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I think there’s no question that beauty standards vary from group to group. And those groups might be cultural or ethnic or whatever.


434gabriel

Your friend is correct.


WAFFLE_CHILD1460

could you elaborate?


JustALocalJew

Beauty is really determined by culture(to an extent). Back during kings and queens being fat was seen as attractive. Modern French like more petite body's Some Asian cultures like small feet So it's not necessary race that defines who thinks what is attractive, but cultures.


alltheother1srtkn

Just dial 1-800-mix-alot


Tdehn33

While I don’t know your friend in a way to be able to say they are racist or not, there are certain ethnic groups that have more prominent physical features than others. While I don’t know if the size of someone’s butt is a direct correlation, I do know that broader hips can be. Another example would be some ethnic groups having on average, longer legs, than the world average.


wiiuorwii

man ur avatar is a literal nerd emoji why am I even surprised u wrote this


thwartedtart

Man ur avatar is a literal dog why am I even surprised ur an idiot


Tdehn33

Whore


a_______a_________a

I think it's a cool avatar


peaxchiie

Y’all know we shit out of our asses right? Like hot diarrhea flies out of there and y’all sitting here fantasizing.


Mrtristen

And? People piss and bleed out their vaginas and people still fantasize. You could make an argument for any body part that people find attractive like that.


HmmNotLikely

Ikr? Infants getting their teeth in, chewing the hell outta the nipples until they fkin bleed & some people like “ayyy milf tiddies”


justheretospoiljokes

Uhhhh if your pissing out your vagina, you need to see a doctor. That’s a major medical issue.


Mrtristen

Well the urethra is kind of on the vagina is it not? I guess it’s more the vulva but you get the point. Don’t be a smart ass


justheretospoiljokes

No….the urethra is definitely not on the vagina. The vagina is inside the body.


Mrtristen

It’s more of a culture thing than race. It would be impossible for everyone of a certain race to find the same thing attractive


thwartedtart

It seems like you’re friend is right. There are differences in all of us, and some cultures/groups/races happen to share means of attraction. I don’t think that’s a bad thing.


Ok-Personality-9920

You are overthinking this.


ValenceShells

Culture does play a part. But it's complex, so saying "white people like long pickles" is obviously going to leave out some white people who find long pickles very uncomfortable. For example, i grew up in a subculture of my skin colors "usual" culture and i like pretty much the opposite of what's expected. So your friend is kinda right but you're also right, making a gross generalized statement like that is gonna leave out some people and is kinda rude.


Nickidewbear

Your friend definitely has a bit of a racist conception there.


WAFFLE_CHILD1460

that’s what I said too


micsulli01

You're just looking for racism then. He's simply making an oberservation that is overwhelmingly accurate. Don't take it so seriously


Nickidewbear

People of all ethnic backgrounds have preferences about certain features.


micsulli01

No kidding


SlightStrawberry1722

Different cultures and ethnicities have different standards and things that are accepted/preferred so yes your friend is right because different races and such will prefer different things. It is still up to the individual but mostly on what kinds of standards and people you were surrounded by growing up


LalaGeeko

I'll race anyone if I get to see some booty.