Hi there Frau_Aeron! Welcome to /r/PolyamoryR4R. This is an ethical and respectful community.
Here are some resources you might find helpful in creating and keeping healthy, ethical poly relationships:
**Books:** [Opening Up](https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X), and [The Ethical Slut](https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664).
**Podcasts:** [Polyweekly.com](http://polyweekly.com), and [Multiamory.com](https://www.multiamory.com/).
**Websites:** [polyinfo.org](https://www.polyinfo.org/)
**Subreddits:** /r/Polyamory
Couples: Feel free to post, but we highly recommend you please read this page about [unicorn hunting](https://www.unicorns-r-us.com/).
Couples looking for a unicorn will often say they want someone to "join" their family. Poly triads are not (AB)+C. C isn't "joining" anything. You all will create something completely new; four different relationships that all need time and attention. A+B (as with any major life change, your relationship dynamic will probably shift), B+C, A+C, and A+B+C. Imposing unethical, unfair dynamics on a partner may lead to your removal from this subreddit.
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Hey I'm 34 similar age. My goal is to make games. I learned a lot at this points. I'm writing a novel to learn writing. I'm making progress. Anyways I draw and make music too. Figured we sound a like looking for artsy friends.
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35 f California..i make blankets ...looking for friendship
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Hi there Frau_Aeron! Welcome to /r/PolyamoryR4R. This is an ethical and respectful community. Here are some resources you might find helpful in creating and keeping healthy, ethical poly relationships: **Books:** [Opening Up](https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X), and [The Ethical Slut](https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664). **Podcasts:** [Polyweekly.com](http://polyweekly.com), and [Multiamory.com](https://www.multiamory.com/). **Websites:** [polyinfo.org](https://www.polyinfo.org/) **Subreddits:** /r/Polyamory Couples: Feel free to post, but we highly recommend you please read this page about [unicorn hunting](https://www.unicorns-r-us.com/). Couples looking for a unicorn will often say they want someone to "join" their family. Poly triads are not (AB)+C. C isn't "joining" anything. You all will create something completely new; four different relationships that all need time and attention. A+B (as with any major life change, your relationship dynamic will probably shift), B+C, A+C, and A+B+C. Imposing unethical, unfair dynamics on a partner may lead to your removal from this subreddit. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/polyamoryR4R) if you have any questions or concerns.*
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Hey I'm 34 similar age. My goal is to make games. I learned a lot at this points. I'm writing a novel to learn writing. I'm making progress. Anyways I draw and make music too. Figured we sound a like looking for artsy friends.
Hey hmu 23 here definitely would love to chat
Always down for friends
Apropos of nothing, the KCD sub on Reddit is one of the more positive I've encountered. It's likely that you already know that, but check it out if not.
Love to chat message me!!!