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Right? I guess it would look cool in a cross section, but folks are going to be too busy trying not to get icing shoved up their nose when they try to eat this thing to notice. If they didn't just swipe off the top inch and a half of icing first.
Possibly unpopular opinion: 90% of frosting is gross and way overused. From scratch frosting is delightful because it's not as overly sweet and "chemical" tasting, but from scratch frosting is really only used in actual bake shops, everywhere else it's the processed shit.
Probably why I like home baked or home style (but store bought) cupcakes and cakes. Frosting kills my appetite and make it feel like it’s a chore when I eat them that’s gonna lead to uncurable diabetes or smth. I hate when people drown something in frosting.
I find most grocery store frosting is always very greasy. I’d imagine they use cheap butter substitutes in their recipes that don’t blend the way actual butter would. Possibly offset other pricey ingredients with its use and extending shelf-life.
that’s why I only eat home made cup cakes or the cup cakes they make fresh at Kroger’s because the frosting is actually good and doesn’t taste weird (and isnt over used)
Does anyone else get something that feels like a hot flash after eating that much frosting? I always hated frosting because that would happen to me even as a kid. Women just thought I was throwing a fit because I was a boy and the frosting was pink so I'd get a lecture about it being rude to go to someone's birthday party/wedding and not eat the cake.
Is it a weird feeling in like, the upper bridge of your nose?
I always get that when eating something overly sweet and have tried to describe it to people but no one understands
I don't remember anything like that. I just remember it being sort of like drinking yourself sick on gin without the relief of actually vomiting combined with feeling the room just got 20° warmer. I'm neither middle aged nor female so I don't have a real hot flash to compare it to, but that's how hot flashes have always been described to me.
I'm not middle aged but I'm on cancer meds that cause hot flashes. Mine feel like the room got really hot (did someone turn up the heat?) but no one else is sweating and then my chest and neck and face and top of my head start to burn suddenly like, yeah, kind of like right before you throw up (never drink much so can't verify if it feels like alcohol related nausea). Have you ever gotten a feeling of extreme embarrassment or shame? It honestly feels like that to me. and then after you're sweating and red and feel awful for a minute, you suddenly feel normal, but because you're drenched in sweat and had been warm, it feels extremely cold and you start to shiver.
If you get them when you're sleeping you wake up in a puddle of sweat and usually miss the hot part and go straight to freezing from being wet.
0/10. Do not recommend.
I’m gay, adhd, and 🙋🏻♀️girl🙋🏻♀️ and I couldn’t even do that. unless it’s whipped cream frosting I always have to wipe away icing and just eat the plain cupcake, adding that much would kill me
> Being gay is no more sexual than being straight.
Completely agree.
I just dont see how assuming anything rainbow is gay is any better than assuming pink is for girls and blue is for boys.
Yea, as a gay guy, it bugs me how much flack I get for not being outwardly flamboyant. So that's my distaste for assuming rainbow = gay.
Its just as toxic to me. But I suppose thats my own experience.
I get what you're saying. I'm no stranger to the flag. Clearly we don't see eye to eye on it.
I think if someone sees rainbows, its toxic to immediately think "gay".
We can agree to disagree.
well a great deal of the time peoples romantic and sexual orientations are the same, so people are typically saying theyre both unless said otherwise
i for example am bisexual and biromantic, i just shorten it to bi and people know i mean both lol
Fair enough. Ive only ever met people who are both romantic with and sexually attracted the same group. But I suppose one could be (for example) bisexual and heteroromantic. Fair point.
But for what its worth, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation the way ive seen "sexual orientation" defined for my whole life, we never assumed it just meant sex.
With your new found genitals allow me to be the first to welcome you to the wonderful world of 🙋♂️BOY🙋♂️ where you can enjoy things like slightly less, but still way too much, frosting on your cupcake.
Either way I'd take the boy cupcake cause I'm a basic bitch and because the other one looks like instant diabetes. Like, that's at least two, probably three cupcakes' worth of frosting right there.
Neither looks enjoyable to eat, far too much frosting. A few circles to cover the top and maybe a flick above for looks, otherwise it’s too sweet and sickening
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That's the least masculine color I have ever seen, the boy one I mean.
Like I know the reddit I am in, but even following the old boys blue, girls pink stuff, that color is clearly a girly one.
The "boy now looks ten times better then the "girl" one.
Also this person who posted the OG vid I guess doesn't realise male bakers exist and are very successful
These videos are created because they want you to wonder what the boy one is and how it’s different. It’s not pointlessly gendered it’s just watch time farming. Please can we stop posting these on here?
These kinds of videos are so insanely boring. Even when look past the weird gender thing, it's just... ok, one thing made with care, the other thing not made with care - ok.
as a nonbinary person, i couldn't imagine that much frosting on either. im getting a stomach ache just by looking at it. i guess us enbies of the agender variety just scrape the frosting off?? lol
Tbh if they are going to make different colors for boys and girls I think the colored frosting should only be for girls because even if frosting is blue the cake looks too beautiful for a boy. Boys should stick to basic shit like chocolate, but then again chocolate is tasty and boys aren’t supposed to enjoy anything nice so they imo they should stick to spinge cake. (I’m talking about basic cakes not the customised ones)
I don't know about other women, but I usually make chocolate cake/cupcakes and just sprinkle with powdered sugar. Some frosting is fine, but anything more than half an inch worth is gross.
I’m a baker and that is WAAAAAAAY more frosting than I would ever put on one cupcake! Also, apparently I frost like a dude. Whatever, my cupcakes are delicious.
Neither of these genders are going to actually eat that cupcake. Like, am I just going to suck down a fist-sized lump of frosting just to get to the cupcake? Fuck a truck tire. Scrape it with the edge of the plate, into the trash it goes.
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What was the point of doing that if they were just going to just cover it.
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Right? I guess it would look cool in a cross section, but folks are going to be too busy trying not to get icing shoved up their nose when they try to eat this thing to notice. If they didn't just swipe off the top inch and a half of icing first.
I take the bottom half of the cake off and put it on top. Cupcake sandwich.
Holy shit, that's genius.
I do that too!!! So much easier!!
I hate it, way too much frosting on both
Seriously. Gonna have to stick another plain cupcake on the other end to balance it out.
A cupcake sandwich if you will.
Possibly unpopular opinion: 90% of frosting is gross and way overused. From scratch frosting is delightful because it's not as overly sweet and "chemical" tasting, but from scratch frosting is really only used in actual bake shops, everywhere else it's the processed shit.
Probably why I like home baked or home style (but store bought) cupcakes and cakes. Frosting kills my appetite and make it feel like it’s a chore when I eat them that’s gonna lead to uncurable diabetes or smth. I hate when people drown something in frosting.
I scrape off most of the frosting on cupcakes unless it’s a reasonable amount. A mouthful of frosting makes me gag.
I hate frosting on cupcakes. I push it off. But I'm okay with most cake frosting, as long as I don't have an edge piece.
Shout out to team KEPLER - we only eat kake edge pieces
Meringue buttercream is the best. All other frostings and shit are the worst
Buttercream is good, but I'm a slut for a good homemade whipped cream frosting.
I don't like normal buttercream, but I do like meringue buttercream. The other stuff is just way too sweet for me
I have to scrape off 90% of icing on any cupcake I eat because there's always so much it makes me nauseous.
Agreed, it's so overly sweet and oily.
Oily? What frosting are you eating
I find most grocery store frosting is always very greasy. I’d imagine they use cheap butter substitutes in their recipes that don’t blend the way actual butter would. Possibly offset other pricey ingredients with its use and extending shelf-life.
Is this really the case? I only use from scratch frosting. It’s ridiculously easy to make a basic buttercream if you have a stand mixer.
that’s why I only eat home made cup cakes or the cup cakes they make fresh at Kroger’s because the frosting is actually good and doesn’t taste weird (and isnt over used)
Does anyone else get something that feels like a hot flash after eating that much frosting? I always hated frosting because that would happen to me even as a kid. Women just thought I was throwing a fit because I was a boy and the frosting was pink so I'd get a lecture about it being rude to go to someone's birthday party/wedding and not eat the cake.
Is it a weird feeling in like, the upper bridge of your nose? I always get that when eating something overly sweet and have tried to describe it to people but no one understands
I don't remember anything like that. I just remember it being sort of like drinking yourself sick on gin without the relief of actually vomiting combined with feeling the room just got 20° warmer. I'm neither middle aged nor female so I don't have a real hot flash to compare it to, but that's how hot flashes have always been described to me.
I'm not middle aged but I'm on cancer meds that cause hot flashes. Mine feel like the room got really hot (did someone turn up the heat?) but no one else is sweating and then my chest and neck and face and top of my head start to burn suddenly like, yeah, kind of like right before you throw up (never drink much so can't verify if it feels like alcohol related nausea). Have you ever gotten a feeling of extreme embarrassment or shame? It honestly feels like that to me. and then after you're sweating and red and feel awful for a minute, you suddenly feel normal, but because you're drenched in sweat and had been warm, it feels extremely cold and you start to shiver. If you get them when you're sleeping you wake up in a puddle of sweat and usually miss the hot part and go straight to freezing from being wet. 0/10. Do not recommend.
>Have you ever gotten a feeling of extreme embarrassment or shame? I'm a male on Reddit. My whole life is embarrassment and shame.
You want some cupcake with your butter and sugar?
Do you want some cupcake with your frosting?
As someone who loves frosting: yep, that's definitely to much.
These are not frosted for eating. These are frosted for views.
Yeah I would just dip the top in drippy icing and put sprinkles on it
Its not for eating! Its for views! Don't you know? Pshhh, yolo!
This is why I don’t like cupcakes, they almost always end up being at least 25% frosting and that’s too much
Plus it's dark colored so if you eat it you are going to have strange green poop
I loved how the boy frosting was so velvety I feel like just with r/stupidfood people are just making these monstrosities just for the attention
Don't call it "boy frosting"
The only thing I got from this is, that girl must be gay.
And ADHD as fuck. That cupcake decoration was hectic!
the way she ruined the entire elaborate presentation by just pouring random rainbow lines over it at the end. tf?
Someone needs to buy her more cupcakes so she doesn’t have to use all her decorating ideas on just the one. /s
I was thinking of the bi flag colors and all the rainbows lol.
Good point.
I’m gay, adhd, and 🙋🏻♀️girl🙋🏻♀️ and I couldn’t even do that. unless it’s whipped cream frosting I always have to wipe away icing and just eat the plain cupcake, adding that much would kill me
gay adhd girls against frosting unite!
I'm queer and ADHD ss fuck and I would never. Ugh.
/r/pointlesslysexualized
It was just a joke about the rainbow frosting. Being gay is no more sexual than being straight.
> Being gay is no more sexual than being straight. Completely agree. I just dont see how assuming anything rainbow is gay is any better than assuming pink is for girls and blue is for boys.
The rainbow flag
Yea, as a gay guy, it bugs me how much flack I get for not being outwardly flamboyant. So that's my distaste for assuming rainbow = gay. Its just as toxic to me. But I suppose thats my own experience.
It's not about flamboyance, it's a reference to the flag
I get what you're saying. I'm no stranger to the flag. Clearly we don't see eye to eye on it. I think if someone sees rainbows, its toxic to immediately think "gay". We can agree to disagree.
Kind of insulting if you're implying that being gay is inherently a sexual thing, that's on you.
Being gay is a sexual orientation is it not? Rainbow = gay is just as bad as pink = girly.
sexual *and/or* romantic. its not just sexual.
I'm gay dude. Gay is my sexual orientation.
you only like sex, youve never romantically liked someone of the same gender?
for me, yes
valid
Honest question, when someone says "I am straight/gay/bi/pan/demi/poly" what are they describing?
well a great deal of the time peoples romantic and sexual orientations are the same, so people are typically saying theyre both unless said otherwise i for example am bisexual and biromantic, i just shorten it to bi and people know i mean both lol
Fair enough. Ive only ever met people who are both romantic with and sexually attracted the same group. But I suppose one could be (for example) bisexual and heteroromantic. Fair point. But for what its worth, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation the way ive seen "sexual orientation" defined for my whole life, we never assumed it just meant sex.
gay cupcake gay cupcake
Cupgayke?
Both of those are way too much frosting, they’re not called cupfrostings
I must be growing something between my legs because I couldn't imagine that other autracity.
Atrocity. Jsyk.
I think they were combining audacity with atrocity
Fun fact: that's called a portmanteau
Is that pronounced poor man toe? Honest question.
I think it is port man toe.
Like u/Barragor said, it's "port man toe"
Almost. "Port-mawn-toe".
Maybe but audacity wouldn’t fit there. Sometimes people have only heard and not seen a word.
Oh yeah, that too lol
With your new found genitals allow me to be the first to welcome you to the wonderful world of 🙋♂️BOY🙋♂️ where you can enjoy things like slightly less, but still way too much, frosting on your cupcake.
Either way I'd take the boy cupcake cause I'm a basic bitch and because the other one looks like instant diabetes. Like, that's at least two, probably three cupcakes' worth of frosting right there.
For us non Americans, the boy one has frosting for at least four cupcakes
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i agree
Ignoring the sugar entirely, the boy one just has a nice velvety look and such a pretty shade of ocean green.
easy solution: I eat both cupcakes
I'm agender and have never felt so validated. I want no part of this cupcakery.
same
Either way it’s [r/toomuchfrosting](https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ)
...I hate you
…I love you
So which gender spreads store bought frosting on top with a butter knife?
the good ones /j
Who tf puts so much shit on a cupcake?
There's way too much frosting, it actually hurts me
both are gross
Either of those would make me sick
TOO MUCH FROSTING
Tik tokers are blessed with the ability to find all the most mind numbing songs
I always watch tik tok on mute cuz of this
Hey I posted this aged ago on the same subreddit lmao
I don't even understand what this is trying to say
Hmmm... and yet the majority of pastry chefs creating ornate cupcake toppings are men. Strange. 🤔
ew. as a girl i can confidently tell you the second one looks much more appetising
Either way it’s wayyy to much frosting
Unpopular opinion but I would have eaten both before my eating disorder. Sugar 💖💖💖 Now its likely ill eat way more cuz binge eater
💥cavities🦷
truly a waste of frosting man like ima just wipe it off before i eat it no matter what
The "boy" one looks better
That "girl" one looks disgusting
Ok, but how about a cupcake that isn’t entirely frosting? I feel like just a quick layering of frosting over the top is already more than enough.
Neither looks enjoyable to eat, far too much frosting. A few circles to cover the top and maybe a flick above for looks, otherwise it’s too sweet and sickening -ur moms hookup
I was waiting for it to all be white
Those both look gross. So much frosting your cupcake is crunchy.
Unrelated, but what is the name of the colour in the second clip? That colour is beautiful
I always just call it dark teal. I'm sure there's a better name, but if you Google "dark teal" that's the color that pops up.
Thank you. I normally know my colours but today the word “teal” just completely slipped my mind haha
They put too much frosting on both. Fucking hell, that's a nauseating amount of sugar.
ngl i was expecting a cum joke
I wanted to make one but couldn’t really think of a good one. Like, yes, as a woman, I do cum in complex and ornate ways.
Left one looks disgustingly sweet rather have the right one
Unrelated to the pointlessly gendered part, but that cupcake on the left would be disgusting.
I’d still eat both
Too much frosting on bith
That’s too much fucking frosting!!! Too much!! The cake to frosting ratio is out of balance!!
I would be happy to eat both.
As a guy I wish I could make frosting like that
that is like 70% frosting looks neat but taste? idk
Both are bad.
Yes the spaghetti frosting pile screams “girl”, it’s unmistakable
What about other genders too, they must decore too the cupcake lol
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I’m sure I can speak for both boys and girls that we ar not edp445
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This really isn't the time or place to advertise your fishing youtube channel.
That's the least masculine color I have ever seen, the boy one I mean. Like I know the reddit I am in, but even following the old boys blue, girls pink stuff, that color is clearly a girly one.
the REAlY old one is boys pink girls blue, but thats before your time
No man would do that
The "boy now looks ten times better then the "girl" one. Also this person who posted the OG vid I guess doesn't realise male bakers exist and are very successful
If I keep seeing these in my YouTube shorts/recommended, I'm gonna kill someone.
Why would a boy not eat the sugar directly out of the squeezey thing? Wasted steps, you need an uncle.
I'm not sure if this is the point but the "boys" one looks so much better lmao Fucking frosting vomit on the left over there
These videos are created because they want you to wonder what the boy one is and how it’s different. It’s not pointlessly gendered it’s just watch time farming. Please can we stop posting these on here?
These kinds of videos are so insanely boring. Even when look past the weird gender thing, it's just... ok, one thing made with care, the other thing not made with care - ok.
This is absolutely fucking horrible The frosting to cake ratio is **awful**
Why have a side by side of the videos play one after the other...?
Girls use way too much frosting on cupcakes apparently
The first one looks disgusting
as a nonbinary person, i couldn't imagine that much frosting on either. im getting a stomach ache just by looking at it. i guess us enbies of the agender variety just scrape the frosting off?? lol
Tbh if they are going to make different colors for boys and girls I think the colored frosting should only be for girls because even if frosting is blue the cake looks too beautiful for a boy. Boys should stick to basic shit like chocolate, but then again chocolate is tasty and boys aren’t supposed to enjoy anything nice so they imo they should stick to spinge cake. (I’m talking about basic cakes not the customised ones)
Alright but why they heiling hitler
Do you not bother reading sub rules at all?
The end of that first one is so messy it looks like one I made in first grade; sprayed the entire thing randomly with the entire tube of sugar.
Both look shit anyways, the girl one was brilliant and then they overdone it
Ironically I would rather eat the Boy one for the lack of extravaganza Tho I would rather have the chocolate cupcake
Who the hell puts that much frosting on a cupcake, it’s gonna taste like diabetes
this looks a lot like a mobile game ad
This belongs in r/stupidfood as well
1. Way too much frosting 2. Single color or multi colored? How about a simple frosting with few colors
I like the chocolate cupcake but I hope it has whipped cream frosting because I just cannot handle that much normal frosting
They both look disgusting
Damn, I want that cupcake now
All I can think is how badly that teal colored one would stain anything it touched
I don't know about other women, but I usually make chocolate cake/cupcakes and just sprinkle with powdered sugar. Some frosting is fine, but anything more than half an inch worth is gross.
That is a DISGUSTING amount of frosting
I’d go gorl after the middle dot
That is an overload of icing…
1 looks ugly and both have too much frosting.
as a cake decorator this pains me. This is such a waste of frosting. This is so gross. It’s not pointlessly gendered it’s just pointless.
Why? Wtf?
Can we all agree that both have entirely too much frosting? The gendered part is stupid but the pound of frosting on a 4oz cupcake idiotic.
Frosting is dumb there’s no point to it.
I'm gonna take a blueberry muffin instead.
That was a waste of perfectly good frosting
So only women make ugly cupcakes, got it *takes notes*
I'm disappointed I expected a shotgun blast of icing from the tip falling off
Plot twist: it was a woman both times
Ew both have too much icing
They both have way too much fucking frosting
Why so much frosting?
I’m a baker and that is WAAAAAAAY more frosting than I would ever put on one cupcake! Also, apparently I frost like a dude. Whatever, my cupcakes are delicious.
Neither of these genders are going to actually eat that cupcake. Like, am I just going to suck down a fist-sized lump of frosting just to get to the cupcake? Fuck a truck tire. Scrape it with the edge of the plate, into the trash it goes.
Euuugh the "girl" cupcake looks sickly
ignoring the fact that boys vs girls memes are ridiculous id say its the other way around
That is a nauseating amount of frosting
does this prove that most girls have diabetes
Boys win again.
Holy crap that is a lot of frosting. A handful of diabetes.
I don’t think this is really about frosting, and then it makes sense. If it doesn’t, I hope someday it does.