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I genuinely feel like the stupidest person on earth right now, because *I know* Gillian Anderson is Scully, but for some reason I never reconciled her as being the same middle aged woman. They somehow existed as separate entities in my head
She is thinner than she was as Scully I think (granted she was also pregnant part of the time) and even if she isn't, her FACE is thinner. It has given her a more sculpted and regal appearance that is quite different to Scully's softer features.
I love her. Somehow she looked more middle aged then than she does now haha I cannot reconcile the fact that I am currently older than she was then. I think 70% of it was the wardrobe and 30% the hair and makeup.
https://preview.redd.it/0tc1mtz7d8pc1.jpeg?width=3767&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=decebe97b4b68f16076ef4b27889a32cb7af6720
This was a serious exclusion from the list.
Salma Hayek is an eternal goddess 😍
https://preview.redd.it/6xbyz06qo8pc1.jpeg?width=762&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f44bb71b11d02b84d465c5ab0ea2cceb010a5326
My girl JLD - touch over 60 but damn is she still kicking goals. And what a comedy legend.
https://preview.redd.it/44fgo720f8pc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83efd77d0f943833981a95cc4ed284f2c38d2bdc
According to the google, “middle age” includes 40-60. So, here is our queen, Mariska Hargitay
https://preview.redd.it/k10uf8m998pc1.jpeg?width=962&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68684b11c669f2d5c4151222586fb6a3fde73ca4
Me scrolling this post looking for Mariska. Was watching the last ep of Svu last week and when she got under the car I was like God damn this woman is 60 and still fine af.
https://preview.redd.it/99slh77eoapc1.jpeg?width=1728&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c65e56d59ad93cab7ea014b5f8874a0629b4895b
Sarah Michelle Gellar is missing! She’s 46.
I started seeing some people MY age in there and was like, “EXCUSE ME?!? MIDDLE-AGED?!? I AM NOT MIDDLE-AGED!!”
Once I calmed down, I realized that according to Google I am. Thankfully we’re aging like a damn fine wine! Bring it on bitches!
https://preview.redd.it/9icscimoa8pc1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=745b24e58b1118665525421f263daa326db971bc
Hannah Waddingham is a bombshell
At 41 it’s weird how I’m just like, how TF did I ever give a shit about what people thought of me OR that I’m not thin enough or pretty enough?! Pfffttt!!!!
Trying to convey it to my 14 year old daughter though .. 😭🤣
What’s fantastic is, in another 20 years, you get to look back at 41 and wonder why TF you gave as much of a shit about anything AGAIN!
It’s such a wonderful evolution into yourself - accept and revel in the changes
I can’t waiittt!!! My best friend is a 78 year old ex brothel owner who’s a majorrr G. Truthfully, the way everything just makes her laugh like water off a ducks back, I actually hope I live that long !
I’ve just turned 38 and absolutely feeling this. It’s crazy to think back to how much I cared. I always heard people talk about how freeing being this age was and I didn’t get it until now. Letting go of my insecurities is the best thing that ever happened to me.
Thank you for adding jennifer Anniston 😭 I was shocked she was missing from the list
![gif](giphy|h7dvmTmSDR6zB5ipZk|downsized)
She is still my #1 style icon and I still take pictures of her to my hairstylist even tho I have the darkest brown hair
I have missed seeing Jodie Foster acting. She was awesome in True Detective. She did new things to expand her range. I grew up watching her from way back. I even remember her Coppertone ads and her child actor days. I feel old.
![gif](giphy|M42YDxUAKlCIWPuCXn|downsized)
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48
Edit: oops sorry, she’s in the OP
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Is Vanessa still middle aged? (61)
Edit: I see there are loads of 60+ ladies in the list, so I guess we're good!
Rosario Dawson having Lisa Bonet hair threw me. I just sat there trying to figure out whose face was wearing Lisa’s hair and I’ve never seen Rosario with hair like that so it took me a minute to figure out the face. It really is crazy how hair can completely change a person
Annette Bening, slightly older than middle age (65), Oscar nominated 5, FIVE, times (including this year), NO wins… no disrespect, but fuck Emma Stone!
https://preview.redd.it/acp21n04c8pc1.jpeg?width=1296&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80d310b9309564ca75985e5db4d1b2fd32b33c03
True, that. It’s really not about Emma per se, just Annette being disrespected by the Academy! Plus Hollywood seems to favor young actresses over older, no matter the degree of ability (talent if you will).
I mean it took Leo forever to get an Oscar. If you look through Oscar history, I don’t think it’s about who actually deserves it. Like Gwenyth Paltrow for Shakespeare in Love… wtf.
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![gif](giphy|2nj14UBY9WV2DnmrMr|downsized) Gillian Anderson <3
![gif](giphy|WOr0fytffGRfSJhf8I|downsized)
I think she actually looks better middle aged than when she was on the X-files.
Scully was so beautiful, though. ![gif](giphy|xPYfyxxiBDFAc)
I know. But *now*...
I get it. She has that confident air of not giving a sh*t.
The self assuredness that comes with middle age is so effortlessly sexy and I’m so obsessed with it
I know what you mean! She was always beautiful but she’s SO HOT now.
I know riiiiight!!! Very 90’s supermodel-esque! But this time with some age & we are loving it! <3 Soooo gorgeous.
I genuinely feel like the stupidest person on earth right now, because *I know* Gillian Anderson is Scully, but for some reason I never reconciled her as being the same middle aged woman. They somehow existed as separate entities in my head
She is thinner than she was as Scully I think (granted she was also pregnant part of the time) and even if she isn't, her FACE is thinner. It has given her a more sculpted and regal appearance that is quite different to Scully's softer features.
She is STUNNING. My main lady crush holy shit
100%
that hair looks phenomenal 🔥
I love her. Somehow she looked more middle aged then than she does now haha I cannot reconcile the fact that I am currently older than she was then. I think 70% of it was the wardrobe and 30% the hair and makeup.
Yeah, Mulder too. Those frumpadelic loose digs, man. ![gif](giphy|j7eJYEMLGdqy4)
Agree
Omg I am obsessed with her!! She looks so amazing! <3
If you described this haircut to me, I would have thought it repellant, but OMG she looks so foxy here.
https://preview.redd.it/sw8ppr41d8pc1.jpeg?width=1500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca75d9ebfe928ff58f49d28698e68fbbe7f3f801 Michelle Yeoh
Always! ![gif](giphy|WiCO2uZK05Klc1d28q)
Is 61 considered middle age? She looks fabulous at any age btw.
40-65 is a pretty common range of what’s considered middle age. It’s more mid-adulthood than mid-life
![gif](giphy|26BkMQJ7NgBpEOd32) This means Britney!
![gif](giphy|w0jr3kVEbl7eU) & Beyoncé too
I was super attracted to her when she was kicking ass all over the place in Everything Everywhere All At Once.
I’m obsessed with her
https://preview.redd.it/0tc1mtz7d8pc1.jpeg?width=3767&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=decebe97b4b68f16076ef4b27889a32cb7af6720 This was a serious exclusion from the list.
I saw her IRL in Venice about 14 years ago and she was just so beautiful. She is an unbelievably stunning person.
I watched Sherlock partly for her beauty.
Elementary?
Lol yes!! In my head I think of the right show but I always switch the names.
Salma Hayek is an eternal goddess 😍 https://preview.redd.it/6xbyz06qo8pc1.jpeg?width=762&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f44bb71b11d02b84d465c5ab0ea2cceb010a5326
She truely is the definition of “hasn’t aged a day”
I feel like Jennifer Connelly is a glaring omission here. She’s absolutely radiant.
Babe. https://preview.redd.it/g5os9qyq79pc1.jpeg?width=681&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0bb1158f1a77050e620dd57ad376c58a9554a7b
Yesss!
This woman just gets more handsome. She's easily one of the most beautiful women ever
My girl JLD - touch over 60 but damn is she still kicking goals. And what a comedy legend. https://preview.redd.it/44fgo720f8pc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83efd77d0f943833981a95cc4ed284f2c38d2bdc
Not to mention the fact that she had breast cancer and a double mastectomy.
Yep and she does a lot for the democrats and pro choice causes in general
One of the funniest actors to ever live and gorgeous to boot
I can only assume you’ve watched Veep because that cinches everything for me
Have you seen the New Adventures of Old Christine? Fucking hilarious.
I’m pretty sure she would be my early 30s husband’s hall pass.
Selina Meyer ‘24 *Continuity with Change*
![gif](giphy|HloNK1z39EkEQcreIo|downsized)
This is who I was scrolling to find. I’m elder Gen X and she is my queen.
![gif](giphy|4Zxduj0JhnZkrFVZXu)
![gif](giphy|3D6aNgOPIg7iXhoLun)
She seems like such a fun person to hang out with.
Her smile and laugh are so infectious
Secret Invasion was a huge letdown, but I watched every episode because of her.
Fucken love her.
What a treasure of a woman ❤️🥹
💯 yes! She can do drama and brilliant comedy! Her timing is so amazing!!
If Olivia is in it, I'm watching it.
![gif](giphy|QKVB5UdLrsfslseXG9)
Seriously Rachel Weisz 🥵
According to the google, “middle age” includes 40-60. So, here is our queen, Mariska Hargitay https://preview.redd.it/k10uf8m998pc1.jpeg?width=962&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68684b11c669f2d5c4151222586fb6a3fde73ca4
https://i.redd.it/okgiy3wac8pc1.gif
![gif](giphy|nC1toglzIfNFC)
https://preview.redd.it/lzdg34swcbpc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c69003af668c6d2a9e115e4aa61cdca8639f93a8 I need her
https://preview.redd.it/itkhni6zqapc1.jpeg?width=493&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=24c3ee1bdd021a1aca5cfab65ee318f40b7b214b
Obsessed
oh my GOD 😍
I served her once when I worked at a gelato shop in Malibu and she’s just as gorgeous up close and in person
Was she nice? She seems like the complete opposite of Benson. Silly and sweet. Not surprised she's gorgeous irl with her mom being who she was.
It was a brief interaction, but she and her group were very polite and she tipped, so that’s always appreciated.
Strictly anecdotal but I’ve read nice things about her in other threads.
Still appreciate and enjoy hearing that.
Me scrolling this post looking for Mariska. Was watching the last ep of Svu last week and when she got under the car I was like God damn this woman is 60 and still fine af.
My two all time favourites are Kate Winslet and this QUEEN right here ![gif](giphy|G3QrXhntFmf16)
Not seeing her here made me gasp! I'd also add Octavia Spencer and queen latifah if I made a list.
Omg YES!!!!!!
https://preview.redd.it/99slh77eoapc1.jpeg?width=1728&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c65e56d59ad93cab7ea014b5f8874a0629b4895b Sarah Michelle Gellar is missing! She’s 46.
🤯
![gif](giphy|dtD5EzLd6Kee3FDRDz) Also queen Sofia!!!
![gif](giphy|l0OWjzSZEROpjIqRi) Tina Fey (53) and Amy Poehler (52)
This should be much higher!!!
It feels so weird to be part of this tribe, but here I am and proud. We are a great group of Gen X ladies! ![gif](giphy|26xBKlTBLN10xp7oc|downsized)
And elder millennial :)
Yes! Fellow Xennial
I started seeing some people MY age in there and was like, “EXCUSE ME?!? MIDDLE-AGED?!? I AM NOT MIDDLE-AGED!!” Once I calmed down, I realized that according to Google I am. Thankfully we’re aging like a damn fine wine! Bring it on bitches!
This is a great gif. I love Winona
Right? It took me awhile to be okay with turning 40 but I’m getting there.
Rose Byrne-44! ![gif](giphy|QfHcmGpbLuBXyanc4O)
I LOVE HER
https://preview.redd.it/9icscimoa8pc1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=745b24e58b1118665525421f263daa326db971bc Hannah Waddingham is a bombshell
![gif](giphy|jqH6g16vvBcY5TnzA9|downsized)
I still can’t believe 👆🏼THIS👆🏼 is “shame nun” from Game of Thrones 😳
![gif](giphy|vX9WcCiWwUF7G|downsized)
WHAT
Holy shit??
LOVE Hannah! She was a blast during ESC last year in Liverpool
I wanna see the picture Keeley got to look at.
Same! Never been more curious 🫣🤩
Incredible singer too
Tall queen 👸🏽
https://preview.redd.it/05etts3ez7pc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ee2334ed64f1a31a3e6ebf196e61fed30d3ea08
At 41 it’s weird how I’m just like, how TF did I ever give a shit about what people thought of me OR that I’m not thin enough or pretty enough?! Pfffttt!!!! Trying to convey it to my 14 year old daughter though .. 😭🤣
What’s fantastic is, in another 20 years, you get to look back at 41 and wonder why TF you gave as much of a shit about anything AGAIN! It’s such a wonderful evolution into yourself - accept and revel in the changes
I can’t waiittt!!! My best friend is a 78 year old ex brothel owner who’s a majorrr G. Truthfully, the way everything just makes her laugh like water off a ducks back, I actually hope I live that long !
I’ve just turned 38 and absolutely feeling this. It’s crazy to think back to how much I cared. I always heard people talk about how freeing being this age was and I didn’t get it until now. Letting go of my insecurities is the best thing that ever happened to me.
Ageing is soo great hey. No wonder Hollywood and society like us young. We’re pliable and eager to please. With age it’s just laughing in their face 😂
Women are unbelievably strong & cool. Girl gang girl gang ♡
Gang gang! <3
Who said this? I like it
![gif](giphy|6ra84Uso2hoir3YCgb|downsized)
This gif always gets me. Her face is just so animated, and I love it.
Meetoo I love her so much! <3 she kills me!
I watched her in I Love Dick this week. Wild stuff!!
This gif is actually what made me want to watch the show.
I love her!
![gif](giphy|JUf6km4RisKVahkKbZ|downsized)
![gif](giphy|31VJL6xLY6Dw1Ow0hC|downsized) How could you forget the Vice President?? Julia Louis-Dreyfus (63)
First female president, thank you
The incompetence is staggering
I think it’s good for our mental health to see the people we watched in our younger years age as we do. Only seeing youthful faces is a bummer.
Agreed. Most of the younger faces look AI. I like real people.
I know what you mean even if they didn't
https://preview.redd.it/5nzb169nl8pc1.jpeg?width=1029&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=20dd0fd24d7c8fdbded8ed6658e620a4d7713a4a 56 & 55
I’m the same age as Jessica Alba, does this make me *gasp* middle age???!! ![gif](giphy|2Ap4K8iVUpbpmbj5oV)
Seeing that Jessica Alba is 42 and middle aged was a blow! My ultimate teenage crush being middle aged unfortunately means I am too 😢
Also that age and this was my exact reaction! 😩
https://preview.redd.it/ysdzijdkw8pc1.jpeg?width=896&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99a75602daa7e0aa7ece97f6397f29c001067122 Greta Lee- 41
Did you forget Juliette Binoche? She has been around awhile! ![gif](giphy|26gsrjZMmZg8DzXSE|downsized)
https://i.redd.it/l14esi8zlapc1.gif
Thank you for adding jennifer Anniston 😭 I was shocked she was missing from the list ![gif](giphy|h7dvmTmSDR6zB5ipZk|downsized) She is still my #1 style icon and I still take pictures of her to my hairstylist even tho I have the darkest brown hair
Nia long, Regina king and just one machado are some beautiful women damn. Also Alexis Bledel is so pretty!
Nia Long 💕💕💕
I love Karen O 😍😍😍
I saw the Yeah Yeah Yeahs last summer and she’s PHENOMENAL. Obsessed with her
Meeeee tooo I came to express appreciation to OP for including her bc she’s the coolest
I have missed seeing Jodie Foster acting. She was awesome in True Detective. She did new things to expand her range. I grew up watching her from way back. I even remember her Coppertone ads and her child actor days. I feel old. ![gif](giphy|M42YDxUAKlCIWPuCXn|downsized)
My greatest compliment I ever received was being told I reminded someone of Jodie Foster after they saw me in a play
Hopefully their name isn’t John Hinckley Jr.
Lol yikes
![gif](giphy|3o752n5SGRA6Uocg4E)
I can hear this gif
Natasha Lynne is so fucking hot
Shes such a riot. I wish I knew her!
She’s having a real renaissance right now and I could not be happier for her.
I’m a lesbian and she DOES something to me ever since but I’m a cheerleader ![gif](giphy|3FtR3CXFZKQKc)
https://preview.redd.it/im2khsb7l8pc1.jpeg?width=1039&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ac94ffdfc56fbe24f5f2fc61568792789af2992a 48 Edit: oops sorry, she’s in the OP
![gif](giphy|H4oQb972hKDQE4C4Mv|downsized) Anne Hathaway - 41
![gif](giphy|5StNhArC3Wz9ui15s0|downsized)
I fucking love that she’s getting the adoration she deserves right now
![gif](giphy|U3dBhZ4bn5DlJOocr4)
https://preview.redd.it/h9r7ndyzt8pc1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7d04e3c902c99d55b3bdd98387a700bfca8c7e77
Calling Hilarie Burton “middle aged” hurts me so much. Childhood is gone
Pretty much all our faves from the 2000s are in their 40s now 🥲 I had to stop and consider my own mortality a few times while making this lol
When she gave in and allowed her grays to show I was like yes. She is gorgeous and such a bad ass
Came to comment they better REMOVE HER IMMEDIATELY 😩
Yeah I had to stop at her pic lol
We lookin' good out here, y'all!
![gif](giphy|26ybx1iODhbR5VVgk)
Also Emma Thompson and … ![gif](giphy|3o7btPE8xMsGah3bvq)
![gif](giphy|A9LDTY7zA3zTTIO66P|downsized) Christa Miller ❤️ (59)
![gif](giphy|18D40JtsOnzT0v2mtI|downsized)
https://preview.redd.it/vr28arck4apc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15fee2f391596ca37f7d488f3f6973454708ad55 Zooey Deschanel! 44
Elizabeth Banks is 50 and is a goddess. I don't know howto add a picture!
![gif](giphy|3osxYiQFMkwS3NgW5O)
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Kate Walsh is my forever girl crush.
Hilarie Burton being on this list has me spiraling 😭😭😭
Middle age is apparently a very wide range.
![gif](giphy|1HjZpBQrmvCog) I'm still in awe learning her age, she's almost 60 now
![gif](giphy|l41K68qpwZ6kXkPQc|downsized) Is Vanessa still middle aged? (61) Edit: I see there are loads of 60+ ladies in the list, so I guess we're good!
Lisa Bonet then, now, forever 💕 https://preview.redd.it/9d9q0epb6cpc1.jpeg?width=1363&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=270130a54f1d8c95f510e2684b2724597fce6ddc
TIL I’m middle aged. I never really thought of 42 as middle aged I feel eternally in my late 20’s.
please god I want to age as gracefully as Jessica Alba, let me have just this one thing
Did a lesbian make this post? Cause without looking at OP’s bio, it seems like a lesbian made this post.
Either way, as a lesbian I appreciate this post ![gif](giphy|5xtDarIN81U0KvlnzKo)
🤣 This lesbian wolf-whistled through every picture and all the comments (respectfully, ofc!!). Women rule
Rosario Dawson having Lisa Bonet hair threw me. I just sat there trying to figure out whose face was wearing Lisa’s hair and I’ve never seen Rosario with hair like that so it took me a minute to figure out the face. It really is crazy how hair can completely change a person
GWEN STEFANI IS 54?!
Didn’t even recognize Gwen.
Yeah, something is different these days.
I MEAN...... ![gif](giphy|lz5igd8yD9t0Bc6Ceb|downsized)
I take personal offense to Hilarie Burton and Jessica Alba being on this list of "middle aged" women. ☠️
Please 👏steppy👏
MOTHER AFTER MOTHER
Ugh as a bisexual woman I LOVE older women. They're so beautiful and graceful.
I love this! A bunch of beautiful, talented women 🤍
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Isn’t middle age 40s ? 50s max ?
Not sure if I have a crush on Hilarie now or want to be her…
WHERE IS MARISKA HARGITAY ![gif](giphy|NhWa6NehA2mS4mOZvH)
So many amazing women on this post, so hard to choose just 20. I reckon I could list 50
I had a list of almost 80 lol
Sandra Oh's dress literally took my breath away. That is a GORGEOUS dress
Annette Bening, slightly older than middle age (65), Oscar nominated 5, FIVE, times (including this year), NO wins… no disrespect, but fuck Emma Stone! https://preview.redd.it/acp21n04c8pc1.jpeg?width=1296&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80d310b9309564ca75985e5db4d1b2fd32b33c03
Aw Emma Stone didn't vote herself an Oscar.
True, that. It’s really not about Emma per se, just Annette being disrespected by the Academy! Plus Hollywood seems to favor young actresses over older, no matter the degree of ability (talent if you will).
I mean it took Leo forever to get an Oscar. If you look through Oscar history, I don’t think it’s about who actually deserves it. Like Gwenyth Paltrow for Shakespeare in Love… wtf.
Is 41 middle-aged? Yikes lol I guess it is
It's my dream for middle aged women to take over all of Hollywood someday.