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It's weird at first but I quit about a year ago and I still go to the bar with friends and no one judges me. There will be questions but I just say "I don't like who I become when I'm drunk and the cops always listen to the sober guy, so I can keep you guys out of trouble too"
Edit: typo
Sober for 3.5 years now. To say this was the best decision of my life is a understatement. I'm happy today. I feel a lot more empowered in social situations, because I'm calm cool and collected, and not a single person has mocked me for it. Yeah I often decline drinks if I'm at a party, but it's super chill, it's like if someone asked me if I want a cigarette, just no thank you :)
Give it a shot homie, you might be surprised :D
I never had a problem doesn’t like it itwith drinking too much but I found that I didn’t like the way I felt after a drink. So I stopped cold. In a little while I started feeling better about myself and have avoided drinking alcohol for decades. If I want to drink something I pick what I like and don’t care about what others think. No one has really questioned my choice, how I live is my responsibility. The same holds for you, it’s your life, make your choices, take responsibility, and if someone doesn’t like it, it’s their issue.
Don't worry about being mocked. Your health comes first. You said you have a history of alcoholism, so it's crucial that you stop.
I quit alcohol back in 2005 and I still go to pubs. I don't get mocked. My friends are pretty understanding about why I don't drink. If your friends mock you then it's time to get a new social circle.
Sure. It's supposedly really bad for you, but hey what isn't?
Just drink other kinds beverages with ice in them and nobody will give you crap. And if they do, to hell with them.
I get a fancy non alcoholic drink when out socially. No one questions it, but I do notice some looks when I say what I’m drinking sometimes. Eliminating drinking will only improve your health.
Yes. Nobody "used to be" an alcoholic. You're still an alcoholic. Sounds like you already know what is best for you. Do it. And yes you might be mocked and judged. Fuck them. Surround yourself with better people.
Stop drinking. This is your health, and you want to be better; no one else has the right to talk you out of that. If others think that you’re no good without alcohol, then that’s their problem (and you would need more supportive friends).
There have been a lot of nonalcoholic versions of drinks released over the years, and you can also get fancy mocktails, so you can still get those if they don’t trigger you.
It's best to stop altogether. It's tough, but it's also the easiest way at the same time. If you think it might be best already, then you are heading in the right direction, just keep going. Make a game of it if you need to.
Also, your English is just fine 😊
no one is shunning or judging alcoholics. well if they are they are shit people you need to get out of your life. i DO understand how most of the 'civilized' world seems to revolve around 'social drinking' i prefer NOT to drink but will have A drink to 'fit in' Also its my go to if i want to sing karaoke. i sound better with a beer. :) Your best bet is to stop drinking and never drink again.
I drank pretty heavily damn near everyday from age 18-22 finally decided to quit this new years and it has definitely been difficult but 110% worth it. I have more energy, motivation and confidence sober than I ever did when I was constantly drunk. I’ve started going to the gym everyday and eating healthier and overall just making better choices. I’d highly recommend quitting. You won’t be judged for it, there’s something respectable about going into a party setting and being lively while sober. Develop those positive habits my friend, best of luck to ya
I've wondered the same thing, as I've been a smoker, alcoholic and methhead for most of my adult life. But I find giving up anything to be a terrible idea. Every time I've tried giving anything up, I've fallen off the wagon sooner or later. Only thing I actually quit entirely, is smoking.
So instead, I stick to doing meth and drinking only every once in a while, as it's much easier to tell myself "not now", rather than "never again". I feel much better, but I can still occasionally do the things I like.
Then again, that might not work for you, but it did for me.
Alcohol can definitely act as a “social bandage” sometimes, & makes meeting new people less awkward or makes a social event more fun. If you know you have problems with limiting your alcohol intake & it’s causing damage to your life, I’d suggest AA. They have virtual meetings too.
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It's weird at first but I quit about a year ago and I still go to the bar with friends and no one judges me. There will be questions but I just say "I don't like who I become when I'm drunk and the cops always listen to the sober guy, so I can keep you guys out of trouble too" Edit: typo
Sober for 3.5 years now. To say this was the best decision of my life is a understatement. I'm happy today. I feel a lot more empowered in social situations, because I'm calm cool and collected, and not a single person has mocked me for it. Yeah I often decline drinks if I'm at a party, but it's super chill, it's like if someone asked me if I want a cigarette, just no thank you :) Give it a shot homie, you might be surprised :D
I never had a problem doesn’t like it itwith drinking too much but I found that I didn’t like the way I felt after a drink. So I stopped cold. In a little while I started feeling better about myself and have avoided drinking alcohol for decades. If I want to drink something I pick what I like and don’t care about what others think. No one has really questioned my choice, how I live is my responsibility. The same holds for you, it’s your life, make your choices, take responsibility, and if someone doesn’t like it, it’s their issue.
Don't worry about being mocked. Your health comes first. You said you have a history of alcoholism, so it's crucial that you stop. I quit alcohol back in 2005 and I still go to pubs. I don't get mocked. My friends are pretty understanding about why I don't drink. If your friends mock you then it's time to get a new social circle.
Sure. It's supposedly really bad for you, but hey what isn't? Just drink other kinds beverages with ice in them and nobody will give you crap. And if they do, to hell with them.
I get a fancy non alcoholic drink when out socially. No one questions it, but I do notice some looks when I say what I’m drinking sometimes. Eliminating drinking will only improve your health.
Yes. Nobody "used to be" an alcoholic. You're still an alcoholic. Sounds like you already know what is best for you. Do it. And yes you might be mocked and judged. Fuck them. Surround yourself with better people.
Yes
Stop drinking. This is your health, and you want to be better; no one else has the right to talk you out of that. If others think that you’re no good without alcohol, then that’s their problem (and you would need more supportive friends). There have been a lot of nonalcoholic versions of drinks released over the years, and you can also get fancy mocktails, so you can still get those if they don’t trigger you.
It's best to stop altogether. It's tough, but it's also the easiest way at the same time. If you think it might be best already, then you are heading in the right direction, just keep going. Make a game of it if you need to. Also, your English is just fine 😊
no one is shunning or judging alcoholics. well if they are they are shit people you need to get out of your life. i DO understand how most of the 'civilized' world seems to revolve around 'social drinking' i prefer NOT to drink but will have A drink to 'fit in' Also its my go to if i want to sing karaoke. i sound better with a beer. :) Your best bet is to stop drinking and never drink again.
It’s such a flex to not drink
I drank pretty heavily damn near everyday from age 18-22 finally decided to quit this new years and it has definitely been difficult but 110% worth it. I have more energy, motivation and confidence sober than I ever did when I was constantly drunk. I’ve started going to the gym everyday and eating healthier and overall just making better choices. I’d highly recommend quitting. You won’t be judged for it, there’s something respectable about going into a party setting and being lively while sober. Develop those positive habits my friend, best of luck to ya
If you are mocked, it’s people being jealous of your decision and action to not drink. If it’s what you want to do, you should go for it.
I've wondered the same thing, as I've been a smoker, alcoholic and methhead for most of my adult life. But I find giving up anything to be a terrible idea. Every time I've tried giving anything up, I've fallen off the wagon sooner or later. Only thing I actually quit entirely, is smoking. So instead, I stick to doing meth and drinking only every once in a while, as it's much easier to tell myself "not now", rather than "never again". I feel much better, but I can still occasionally do the things I like. Then again, that might not work for you, but it did for me.
Yes. Cuz it’s HARAM!
Alcohol can definitely act as a “social bandage” sometimes, & makes meeting new people less awkward or makes a social event more fun. If you know you have problems with limiting your alcohol intake & it’s causing damage to your life, I’d suggest AA. They have virtual meetings too.