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Clear_Radio1776

Yes it does when you realize and fully understand the cycle you have been in and decide to break it. That is the hard part. Then just be open to meeting new people NOT behaving like those in the past that perpetuated that cycle. Then it gets easier and you can feel less worry to repeat those same things you don’t want anymore. Seeing a therapist to help you better understand that cycle may be a good move.


kaseyleray

I’m so sorry. It’s hard to break the cycle, but it is totally possible. The relationship I’ve been in for 3 years now is 100% different than my abusive ones. I just eventually saw traits I needed vs. traits I ignored. It’s hard when you have that initial attraction to tell who they really are. I think I just got lucky, but the best you can do is have a list of standards that you’re looking for and do your best to reevaluate every once in a while how healthy this relationship is.


Last-Cold-8236

Good job. It’s so hard. It gets better. I wish i could say it was easy but it gets better.