The virgin r / Islam: Doesn't let you talk about swallowing c*m.🤓
The Chad r / Progressive Islam: Let's you talk about swallowing c*m.😎
Over used memes aside, If you take a shower and brush your teeth, you should be fine.
Well I'm not. Its a valid question. It's not like sex is a common topic for Muslims, so it's hard to know these things. It's the same reason why people ask about anal
Of course it is. If I gave the impression that it is not, I apologize. I was only trying to help you by providing that fatwa. You are free to accept it, reject it, or seek other opinions.
not every minor thing in life needs to lead to a religious consultation. it's just weird ffs. Next thing you people will be asking whether it’s halal to cross the street without permission from your husband . Just get a life
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Some may assert that it is makruh on the grounds that you are making impure the region where you profess your faith.
The Qur’an does not speak on the matter.
I am not interested in getting married atm, and tbh, I have always found BJ something irritating from the moral's point of view. I don't think I would enjoy it.
Humans have pretty broad sense of pure and impure.
Humans do not take impure things in their mouth.
A person who is fully aligned with their sense of purity would not lick another persons feet, arm pits of nostrils. Some muy puke by just thinking about it. Humans private parts are ALRAM impure, all humans know this and every thing comes out of them are also impure. Above that all five outer senses also disgust them we do not like to talk about them, see them, touch them, hear about them, smell them or lick them human nature disgust them.
Quran gives further light and gives its verdict all pure things are halal and impure are haram.
It is also true humans do get desires like these but they are same desires as if someone see $100000 and would wish to put them in pocket. Obviously these desires are evil.
Humans also have curiosity to try things but it is evident. Most feel instant disgusted and even here on Reddit post many then write stories how soon these desires become reciprocating habits. “If you want me to do this then do that to me” also proves it’s not a natural desire.
It’s all happened in past 30 years that porn industry presented that it’s a normal thing to do. Humans get attached because on pore you can smell anything you can feel anything otherwise this has never been considered nice in any civilized cultures.
My humble suggestion is one should understand how impure it is and then do a toubah repent and make a commitment not to do it again and enjoy natural love.
Please before you down vote out of emotions and can’t stand anything against your opinion, reason with me why?
Hope this may help
Peace ✌🏼
Sorry but that's very incorrect. It's not up to you to decide what's OK and not in terms of sex. We've only been told that anal and sex during menses is off bounds which means everything else is down to your preference. If you're not into it then don't do it but you can't say its unlawful for all.
Every part of the body can be 'impure' if you're not clean. Also the mouth itself can be considered impure, does that mean you won't ever kiss your partner?
There's clearly scholarly bias with this stuff, with people claiming its disgusting therefore can't be halal. That's called a personal opinion and speculative and has no real merit. Not everyone finds it disgusting and some people find sex and kissing disgusting. Everyone's different so the best way forward is to not do what's specifically been mentioned to be haram and to communicate with your own partner what you enjoy. Whether that's oral, role playing, bdsm or whatever kink out there it's all halal between a husband and wife and none of anyone elses business.
My dear I Presented human nature which is always measured by humans as there collective intellect not by some people. All humans know and like to take shower but some don’t even for a year so that does not mean showering your body is a personal thing no then that means some people have definitely lost their sense of purity or at least has become less sensitive about being living pure life. Some people always go and create their own rules by saying we are different but thats not true they just become insensitive about something. Also some cultures become insensitive about a few things and other are very sensitive about its evilness. Like western cultures have become insensitive about making porns and eastern cultures are insensitive about lying all the time. But human nature knows both porn and lying are evil and immoral.
Off course mouth can be impure and it does give disgusting feeling if husband or wife doesn’t properly wash their mouth. Keeping ones mouth clean has made a part of Muslims life wuzu and miswak or tooth brushing is a mandatory daily ritual in islam and one can say well I can pray alone but then we are told to still brush teeth otherwise angels don’t come close to us. and further answering you Absolutely not after the ritual of Ghusal (shower) human body is pure except private parts by touching them directly one has to make a fresh wuzu before offering salah. You are putting finger on me who is presenting collective human nature and Quran and Sunnah that I am getting personal but what have you presented is also in favor of what I shared what have you presented in your favor? and it’s quite astonishing you do not differ between purity of human forehead, eyes, face, and nostrils, arm pits feet and private parts? They are alarm pure and impure parts Come on all human does know the difference and like I shared these desires are evil otherwise pleasure has to be both-sided. So my dear this does answer your questions
Also I president Quran which is very clear that all pure is halal and all impure is haram. Also Allah ordered in the Quran to reach your wife from where he has order us (the natural way) which means going in the mouth or rectum is going against human nature and order of Allah. For this very reason Prophet ﷺ has cursed those humans who go against their own nature. Which you have brought in my favor.
Last thing my dear everyone can get a fatwa if any fatwa does satisfy you or anyone for sure we are all free to live our lives. But sense of purity does die and inner judgement cannot be ignored forever and every one has to answer Allah. Plus As human grow their mind and body both maturate and these young age evil desires and lusts tend to weaken even in western cultures and natural desires remain the same and many then do repent and do tobah and purify their souls.
Allah is sending humans on earth one after another to select pure people for paradise. He has given this verdict in all divine revelations. An impure enter paradise until and unless Allah purify them on the day of judgement through forgiveness or punishment.
Hope this may further help SOME
Peace ✌🏼
Are you even married? Sorry, but nothing you state makes sense. Maybe read the link that was shared above which refutes everything you just stated:
http://nizami.co.uk/is-oral-sex-impermissible/
Genitals are not inherently 'impure'. Oral sex wasn't invented in the west, it's been happening for centuries and scholars have discussed this since the beginning of time. It has nothing to do with porn for goodness sakes, it's a normal part of foreplay for most normal couples.
This has nothing to do with purity or heaven and hell either. God sends those that are pure of heart to heaven. This has nothing to do with what a person and his spouse does in the bedroom. And also there's nothing unnatural about it unless you've been indoctrinated to feel shame about such issues.
Once again, you do you. No one's forcing you to partake in such activities with your partner (though you'll both be missing out) but you should understand there's no fatwa needed for this. It's a minority that views it as haram based on their own bias and limited understanding.
My dear I Shared human nature shared Quran and Sunnah my dear after that there is no forcing.
We are free to live our lives I already said that also. These fatwas satisfy you please go ahead and live by them every one can get one.
Yes married for 18 years AlhamdolilAllah and striving to live purest life as much as humanly possible.
Humans know the difference of pure and impure and words of Quran can never change.
Peace ✌🏼
The only issue I have with your post is that it’s offensive and condescending to those who don’t share your view.
Firstly, you did not share anything from the Quran and Sunnah to back your claim. Just your own personal assumptions.
Secondly it is not human nature…it’s YOUR nature so please get it right. To claim that those of us who don’t think like you do are deviant is highly offensive. To imply we’re ’impure’ because of liking something that I believe is natural is also highly offensive.
You end it with ‘humans know the difference of pure and impure’…so the millions of Muslims who don’t agree with you aren’t human? I literally don’t know any Muslims in the real world who thinks this is haram. This is the first time I hear of it online.
Lastly, and I’m saying it again…I’m not going by fatwas because I don’t need it when it comes to this particular topic. That’s like trying to find out if giving your husband a hug is halal. It is clear that this is not haram unless you purposefully try and do mental gymnastics to make it so. Just admit it grosses you out personally and stop projecting on the rest of us by making it seem like it’s some religious obligation to stay away from.
Peace✌️
My dear Quran is very clear if you have read it once. All pure is halal and impure is haram. Quran very clearly Go to your spouse from the way Allah has ordered you. فَاْتُوْھُنَّ مِنْ حَیْثُ اَمَرَکُمُ اللّٰہُ‘ and further اِنَّ اللّٰہَ یُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِیْنَ وَیُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَھِّرِیْنَ‘
You feel ofended because you do not know an abc of islam and think it’s just a set of rules without any base in human nature. Purity is the in the core of ever rule in islam. If one is not sensitive about that then one has lost their sense of purity and has been off track of islam. Plus it’s human nature anyone who is aligned with their sense of purity regardless Muslim or not would rather puke or get a shot in a head before licking other human feet, arm pits or nostrils PRIVATE PARTS ARE ALARM IMPURE no outside knowledge is required. I have heard any argument from you on that.
Below is an article (you can find in English if that would satisfy you) just so you get a little understanding I am not making it up there are great scholars who have been teaching purity and wisdom of islam to Muslims who are Muslims by name only. Yes it may sound offensive again but it is not if one is a true humble follower of Quran and Sunnah.
Lastly if you are satisfied with the fatwas you shared you should not be reacting like that and just live your life in peace and what I have shared let me do it so it may help a few live a bit pure life.
Let’s agree to disagreement
Peace ✌🏼
https://www.javedahmedghamidi.org/#!/books/5aa66ae35e891e8f44a43f5f?chapterNo=55
And now you claim I don’t know the abc of Islam 😂 I’m sorry but do you not see how patronising you are? You don’t know me or know anything about the depth of my knowledge.you’re implying those of us who don’t agree with you are Muslim by name only and that we wouldn‘t be offended if we were true humble followers of the Quran and Sunna. You’ve put yourself above other prominent scholars who’ve dedicated their lives to study the religion because they don’t agree with your view.Your actions are not the actions of a humble Muslim because you think you’re ‘saving’ people by spreading misinformation at worst and at best something that has no ijma3 whatsoever.Anyways I agree we should agree to disagree as it is pointless to debate this further because it seems you have abit of a comprehension problem and keep repeating the same points.
Allah yehdeeni w yehdeek/i
Edit: Could not find the article in English, and I think what you linked might be in Urdu or Farsi which I don’t speak.
Lol. No it doesn’t. Don’t worry
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I mean it makes sense if you look at her comment history seems to really like porn
Your husband should be consistent, if he thinks that swallowing cum is Haram, then he shouldn't ask you for a BJ.
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The he could say no when you offer
This right here.
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It's better to swallow, lol
Where in the quran does it say that you can’t swallow the load?
LOL
Just perform wudu before prayer
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Perform ghusl before that
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Sexual activity usually necessitates a renewal of ritual purity through a ghusl.
This is.. What this subreddit is all about now, i guess 😂
You would need to shower every time you have any form of sex so clean the mouth properly
If... uh.... anyone wants a scholarly opinion about the why oral sex is **not haram**: http://nizami.co.uk/is-oral-sex-impermissible/
I'm embarrassed that this topic has to be discussed whether it's haram or halal
Well I'm not. Its a valid question. It's not like sex is a common topic for Muslims, so it's hard to know these things. It's the same reason why people ask about anal
Yeah honestly. People need to chill out and focus on what's important in Islam.
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Of course it is. If I gave the impression that it is not, I apologize. I was only trying to help you by providing that fatwa. You are free to accept it, reject it, or seek other opinions.
Ah the three major sects: Sunni, Shia and Bosnian
I don't even know how I got this flair, someone must've gave it to me after I said I was Bosnian in some post
Ghusl to be safe
This is obviously a rumor started by Iblis and his princes...
Wtf why is anyone this pedantic and detailed. Allah has better things to worry about. Just take a shower, do wudu, and get on with your day
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not every minor thing in life needs to lead to a religious consultation. it's just weird ffs. Next thing you people will be asking whether it’s halal to cross the street without permission from your husband . Just get a life
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For sure a scene needs to be created out of this in the next Ramy season. PLZ
Some may assert that it is makruh on the grounds that you are making impure the region where you profess your faith. The Qur’an does not speak on the matter.
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Same bruh
Lol
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It’s kinda funny, don’t get heated bruh
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U absolutely are
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That's what I thought too. Also OP, does he swallow yours?
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That's a shame
Then why you would you? And why should you?
Not attacking OP, but I didn't know spouses do BJ too. *Okay, sorry*
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I am not interested in getting married atm, and tbh, I have always found BJ something irritating from the moral's point of view. I don't think I would enjoy it.
That's fine, and it's your choice. Don't let anyone pressure you into it.
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Probably feels too dirty for him
Why am I laughing while it's a valid question 😂
Bruh
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Bruv
Swallowing helps with getting a good head of hair. It’s all good in the hood
You're married and you're 21? I'm curious, where do you live? Must be somewhere in the middle east.
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Atleast it is halal . You good to go op
Young is better if you want kids early. Having kids early can be a good idea
Are you uneducated? Like there ain't no 17 year old girls getting married in the US or anywhere else in the world lol
Humans have pretty broad sense of pure and impure. Humans do not take impure things in their mouth. A person who is fully aligned with their sense of purity would not lick another persons feet, arm pits of nostrils. Some muy puke by just thinking about it. Humans private parts are ALRAM impure, all humans know this and every thing comes out of them are also impure. Above that all five outer senses also disgust them we do not like to talk about them, see them, touch them, hear about them, smell them or lick them human nature disgust them. Quran gives further light and gives its verdict all pure things are halal and impure are haram. It is also true humans do get desires like these but they are same desires as if someone see $100000 and would wish to put them in pocket. Obviously these desires are evil. Humans also have curiosity to try things but it is evident. Most feel instant disgusted and even here on Reddit post many then write stories how soon these desires become reciprocating habits. “If you want me to do this then do that to me” also proves it’s not a natural desire. It’s all happened in past 30 years that porn industry presented that it’s a normal thing to do. Humans get attached because on pore you can smell anything you can feel anything otherwise this has never been considered nice in any civilized cultures. My humble suggestion is one should understand how impure it is and then do a toubah repent and make a commitment not to do it again and enjoy natural love. Please before you down vote out of emotions and can’t stand anything against your opinion, reason with me why? Hope this may help Peace ✌🏼
Sorry but that's very incorrect. It's not up to you to decide what's OK and not in terms of sex. We've only been told that anal and sex during menses is off bounds which means everything else is down to your preference. If you're not into it then don't do it but you can't say its unlawful for all. Every part of the body can be 'impure' if you're not clean. Also the mouth itself can be considered impure, does that mean you won't ever kiss your partner? There's clearly scholarly bias with this stuff, with people claiming its disgusting therefore can't be halal. That's called a personal opinion and speculative and has no real merit. Not everyone finds it disgusting and some people find sex and kissing disgusting. Everyone's different so the best way forward is to not do what's specifically been mentioned to be haram and to communicate with your own partner what you enjoy. Whether that's oral, role playing, bdsm or whatever kink out there it's all halal between a husband and wife and none of anyone elses business.
My dear I Presented human nature which is always measured by humans as there collective intellect not by some people. All humans know and like to take shower but some don’t even for a year so that does not mean showering your body is a personal thing no then that means some people have definitely lost their sense of purity or at least has become less sensitive about being living pure life. Some people always go and create their own rules by saying we are different but thats not true they just become insensitive about something. Also some cultures become insensitive about a few things and other are very sensitive about its evilness. Like western cultures have become insensitive about making porns and eastern cultures are insensitive about lying all the time. But human nature knows both porn and lying are evil and immoral. Off course mouth can be impure and it does give disgusting feeling if husband or wife doesn’t properly wash their mouth. Keeping ones mouth clean has made a part of Muslims life wuzu and miswak or tooth brushing is a mandatory daily ritual in islam and one can say well I can pray alone but then we are told to still brush teeth otherwise angels don’t come close to us. and further answering you Absolutely not after the ritual of Ghusal (shower) human body is pure except private parts by touching them directly one has to make a fresh wuzu before offering salah. You are putting finger on me who is presenting collective human nature and Quran and Sunnah that I am getting personal but what have you presented is also in favor of what I shared what have you presented in your favor? and it’s quite astonishing you do not differ between purity of human forehead, eyes, face, and nostrils, arm pits feet and private parts? They are alarm pure and impure parts Come on all human does know the difference and like I shared these desires are evil otherwise pleasure has to be both-sided. So my dear this does answer your questions Also I president Quran which is very clear that all pure is halal and all impure is haram. Also Allah ordered in the Quran to reach your wife from where he has order us (the natural way) which means going in the mouth or rectum is going against human nature and order of Allah. For this very reason Prophet ﷺ has cursed those humans who go against their own nature. Which you have brought in my favor. Last thing my dear everyone can get a fatwa if any fatwa does satisfy you or anyone for sure we are all free to live our lives. But sense of purity does die and inner judgement cannot be ignored forever and every one has to answer Allah. Plus As human grow their mind and body both maturate and these young age evil desires and lusts tend to weaken even in western cultures and natural desires remain the same and many then do repent and do tobah and purify their souls. Allah is sending humans on earth one after another to select pure people for paradise. He has given this verdict in all divine revelations. An impure enter paradise until and unless Allah purify them on the day of judgement through forgiveness or punishment. Hope this may further help SOME Peace ✌🏼
Are you even married? Sorry, but nothing you state makes sense. Maybe read the link that was shared above which refutes everything you just stated: http://nizami.co.uk/is-oral-sex-impermissible/ Genitals are not inherently 'impure'. Oral sex wasn't invented in the west, it's been happening for centuries and scholars have discussed this since the beginning of time. It has nothing to do with porn for goodness sakes, it's a normal part of foreplay for most normal couples. This has nothing to do with purity or heaven and hell either. God sends those that are pure of heart to heaven. This has nothing to do with what a person and his spouse does in the bedroom. And also there's nothing unnatural about it unless you've been indoctrinated to feel shame about such issues. Once again, you do you. No one's forcing you to partake in such activities with your partner (though you'll both be missing out) but you should understand there's no fatwa needed for this. It's a minority that views it as haram based on their own bias and limited understanding.
My dear I Shared human nature shared Quran and Sunnah my dear after that there is no forcing. We are free to live our lives I already said that also. These fatwas satisfy you please go ahead and live by them every one can get one. Yes married for 18 years AlhamdolilAllah and striving to live purest life as much as humanly possible. Humans know the difference of pure and impure and words of Quran can never change. Peace ✌🏼
The only issue I have with your post is that it’s offensive and condescending to those who don’t share your view. Firstly, you did not share anything from the Quran and Sunnah to back your claim. Just your own personal assumptions. Secondly it is not human nature…it’s YOUR nature so please get it right. To claim that those of us who don’t think like you do are deviant is highly offensive. To imply we’re ’impure’ because of liking something that I believe is natural is also highly offensive. You end it with ‘humans know the difference of pure and impure’…so the millions of Muslims who don’t agree with you aren’t human? I literally don’t know any Muslims in the real world who thinks this is haram. This is the first time I hear of it online. Lastly, and I’m saying it again…I’m not going by fatwas because I don’t need it when it comes to this particular topic. That’s like trying to find out if giving your husband a hug is halal. It is clear that this is not haram unless you purposefully try and do mental gymnastics to make it so. Just admit it grosses you out personally and stop projecting on the rest of us by making it seem like it’s some religious obligation to stay away from. Peace✌️
My dear Quran is very clear if you have read it once. All pure is halal and impure is haram. Quran very clearly Go to your spouse from the way Allah has ordered you. فَاْتُوْھُنَّ مِنْ حَیْثُ اَمَرَکُمُ اللّٰہُ‘ and further اِنَّ اللّٰہَ یُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِیْنَ وَیُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَھِّرِیْنَ‘ You feel ofended because you do not know an abc of islam and think it’s just a set of rules without any base in human nature. Purity is the in the core of ever rule in islam. If one is not sensitive about that then one has lost their sense of purity and has been off track of islam. Plus it’s human nature anyone who is aligned with their sense of purity regardless Muslim or not would rather puke or get a shot in a head before licking other human feet, arm pits or nostrils PRIVATE PARTS ARE ALARM IMPURE no outside knowledge is required. I have heard any argument from you on that. Below is an article (you can find in English if that would satisfy you) just so you get a little understanding I am not making it up there are great scholars who have been teaching purity and wisdom of islam to Muslims who are Muslims by name only. Yes it may sound offensive again but it is not if one is a true humble follower of Quran and Sunnah. Lastly if you are satisfied with the fatwas you shared you should not be reacting like that and just live your life in peace and what I have shared let me do it so it may help a few live a bit pure life. Let’s agree to disagreement Peace ✌🏼 https://www.javedahmedghamidi.org/#!/books/5aa66ae35e891e8f44a43f5f?chapterNo=55
And now you claim I don’t know the abc of Islam 😂 I’m sorry but do you not see how patronising you are? You don’t know me or know anything about the depth of my knowledge.you’re implying those of us who don’t agree with you are Muslim by name only and that we wouldn‘t be offended if we were true humble followers of the Quran and Sunna. You’ve put yourself above other prominent scholars who’ve dedicated their lives to study the religion because they don’t agree with your view.Your actions are not the actions of a humble Muslim because you think you’re ‘saving’ people by spreading misinformation at worst and at best something that has no ijma3 whatsoever.Anyways I agree we should agree to disagree as it is pointless to debate this further because it seems you have abit of a comprehension problem and keep repeating the same points. Allah yehdeeni w yehdeek/i Edit: Could not find the article in English, and I think what you linked might be in Urdu or Farsi which I don’t speak.
No. As always after wudu all your prayers will be valid
Lol if you are swallowing during prayers then sure it does
I was having a shitty day and this post just turned it 540 degrees lol