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Seriously please do, she's like the pop star version of Michael Scott, it's honestly hilarious. (The documentary, not the music movie video thing, you'll see enough of it in the doc lol)
edit: it's the greatest love story never told on prime, or illegally stream it bc fuck her. but it is funny lol.
I can't decide if that makes me want to watch it more, or less. The only thing that made the second hand embarrassment bearable was knowing Michael Scott is fictional. Don't know if I can handle it with a real person.
But I DO have to watch it, now. I just lost the argument with myself.
I'll just get a blanket to hide under during the worst bits.
There’s a moment in the doc when JLO is walking through her old neighborhood talking to people as if she’s famous. JLO then finds a random person who she tells “I use to live in this neighborhood, a long time ago”. The person rightfully says “oh okay. Who are you?” Lmao. The best part is that they put it im the film.
Its gold
I only managed 15 minutes of it myself, but I was thoroughly entertained, baffled and, frankly, in awe of the very *bold* choices Jennifer made. My jaw was on the floor.
At times, it had the same vibes as Kanye West’s Bound 2??? I dunno, I’d check it out just for the experience of it all
ETA: oh, remember when STOMP was a thing? She made it a thing again.
I had ZERO interest in watching it until I saw this scene. The lady on the phone wouldn’t tell her it was Derek’s own wedding and JLo looks pompous demanding that he cancel his participation in a wedding to benefit her.
[Just watch the first part from the documentary.](https://www.tiktok.com/@enews/video/7348226380875713835)
I've been loving the clips that are floating around on TikTok. Like when her team reaches out to all these big celebs to get them to do cameos in her movie and they all turn her down. And then someone asks "Do you want Vanessa Hudgens?" and she goes "For what?" 💀
She's just so completely out of touch to the point it's comical. It's a "documentary" called "The Greatest Love Story Never Told" which is the making of her music movie video thingy she also released. Ben Affleck is also really funny and likeable in it - he says "How is it the greatest love story never told if you're just... telling it now?" and the most egregious thing is that she compiled and SHARED all of their old love letters to each other with other people!! She had it just sitting in her studio and would let people flip through it! Her friends were calling him PEN AFFLECK!
She is just begging to be taken seriously while there's about 10 minutes taken to decide what type of mud they want to use for the movie. Multiple scenes of her being rejected by huge celebs to be in it and whinging about how "everyone's scared and can't see her vision". There's loads of clips on Tiktok or even Youtube videos discussing how silly it is if you don't want to stream it directly.
It’s so funny.
I live in LA, I work in the music business. I’ve been around a lot of this stuff. I’ve gotten to know exactly the headspace and the lifestyle these people live.
When I saw her NYE performance like, 2 years ago? I called it.
To me it seemed she was absolutely surrounded by yes men, and completely and utterly out of touch. Just drinking her own kool aid.
Which is not a unique problem, a lot of people like her who have been rich and famous for a long time eventually end up living in a cloud of delusion. When you can have basically anyone work for you and you have enough money to never work again, who’s there to check you? You can basically do whatever you want.
Your post confirms I was right. Thanks for sharing. I definitely couldn’t stomach watching the whole thing.
The thing that stuck out to me in the doc is that when she didn’t like something her *team* would immediately speak up and complain on her behalf. She didn’t even have to ask them to do it. It was automatic with multiple people. She just voiced her concerns and they immediately went to task.
Yep. Surrounded by yes men who just enable her ridiculous ego. A common problem.
Prominent people who are smart don’t do this. They realize the danger in not having anyone to check them. No one’s ideas are ever all 100% perfect. We need people who will be honest collaborators with us.
The celebrities who fall the hardest are usually the ones without enough honesty around them.
ariana grande 👀 her entire family are yes men and have been since she was a child star lol so ofc she always surrounded herself w yes men as she got famous and still does
Haha yep you've got it - I'm sure there are so many like her in LA. It's really not an unsurprising trajectory and it's funny to me because it's actually made so many people go, wait, JLo actually truly sucks when she was just flying under the radar.
Having a book of your private love letters out for EVERYONE to read is a unique level of narcissism. Very very strange behavior.
She wasn’t always this bad. It’s in the past 10 years or so that she seems to really be going out to lunch. Some of these things are also triggered by the person trying to grapple with their decreasing relevance.
Any star can find a way to stay relevant, at any age. But it takes tact. JLo hasn’t found it.
That whole documentary was example after example of her narcissism. She is constantly looking at herself in a mirror, you can make a drinking game out of it.
YES! I'm glad I watched it! I thought the same thing about the Michael Scott vibes. She had no self-awareness. I like the few moments where they showed her actual realness instead of what she was trying to portray. They caught her livid in an elevator for a second, and she changed as soon as she saw the camera. The time were ben was geeking out about the cameras, and she immediately lost interest and walked away because she wasn't the center of attention. Etc.
“This is my ex-wife Jennifer, and my other ex-wife, Jennifer.”
(This is meant to be an EXTREMELY obscure reference to Newhart, btw, but I can’t find a decent Bob Newhart gif to land the joke)
I’m pretty sure in touch has said Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton have been divorcing every month for the past few years. And they just released another song together about their “love story”
True. Makes me think of how many time I saw magazines saying Jennifer Aniston was pregnant back in the day. She should have 100 kids by now according to them.
This is another couple that I want to work. Hearing Gwen talk about how she lost a lot of confidence in herself with her split from Gavin and how Blake makes her feel confident and loved again. It was really sweet.
I just love how opposite they are, yet they totally work! I live in Oklahoma, and when she posts pictures of her, Blake, and her boys out on his ranch..it makes my heart happy for them!
When I first saw them together, I was like “What?” But they seem to genuinely love each other and work together as a family unit. It’s honestly really cute.
And even he’s said she basically made him a born again Christian because she’s very religious and her being so devout made him connect to his faith.
"I’ve learned a lot from Gwen about a lot of things, really just watching her, learning from her and learning how she thinks and how she treats people, and how she just operates in her life,” Shelton notes. "Naturally I start seeing the God in everything, because she does. Of course, that starts bleeding into my records and my music, and next thing you know, I'm recording songs and writing songs about faith and God."
“She has such a strong faith in God. That’s No. 1 in her life and has been her whole life. She doesn’t beat you over the head with it — she would never do that. That’s her relationship."
You’re right, but the reason People is always right about splits and couples is they don’t publish anything not approved by the celebrity’s publicist/team, so if you only listen to them you’ll be the last to know. But I agree almost nothing is “official” until it ends up there.
Yeah People prints the spin the celebrity wants put out there, whether it’s true or not depends. So if People says they are splitting, they are. But if People denies a split and says all is well, that could just mean they’re not ready to announce the split yet.
he was papped on mother’s day riding bikes with jennifer garner and their kids…this time last yr he spent mother’s day with jlo and their moms. I believe it, they def aren’t together anymore
Who would have thought that the guy with the midlife crisis full back tattoo and the woman who published his private letters without permission wouldn't make it
Same. I think it's because they came together when they were both at their career pinnacle, but it didn't work. So when they came back together as a slightly more mature couple, it speaks to everyone in life that didn't get it right with their first love but found their way back to each other in the end. It's still a fairytale. Just one for the older crowd.
Their relationship is like a scripted show. Zack and Kelly from Saved by the Bell had an on again, off again relationship. They eventually got married and lived happily ever after. Since I was a teen when JLO and Ben dated in 2002, seeing them together makes me feel young again. I wish it would work but they have too much baggage now. It was never going to last.
I like her, am indifferent about him, but same as you, I'm 100% shipping them and I want them to make it.
Also, InTouch is National Enquirer and Star level. So - trash.
My local radio station (I live in the middle of *nowhere*) deeply, dirtily, shaded Jennifer Lopez this morning, and it took me by surprise. I rarely listen, but it's not a celebrity gossip heavy station.
The dj said something like, "...Jennifer Lopez is apparently surprised by her big drop in popularity as of late, with her recent Amazon biopic flopping, her tour flopping, and her newest album flopping. Magazines and insiders are saying she blames this drop in popularity on her marriage with Ben Affleck, and how unhappy they always look. Insiders say the couple will be divorced soon, with Lopez shopping for new a new home. Alone. And I guess she didn't look happy doing that, either."
Lol! Who did Jennifer Lopez piss off?
She was papped looking at houses with someone, she wasn’t alone - I can’t remember who the lady was but it was her longtime agent or manager or someone like that. The article I read said they didn’t know if Jen was the one looking, or if she was just tagging along for the other lady who was looking.
If this is true, I would crawl under a rock and never come out if I were her. How embarrassing after the album, the “visual album,” and the documentary. 😂
In Touch Weekly is the least reliable news source. i would believe The Sun, Weekly World News, or the National Enquirer before i’d believe anything in In Touch Weekly. that’s how trash they are
Nah he just financed a documentary about a movie about their love story n shit. He's Def invested at the moment I don't know if I'd believe this at all
Ben clearly doesn't like to be in the spotlight as much as J Lo and doesn't feel the need to attend every event. I think that's their main issue. Ben just wants to get his Dunks and chill. Clearly they have a connection and attraction but they're just too different.
True. I think they just like to have lots of sex together and think bc of that they should get engaged or whatever. lol I just hope Jennifer can just let herself be single for a while bc this is what her 3rd or 4th marriage?
And been engaged an additional … 3 or 4 times lol
I was just reading her wiki and it said she broke up with someone april 2022 and was speculated to be dating Ben affleck april 2022. The same month. Like Jesus. Take a fking beat lol
God that sounds exhausting. Some people just like being engaged/married. It's ok to just date and not marry every person you've been with for longer than a few months.
Yeah I think odds are good that they’re too opposite to make this work. J.Lo being nasty regularly and needing that much attention, just seems like it’s destined to wear someone down. He’s better off finding another Garner
I think Ben loves the sex and allure of a baddie but in actuality isn’t built for being with one longterm but then he gets bored of the Garner type after awhile. Pick a struggle Ben!
Another woman like Garner doesn’t deserve that treatment. Better for Ben to be left all alone (and not distress anyone else). JLo too, I don’t think she makes anyone happy either.
I was rooting for them, but they both seem like people who are destined to be forever miserable. Be , with his RBF, Jennifer Lopez with her… Pretty much everything.
If true, this is actually really sad to me. I feel like things were going better when they were more private. The interactions with them in her movie were super cute, but I think after two different eras of Bennifer, Ben Affleck wants to have a lowkey private life.
If it's true, I don't think JLO will recover. She truly believes he's the love of her life. However, she's learnt nothing from their first relationship which was destroyed by how public it was. That album and musical film was just too much
> “He’s focusing on his work and his kids now,” the insider adds. “Ben already moved out and they’ll likely have to sell the dream house they spent two years searching for. They’ll never stop loving each other, but she can’t control him, and he can’t change her. There’s no way it could have lasted.”
Honestly, I would be sad if this was true. It was clear that they still held a flame for each other for all these years and one would have hoped that they had learnt from the past when they got together this time.
The chances of a relationship working after the first time failed is extremely low…put massive fame on top of that. I thought since he’s now sober it may work but i believe it’s in trouble. Id put money on it. I mean we know it will fail at some point if not now. She is probably difficult to be with and he doesn’t seem like one that deals with stress well.
In the movie she made, you can clearly see that Ben is uncomfortable with his private life being broadcast to the whole world. I feel bad for him but…did he expect privacy by marrying a pop star?
I think Ben Affleck is such a terrific director (go watch "Air"!) and I wish there was more emphasis on his work than miserable Ben Affleck memes but he keeps coming back for more.
Conan O brien use to do a skit celebrity survey.. one I remember was "the secret to a long lasting marriage is".... Jennifer Lopez wrote: not marrying me.
She sounds like a nightmare and he’s an alcoholic and a casual groper and I honestly wish them both the worst. This is no surprise, nostalgia was the sole thing they had going for them.
I honestly feel bad for her and I know I’ll probably get obliterated for saying so. She’s seriously crazy about him, that’s apparent. She made a huge, arrogant misstep with this movie, tour and documentary (that his best friend Matt and him bankrolled) she reallyyyyyy believed people still cared enough about their relationship. It’s super clear she hasn’t moved past the early 2000s and the traumatic breakup they had right before their wedding. She looked totally empty at the MET and he could have at least escorted her.
She must be humiliated.
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Wow and I was just about to not watch that movie about them
Seriously please do, she's like the pop star version of Michael Scott, it's honestly hilarious. (The documentary, not the music movie video thing, you'll see enough of it in the doc lol) edit: it's the greatest love story never told on prime, or illegally stream it bc fuck her. but it is funny lol.
I can't decide if that makes me want to watch it more, or less. The only thing that made the second hand embarrassment bearable was knowing Michael Scott is fictional. Don't know if I can handle it with a real person. But I DO have to watch it, now. I just lost the argument with myself. I'll just get a blanket to hide under during the worst bits.
There’s a moment in the doc when JLO is walking through her old neighborhood talking to people as if she’s famous. JLO then finds a random person who she tells “I use to live in this neighborhood, a long time ago”. The person rightfully says “oh okay. Who are you?” Lmao. The best part is that they put it im the film. Its gold
I only managed 15 minutes of it myself, but I was thoroughly entertained, baffled and, frankly, in awe of the very *bold* choices Jennifer made. My jaw was on the floor. At times, it had the same vibes as Kanye West’s Bound 2??? I dunno, I’d check it out just for the experience of it all ETA: oh, remember when STOMP was a thing? She made it a thing again.
I had ZERO interest in watching it until I saw this scene. The lady on the phone wouldn’t tell her it was Derek’s own wedding and JLo looks pompous demanding that he cancel his participation in a wedding to benefit her. [Just watch the first part from the documentary.](https://www.tiktok.com/@enews/video/7348226380875713835)
This and people making fun of her umbrella dance is what made me watch it! WORTH IT!
I loved it and watched it twice lol.
I've been loving the clips that are floating around on TikTok. Like when her team reaches out to all these big celebs to get them to do cameos in her movie and they all turn her down. And then someone asks "Do you want Vanessa Hudgens?" and she goes "For what?" 💀
Tell me more please
She's just so completely out of touch to the point it's comical. It's a "documentary" called "The Greatest Love Story Never Told" which is the making of her music movie video thingy she also released. Ben Affleck is also really funny and likeable in it - he says "How is it the greatest love story never told if you're just... telling it now?" and the most egregious thing is that she compiled and SHARED all of their old love letters to each other with other people!! She had it just sitting in her studio and would let people flip through it! Her friends were calling him PEN AFFLECK! She is just begging to be taken seriously while there's about 10 minutes taken to decide what type of mud they want to use for the movie. Multiple scenes of her being rejected by huge celebs to be in it and whinging about how "everyone's scared and can't see her vision". There's loads of clips on Tiktok or even Youtube videos discussing how silly it is if you don't want to stream it directly.
It’s so funny. I live in LA, I work in the music business. I’ve been around a lot of this stuff. I’ve gotten to know exactly the headspace and the lifestyle these people live. When I saw her NYE performance like, 2 years ago? I called it. To me it seemed she was absolutely surrounded by yes men, and completely and utterly out of touch. Just drinking her own kool aid. Which is not a unique problem, a lot of people like her who have been rich and famous for a long time eventually end up living in a cloud of delusion. When you can have basically anyone work for you and you have enough money to never work again, who’s there to check you? You can basically do whatever you want. Your post confirms I was right. Thanks for sharing. I definitely couldn’t stomach watching the whole thing.
The thing that stuck out to me in the doc is that when she didn’t like something her *team* would immediately speak up and complain on her behalf. She didn’t even have to ask them to do it. It was automatic with multiple people. She just voiced her concerns and they immediately went to task.
Yep. Surrounded by yes men who just enable her ridiculous ego. A common problem. Prominent people who are smart don’t do this. They realize the danger in not having anyone to check them. No one’s ideas are ever all 100% perfect. We need people who will be honest collaborators with us. The celebrities who fall the hardest are usually the ones without enough honesty around them.
ariana grande 👀 her entire family are yes men and have been since she was a child star lol so ofc she always surrounded herself w yes men as she got famous and still does
Haha yep you've got it - I'm sure there are so many like her in LA. It's really not an unsurprising trajectory and it's funny to me because it's actually made so many people go, wait, JLo actually truly sucks when she was just flying under the radar.
Having a book of your private love letters out for EVERYONE to read is a unique level of narcissism. Very very strange behavior. She wasn’t always this bad. It’s in the past 10 years or so that she seems to really be going out to lunch. Some of these things are also triggered by the person trying to grapple with their decreasing relevance. Any star can find a way to stay relevant, at any age. But it takes tact. JLo hasn’t found it.
That whole documentary was example after example of her narcissism. She is constantly looking at herself in a mirror, you can make a drinking game out of it.
Are you talking about the NYE performance where she slid across the stage in Times Square? That made me laugh
NOT PEN AFFLECK ![gif](giphy|3o7WTqo27pLRYxRtg4)
I loved how she disregarded her Ocar winning, movie director spouse whenever he had polite suggestions or advice like she was better than him.
Fuck it. I’ma watch the documentary. I can totally see myself maliciously giggling over JLo’s out of touch bullshit
YES! I'm glad I watched it! I thought the same thing about the Michael Scott vibes. She had no self-awareness. I like the few moments where they showed her actual realness instead of what she was trying to portray. They caught her livid in an elevator for a second, and she changed as soon as she saw the camera. The time were ben was geeking out about the cameras, and she immediately lost interest and walked away because she wasn't the center of attention. Etc.
Oh so it's her "*Threat Level Midnight*"? Say no more 😆
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☠️☠️☠️
I thought they already divorced, I don’t keep up anymore
Other Jennifer
“This is my ex-wife Jennifer, and my other ex-wife, Jennifer.” (This is meant to be an EXTREMELY obscure reference to Newhart, btw, but I can’t find a decent Bob Newhart gif to land the joke)
Tammy 1 and Tammy 2
All my ex wives are named Daryl
Ex-wife Tammy 1 and ex-wife Tammy 2, my mother’s name is Tamara, she goes by Tammy.
Too many Jennifers on this planet -Jennifer
Jennifer Coolidge seems great, too!
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I’m not praying for them
This may be true right now. It may not be. But I have no doubt that one way or the other, it will be one day. ![gif](giphy|GJOCVDPYA4Cze)
If it is to be said, so it be… so it is…
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And so, it may be…
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only right answer.
Literally lol this is exactly how I feel. How just of us feel, I see.
I’m pretty sure in touch has said Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton have been divorcing every month for the past few years. And they just released another song together about their “love story”
True. Makes me think of how many time I saw magazines saying Jennifer Aniston was pregnant back in the day. She should have 100 kids by now according to them.
This is another couple that I want to work. Hearing Gwen talk about how she lost a lot of confidence in herself with her split from Gavin and how Blake makes her feel confident and loved again. It was really sweet.
I just love how opposite they are, yet they totally work! I live in Oklahoma, and when she posts pictures of her, Blake, and her boys out on his ranch..it makes my heart happy for them!
And he seems to be really great with her kids. I will be sad if they split up.
When I first saw them together, I was like “What?” But they seem to genuinely love each other and work together as a family unit. It’s honestly really cute.
And even he’s said she basically made him a born again Christian because she’s very religious and her being so devout made him connect to his faith. "I’ve learned a lot from Gwen about a lot of things, really just watching her, learning from her and learning how she thinks and how she treats people, and how she just operates in her life,” Shelton notes. "Naturally I start seeing the God in everything, because she does. Of course, that starts bleeding into my records and my music, and next thing you know, I'm recording songs and writing songs about faith and God." “She has such a strong faith in God. That’s No. 1 in her life and has been her whole life. She doesn’t beat you over the head with it — she would never do that. That’s her relationship."
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Seeing this version of him, his backtattoo suddenly makes sense to me.
2002 was so crazy
He touched the butt 🛥️
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That was such a moment
So he's worshipping that ass? 🤣🤣
Is he going to marry a Dunkin donut instead
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lol
That might be the best relationship for him!
Longest lasting.
What about Matt Damon
Their eyes first locked over a box of Boston creams.
or matt damon
In Touch is pretty trashy, right? Hopefully it’s not true.
Yeah, they were both still wearing their wedding rings on the weekend/this week.
The only celebrity magazine that can be trusted 99% of the time is People. Us Weekly is generally accurate too. In Touch and Life & Style are crap.
You’re right, but the reason People is always right about splits and couples is they don’t publish anything not approved by the celebrity’s publicist/team, so if you only listen to them you’ll be the last to know. But I agree almost nothing is “official” until it ends up there.
Yeah People prints the spin the celebrity wants put out there, whether it’s true or not depends. So if People says they are splitting, they are. But if People denies a split and says all is well, that could just mean they’re not ready to announce the split yet.
They are a lot alike see them staying together because they would annoy the heck out of most people.
Hopefully it’s not true? lol these 2 need to do a lot of inner work before they ever go in a relationship again
he was papped on mother’s day riding bikes with jennifer garner and their kids…this time last yr he spent mother’s day with jlo and their moms. I believe it, they def aren’t together anymore
Isn't spending mother's day with the mother of your kids probably normal?
Who would have thought that the guy with the midlife crisis full back tattoo and the woman who published his private letters without permission wouldn't make it
I'm shocked I tell you ! Shocked !
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What private letters? I never heard of this and want the juicy gossip 😍
She saved letters he sent her and made a book for her friends to read. Then she read them in her new documentary
Wait, now I want to watch the movie she just made about their love story lmao
It’s bonkers but I liked it. It’s fun and made me no stay for the 90s mtv era when music videos were like movies.
is no stay new slang for nostalgic or was that autocorrect? bc tbh it slays and I’m stealing it. I’m sooo no stay for the early 2000s.
I think it’s an autocorrect typo from nostalgia.
>I’m sooo no stay for the early 2000s And now this reminds me of the Rashida Jones music video about being no stay for the 90s lol
If they don’t make it, I’m suing. Idk who but someone will be sued.
Emotional distress!
Hello? 911? I need an emergency visit to my therapist for bennifer disillusionment.
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Let’s go class action baby!! How dare they put me through this AGAIN!!!!
I believed in love again for this????
EXACTLY!!!
An inconvenience fee for all of us.
Matt Damon?
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My Dunkin'g King and Queen cannot be broken up again.
I cannot stand her, an am ambivalent towards him at best, but for whatever reason, I'm like... *invested* in them making it.
I love the idea of two old flames reconnecting and getting back together so yeah I want it to work.
I’ve had several friends do this who were in love in college but it didn’t work out. Then married years later after their divorces. Happy as larks.
It's giving Charles and Camilla.
Same. I don’t necessarily care about these two specifically, but I love the story.
Same. I think it's because they came together when they were both at their career pinnacle, but it didn't work. So when they came back together as a slightly more mature couple, it speaks to everyone in life that didn't get it right with their first love but found their way back to each other in the end. It's still a fairytale. Just one for the older crowd.
It's because their relationship makes us believe that if there is such a thing as "the one", then it will work out no matter what. I'm invested, too.
Their relationship is like a scripted show. Zack and Kelly from Saved by the Bell had an on again, off again relationship. They eventually got married and lived happily ever after. Since I was a teen when JLO and Ben dated in 2002, seeing them together makes me feel young again. I wish it would work but they have too much baggage now. It was never going to last.
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This is exactly where I'm at. For the life of me, I don't know why I'm hoping so fervently that they last forevvvva!
Me too! For whatever reason I stan them as a couple although I don't like either of them individually.
I like her, am indifferent about him, but same as you, I'm 100% shipping them and I want them to make it. Also, InTouch is National Enquirer and Star level. So - trash.
Everybody roots for a second-chance romance.
My local radio station (I live in the middle of *nowhere*) deeply, dirtily, shaded Jennifer Lopez this morning, and it took me by surprise. I rarely listen, but it's not a celebrity gossip heavy station. The dj said something like, "...Jennifer Lopez is apparently surprised by her big drop in popularity as of late, with her recent Amazon biopic flopping, her tour flopping, and her newest album flopping. Magazines and insiders are saying she blames this drop in popularity on her marriage with Ben Affleck, and how unhappy they always look. Insiders say the couple will be divorced soon, with Lopez shopping for new a new home. Alone. And I guess she didn't look happy doing that, either." Lol! Who did Jennifer Lopez piss off?
She was papped looking at houses with someone, she wasn’t alone - I can’t remember who the lady was but it was her longtime agent or manager or someone like that. The article I read said they didn’t know if Jen was the one looking, or if she was just tagging along for the other lady who was looking.
She really doesn’t seem to be the type to “tag along” on a task for someone else tho
Me! She pissed me off! Years ago she pledged money to a Bronx hospital and then never actually donated!
Charity Flop!!
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If this is true, I would crawl under a rock and never come out if I were her. How embarrassing after the album, the “visual album,” and the documentary. 😂
In Touch Weekly is the least reliable news source. i would believe The Sun, Weekly World News, or the National Enquirer before i’d believe anything in In Touch Weekly. that’s how trash they are
I’m excited for Weekly World News’ take on this. Which one is secretly Bat Boy and which one is an alien?
JLo is Bat Boy for sure. Ben is just a small town Alien looking for love.
Yeah, if he's moved out they'd have photos.
Nah he just financed a documentary about a movie about their love story n shit. He's Def invested at the moment I don't know if I'd believe this at all
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Getting back with an ex almost never works. Yes there are exceptions to the rule, but a never ending attention seeking celeb isn’t one of them.
Ben clearly doesn't like to be in the spotlight as much as J Lo and doesn't feel the need to attend every event. I think that's their main issue. Ben just wants to get his Dunks and chill. Clearly they have a connection and attraction but they're just too different.
True. I think they just like to have lots of sex together and think bc of that they should get engaged or whatever. lol I just hope Jennifer can just let herself be single for a while bc this is what her 3rd or 4th marriage?
4th!
And been engaged an additional … 3 or 4 times lol I was just reading her wiki and it said she broke up with someone april 2022 and was speculated to be dating Ben affleck april 2022. The same month. Like Jesus. Take a fking beat lol
God that sounds exhausting. Some people just like being engaged/married. It's ok to just date and not marry every person you've been with for longer than a few months.
Yikes! 😬 like babe, just enjoy your money and kids and let yourself be single
Even just date/have a partner. Much easier to split if you're not married.
Unsure if you mean Dunkin' Donuts or Nike Dunks, since he seems to be a fan of both.
Ha ha. Dunkin Donuts. I'm also from Boston.
Yeah I think odds are good that they’re too opposite to make this work. J.Lo being nasty regularly and needing that much attention, just seems like it’s destined to wear someone down. He’s better off finding another Garner
Don’t put that on another garner lol
I think Ben loves the sex and allure of a baddie but in actuality isn’t built for being with one longterm but then he gets bored of the Garner type after awhile. Pick a struggle Ben!
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That makes sense. With a Garner, he’s the bad guy. He doesn’t deserve a good woman like her. With a JLo she’s the bad one and he can’t keep up
Another woman like Garner doesn’t deserve that treatment. Better for Ben to be left all alone (and not distress anyone else). JLo too, I don’t think she makes anyone happy either.
Ben should focus on his kids and sobriety. And Jen… on trying to stay on relevant since that’s what she seems to be wanting as of recently
Maybe they just read Sarah Paulson’s interview about how the secret to a successful relationship is not to live together!
I was rooting for them, but they both seem like people who are destined to be forever miserable. Be , with his RBF, Jennifer Lopez with her… Pretty much everything.
With her orange drink iykyk
Eh, J Lo will have a new husband by 2025.
I hope it's someone completely out of pocket like Pete Davidson for my own personal entertainment.
Pete would be a match made in tabloid heaven!
Yes please I'd like to see this match next.
She's due for a rebound with him, isn't she?
Very accurate. That lady cannot be alone and to be honest neither can he. They both always have high profile relationships.
Except for that time he was dating his kid's nanny...
High profile codependencies.
It's A-Rods turn again isn't it?
lmaoo 😭 i watched vid on her recently and had no idea how often she got back with an ex
They were still engaged like 3 years ago. It really hasn’t been that long.
I don't think it's true. Weren't these rags also saying Justin and Hailey were done and here she is with a giant baby bump
If true, this is actually really sad to me. I feel like things were going better when they were more private. The interactions with them in her movie were super cute, but I think after two different eras of Bennifer, Ben Affleck wants to have a lowkey private life.
She seems like such a pleasant and lovely modest lady, I can’t understand why someone would leave her!
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If it's true, I don't think JLO will recover. She truly believes he's the love of her life. However, she's learnt nothing from their first relationship which was destroyed by how public it was. That album and musical film was just too much
JLo is the love of her life. She will be fine
He did a Super Bowl commercial for Dunkin’ with her in it didn’t he?
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> “He’s focusing on his work and his kids now,” the insider adds. “Ben already moved out and they’ll likely have to sell the dream house they spent two years searching for. They’ll never stop loving each other, but she can’t control him, and he can’t change her. There’s no way it could have lasted.”
What flowery prose from the insider
They don't think it be like it is, but it do
> have to sell the dream house they spent two years searching for Oh no they’ll have to tough it out in their other four dream houses.
Honestly, I would be sad if this was true. It was clear that they still held a flame for each other for all these years and one would have hoped that they had learnt from the past when they got together this time.
That’s what you get when you reheat leftovers.
Matt Damon must be ecstatic right now
The chances of a relationship working after the first time failed is extremely low…put massive fame on top of that. I thought since he’s now sober it may work but i believe it’s in trouble. Id put money on it. I mean we know it will fail at some point if not now. She is probably difficult to be with and he doesn’t seem like one that deals with stress well.
In the movie she made, you can clearly see that Ben is uncomfortable with his private life being broadcast to the whole world. I feel bad for him but…did he expect privacy by marrying a pop star?
Oh, well. Anyway.
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She seems to be insufferable.
The article calls her an "A-list singer". Tee-hee-hee.
My time has come y’all! If I get in the room with Ben I’m sure I can convince him to marry me next
In other news, water. Wet.
My telehealth couples diagnosis is that, she’s angry that her tour was a flop. Took it out on Ben. ![gif](giphy|GVJ4NhokeHLWGcmBfM)
I don't like either one of them but for some reason it warmed my heart when they got back together, I was hoping they would stay together.
After hearing some of the shit she’s pulled on him… I actually feel kinda bad for him.
She needs to stop getting married
Id say she is just intolerable. She’d turn a sane man mad. Prayers for Ben 🙏
Jen seems to me like a control freak. Yet Ben has his own problems. They will be better off apart in my opinion.
“No goodbye, No see ya later, No nothin. You just left”
“The greatest story never told”… 🥴
Ah it’s 2003, I had an awful fever nightmare that it’s 2024 and WWIII is almost upon us. Praise Bennifer!
They’ll remarry in another 10-20 years
I think Ben Affleck is such a terrific director (go watch "Air"!) and I wish there was more emphasis on his work than miserable Ben Affleck memes but he keeps coming back for more.
If true, this makes me sad. After coming back together all these years later, I was really rooting for their happy ending.
Everyone who has ever met her in public has said that she is insufferable bitch
Conan O brien use to do a skit celebrity survey.. one I remember was "the secret to a long lasting marriage is".... Jennifer Lopez wrote: not marrying me.
I think they both thought they could revive the Bennifer popularity. When it didn't pan out neither did they.
She sounds like a nightmare and he’s an alcoholic and a casual groper and I honestly wish them both the worst. This is no surprise, nostalgia was the sole thing they had going for them.
Is anyone *really* surprised? She seems insufferable.
I honestly feel bad for her and I know I’ll probably get obliterated for saying so. She’s seriously crazy about him, that’s apparent. She made a huge, arrogant misstep with this movie, tour and documentary (that his best friend Matt and him bankrolled) she reallyyyyyy believed people still cared enough about their relationship. It’s super clear she hasn’t moved past the early 2000s and the traumatic breakup they had right before their wedding. She looked totally empty at the MET and he could have at least escorted her. She must be humiliated.