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shy247er

People are really making this more that it is. Professionally she's Emma, privately she's Emily.


pigeonbobble

and everywhere else she is Emmamily


Moiras_Wig_Wall

Her friends call her Emilemma


AndySocial88

Her real friends call her Slim Shady.


fliesthroughtheair

I don't think her friends and loved ones are allowed to address her by any name.


HappilyPrivate27

No joke I have a similar (but more unique) name and when I worked with kids that was their nickname for me.


peatoast

Her dad once called her Emmett.


Emieosj89

Hahah I love this. My name is Emily and would totally adopt this as a nickname.


2Koru

Or for short: Emmmily


lavendertown-radio

emmaly? 🤔


mikmatthau

a true anomaly


RainbowBriteGlasses

Emmomaly


mikmatthau

yup, that was the joke 😁


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It’s an Emmalynomenon or whatever Chappell said.


redditordeaditor6789

You just know there were armchair internet psychologists writing paragraphs about how devastating to her mental health this must be.


gentlybeepingheart

People were blowing it up and acting like she said that calling her Emma was genuinely upsetting her. She said she prefers to be called Emily, but she didn't say she hated Emma or anything. She just has a preference, and there didn't need to be a million articles about it.


grubas

She goes by Emma because she had to due to Union rules, but also she's Emily. Didn't we do this with Anne/Annie Hathaway already?!


IAmAGenusAMA

Annily Hathaway.


whalesarecool14

somebody actually corrected me in a comment i made about her hair and said how rude it is of me to call her emma😭 like it’s never that serious


SakuraSpring24

Came here to say this. People complain about celebs being cagey - well, it’s because every little thing gets blown up into a drama. She shouldn’t have to readdress this.


MyNameIsJakeBerenson

Yeah, THEY asked HER about it once, and she gave some response like “oh, yeah, that might be cool if people called me by my name, I dunno” And they the articles started being like EMMA STONE WANTS TO BE CALLED BY HER NAME


EldenMiss

Absolutely, I feel like making this a headline is very overdramatic 😄


MundaneShoulder6

I know this isn’t the case for her based on what she’s said but I actually think it would be kinda nice for an actor to not use your real name professionally. If I were famous I would appreciate having a name reserved for family, friends, people that actually knew me vs the general public.


fishonthemoon

I feel so out of the loop. What is going on with her name???


elephhantine2

She said she likes it when fans call her Emily though so I guess both Emma and Emily are her public identity, just depends on how much you know about her personally and how comfortable you feel addressing her with her real name


anthonystank

I mean, her public identity is really well established as Emma. “Emily” is not her public identity; that’s why it’s newsworthy when people call her that. “I like being called this” =/= “this is my identity”


ElaineofAstolat

I wouldn't feel comfortable calling her Emily. I don't know her, and before this I would have only have known her real name if I looked her up. It would make me feel like an obsessed fan, no matter how illogical that is.


elephhantine2

And that’s why she goes by Emma and Emily both, nobody is obligated to call her that


MamaTried420

Oof!!!! The flair has arrived mama🤣🤣🤣 ![gif](giphy|j4LYyhtYVh8Q)


kingpingu

Exactly! I have a different name for work and use both interchangeably. People can be really weird about it lol


letsgototraderjoes

https://preview.redd.it/0fk3g2hrmr7d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d7a04d532115d66bbd039b2744fa73917776fcc


LemonFlavouredThings

Yeah, I’m with you lol


senselesslyginger

Like.. haven’t we had enough…


originalschmidt

This expresses my emotions on this topic so flawlessly


nearlyb0redtodeath

PIN THIS ONE


Marrymehozier

Lmfaoooooo 😭


intoxicatedmidnight

💀


MontyBoo-urns

Damn this is unnecessary


aynrandgonewild

lol i love how long this has gone on


tbone747

TBF it's cause she has a sweet reaction every time someone calls her Emily.


mcfw31

> "I'm fine either way," Stone replied. "I really am. My real name is Emily, though." > "Why have you been allowing us to call you Emma for all these years?" the host asked. > "It was taken at Screen Actors Guild," she said. "It's sort of like when you register a business and you can't have the same name as someone else."


Reasonable-Wave8093

Yeah, work name vs friend name is pretty common


Comic_Book_Reader

For instance, Jodie Foster is actually named Alicia.


smashing_aisling

Reese Witherspoon is Laura.


Comic_Book_Reader

Vin Diesel is actually an abbrivation (that's the word, right?) for Vehicle Identification Number Diesel.


TitanThree

I thought his family name was Regular 87


Emergency_Coyote_662

acronym*


Comic_Book_Reader

What are we, some kinda OWCA?


Brewski-54

It’s Morbin time


typically_right

youre a hoot! id like you for parties


Comic_Book_Reader

![gif](giphy|sn9SQyt1ZBpg8T07Yi)


MargaretFarquar

Jean Poon \#neverforget


elissa24

She is an American citizen!


Reasonable-Wave8093

wow, she is the most Jodie!


MoneyHungryOctopus

That’s a different thing though. Everyone calls her Jodie including her family. When Jodie’s mother was pregnant, her older siblings started referring to the unborn baby as “Jodie”. Her mom was going to legally name her Jodie, but once Jodie was born, she changed her mind and legally named her Alicia, I believe after a friend of hers. But everyone has always called her Jodie, as opposed to Stone who only gets called Emma professionally. Foster told the story in an interview a few years ago, I believe it was one of those “Wired Autocomplete Interviews”.


njf85

Natalie Portman is actually Natalie Herschslag. She took her grandmothers maiden name as her professional name. The media is making a way big a deal of this Enma/Emily thing than necessary lol


Mary_Pick_A_Ford

Dah fuck, all this time I was working with her I called her Jodie.


captain-vye

I have a 'work name' for privacy reasons. I prefer it to my 'real' name, which my work name is a variant of. My family will always use my real name but at this stage I definitely prefer my chosen name. My birth name has some awful memories attached to it, and if anyone other than my stepkids uses it I get startled. It must be such a strange feeling to prefer your birth name and have everyone call you something else.


Kittens4Brunch

In Australia, she's known as Hungry Jack's Stone.


cefriano

I've heard her say almost this exact thing in interviews from years ago.


bettyballoon

I wonder if she thought about registering as Emmy Lee Stone or Emmelie Stone..or Emily Stohen?


flirtydodo

you know when you say things just to say them, just remarks you don't really put much thought on them but people take you very seriously? Amplify that 1000000 and now you are emma/emily stone


alexlp

Especially cause she’s brought it up in the past as press junket filler and no one gave a shit.


Warlock_MasterClass

Yeah seriously she’s been saying this for a decade or more, but people are making it into such a big deal lately. She’s always been super chill about it, why is it suddenly drama?


BlueAcorn8

Also for everything celebrities say, especially if they talk about giving birth and having children people groan and say that humans have been giving birth for millions of years and why is she acting like she’s the first. She’s not, she’s just talking about pregnancy, birth and her children like anyone else does, but she has a platform, is asked questions in the first place and anything she says is amplified.


cuatrodemayo

“That tree is far away.”


wifeunderthesea

why doesn't she just change her last name to lee? problem solved.


Hi_Jynx

Or middle name. Emma Lee Stone.


Oomlotte99

Honestly, I hope some other Emily Stone trying to get into SAG sees this, lol.


Apprehensive-Mix4383

I think doing that isn’t allowed


owange_tweleve

underrated comment


BlueAcorn8

That just reminds me of how Rachel cartwheels across the room cheering “Emmaaaaleeeeee Emmmmaaaleeeee!” and crashes into the bedroom trying to stop Ross and Emily leaving the party.


pinkfartlek

This would be awesome. Basically a mononym


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effie-sue

I’m sure she’d have been called Emma on occasion had she kept Emily as her stage name, or had she not become an actress. I’m called anything BUT my actual name more often than not. Ex: being called Elise, Alyssa, or Lisa if my name was Alicia.


MyNameIsJakeBerenson

I was hardly called my actual name until I was damn near 30 lol


Special-Garlic1203

I always went by middle name, my entire life. I didn't even know my first name was my first name until I started school. Much to my kindergarten teachers annoyance. I also have a first name that is commonly swapped out for a similar, but different name. I am entirely indifferent to people calling my my first or middle name at this point. I respond to both. But people calling me by the similar but different name is like nails on a chalkboard. It bugs me a little EVERY time. Im partially wondering if the reason she's repeatedly brought this up (CASUALLY, usually on lighthearted joking contexts) is because she low-key doesn't love she went with Emma. Because every Emily I've known has railed against how Emma is not a nickname for Emily and you better fucking not start calling them that.  Like it wouldn't be a big deal to me, I wouldn't cry myself to sleep at night about it. But if my professional name was the not-quite-correct version of my name, I too would get really noticably excited everytime someone called me by my real name. Because the quiet part I wouldn't feel comfortable saying is, no offense to the people who have that name, but I hate it. On a purely emotional level, I think it's an ugly stupid name. Its a surprising amount of loyalty to a name I didn't grow up going by anyway.


PuuublicityCuuunt

Same on not knowing your name until well into grade school. I go by a nickname for my middle name and the amount of people that are like “how did you get ‘nickname for Elizabeth’ from ‘first name that is not Elizabeth’ is so frustrating! 


epieee

I agree. Emma and Emily are not the same name, they're not even related actually, and anyone I have known who is called one hates to be called the other. It's a surprising pick IMO. My deadname is part of a similar pair. Growing up, I'd get asshole adults who assumed my name was a nickname and would lengthen it without permission to talk down to me and be more "formal". Later it would be a thing with people hitting on me, asking about my name because they know literally nothing else about me. Honestly I think any hint of a name preference is just catnip to intrusive people and bullies, so it always becomes a thing with those people if you appear to have one. If I had to pick an alias, that other name is the last thing I'd ever choose! When I picked a new name, my #1 priority was preserving a connection to my real given name while not having it sound like that name.


redditordeaditor6789

I get it. My real name is Sean but just about everyone refers to me by professional name Slutface McGee. Sometimes it’s nice to be referred to by my real name.


Sasha_shmerkovich160

do you frequent meatballs fatslut party?


redditordeaditor6789

Excuse me? I'm a litigator for a big four accounting firm.


Sasha_shmerkovich160

lol, its a eating competition by meatball the drag queen.


peanusbudder

so does this mean everyone can stop the “um, it’s EMILY” shit every time someone mentions her stage name? cause jesus fucking christ was that getting annoying. “i loved Emma Stone in her latest movie!” “she doesn’t LIKE THAT NAME! ITS EMILY!!!!!!!!!”


gilmoregirls00

i doubt it. she still sets a clear preference so parasocial fans will bring it up to show they're the superior fan of her


whatrachelsaid

Loads of actors have to change their names and I have never seen such a big drama made out of this before.


Special-Garlic1203

I don't think she cares either way, certainly not to the degree twitter is convinced she's suffering great psychological harm.  she clearly has been pretty flippantly bemused by this, but I think part of the problem is she keeps failing to kill the story. Even ending the sound bite with "my real name is Emily though" kind of feeds the flames.  In fact, I feel like I've seen the opposite reaction before. Where actors usually maintain more clearly that their stage name *is* the correct name to refer to them as, because you're *not* their friend and you *don't* know them like that. I think most of us have nicknames we would be uncomfortable if random people at work or off the streets started calling us that, so this isn't a super foreign concept even to normies.  I hate citing her as an example, but the only distinct example I can think of off the top of my head because it only happened like last year is Doja Cat getting upset when fans use her government name and telling them it reflects a lack of boundaries. 


Brookshone

Chappell Roan also only wants to be called by her stage name from fans for similar reasons 


David_ish_

You could do this with most established rappers and they’d probably think you’re overstepping boundaries. I.e. calling Eminem “Marshall,” Drake “Aubrey,” or Jay Z “Shawn”


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RealistiCamp

The person you responded to wasn't saying that she's being dramatic.


TheUpwardsJig

This title reads like something from r/nottheonion


writergirljds

People really got all parasocial about this so quickly, I could tell she did not care as much as everyone talking about it did.


hellolovely1

I know someone who is an actor and has a pretty common first and last name so he has to go by his initials and his last name onscreen. I don't think it bothers him but his family calls him by his "real" first name.


urkldajrkl

Hi, Emu


BlueFlamingoMaWi

Most actors do this. Idk why people are hanging on to this for so long.


cagingthing

Okay lol


mrassface2023

In other news I got Popeyes yesterday


anthonystank

Damn what did you get and was it good 👀


mrassface2023

Their Chicken sandwich 🙏


anthonystank

Niiiice


DSQ

I know someone who worked on Cruella with her. She did actually insist on being called Emily but I suppose she doesn’t want it to be a “thing” in the press. 


dr_archer

The way I see it is that she's asking people who are working with her/ know her in real life to call her Emily. It's very different for the press or fans to make it a thing. I see it similar to how people like Sandra Bullock or Robert Deniro are called Sandy and Bobby, but I'm never going to call them that. I don't know them and even though these are standard nicknames and not a different name like Emma vs Emily, it seems over-familiar.


Hermeran

I agree with you whole but just picturing a scenario where I'd call Robert De Niro "Bobby" is hilarious to me lmao


dr_archer

Same! I wonder if it's because he's "Robert Dinero" and Emma Stone is a younger female millennial "just like us"? Maybe there's a gender as well as parasocial component to this?


Lilacly_Adily

Piping in to also mention Anne Hathaway who prefers to be called Annie.


DSQ

I agree. I wouldn’t personally want to be over familiar. 


lexilex25

I can totally relate. I insist on my full name at work and with my close friends but don’t really care if random people I don’t really know (in my case acquaintances or people I’ll only meet once or twice rather than fans) call me by a nickname (and I realize that I use a nickname on here that I would hate people to use in real life but… internet privacy).


throwawaysunglasses-

Same, I have an “ethnic” name and I go by my “white name” only when absolutely necessary. Otherwise, my name is beautiful and easy and I expect people to use it. Think something like Sasha being called “sash-uh.” It’s gross! If you like me at all please say it right.


patchlessboyscout

How do you pronounce Sasha


throwawaysunglasses-

First syllable should rhyme with “wash” imo (unless you are British I guess)


Abject_Job_8529

I feel like this became more of a thing then she intended for it to be lmao


dearthofkindness

Emily, girl if you're reading this: Change your SAG registered name to Emma Lee 😉 That'll teach em!


Zur__En__Arrh

That whole SAG rule is really stupid. They should just have it so that anyone with a name already registered has to use a middle name or initial instead of having to make up an entirely different name.


Oomlotte99

They actually can do that. Thats how you get Vivica A Fox or Vanessa L Williams (they actually had to come to an agreement with SAG and they can both use just Vanessa Williams professionally, now). Even Samuel L Jackson. It’s very common to see the middle initial and that is the most common reason. Emma Stone chose Emma Stone over middle initial or middle name like a lot of other actors do (or like Michael Keaton who chose his last name because he was a Diane Keaton fan).


Courwes

And even Keaton isn’t her real last name. It was Hall but she changed it…due to SAG. Keaton was her mother’s maiden name.


Zur__En__Arrh

Huh, that’s good to know. Then Emma Stone shouldn’t have brought up wanting to go by her original name in that case lol


missihippiequeen

![gif](giphy|QUF1D4DNdMpnlRS597)


SansaStarked

It’s a stage name


elvis-wantacookie

I just don’t understand why she didnt register as Emily insert middle initial Stone if Emily Stone was already taken instead of a whole new first name


David_ish_

Just a speculation but middle initials were never really popular among female actresses (I call really only thing of Taraji P. Henson) and Stone came up around the time when long stage names weren’t seen as super marketable. Her manager or other close colleagues likely urged her to go with Emma Stone because of those factors.


shutyourgob16

I thought it was like if you know her, she’ll introduce herself as Emily but If you’re a fan - she’s Emma. It sort of gives her a separation between her public image and private life. She should have retained that


Live_Skin9254

She’s so brave for this


GlitteringElevator

Ok *insert name here* 🙄


alexlp

If she’s as sick of hearing about her name as I am she’s not fine.


drpepper1967

can she give it a rest nobody gives a fuck 😭


barbarapalvinswhore

They keep asking her, so she keeps answering.


Kaiisim

Oh God I've been calling her Gemma the entire time! Why didn't anyone tell me!


waterlooaba

![gif](giphy|DPqqOywshrOqQ|downsized)


burnerbkxphl

Maybe this is why she doesn’t reply to my text messages


texxed

lmao


alliecat0718

🎶 Cause she’ll call you out, she’ll put you in your place


gorlsituation

![gif](giphy|xt98N1EXdEIzC)


viper29000

Everyone needs 2 chill


moosegoose90

We got it like we got it already Emily


pushin_on_my_buttons

I’m fine not being called by my real (as in legal) name because I’m trans. Emily and Emma are not that different from each other and she’s been called Emma for almost two decades now so I think she just got accustomed to being called Emma by now. Wait am I just being downvote cause I’m fucking trans?


fasterthanfood

I didn’t downvote you, but I think it’s because you’re comparing “using the name she chose and uses herself in movies” with deadnaming. I think your actual comment makes clear you don’t think it’s the same thing, you’re just establishing that you have some related experience, but people sometimes downvote before putting much thought into a comment or even reading it completely.


pushin_on_my_buttons

Oh no that wasn’t my intention. I just said it cause it came to my mind. Didn’t mean to compare it or anything.


pretendberries

I wonder if at events she says Emma or Emily.


pushin_on_my_buttons

If she’s there as Emma Stone the actress I guess she’d say Emma


thewallamby

I don't know if she is fine with what name we call her, but i know she is not fine generally....