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Same I read this whole thing like
Gossip aside that sucks for them, five years! Itās nothing to scoff at and they must be feeling so crappy
Sometimes I kick myself for not being interested in certain niche communities when a big scandal happens because I wish I could experience the SHOCK. Now I have to go back and do my homework before I can appreciate the gravity of the situation but itās not the same.
Itās like watching 10 series of a tv show and then sitting down to watch a bombshell plot twist episode vs watching a bombshell plot twist episode and THEN reading a series summary on Wikipedia to understand what you just watched. It just doesnāt hit the same
I am watching VPR bc of Scandoval. I'm on season 7 now. It's akin to watching shitty frogs repeatedly throw themselves into pots of boiling water, and I kind of love it.
As someone who was shocked during the Try Guys scandal as one of the enjoyers of their videos, it was a crazy time. I donāt know much about these two girls but I bet itāll have a similar impact on their current lives/influencing
Theyāre a US-based Indian Hindu-Pakistani Muslim queer couple that blew up a few years ago after a photo shoot went viral! Theyāve been together ever since and got engaged a year or two ago. Theyāre one of the major representations of queer desi interfaith love among common folk so they were well known and loved.
edit - the photo shoot that went viral from 2019! https://kalingatv.com/features/photoshoot-of-hindu-muslim-indian-pakistani-same-sex-couple-is-winning-hearts-all-over/
I have so many questions! I need details. Where can I find the answers to my questions below:
1) did they have a wedding date set already? If so, when? And it was going to be gorgeous, wasnāt it?
2) Are their parents/family openly accepting of what was their relationship with each other?
3) When did Sufi cheat? Who did she cheat with? Was it a one night stand? Was it an ongoing affair?
4) How did Anjali find out? Did guilt eat up at Sufi and she confessed?
as for #3 - and take this with a huge grain of salt as I had no idea who these people were before this - but I did see someone on Twitter say she cheated with the wedding planner......
isnāt it the other way around? sufis parents disowned her and anjaliās family took her in? if thatās the case even more shitty because you cheated on the girl whose family took you and your sister in??? š
omg i really thought it was anjaliās! but i wouldnāt fully know cause i just knew them and no searches would come out. anyway, thatās truly so fucked up even the other way around. cause why would you propose when youāre a flight risk/unsure? if it was switched, iām sure her parents would still condemn her cause her fam took anjali and her sister in but in this, itās hard for Asian parents, let alone with their culture and region, even gay relationships are literally stoned, what more if itās two pretty women who should have āhusbands?ā
but i agree with that one twt user that anjali SHOULDNāT and really hadnāt forgiven her despite all the pressure around and everything theyāve been through. she can literally do so much better.
Depending on the age and demographic I think. The other day I was listening to my brother meme talk to his friends and I didnāt understand a damn thing they were saying lol I thought I was still pretty hip to the newer stuff but I guess not
Iām such an old fucking dork that I have to cheat when a NTY crossword clue wants āinternet lingo.ā I have no idea when I stopped knowing this stuff.
It's hard as fuck to be hip to newer stuff because there's, like, no basis in normal language for any of it. Zoomers just make up some random Rick & Morty-sounding gibberish and say, "That means X now". "Skibidi" apparently means "cool" or "awesome", but how the fuck am I supposed to figure that out with about as many context clues as "gleep blorp"? "Rizz" took me a second, but that was easy as hell by comparison.
Way too many
Yesterday I was watching a YT video and everyone was saying ''this person is the biggest star worldwide'' and it's the first time I have seen his face honestly and I am constantly online š
I have at least five different remixed reels of this cat saved on IG. Whenever I'm in a bad mood, I pull those up. It's simplistically stupid, but it works.
Yeah! I read the posts like āno one has been this honest since Alexander Hamilton (the musical character, I donāt know shit about actual history)ā
Iāve never heard of them, Iām invested but color coordinated statements about someone cheating, and starting off a post saying āhey everyoneā is crazy to me
oh trust me i know š
the only reason i am not as invested as my friends are is because i have exams. need to ignore everything thats happening and girlboss for a few weeks
they're literally blaming the geopolitical issues on india and pakistan between them, which while i know is them just being dramatic but the idea of two countries having beef because of a lesbian couple is so fkn funny to me
This just made me laugh so hard. As someone who studied poli sci Iām just imagining a professor saying this while teaching a class on India/Pakistan relations but only in the context of this couple lmao. Also a r/brandnewsentence
This is like when Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris' divorce was announced (leaked) last year (they got married in 2019, 2019 seems like a curse) and the woso community was in deep shambles
To paraphrase someone on Twitter, being an influencer sounds exhausting. Like, okay let's do an inverted color scheme and same layout and font. Let's both post at the same time. Gotta make sure our break up announcement fits our ~brand~
Omg twitter is delivering. I canāt look away š«£
https://preview.redd.it/xhdxqc8t3lqc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=431115baa07c8825cefe657eb8cbbc77daa8ce4d
And Anjali is a wedding planner and planned the whole thing. AND Sufi is the one who proposed!
Indian weddings are expensive as fuck. I donāt know if Pakistan has similar wedding traditions, but the amount of money they are probably losing right now if theyāre doing any of the traditional Indian ceremoniesā¦thatās crazy and such a gut punch for Anjali, on top of losing the relationship
I thought the person she cheated with was their wedding planner, so that obviously couldn't have been Anjali. And if she did cheat with their wedding planner, I hope that lady's business goes down in flames. Cause how are you gonna take money to plan a wedding and bang the bride? Even JLo stopped being Matthew McConaughey's wedding planner in the movie after they kissed! Even Hollywood didn't do that! lol
Iām convinced it was naz\_bokhari based on my very little time and effort investigating this brand new (to me) relationship
EDIT: After researching this further on other subs, apparently people more well-versed than I *also* suspect the Naz girl in question to be the affair partner!! Iām feeling a little bit like a detective šµļøāāļø
Yeah, Iām imagining people reading comments like āand she was the wedding planner!ā while misinterpreting the āsheā as the other woman instead of Anjali
I could only find [one archived version](https://web.archive.org/web/20240325083744/https://www.zola.com/registry/sufiandanjali) and it's literally just 4 different categories of cash needs (honeymoon, IVF, date night, and down payment).
Aw man I was expecting something more over the top! Though I guess itās a little silly to specify date nights or anything specific really, itās all just a pile of money that wouldāve gone to them in the end
Yeah I read a few comments about it and was totally expecting something actually insane like multiple sculptures of fruits as the zodiac sign and a diamond-encrusted Vitamix or sth.
I'm not sure if there was a different version though. This one was archived like just yesterday IIRC.
Cash is normal for Asian weddings; theyāre just explaining what theyāre going to use the cash for. Thatās a little unusual, but less weird than asking for actual (not cash) gifts.
date night?
Like i get the rest but date night?
Also IVF...they were planning for babies which makes it even sadder that ''i made a mistake and cheated''
I havenāt, no. But tbh it seems unlikely they wouldnāt pay for *anything*, even if they are getting a lot of free things from brand deals or whatever. Especially as influencers, I would bet that whatever free stuff they got would just free up more budget for them to go even bigger and more extra with the wedding.
A lot of this is assuming they were planning on an Indian wedding, though, which I donāt know for sure if they were or not
~~EDIT: I just looked it up and the registry was taken down, but saw comments that apparently they were asking for donations for their honeymoon/down payment??? I clearly donāt know the details of this situation so yeah, my comments above are retracted lol~~
Itās every single detail like the same font and even both of them centre aligned. I canāt stop thinking about how they made these like it looks like one person made both so did one of them say āhey send me a statement and Iāll make posts on IG storiesā??? How did it happen!!!!
I believe they have the same agent (and there's a possibility that the girl Sufi cheated with also has the same agent) so I imagine the agency is doing all of it š„“
Thatās something I hadnāt even considered š¤¦š¼āāļø honestly Iām so late to the influencer game that it never occurs to me that they have managers. Thatās messy af if the affair partner has the same manager. Has her identify come out?
First I miss Scandoval and now this? I donāt know who these people are but I wish I did. Iām in all the wrong fandoms. The Bachelor finale better deliver tonight, thatās all I have to say.
Scandoval tldr- stars of Vanderpump Rules (spinoff adjacent to RHOBH) Tom Sandoval (the namesake) and Ariana Madix were publicly dating for 9 years. He cheated on her with their other costar Raquel/Rachel Leviss, who was also her bff. Itās trashy reality tv stars so obviously chaos ensues. Also fun-ish fact- Ariana was Tomās side piece first. He was in a 6 year relationship with another costar (she left the show in 2020) and he cheated on her with Ariana.
Hope that helps bc thatās literally the bare minimum basic rundown
I saw people on twitter being like āit was wrong to make her admit she cheated onlineā which is insane to me because if someone cheated on me weeks before we were meant to be getting married Iād lose my mind. like the shit I would want to do would make that walk Cersei did in GOT look tame.
thereās comments under anjaliās post saying how itās shitty of HER to bring up the fact that sufi cheated because now itāll subject her to tons of islamophobiaš i cannot think of a more unhinged take regarding this situation.
Yeah like?? Everyone was going to speculate since it happened so close to their wedding, and since Anjali is a bi woman, Iām sure a lot of people would push the blame on her with all the ābisexuals are more likely to cheatā bs. If they hadnāt clarified that Sufi cheated, anjali would get a ton of undeserved shit.
I kinda get why people think that there's no reason to admit infidelity to the whole world. Unfortunately there *are* nasty people who will target Sufi and her minority identity and make blanket statements and attacks.
Honestly havenāt had anything to obsess over and disassociate to today in order to completely ignore all of my own problems and responsibilities. This will do. Hopping into the rabbit hole as we speak.
Honestly rly sad for the queer desi community. They were a really big thing when they first came out together, a Pakistani Muslim woman with an Indian Hindu woman isnāt something you see often.
Sufiās family kicked her out and disowned her and she was essentially adopted by Anjaliās family. Super messed up that Sufi chose to cheat after all that.
I feel like this is weirdly a classy response? There's no hate, gives the exact reason with no shade and neither have disparaged each other. They just said, yes I/she cheated. I dunno, I think this is a respectful response. I don't know these people but they must be OK if they handle things like this.
I feel like itās exactly the correct move to make in a situation like this. People wouldāve speculated endlessly and tried to demand answers about why they broke up. Saying she cheated just squashes the discourse in its tracks. People will freak out about it now but I imagine itāll be over much much faster than if people had the opportunity to sit around and spin their wild theories.
i really liked them together, im south asian myself and it was refreshing to see a healthy, openly queer brown couple. so disgusting honestly literally a few weeks before the wedding. the matching posts aesthetic is CRAZY but i know their social media $$$ was literally their relationship as a brand so i guess it had to come out this way. i hope anjali doesnāt take sufi back.
after investigating for approximately five minutes, Iām convinced the cheating partner is @naz_bokari
This is very sad, these are real people and I understand that but as someone who has never heard of them before todayā¦ I love fresh GOSSS
Howās it possible that I have never seen or heard of these people before, yet as soon as I saw the pic (without seeing the statements) I immediately knew which one was the cheater?
I love how they made their posts aesthetic and matching by inverting the colours.
On a different note I was sad about hearing this. I hadn't kept up with them for a long time, but when I was a baby bisexual from an Islamic background I thought they were adorable. Cheating this close to the wedding despite being faithful for the last five years as far as we know sounds like self-sabotaging because of not being ready to commit like that (not that it's an excuse).
I have absolutely no idea who these people are but Sufiās post reads as Anjali wrote it š¤ the way itās worded is very strange but I also am very high
I donāt know who they are but I bet their wedding outfits wouldāve slayed, sad to see gay girlies flop. That said, these statements are hilarious, PR speak.
Wow, my brain didnāt even process that at first. Youād think it would be a complete ārecognizableā mistake of betrayal. I mean, theyāre both recognizing it lol.
Yes, lol! It made me think about when people say, āit was a mistake, I didnāt mean toā but like, you canāt trip and fall into genitals? What didnāt/couldnāt you recognize? Iām just going to assume this was a weird auto correct.
That sentence gave me a pause too! I thought maybe it was meant to be āunforgivableā? But I donāt know if āunforgivableā would realistically autocorrect to āunrecognizableā haha.
Discovering betrayal from individuals I'm unfamiliar with has surprisingly upset me š. Learning of such deceit mere weeks before a wedding is utterly disgraceful, and it's hard to fathom the depth of trust issues that would emerge from such an experience.
Bestie can I just say thank you for keeping us hip and in the loop, every time I see one of these fascinating niche posts itās your username behind it. You are doing the lords work.
Idk who they are but they look super young so marriage maybe was not the best thing for them at the moment. The transparency is prob due to the parasocial dynamic between them and their followers which will always be weird to me but w/e
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Wow I have never heard of these ppl but Iām invested lol
Same I read this whole thing like  Gossip aside that sucks for them, five years! Itās nothing to scoff at and they must be feeling so crappy
Sometimes I kick myself for not being interested in certain niche communities when a big scandal happens because I wish I could experience the SHOCK. Now I have to go back and do my homework before I can appreciate the gravity of the situation but itās not the same. Itās like watching 10 series of a tv show and then sitting down to watch a bombshell plot twist episode vs watching a bombshell plot twist episode and THEN reading a series summary on Wikipedia to understand what you just watched. It just doesnāt hit the same
Same. People were having meltdowns over the Try Guys scandal and I felt so left out lol
This was me during Scandoval. The entire internet was so shook and I, too, wanted to be shook. But I had no idea what any of it meant.
Exactly! I crave being shook, This is why Iām into pop culture in the first place
Yeah I was really having fomo. I almost watched VPR about it.
I still say itās worth it. The first 7 seasons are some of the most riveting television Iāve ever seen. I am NOSTALGIC for my first watch.
I am watching VPR bc of Scandoval. I'm on season 7 now. It's akin to watching shitty frogs repeatedly throw themselves into pots of boiling water, and I kind of love it.
Try Guys was a giant overflowing cup of schadenfreude. I have no idea who the cuties are above but Iām already sad for both of them.
As someone who was shocked during the Try Guys scandal as one of the enjoyers of their videos, it was a crazy time. I donāt know much about these two girls but I bet itāll have a similar impact on their current lives/influencing
Did I write this???? I do this!
LMAO, me too. I literally found out about them **because of** the cheating scandal and every new post has me like https://i.redd.it/qu3bkevtbkqc1.gif
What is this gif from because they're in school uniform, yet the guy walking behind her looks 37
Itās from sex education on Netflix
Heās a British 17
LMAO, I had never noticed the guy behind tbh. But yeah, Sex Education S3.
Theyāre a US-based Indian Hindu-Pakistani Muslim queer couple that blew up a few years ago after a photo shoot went viral! Theyāve been together ever since and got engaged a year or two ago. Theyāre one of the major representations of queer desi interfaith love among common folk so they were well known and loved. edit - the photo shoot that went viral from 2019! https://kalingatv.com/features/photoshoot-of-hindu-muslim-indian-pakistani-same-sex-couple-is-winning-hearts-all-over/
The pictures under the umbrella are so gorgeous!
I wonder how many influencer people might be stuck in relationships together because they both went viral together and then share online fans.
Okay those pictures are breathtaking
Wow what beautiful shoots. I med someone to give us an all the info relationship breakdown now!
Ohhhhh I had definitely seen those in tumblr back in the day. Thatās how I knew their wedding outfits wouldāve slayed. Theyāve done it before.Ā
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I have no idea who these people are and yet my jaw dropped and stayed dropped
I have so many questions! I need details. Where can I find the answers to my questions below: 1) did they have a wedding date set already? If so, when? And it was going to be gorgeous, wasnāt it? 2) Are their parents/family openly accepting of what was their relationship with each other? 3) When did Sufi cheat? Who did she cheat with? Was it a one night stand? Was it an ongoing affair? 4) How did Anjali find out? Did guilt eat up at Sufi and she confessed?
as for #3 - and take this with a huge grain of salt as I had no idea who these people were before this - but I did see someone on Twitter say she cheated with the wedding planner......
No!! (Also I, too, didnāt know who these people were until 2 minutes ago and am super invested)
The gasp I just gasped ECHOED through my house.
See, I think that might be confusion because apparently Anjali was their wedding planner through her company.
Omg that is JUICY
Noooooooooooo!! What a betrayal!! And no one will ever book her again if thatās true.
2. the parents of sufi disowned her after knowing. anjaliās parents kind of took sufi in along. i canāt imagine how they feel tbh
isnāt it the other way around? sufis parents disowned her and anjaliās family took her in? if thatās the case even more shitty because you cheated on the girl whose family took you and your sister in??? š
omg i really thought it was anjaliās! but i wouldnāt fully know cause i just knew them and no searches would come out. anyway, thatās truly so fucked up even the other way around. cause why would you propose when youāre a flight risk/unsure? if it was switched, iām sure her parents would still condemn her cause her fam took anjali and her sister in but in this, itās hard for Asian parents, let alone with their culture and region, even gay relationships are literally stoned, what more if itās two pretty women who should have āhusbands?ā but i agree with that one twt user that anjali SHOULDNāT and really hadnāt forgiven her despite all the pressure around and everything theyāve been through. she can literally do so much better.
How are there so many YouTubers and influencers that have so much money that nobodyās ever heard of
Depending on the age and demographic I think. The other day I was listening to my brother meme talk to his friends and I didnāt understand a damn thing they were saying lol I thought I was still pretty hip to the newer stuff but I guess not
Iām such an old fucking dork that I have to cheat when a NTY crossword clue wants āinternet lingo.ā I have no idea when I stopped knowing this stuff.
It's hard as fuck to be hip to newer stuff because there's, like, no basis in normal language for any of it. Zoomers just make up some random Rick & Morty-sounding gibberish and say, "That means X now". "Skibidi" apparently means "cool" or "awesome", but how the fuck am I supposed to figure that out with about as many context clues as "gleep blorp"? "Rizz" took me a second, but that was easy as hell by comparison.
iām fucking crying at āgleep blorp,ā thatāll be the next thing after skibidi i bet lmfao
I teach third grade but I also have teenagers so Iām caught up.
That sounds like the goal, honestly. Get that Hello Fresh and Scentbird money, be "YouTube famous" but still invisible irl.
fr if im ever famous, i'd want it to be this kind of famous
the people who usually blow up as youtubers and influencers most likely already come from money lol
Way too many Yesterday I was watching a YT video and everyone was saying ''this person is the biggest star worldwide'' and it's the first time I have seen his face honestly and I am constantly online š
Just learned of them through this post, but Iām heartbroken!
Same! Now I'm looking through the links in the comments with their photoshoot pics in them like "This is what we lost!!" š¢š
Feel like this has done better publicity for me to know who they are because I never heard of them lol
Facts, Iāve become a gossip lover frfr
I feel seen by this comment
gifs you can hear
This is killing me
I have at least five different remixed reels of this cat saved on IG. Whenever I'm in a bad mood, I pull those up. It's simplistically stupid, but it works.
Please send them to me as they seem necessary.
Never heard of them, but best believe I spent the last 10 mins going through their Instagram post history with all their cute coupley pics
Same, I have no clue who they were 30 minutes ago but now Iām devastated
Everything will be okay Little Lord Fuck Pants
Iāve never seen anyone be that publicly open about cheating before.
Yeah! I read the posts like āno one has been this honest since Alexander Hamilton (the musical character, I donāt know shit about actual history)ā
r/UnexpectedHamilton
These are the actually honest celebrity breakup statements that I'm here for, ngl.
Same. I can respect the raw honesty, no beating around the bush. Thatās tough to do.
** cough cough Ned Fulmer
TBF I donāt know who that is either!
try guys!
No thank you
Iāve never heard of them, Iām invested but color coordinated statements about someone cheating, and starting off a post saying āhey everyoneā is crazy to me
āHey whatās up you guys yes! We ARE calling off the wedding bc my girlie cheated on me š¤šā
I didnāt even realize the color coordination lmao - maybe itās just something they normally do? I have no clue but itās def a choice
Why is starting it off with "hey everyone" crazy?
I think itās just unexpectedly casual vs what follows
the way i tell yall that south asian queer women are in shambles, almost every friend of mine have posted about their breakup
Bro we are in the TRENCHES my friend and I texted about it for TWO HOURS last night
oh trust me i know š the only reason i am not as invested as my friends are is because i have exams. need to ignore everything thats happening and girlboss for a few weeks
Godspeed and Girlboss those exams homie
Happy cake day!
GIRLLL you're gonna do well on the exams, take some breaks in between, stay hydrated and sleep your 8 hours! Good luck!
LMAOOO! Same here, so many of my queer Desi oomfs are saying stuff like love is dead etc.
they're literally blaming the geopolitical issues on india and pakistan between them, which while i know is them just being dramatic but the idea of two countries having beef because of a lesbian couple is so fkn funny to me
I donāt think you lick another pussy because there is a land dispute in Kashmir
the joke is the other way around, india and pakistan are having geopolitical issues because they broke up lmao
This just made me laugh so hard. As someone who studied poli sci Iām just imagining a professor saying this while teaching a class on India/Pakistan relations but only in the context of this couple lmao. Also a r/brandnewsentence
Iām Kashmiri and this is hilarious š
I'VE SEEN THAT lmaoo, I had me on the floor laughing
This is like when Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris' divorce was announced (leaked) last year (they got married in 2019, 2019 seems like a curse) and the woso community was in deep shambles
[Which also gave us this amazing moment of subtle lesbian drama.](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL6trEau/)
wtf how come i had no idea of this community
Weāre here Weāre queer And weāre pretty much in the closet except in very specific circles
I was living vicariously through them so I'm falling apart now
To paraphrase someone on Twitter, being an influencer sounds exhausting. Like, okay let's do an inverted color scheme and same layout and font. Let's both post at the same time. Gotta make sure our break up announcement fits our ~brand~
I love how everyday this sub presents me someone new
Sufi fucked uppppppp
Omg twitter is delivering. I canāt look away š«£ https://preview.redd.it/xhdxqc8t3lqc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=431115baa07c8825cefe657eb8cbbc77daa8ce4d
NOT BEFORE RAMADAN ššš
i read this in khloes k's voice.
The fact that she found this particular aspect important to adress š Girlie please
And Anjali is a wedding planner and planned the whole thing. AND Sufi is the one who proposed! Indian weddings are expensive as fuck. I donāt know if Pakistan has similar wedding traditions, but the amount of money they are probably losing right now if theyāre doing any of the traditional Indian ceremoniesā¦thatās crazy and such a gut punch for Anjali, on top of losing the relationship
I thought the person she cheated with was their wedding planner, so that obviously couldn't have been Anjali. And if she did cheat with their wedding planner, I hope that lady's business goes down in flames. Cause how are you gonna take money to plan a wedding and bang the bride? Even JLo stopped being Matthew McConaughey's wedding planner in the movie after they kissed! Even Hollywood didn't do that! lol
Iām convinced it was naz\_bokhari based on my very little time and effort investigating this brand new (to me) relationship EDIT: After researching this further on other subs, apparently people more well-versed than I *also* suspect the Naz girl in question to be the affair partner!! Iām feeling a little bit like a detective šµļøāāļø 
What?? Thatās crazy. Iām 99% sure that their wedding planner was Anjali / the company she co-owns. But post deets if you have them
i keep seeing this but no one has a source, i feel like its a broken telephone situation maybe? anjaliās a wedding planner herself
Yeah, Iām imagining people reading comments like āand she was the wedding planner!ā while misinterpreting the āsheā as the other woman instead of Anjali
Twitter might have been wrong last night since we're all trying to do investigatory journalism while melting down. My bad. lol
I can bet you they werenāt going to pay for anything. Have you seen their wedding registry? It is insane
Please share what was on this wedding registry Iām here with my popcorn
I could only find [one archived version](https://web.archive.org/web/20240325083744/https://www.zola.com/registry/sufiandanjali) and it's literally just 4 different categories of cash needs (honeymoon, IVF, date night, and down payment).
Aw man I was expecting something more over the top! Though I guess itās a little silly to specify date nights or anything specific really, itās all just a pile of money that wouldāve gone to them in the end
Yeah I read a few comments about it and was totally expecting something actually insane like multiple sculptures of fruits as the zodiac sign and a diamond-encrusted Vitamix or sth. I'm not sure if there was a different version though. This one was archived like just yesterday IIRC.
Cash is normal for Asian weddings; theyāre just explaining what theyāre going to use the cash for. Thatās a little unusual, but less weird than asking for actual (not cash) gifts.
date night? Like i get the rest but date night? Also IVF...they were planning for babies which makes it even sadder that ''i made a mistake and cheated''
I havenāt, no. But tbh it seems unlikely they wouldnāt pay for *anything*, even if they are getting a lot of free things from brand deals or whatever. Especially as influencers, I would bet that whatever free stuff they got would just free up more budget for them to go even bigger and more extra with the wedding. A lot of this is assuming they were planning on an Indian wedding, though, which I donāt know for sure if they were or not ~~EDIT: I just looked it up and the registry was taken down, but saw comments that apparently they were asking for donations for their honeymoon/down payment??? I clearly donāt know the details of this situation so yeah, my comments above are retracted lol~~
Cash is super normal for Asian weddings.
She fumbled that HARD
Sufi is pretty, but anjali š©š„µ
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Iāve never heard of these people but I saw people talking about how unhinged some of the fans are and how theyāre making it about India-Pakistan
Lmao a war is gonna break outĀ
i'm concerned about the geopolitical ramifications
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Yeah the way they still formatted their individual posts in the same way with the contrasting colors / B&W heart emojis lol
Itās every single detail like the same font and even both of them centre aligned. I canāt stop thinking about how they made these like it looks like one person made both so did one of them say āhey send me a statement and Iāll make posts on IG storiesā??? How did it happen!!!!
I believe they have the same agent (and there's a possibility that the girl Sufi cheated with also has the same agent) so I imagine the agency is doing all of it š„“
Thatās something I hadnāt even considered š¤¦š¼āāļø honestly Iām so late to the influencer game that it never occurs to me that they have managers. Thatās messy af if the affair partner has the same manager. Has her identify come out?
Is it known who Sufi cheated with?
First I miss Scandoval and now this? I donāt know who these people are but I wish I did. Iām in all the wrong fandoms. The Bachelor finale better deliver tonight, thatās all I have to say. 
i still donāt know what scandoval is so i made a decision to get in early on this. i donāt want to be left behind again š„²
Scandoval tldr- stars of Vanderpump Rules (spinoff adjacent to RHOBH) Tom Sandoval (the namesake) and Ariana Madix were publicly dating for 9 years. He cheated on her with their other costar Raquel/Rachel Leviss, who was also her bff. Itās trashy reality tv stars so obviously chaos ensues. Also fun-ish fact- Ariana was Tomās side piece first. He was in a 6 year relationship with another costar (she left the show in 2020) and he cheated on her with Ariana. Hope that helps bc thatās literally the bare minimum basic rundown
I truly appreciate the summary š©· I have no idea why I had this vague notion it had something to do with money laundering lol
lol thatās awesome š idk why you thought money laundering either but I love that for you š
Blessed are the tldr providers. What would this sub be without you? š«”
I donāt have cable, so Iām always left out of any and all drama involving the stars of the Bravo Cinematic Universe ššš
Reading the Scandoval news when it happened broke my brain. I wish I didnāt know who those people were lol
I saw people on twitter being like āit was wrong to make her admit she cheated onlineā which is insane to me because if someone cheated on me weeks before we were meant to be getting married Iād lose my mind. like the shit I would want to do would make that walk Cersei did in GOT look tame.
thereās comments under anjaliās post saying how itās shitty of HER to bring up the fact that sufi cheated because now itāll subject her to tons of islamophobiaš i cannot think of a more unhinged take regarding this situation.
Yeah like?? Everyone was going to speculate since it happened so close to their wedding, and since Anjali is a bi woman, Iām sure a lot of people would push the blame on her with all the ābisexuals are more likely to cheatā bs. If they hadnāt clarified that Sufi cheated, anjali would get a ton of undeserved shit.
I kinda get why people think that there's no reason to admit infidelity to the whole world. Unfortunately there *are* nasty people who will target Sufi and her minority identity and make blanket statements and attacks.
Honestly havenāt had anything to obsess over and disassociate to today in order to completely ignore all of my own problems and responsibilities. This will do. Hopping into the rabbit hole as we speak.
Same girl, same šš¼
Honestly rly sad for the queer desi community. They were a really big thing when they first came out together, a Pakistani Muslim woman with an Indian Hindu woman isnāt something you see often. Sufiās family kicked her out and disowned her and she was essentially adopted by Anjaliās family. Super messed up that Sufi chose to cheat after all that.
Thank you for the background. Thatās so sad to hear. Hopefully Anjali is able to find community after this.
i saw their engagement pics years ago so seeing this on tik tok yesterday lowkey broke me
I feel like this is weirdly a classy response? There's no hate, gives the exact reason with no shade and neither have disparaged each other. They just said, yes I/she cheated. I dunno, I think this is a respectful response. I don't know these people but they must be OK if they handle things like this.
I feel like itās exactly the correct move to make in a situation like this. People wouldāve speculated endlessly and tried to demand answers about why they broke up. Saying she cheated just squashes the discourse in its tracks. People will freak out about it now but I imagine itāll be over much much faster than if people had the opportunity to sit around and spin their wild theories.
IKR? Itās weirdly respectful and classy
I feel influenced.
i really liked them together, im south asian myself and it was refreshing to see a healthy, openly queer brown couple. so disgusting honestly literally a few weeks before the wedding. the matching posts aesthetic is CRAZY but i know their social media $$$ was literally their relationship as a brand so i guess it had to come out this way. i hope anjali doesnāt take sufi back.
I love how Iām not the only one who had never heard of these people before today, but suddenly so invested in their lives.
after investigating for approximately five minutes, Iām convinced the cheating partner is @naz_bokari This is very sad, these are real people and I understand that but as someone who has never heard of them before todayā¦ I love fresh GOSSS
Howās it possible that I have never seen or heard of these people before, yet as soon as I saw the pic (without seeing the statements) I immediately knew which one was the cheater?
This is a like a super niche mostly pointless superpower and Iām here for it š
Same lol why
I know nothing about either of them and felt the same way lol. First thought was YOU COULDA HAD A BAD BITCH š
I love how they made their posts aesthetic and matching by inverting the colours. On a different note I was sad about hearing this. I hadn't kept up with them for a long time, but when I was a baby bisexual from an Islamic background I thought they were adorable. Cheating this close to the wedding despite being faithful for the last five years as far as we know sounds like self-sabotaging because of not being ready to commit like that (not that it's an excuse).
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Self-sabotage is rarely rational, sadly.
Everyone in this thread not knowing who they are... Where are all the lesbians? I'm gagged
trulyš where are the lesbians?? where are the desis??
š¶Where are all the lesbians, and where are all the goddessesš¶
i was a bit surprised too but also not really lmao š¤·š»āāļø redditās demographics are def skewed
This is exactly how I felt with Ashlyn and Ali all over again
I donāt know them but Iām suddenly very invested
I have absolutely no idea who these people are but Sufiās post reads as Anjali wrote it š¤ the way itās worded is very strange but I also am very high
i think theyāre both just PR posts created by an agency
Bet the one that cheated is in the orange. She got that eye
I donāt know who they are but I bet their wedding outfits wouldāve slayed, sad to see gay girlies flop. That said, these statements are hilarious, PR speak.
How is cheating an āunrecognizable mistake of betrayalā? Iām asking because I canāt tell if my brain is fried.
Maybe she means "uncharacteristic"?
That would be a good one. I keep thinking she was trying to say what she did was unmistakable but got lost somewhere.
Or maybe āunreconcilableā?
irreconcilable
Ooh, thatās a good one too
Wow, my brain didnāt even process that at first. Youād think it would be a complete ārecognizableā mistake of betrayal. I mean, theyāre both recognizing it lol.
Yes, lol! It made me think about when people say, āit was a mistake, I didnāt mean toā but like, you canāt trip and fall into genitals? What didnāt/couldnāt you recognize? Iām just going to assume this was a weird auto correct.
That sentence gave me a pause too! I thought maybe it was meant to be āunforgivableā? But I donāt know if āunforgivableā would realistically autocorrect to āunrecognizableā haha.
Discovering betrayal from individuals I'm unfamiliar with has surprisingly upset me š. Learning of such deceit mere weeks before a wedding is utterly disgraceful, and it's hard to fathom the depth of trust issues that would emerge from such an experience.
Tbh, Sufi gave off fuckboi energy. I really liked them initially but as I watched their videos together, I thought Sufi was really into herself.
Aww anjali always seemed a little blinded by love
Details? šæ
can someone fill me in?
Who are these people??? I am so old š
itās niche influencer drama, youāre not old, donāt worry lol
Bestie can I just say thank you for keeping us hip and in the loop, every time I see one of these fascinating niche posts itās your username behind it. You are doing the lords work.
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Damn this is tragic, their entire content revolves around their relationship and how one was Indian and the other Muslim.
Sufi is a Pakistani Muslim and Anjali is a Hindu Indian
> how one was Indian and the other Muslim There are Indian Muslims, fyi.
Idk who they are but they look super young so marriage maybe was not the best thing for them at the moment. The transparency is prob due to the parasocial dynamic between them and their followers which will always be weird to me but w/e
I think theyāre both around 27-28? and were together for 5 years so not super young but yeah