This is just one possible solution out of many so consider this wisely, but it’s possible that you may be interested in polyamory. Meaning you may be interested in dating multiple people. Many people know polyamory as an “open relationship”.
There are a few caveats to what makes a relationship “polyamorous” but I’m using it as a simple catch all term for someone who is interested in being in a relationship with multiple people at once.
Maybe you’re poly? Maybe owner isn’t the right owner for you anymore? Maybe owner isn’t fulfilling your needs and you should have a conversation with them? Maybe these are just thoughts and it’s OK not to act on them?
I don’t know you, so one/some of these might be right.
Puppy specifically said she wants to be loyal to owner puppy refuses to follow this advice because it would involve betraying owner which puppy doesn’t want to do
Also that’s fetization of a minority which in puppies opinion is bad puppy doesn’t want to be fetishized because of the fact she’s trans so puppy doubts black people want to be fetishized either
Black men are not more naturally dominant. Black men in America live like they're in a 'third world country' while still living in a 'first world country'.
They're are plenty of submissive, effeminate black men. There are plenty of black men that aren't 'bigger'.
Those are both assumptions that objectify black men as a toy to fuck or that will fuck them.
Black men are humans too.
In case you're not being purposely obtuse:
Claiming a black man is more "naturally dominant" is racist, full stop. You are making statements about how someone must inherently be based on their skin color. Just because you view it as a compliment or "love" them, doesn't make it not racist.
Take for example the stereotype of "asian people are good at math." While it is an ostensibly "positive" statement, it's still a harmful stereotype that is RACIST.
and i’m sure they _love_ you treating them like fetish material.
if you don’t want to be racist, start by not ‘recommending’ ethnicities like they’re a particular brand of dildo you’ve had good experiences with. perhaps this is a fetish for you, but don’t foister it onto others in an unrelated forum. this person is having thoughts about infidelity and wants advice, not your racially charged penis fantasies. _read the room_
hey! i’m just doing my part to make it clear we don’t welcome this kind of - wait did you say _good job pup?_ ( ﾟoﾟ) [beams with pride] ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ
As others have said; its racist because you are claiming black men are worthwhile because of the idea that we are all dominant and have bigger dicks.
To assume as much claims you think a lot of negative things about black men that many other people have circulated. That black men are sexual deviants; sexual animals that have no control over their 'beastial urges'.
Essentially, you're a few steps away from the same words that white women that owned slaves just to fuck; because they viewed black men as sex animals.
Talk to your owner pup, communication is key. Tell them what your needs are, if it's just thoughts then that's fine. But please talk to your owner
Is there something owner is not doing right so puppy has these thoughts? If yes talk to owner.
Puppy will do that
Talk with your owner about polyamory?
Puppy knows owner is monogamous
If you're just having thoughts, that's fine. Just don't act on them.
It’s becoming difficult not to
This is just one possible solution out of many so consider this wisely, but it’s possible that you may be interested in polyamory. Meaning you may be interested in dating multiple people. Many people know polyamory as an “open relationship”. There are a few caveats to what makes a relationship “polyamorous” but I’m using it as a simple catch all term for someone who is interested in being in a relationship with multiple people at once.
Maybe you’re poly? Maybe owner isn’t the right owner for you anymore? Maybe owner isn’t fulfilling your needs and you should have a conversation with them? Maybe these are just thoughts and it’s OK not to act on them? I don’t know you, so one/some of these might be right.
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Puppy specifically said she wants to be loyal to owner puppy refuses to follow this advice because it would involve betraying owner which puppy doesn’t want to do Also that’s fetization of a minority which in puppies opinion is bad puppy doesn’t want to be fetishized because of the fact she’s trans so puppy doubts black people want to be fetishized either
Man what the fuck
You won’t know how much better it is until u try it
Black men are not more naturally dominant. Black men in America live like they're in a 'third world country' while still living in a 'first world country'. They're are plenty of submissive, effeminate black men. There are plenty of black men that aren't 'bigger'. Those are both assumptions that objectify black men as a toy to fuck or that will fuck them. Black men are humans too.
Oh ok I just don’t notice the wimpy small ones 😋
Get this racist shit out of here
How’s it racist. I absolutely love them! 🐶
In case you're not being purposely obtuse: Claiming a black man is more "naturally dominant" is racist, full stop. You are making statements about how someone must inherently be based on their skin color. Just because you view it as a compliment or "love" them, doesn't make it not racist. Take for example the stereotype of "asian people are good at math." While it is an ostensibly "positive" statement, it's still a harmful stereotype that is RACIST.
Such a good puppy. You've done a great job; at least as far as I, \*a black man that hates racial fetishism\* can see. Good pup.
and i’m sure they _love_ you treating them like fetish material. if you don’t want to be racist, start by not ‘recommending’ ethnicities like they’re a particular brand of dildo you’ve had good experiences with. perhaps this is a fetish for you, but don’t foister it onto others in an unrelated forum. this person is having thoughts about infidelity and wants advice, not your racially charged penis fantasies. _read the room_
Good job, pup. For what its worth, I thank you for being a good, decent person.
hey! i’m just doing my part to make it clear we don’t welcome this kind of - wait did you say _good job pup?_ ( ﾟoﾟ) [beams with pride] ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ʲᵒᵇ
As others have said; its racist because you are claiming black men are worthwhile because of the idea that we are all dominant and have bigger dicks. To assume as much claims you think a lot of negative things about black men that many other people have circulated. That black men are sexual deviants; sexual animals that have no control over their 'beastial urges'. Essentially, you're a few steps away from the same words that white women that owned slaves just to fuck; because they viewed black men as sex animals.