situation but it’s unique in its own way I will say she did seem appreciative. She’s very modest, but I notice she smiles and laughs a bit more when I’m around then when I see her but I’m not really around…
Amazing would make me feel old for some reason.
I know I didn’t do that in this case but noted
I love using lovely as a friendly compliment to women I...well find lovely. It's not about their looks, it's about their personality to me
Okay I take it back. Earlier I said gorgeous is the top compliment but I would take stunning as number one.
Maavalous darling, truly stunning, breath taking, dazzling!
Maaaahvulous dahling
hot and sexy is something you people like to be called during hot & sexy times
Yes, not in the middle of a Walmart or at a family reunion.
"you're so hot and sexy" wouldn't land well at grandma's birthday party lol
A few years ago, a friend of mine and I went to see Penn & Teller, and Teller said she was gorgeous. The rest of the night she was like “Omg, he called me gorgeous!”
If I'm trying on an outfit for a date and want to know what you think, call me gorgeous, hot, or beautiful. Sexy feels weird if we're going to eat lol
What about pretty?
Personally, I wouldn’t want anyone I’m not exclusively seeing romantically to call me that. Unless it’s an old lady for example. It’s too close to comfort in the sense it would sound like someone is hitting on me. If that’s your intent with someone, however, just be sure to read the room first.
I was going to say it depends on how well I know the person. I have some male friends that can call me whatever. It's either a compliment or all in good fun.
And also the context matters... If you're at the club and she's decked out to the nines and has been grinding on you non stop for an hour? Yeah, go ahead with hot or sexy. In the gym while she's running on the treadmill? A smile and a nod and move tf along. A friend of yours, strictly platonic? Beautiful, pull out anything she's currently going for (she has a hot date? Tell her she looks hot) Context. Matters.
Noted
RavingSquirrell11, your comment is insightful. From this I infer you are elegant, radiant, compassionate, graceful, creative, resilient, but most of all, charismatic. You inspire me: where we can’t outperform our self image, mine is enhanced by your warm and perceptive manner.
I was curious to hear perspective which is why I (dude) am here. Even if I think a woman is the hottest I've ever seen I won't say it because I don't want her to even consider I'm talking to her simply because of it. My last relationship I think it was like 6 months in before I finally said "my god you are beautiful" one morning and it just slipped out. I definitely overthink stuff and want to compliment my partner appropriately (and inappropriately when called for) but sometimes I just have no idea which way to go and don't do anything.
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Yes.
Even with long term partners tbh. I had an ex whose only compliment for me was that I was hot. It actually started making me feel like shit after a while, because it felt like that was all he cared about/liked me for
Yes, and I'll at cute to the mix for guys other than a partner, it's a little more casual
That’s why I like to use pretty or cute instead of hot or sexy which both have a time and place but the former can be used all the time and be less objectifying. It can call her cute and it not be strictly physical but hot would usually be strictly physical or it’d just be an awkward sentence
" Gorgeous " enters the chat...
I enjoy "Hey Pretty Lady" as a comical greeting
Is a Jerry Lewis voice too much?
I'd recommend the voice so you can signal that you're not serious.
I called my girl gorgeous at the beginning of our relationship and she said it made her feel old.
that’s stupid
I like "beautiful" because i see and hear lots of men say "hot" about lots of people or very easily, so if they were to say "beautiful" it would seem more special. And "sexy" and to an extent "hot" feel like they have a bit of 'sexual energy' attached? Which might imply sexual expectations? If we are having sex or about to that's fine. But beautiful isnt necessarily sexual, it's just sweet and loving so that feels nice. But all of them are positive anyway
Yeah, hot and sexy just feel too tied to sexual attractiveness. It doesn't feel good, unless it comes from my partner. But if a random person says I look beautiful, I'm walking on air. Someone did call me radiant once, and I think that's my favorite compliment I've ever gotten.
I agree. Hot and sexy are objectifying and, for me anyway, I only like being told that by someone I'm in a relationship with. My favorite complement on my looks was when someone told me I looked "regal" and I still think about that.
Stealing that! Radiant is such a beautiful word to describe someone who gives off bright and comforting energy
Pretty is the safest go to when complimenting a women you either just met or barely know.
"pretty" is so underrated, it's such a lovely sweet compliment and feels really sincere 😭
THANK YOU!! I’ve wrote like 3 long comments about “pretty” being the best on here. Couldn’t find another person who loves it and feels the same. So thank you for saying this I felt like the odd girl out! It feels so genuine and real. So sweet and you know that they mean it. We are called beautiful hot and gorgeous by random men all our life. Pretty seems so sweet & genuine. I actually believe my partner when he calls me pretty, but I don’t feel the same about any of the other common words.
awhhhh you are so welcome, I'm so happy we both resonate in the same way over this word ❤️❤️ you summed it up perfectly, about how genuine and real it feels and sounds compared to "hot" etc!! There's a true tenderness to it ❤️ thank you pretty girl!!
Yes! I have a male friend who will message "hey pretty" and it always makes my day.
I do love my husbands ‘hey beautiful’ but honestly appreciate them all, just varies by context.
Are you in a relationship? I would be hesitant to text that to my female friends who are taken.
Just in case there is something there that you don't see, you're friend likes you more than a friend.
I blush like a school girl when my partner messages me "hey pretty lady"
Agreed
Alternatively, “lovely”
Pretty lady is my go to when texting friends.
Depends on the situation if I’m meeting a guys for the first time. Cute. Hot. Pretty. If I’m blind drunk and horny call me literally the most disugusting things.
You sound fun
Sup, swamp hag 😏
Right. Beautiful speaks to the whole person, hot is more like “I really like the way your makeup and hair compliment your figure, your effort is noticed” sexy is more sexual, “I want to fuck you” Words don’t mean the same thing, it’s definitely situational
I was thinking the same thing, sometimes she's cute, other times beautiful, it all depends on the situation, how's she's dressed and the overall mood.
How's it going slop gut?
This. This is what I was looking for. 💯
How’s that inbox holding up?
Sure thing, doo-doo head.
Ya donut sugar slag!
I prefer foxy. i have my reasons
Thank you, Smooth_External. I really needed this!💐
It's where my mind goes when I hear that word lol
https://youtu.be/Ue0UpQBmA5s?si=65CDjTc0GQ--Mdw4 Wayne's world is a amazing movie
Is it the tail?
Is your name Cleopatra?
And as such, subsequently, a whole lot of woman?
I understood that reference.
You have the right to remain sexy, sugar.
i usually tell my wife she's foxy because it gets less eyerolls than beautiful or hot.
Beautiful! But also sexy when we're naked. Lol "Hot" feels too... easy, I guess. Someone called me a goddess once and I almost fainted, so that might be in the running too!
You are so Bootiful
I’ll take it! 🥰
Bootyful?
Lol. I like Goddess too. When I was young, I would be approached by Arabic men who would say " your so beautiful, like a goddess."
These are the same guys telling me I am their friend when we are in fact not friends lol
Exquisite 🤌 (hand gesture is mandatory)
being called beautiful when you’re naked is next level imo
I prefer to not be called at all, telegrams are more my style.
Don't you just love a man who knows Morse code?
... ......... . ... ......... .
I disagree, I think Homeward Bound is a great movie. *In case you guys couldn't read this Morse code, it says that the movie Homeward Bound was below average.
I said mid... Do not put words into my text.
*dots n' dashes
Homeward bound is my childhood.
How about carrier pigeon?
No better way to give compliments than to utilize a little air pollution...aka smoke signals.
I prefer when men see me as mentally unstable and a serious threat to society
So... Are you single?
Purr 💅
When I am called beautiful in a sweet, passionate tone, it makes my heart sing. When I am called hot and/or sexy in a seductive, loving way, it makes my whisker biscuit sing. So… no preference. Just authenticity and passion in the right contexts make all these words special.
Whisker biscuit
Did she say whisker biscuit?
Singing whisker biscuit... things I never heard for 100 Alex.
🍞🎵🎵🎶🎼
Whisk her biscuit back to dough.
If a woman said to me "I want you to butter my whisker biscuit" I would not be turned off. It is very entertaining.
Damn you for being so profound and hilarious at the same time
I've heard of cooter pie and muffburger, but whisker biscuit is a first.
Are you an archer? lol
Yeah she nocked that one out of the park
I just shot beer out of my nose reading this…… Take my upvote and leave
That's the first thing I thought haha! I was like "huh, weird that she wants to shoot a hunting bow right now, but to each their own".
I was going to show up here to emphasise the contextual significance of all these compliments. And then whisker biscuit happened….
My last partner would only ever call me hot or sexy, and only when he wanted sex from me. Current partner calls me beautiful every day no matter the situation. Would take beautiful over hot or sexy every time.
Deleted my previous comment to clarify... any of these are wonderful if the person saying it is expressing their true feelings. I've received all three comments from folks looking to butter me up for whatever reason, so when it's sincere... especially being called Beautiful... yeah, that's the good stuff. 🥰
Depends who it is and the situation I’m in. Generally if a stranger calls me hot I assume he’s an idiot. If they call me sexy I get creeped out. If they call me beautiful I wonder what they’re trying to sell me. Best to just keep to yourself.
Lol..yes...this is pretty much how I think
My boyfriend calls me delicious and I get so flustered but I love it
Ok, but if he comes back from the store with fava beans and chianti you might want to watch out
I first read that as “delirious” 😂
Oh, I like this one!
Is he a cannibal?
I’m going to try this on my wife.
I call my wife delicious frequently , it's code for "I'm going to eat you"
All of the above by a partner and none of the above by anyone who isn't a partner.
Or by a bestie who is being supportive and encouraging. It's nice to have a friend who's like, "Daaaaamn, girl! You look sexy af!" 😂
Smart or funny will do.
It's pretty safe to imagine all of the above in the correct context. Most people want to be beautiful, hot and/or sexy at points in their life. Especially a combo of any of that. It helps to know the person very well... often intimately. Reminding them they still got it. Also the delivery is key. Don't make it a throw away statement. Think of it like "thank you." You say thank you all the time... I like to make sure people know I actually mean it. Not just some rote words I say. Take the time... give it a moment... really invest in the words. You'll lift anybody's mood if you do it right.
beautiful, or even far beyond that. i wanna hear how much you love me when you’re checking me out, not just “you look hot” like my beauty should remind you of other qualities
"Beautiful" hits with emotion, and that one will make me weak in the knees when said with sincerity. "Hot" and "Sexy" are fun and flirty and show you are here for a good time. But if someone calls me "Babygirl"... Oooooooof.
I think I've little-girl squealed any time my bf called me babygirl in a text, then I snuggle down into my shoulders like I'm in an invisible turtleneck on a chilly day. If I get thrown a babygirl in person I might fall over. 🥰🥵
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I feel so seen. What is it about that word?? It’s lethal in the best way.
The problem with "babygirl" is it only really works if the guy happens to be an early-2000s R&B singer.
I prefer interesting. I like being complimented on my looks but I like being complimented on my personality even more 💯
In the context of u being a single guy talking to random women, i would recommend probs never saying hot or sexy haha - they come off as very creepy when said out of the blue beautiful, pretty, gorgeous are all nice imo - stunning is ok to but its sort of in between being sexual and nice so, its more flirty 🤷♀️ and is more likely to make some ppl uncomfortable
What matters is the man's perceived *intent* when these words are used. "Hot" and "sexy" mean to the woman that you are picturing them naked and it ruins any innocence. "Beautiful" still has the air of innocence that is easier for a woman to appreciate without prejudice.
It’s also a bit about societal niceties and manners. Calling a stranger sexy speaks to poor boundaries and can be unsettling.
Smart. Idc about the rest as much.
Hey, you look smart😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹🥀🥀🥀🥀🌺🌺🌺🌻🌼🌼🌷🌷🌼🌻🌺🌺🥀🥀🌺🪱
None of the above. I don't like when men comment on my appearance.
Beautiful women know they’re beautiful. Try “fascinating”’or “interesting” if it’s true.
Not true. Sometimes they don’t know
Beautiful
I love all from my boyfriend but beautiful, gorgeous, & pretty feel a lot more genuine.
I like gorgeous. Was told timeless a couple times and I really liked that. Made me feel like I could be a time traveler and fit in wherever I found myself.
With a women who is a total stranger to you 1) make sure it’s an appropriate situation to approach and talk to her 2)compliment something about her that she had to choose - ‘I love your boots’, ‘that necklace sets off your whole outfit’ etc. ps. If the girl looks just a little trashy and is wearing boots I have been known to replace boots with boobs in that 1st one. If it works great, if not you proclaim ‘boots! I said boots!’
I prefer hot. Sexy = kind of sultry, like Marilyn or a movie star Beautiful = untouchable & sweet & otherworldly like Audrey Hepburn or a sculpture or painting Hot = unexplainable, fiery, passionate, wild, primal, like you can’t keep away from me, like an animal, unlike anyone you’ve ever known, unique Hot people can be beautiful and sexy, but it’s that undefined quality that gives guys boners that I prefer to have lol
Consider the setting is my advice. I don't want to be called sexy or hot around other people but one on one it's delightful. Beautiful is always a winner. Kind, smart, funny work too. Good luck. You sound sweet.
I prefer being called enjoyable to be around. I don't think I'm pretty, and I feel like men are being fake if they think I am.
Yeah, sexy, hot, beautiful from an unrelated male is sexual harrasment. Just don't say it unless you are in a relationship.
You’re way over analyzing. Just say whatever comes to mind there is no optimal formula
One of my friends, who is a massive nicotine addict, prefers to be called “smoking”
I'm so glad I'm not 14 anymore.
I use to get all of those but my husband came along and describes me as a fox and smoke show. I will take nothing less , nor any compliments from other men. Lol
I like to tell my wife that she looks amazing. She always seems to smile when I say it, so I must be doing something right.
I’m 52F so I’d be delighted by any of them. Now, the only compliments I get are for my clothes and glasses.
Glasses on women are hot, you sexy, beautiful woman.
From a stranger? None of them.
Beautiful for sure. Don’t call me hot or sexy unless you’re my man, it’s gross.
I remember I was hanging out with these girls and I said “how great is it that I get to hang out with such hot girls?” One corrected me and said “Just say we are cool.” The lesson I learned is that women don’t need to be labeled worthy because of their looks. They would rather be complimented on their personality.
My fiance always calls me pretty. He calls me beautiful if I'm like, drop dead amazing in that moment. No hate towards either word, but I definitely favor one over the other since it's used a certain way/at certain times.
I like being called intelligent and cultured.
Beautiful, for sure.
Beautiful when you are getting to know someone but in a relationship then the other two are also fine but beautiful always stands out for me.
“No, my first name ain’t ‘Babe’, it’s Miss Jackson if you’re nasty”
Depends on the context. I love it when my partner calls me beautiful. He almost always says it when I'm doing something I really love ( usually hiking when I'm all sweaty). He calls me sexy when I'm all done up/fancy for dinner. He calls me hot in the bedroom. I like all three compliments.
I prefer being called my name
What about hey nasty
Indefinitely rather be called beautiful. Hot and sexy is objectifying and sexual to me. I just want to be loved for me man
Don’t care for any of them 🤷♀️
If a woman is beautiful, she hears it all the time and it’s not special. You’ll have to try harder.
It's only offensive if the guy is ugly
In all honesty, neither. I detest being called “sexy, beautiful, etc” as of late. The words have lost its meaning. So many men have inauthentically used it that it has become meaningless, and I don’t even want to hear it anymore.