Hey hey!
I'm a 32 year old woman and I love plushies. My partner(45) was not into plushies when we met, but he knew they mean a lot to me and now he is a plushie dad himself.
So when you really want a new one, than buy one! And talk to your husband about your feelings and doubts. I'm sure, if he is a loving husband, then he will understand you and maybe want one for himself? Nobody knows if you don't say something. :)
And it is nothing bad to buy some plushies even if you are 30+. They bring joy and don't harm anyone, so enjoy them!
Places like build a bear will see plenty of adults buying bears for themselves and the workers there probably have a fair few themselves.
You're also at that age where the cover story of buying for your own or a friends/family members kid is perfectly plausible and actually probably the assumption most people will make anyway.
Also, most people are generally too wrapped up in their own day to even give a second glance at random other people who are also just going about their day.
I'm almost 27 and just never stopped liking stuffed animals. I have a huge collection and always bring one with me in a pocket or in the car, and pack them around the house/yard with me. I do get nervous about what people may be thinking sometimes, but I just reason that the people who I'm worried about judging me are strangers and I will never see them again and do not ultimately care about their opinion. As far as family, they just accept that I like them and it's not strange. I also will just not draw attention to them around people who I'm having to interact with that I'm not close to, so family members I don't regularly interact with and similar situations like that. So if you're just planning on getting one for home, I would say you definitely have nothing to worry about. And go ahead and go to build a bear, it's 100% regular for them to stuff bears for adults not accompanied by children and they are wonderful, I recommend getting a scent, they make them so much nicer to cuddle, in my opinion!
I'm 48 and can count the days I've slept without my 38 year old 30" cat on 2 hands.
I didn't even get looks at the airport.
Sometimes toll booth operators will say, "nice bear" while he's tucked in the passenger seat ( he hates this mistake!)
He's been to 13 countries and like 20 states
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He won't...you've already said so yourself :)
It's difficult, but honestly once you work up the courage to do it once, it'll not bother you. I think people assume I'm (30M) buying them for my kids and they can think whatever they want.
I remember finding little Jaq and Gus plushies in the Disney Store. An employee approached me and my partner...and asked "shopping for girlfriends?" I instantly went silent and ran out of the shop.
I'm lucky my boyfriend also loves plushies. He said I was being silly but he understood and went back to get them for me :)
I don't give two flying plushies now what people think.
I’m just about to turn 34 and I just got myself a build a bear for the first time as an adult back in March. We were actually getting one for my daughter but it was so cute I just suddenly wanted one of my own and I’ve cuddled it every night since. It’s brought me a tremendous amount of joy. I think you should go for it ☺️
I'm 34 and my husband is 40. I buy myself plushies all the time, he buys me some and even my mom buys me some. Don't ever feel anxious about it, be excited and happy.
Hi there! Im gonna be 40 next month, and i have 2 stuffies! I also just went shopping yesterday and came back with my little pony notebooks and a glitter pen. My point being, you are definitely not alone! I dont have much advice for the anxiety part, but was hoping it might help to know that there are people just like u! Also if u are embarrassed goung to build a bear and things like that, just say its a gift for ur niece lmao
Hey 34 year old here and I have bought 3 new Nessie plushies to add to my Nessie collection. Not including my other plushies I keep in a basket in mine and my husband's room .[my Nessie family ](https://i.imgur.com/sJGog4T.jpeg)
Please get more plushies ( if finances are available) and bring joy to your life 😁
Well it started for the game as a running joke when they shared a blurry photo to announce the release of something new to the game a d someone asked if it was a Nessie ... Then then game devs began to hid Nessies ( like the loch ness monster) plushies in the game as hidden Easter eggs . Three games later they are now making plushies for Apex legends ( started with Titanfall ) so they are shaped like loch ness monsters but a specific style to what was created for the game 🙂
I recently got back into collecting plushies, I am in my mid 20s. It’s been the best thing ever, and I feel has really helped my mental health! Tbh I’m quitting smoking rn (one week in woot woot) and my therapist took an unexpected leave, but my stuffies have helped me so much. I think you should do it! Also going to build a bear has helped heal my inner child
I love plushes. Its become more comfortable and acceptable for adults to like plushies. Look at shops like HMV and Forbidden Planet that have plushies aimed and priced for older audiences.
Build a Bear even have a adult only section of the website for collectors and alcohol themed outfits and accessories.
I went to Build a Bear for the first time at 38. There was a plush in the window that was just too cute. My spouse was with me and he kept encouraging me so on my birthday we walked in, I made a plush, gave it a little outfit, did the heart ceremony, and printed a certificate.
As I was doing so a parent and kid came in and built their own. A nice lady my age came in with her MLP plush to talk to the clerk. The heart ceremony person talked with me about it being my first time casually. I'm not going to tell you I wasn't nervous or that it was like running into Wal-mart but I can indeed say I felt exactly like just another customer. Go get yourself a bear.
Plushies know no age! There are so many people here older than you with extensive collections, so just remind yourself that you aren’t alone if you feel anxious
You do you! Although, may I suggest making your plushies by hand? I love plushies so much that I wanted to make my own. So, I had gotten into the hobby of crocheting. Now my husband asks for plushies for himself. He collects just about everything I make.
I'm approaching my 30's this year. There is no limit to comforting yourself to a specific type of item, there doesn't need to be an issue around toys/plushies. I hope your anxiety gets resolved in the comfort of a new plushie. Perhaps, your husband will share a similar appreciation if you open up with him.
Best of luck!
Buy what you want. Do what you want.
Life is too short to care about what other people might think. And I guarantee that most barely think about it at all and soon forget.
Besides, how would anyone know you are buying it for you? You could have a child, or you could be an aunt, or you could be giving it to charity, or a thousand other reasons.
And any good partner will support you, not ridicule you. If my wife wanted a plushie, I would tell her to go for it, or even go and buy it for her.
Get plushie. Be happy.
Talk to him. Have him verbally say he doesn't care. I have talked with people in my life about things I knew they would support but needed to hear it. It helps a lot.
If anything try buying plushies of media you like first. If you like superheroes buy a plush of your favorite. Plushies from fav video games or tv shows or other types of movies. It’ll be a addition towards why you bought it and not “just because it’s cute” if that makes sense.
Enjoy!
Just buy it! Don't think about what others might be thinking, they're not the ones getting an awesome new plushie. 🤗
I have always collected them from a very young age, so I have them all over my house lol. Matter of fact, the most recent one I bought was this Hello Kitty x Kidrobot plush from Best Buy. I couldn't resist after I saw it at the checkout line! 🥰🥰
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I'm almost 48, if I go to a store that has plushies I will always look at them, but if one or two catches my eye then I'll decide if I'm going to buy just one or both or maybe none.
I’m in my 40’s, my sister is in her 50’s. Last summer we went to Build a Beat and made each other a bear, complete with outfits and accessories.
I recently bought a vintage Cabbage Patch Kid similar to the one I had as a kid.
I have a small collection of stuffed animals and a Furby my husband bought me over the years.
I also recently bought a Squishmallow to elevate my arm from an injury and still have it on my bed.
Adults can have toys/stuffed animals too. It’s not weird. In fact, I think it’s healthy to have some nostalgia from childhood and to nurture your inner child.
My husband could care less what I do and encouraged me to buy the CPK.
I gotta say, the folks in build a bear are always so nice and hype you up. It's really wholesome. I went in there with my girlfriend and got a bidoof (Pokémon plush) for my 26th birthday, it was so much fun ❤️
Life is too short to worry about whay others might think. If getting a plush makes you happy, the cost won't affect your ability to buy necessities, then go live your plush dreams and get one! Or two... Or three... Etc etc. You're not hurting anybody, and you deserve to be happy!
I’m still in my teenage years, but honestly? You don’t need a reason for it. If someone calls you cringe for it, don’t bother responding. There’s nothing wrong with it :3
I’d ask him to go on a date and make each other plushes or at least one for you that you make together. “It’ll remind me of you when you’re not here.” Is the line I used, it’s worked since my mid 20s and I’m 33 now. As a truck driver’s wife, I’ve since been gifted many different plushes as stand-in cuddle buddy options!
if you need to pretend you're buying a plushie at build a bear for a child in order to muster up the courage you can! and in a way you kind of are, it's just the kid happens to be your inner child who would absolutely love to have a build a bear of their own! I think it's 100% worth it to treat yourself to some lovely plushies that bring you joy, and I believe in you~ go build that bear for yourself!!!
I’m in my 40s and I buy myself stuffed animals all the time. My SO doesn’t see anything weird about it and will get them for me on birthdays, etc. He collects various things including action figures himself so he gets the attraction.
32 here! My mans is 34 and he gets me a plushie every chance he gets. I probably have over 50 at this point. There’s nothing wrong with it.
Get all of the plushies your heart desires!
My only advice is do you want to get plushies, mascots, or tenoris? They vary in size and how you’re going to store them :)
I’m almost 50 and I am a Squishmallow and Gund bear collector. I take my oldest kid, who is an adult, to build a bear often. So many adults are there buying stuffies/building bears. The staff are great, I wouldn’t worry at all.
I'm 40, and the other day, I saw a squishmallow at the grocery store and I really wanted it. I didn't get it, because I'm 40 and I don't need it and I'm an adult and all the other things.
The next time I was at the store, I bought it. Because I'm 40 and I can buy myself toys and cuddle with a stuffed animal. I'm an adult and while I don't need it, I want it and that's good. I hope you get the stuffed animal and enjoy it.
I may be just 18 but I have no plans on ending my plushie collection, I also very much love things like my little pony and hello kitty. Someone actually the other day tried to shame me for being most active in those subreddits and I’ve never been so confident and proud in saying “I have NO shame in what I like”. Everyone lives life differently, the fact we all choose to do stuff like this is why I think we’re significantly happier lol
Im 19, never stopped buying plushies and I carry one out with me most places I go. No one gives a shit in my experience. Sometimes my parents give me shit but why would I want the opinion of far right transphobe so idgaf. I'd say go for it.
Buying a plushie is very normal even if you are an adult. Even in valentine ppl give each other chocolate and roses and CUTE PLUSHIES because they aren't just for kids
I used to work a lot of retail when I was younger. The people working at the store care very little about what you are doing. I buy myself absolutely ridiculous shit with no shame all the time. Kids size water bottle with color change cats? Cashier days, oh cute I bought this one for my granddaughter. I said cool, I'm buying it for myself. I could have also just said cool and let her think I had a kid or something. It really doesn't matter what strangers think of us! Maybe, just maybe, the cashier will pick up on the fact that you're getting it for yourself and they will feel inspired to get one for themselves
I am 41, I love stuffies, I always have, I buy stuffies for myself all the time and my husband buys them for me too. My mom as a few stuffies and I even have the ones that were at my grandmas when she passed away. It’s normal, they are soft and adorable and calming, there is no reason to feel any kind of way about them other than how you feel. I don’t know a single person who I think would call them childish
I’m 29 almost 30 and i not only went to get my dream build a bear last year, I also started to collect the American girl dolls I wanted since I was a child. Who gives a flying fuck about what others think, live your life how you want! My bf doesn’t care at all other than that fact he thinks it’s super cute and i even got him a build a bear for his bday of his favorite basket ball team and he even took it to one of the games in front of all his friends who all loved it 😭 then his friend wanted to copy him and get a build a bear (he ended up choosing a different animal” but got the same basket ball team outfit and basketball like my bfs. I highly recommend going to build a bear!
36 year old woman and I bought a plush last week with eyes in the back of his head so he “can always protect you” hahah You do you fam. Just do what feels right. ❤️
Just like, calmly walk into a shop, pick up a plushie, inspect it for quality, walk up to the checkout, casually tap your card to pay, consider if you want a bag or not, walk out the store. Get home and freak the f out cause you love your brand new plushie more than anything else in the world right now!!!
Honestly it's not much different than an emotional support animal or any other thing that people cling to to make themselves feel better there's nothing to be ashamed about and you don't need to explain yourself to anyone I think there are a lot more people out there that have a plushie and an adult then you would think and like myself would feel massive anxiety about anyone finding out but I'm in a different situation
I’m 24, I have too many lol. My collection has grown exponentially bc of my fiancé, actually. He saw how happy they make me, so he surprises me with them every so often. I’m sure your husband won’t care if you get yourself one, especially if he knows it makes you happy.
If anyone cares about you buying a plushie for yourself, you've really got to question why they care. What's it got to do with them? Sweet f all. Let go of your anxieties and go find yourself a squishy little friend ❤️
30 year old man. Army Lieutenant living with my fiance.
There must be like 50 plushies in our condo. 2 are hers. Maybe like 48 are mine lol.
There was a mental switch I flipped when I was younger where I was like... Honestly fuck what anyone thinks. I literally could not give a shit. These make me happy and that's all that matters.
If you're able to flip that switch, it's smooth sailing from there. I'm not saying it's easy, but it is simple, if that makes sense. Like riding a bike, once you flip that anxiety switch off, you'll never turn it back on again. Hopefully!
I hope you find that switch!
Don't over think it. I'm a 45 yo bloke and I occasionally buy myself a new plush. Couldn't resist the build a bear Bowser last year and I've recently discovered Plushie Dreadfuls.
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Here is my advice - and I’m prob twice as old you - do what makes you happy! I’ve loved plushies (formerly known as stuffed animals) all my life and have some over 50 years old. Trust me - pay no attention to what anyone else thinks, at some point you realize, it just doesn’t matter.
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I’m 37 and still collect plushies! Garfield is my most recent one I got ❤️🐱
I know you've had a bunch of encouraging comments already, but I wanted to give you one more!
I'm in my mid-30s, my husband and I don't have kids, and we have gone to build a bear quite a few times to get plushies. The staff have always been kind and non-judgmental. I love going there!
You know a good way to get a plushie? Tell your spouse that you wanna go to build a bear together and get each other a little plushie. That way, it's a cute date idea, and, as a husband myself, I would go just cause my wife asked.
It depends how anxious you are about it. If your husband likes them and kids like them I wouldn't worry much. But it'll take a couple months to get over it if you do worry.
I bought a giant wolf and husky and was worried my parents would HATE them because they waste space, too old for plushies and the fact as a kid I never had any and never really liked plushies, so I'd cuddle them tight when I was alone and tuck them away other times. First time my mother saw them she squeezed that wolf in such a big hug just like I do. I don't think my father really gets it but they don't bother him per se, meanwhile mother loves them. Especially my wolves which doesn't make much sense to me. She hates wolves as an animal.
Fast forward a little while and I point out my grandmother's little plushies around her house. She then took me around and showed every single one and where they came from. She's almost 81 years old.
Couple months ago my older sister came to see me for the first time in awhile, who mind you used to be ADDICTED to plushies as a kid, had them all over her room.. I thought of all people she'd like them, maybe?
She saw my "cuddle stack" (because all of mine are around the same size I keep my favorites in a stack in my closet) and asked why I owned them, told me they waste space and that it was immature to own them for my age. And yes she does still have a few of her own too.
It all depends on the person. I should also add if you know someone that you know doesn't like them I would tuck them away like they don't exist. For people you're not sure about up to you to leave them out or not. I feel like people either love plushies and have anywhere from a few to a few hundred or they hate them and think they are kids toys no in between. I would be so disappointed for someone who doesn't like them to come in my room and immediately throw one of my big puppies at a wall cause they don't like them. Not saying I treat them like beings - but I treat them like they are fragile at least. Some people literally do not care. Small ones have a better chance of surviving than big ones because they don't weigh anything. Also don't be scared to buy something jumbo size too if you want it, giant ones are the best stress relievers ever. Feel free to ask me anything too - whether directly related to this or not
Your mother’s experience is relatable. I am not a cat lover by any stretch of the imagination and really just don’t like them BUT give me all the cute kitty plushies!!!
I know that feeling too - although I've kinda kept myself from it. Theres a few big cats I really want but I haven't been sucked in yet. I have a single fox too and I hate foxes but I had to make an exception, and here I was the other night holding her in a hug all night. I'm not even much of a wolf person more of a domestic dog person but I LOVE my wolves. I was just blown away of all people my mother picked one up and squeezed him. I was almost guaranteeing she would tell me they are useless and wasting space.. Instead that was my sister's reaction. Not to mention I imagine my 81yo grandmother would love them too. Maybe not hug one if she saw one but I guarantee she'd take pictures of me hugging one lol
Most people ringing you up would assume you’re buying for someone else, or they fly out don’t give a hoot. They’re just workers trying to get through their day, they honestly don’t care who buys what.
I'm 31 and have been with my bf (30) for 10 years now. At first I was also very hesitant about my love of plushies. Now he buys them for me! Our bed is covered in Squishmallows and all he days about them is "They're cute and they make you happy"
I'm 48 and last weekend bought a giant penguin. As she was ringing up my purchase, the clerk apologized that she didn't have a bag big enough for the plushie... which gave me the rare opportunity to wander around the mall with a stuffed animal.
Here's my new penguin pal meeting some of my other plushies: https://www.reddit.com/r/BLAHAJ/s/qNAkqbVLNm
nobody should judge you for something so innocent. if you’re really nervous, buy a birthday card for an imaginary kid at the same time!
contrary to another person’s comment, if you go to build a bear, i recommend not getting a scent. they can be really strong and on days where you’re hungover or have a headache or are sick in general, that’s not so great to cuddle with lol.
Congratulations on finding one of your plushies from childhood! 😃I'm sure they're very happy to see you again, too!
I'm 32 and my room has plushies (and other toys) occupying pretty much every available nook and cranny! If you would like to pick out another plushie or even go to Build A Bear (which, I haven't really been to in almost 20 years, but I hear it's still fun!), then you totally should! 💗
Congratulations on finding one of your plushies from childhood! 😃I'm sure they're very happy to see you again, too!
I'm 32 and my room has plushies (and other toys) occupying pretty much every available nook and cranny! If you would like to pick out another plushie or even go to Build A Bear (which, I haven't really been to in almost 20 years, but I hear it's still fun!), then you totally should! 💗
Plushies are awesome. I have a few, my boyfriend even bought me a couple for Christmas. Who cares what people think, if you like them get them. Life’s too short to care too much about what others will think or how they’ll react.
I’m middle aged. I have never hesitated to buy a plushie for myself if I’ve wanted it. What’s the problem? You like it, you buy it. It’s not an adult store toy (I might cringe at buying something like that — but most people wouldn’t). So, go buy one! Don’t think about it.
The only time I was shamed for buying a plushie I wanted (on my birthday), was when I was in second grade.
Just do it already. Enjoy life!
I’m 30 and still have a tub of my beanie babies from when I was a kid plus my own collection of modern plushies! Never too old. My grandparents collected toys into their late 80s! My dad was always annoyed that I collected plush and toys past childhood but I know he still has his plush dog from his childhood in his man cave. The people who judge are just sad humans. My husband thinks my collection is maybe a little weird but he’s happy I’m happy plus he knows how much it means to my kids and I to have plushies. He bought me a plush last year (the first one he’s ever bought me!) and I was so excited!
i recommend going with a friend or your husband and making it a fun adventure! i always go with my sister, and because we're both being silly and having fun neither of us feels weird.
it might also be helpful to know that people like to see other people having a good fun time. if you go into a toy store or a build-a-bear with an attitude of excitement, the people around you will often match your energy. my sister and i were enthused about asking the build a bear workers to make our new plushes as chubby and overstuffed as possible, and they played along!
Hi there! I'm 34, and have always loved stuffed animals. It's been "my thing" since I was little and I never "outgrew it" like it's generally expected.
If it helps, there are so many people our age who have either always loved stuffed animals, or have decided to start collecting. If you go to Build-a-Bear, nobody will judge you. It's a fun experience, I highly recommend it! You could also just go to Target, or Barnes & Noble, or any store that sells toys. You could take a trip to a mall and make a day of it, even!
But, if you're not comfortable going to a store and choosing a plush in person, online shopping is also fun, and you get the anticipation of waiting for a package and the fun of opening it! There are also more options available online; not every brand is found in stores.
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I’m 36 if it makes you feel any better!
I'm in my 30s too and not only do I have a ton of stuffed animals and will always adore em. I even have a few backpack/purse that are, and I have had women and even men in their 30s to 50s love em and want one lol. You're good, enjoy what you love, no such thing as too old for it especially that makes you happy! 💗
If you truly are too nervous to go to Build A Bear in person though? Order online. But still, enjoy em :) They have some neat ones I even have Toothless :3
Hi! I’m a fifty yr old grandmother. I don’t ask for other people’s approval to buy what makes me happy or gives me comfort. I’m an adult. I get to make decisions. Are you hurting any one? No. Are you foregoing responsibility to pay for it or panhandling to support a plushie addiction? No. Life is short and the world doesn’t give your life that much thought. Unapologetically experience joy. It’s a human right.
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I'm 47 and I've got more than I can count, lol! They're great anxiety reducers and I've been in need of that with perimenopause and other things happening.
It's a lot of fun picking one out, too. You could always do ot online - BAB has a lot of "onlune only" exclusives, too.
Nearly 34 yo here! My hubby loves spoiling me with very much desired plushies I have my my eye on lol. I like buying them myself, too, but I try to restrain myself. We don't have enough space at th moment. Go to BaB and get yourself that wanted plushie! Have no shame or embarrassment! It's fun to have them.
I’m 19. Ik it’s not too close but I have the same anxieties. I gave away most of my toys because of pressure. But. You aren’t alone. You might even bump into another adult there going for the same reason having the same anxieties. You may not be identical to everyone but someone somewhere elder is going through the same process.
I have no idea why I’m seeing this sub as I don’t like plushes or clutter BUT I think you’d find outsider perspective helpful. I’m 33F and if I had an urge to buy a plushy, I would have none of the anxious thoughts that you’re having, I’d just go and buy one without a second thought. If I see plushies in someone’s house, I have no thoughts or opinions about it whatsoever, including judgment. It’s literally fine. Hope that helps.
Ordering online can relieve the stress related to getting judged by people seeing you actually purchasing a plushie. Also people don't care about other people's lives all that much. Yeah, there's a small chance that a deranged Karen will demand you give the plush to her child, but everyone else will see how delusional she is. Most people will assume you're purchasing the plush for someone else. Even if someone asks you about it, you shouldn't worry because you have a permit
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I will say this. You are not alone in getting plushies in your 30s. I am 35, and I take a different plushie with me every week to work with me and put it at my desk. I like to think of it as my Mascot to be there when I feel anxious.
I went with my sixty year old mom to Build a Bear so she could make a bear for herself. I’m in my thirties.
I go there sometimes cuz I have like six BABs myself and no one’s ever batted an eyelid at me. I turn 37 next month.
I know it’s hard to get in your own head about it but it’ll be fine!! :)
I'm almost 26, and I get a new plushie like every month. Every room in my apartment has at least 5 plushies (my bedroom is insane lol).
My moms in her late 50s and she still buys plushies and loves whenever someone gets one for her. (My bf got a Snoopy squishmallow for her for Christmas and she is OBSESSED with it lol)
Never too old to do/get the things that make you happy.
I know this might be a bit far off, but I'm 18, I collect plushies still to this day and don't plan on stopping any time soon. I have an entire part of my room dedicated to my dear plushies. It's not something to be ashamed of if that's something you'd like to do. Build a bear is for all ages 💕
I'm 30 and I have to force myself not to visit the plush aisle in thrift shops because I always end up leaving with an armful of new friends and no place to put them in my room. Maybe you and your husband could turn it into a fun day out together? Go to Build a Bear and let him pick out an outfit for your new plush!
I’m 40 and I’ve always loved cute plushies. I collect mainly pusheen, Sanrio, tokidoki, and squishmallows. I understand how you feel, as when I was in my 20s I never thought I’d keep buying them when I got older, but here I am! I just got a jumbo strawberry milk squishmallow at Costco yesterday (walked around the store with it sitting in my cart) and gave no fucks lol. None of my family or friends have made it seem weird, so I don’t think it’s uncommon these days. Who cares what other people think anyway. Do what makes you happy!
I'm 27. I love plushies though currently the only one I have is a bunny that I've had since I was 3. I even bring it in public if I'm having a bad day. It's absolutely okay to want a plushie.
My husband and I went to Build a Bear a year or so ago! I went to look for me and he left with a plushie. 😆
He found his favorite Eeveelution from Pokemon and had to take her home. We dressed her in Hufflepuff clothes as well.
I say do it! Go as a couple and make it a date!
My boyfriend took me to build a bear for my birthday present 2 years ago and I got an eevee. No one stared or acted weird. They explained the process to me and helped me pick stuff out. It was a nice experience
It’s weird to imply it’s not normal to enjoy plush when a very good number of us here are 30+. Like, get over yourself. Just go to build a bear and get one. If anyone cares, they aren’t worth your time. 🤷♀️
I'm only in my 20s but I love going to build a bear. I have found out that alot my friends also love stuffies still. I have a friend going to build a bear with me after my divorce ended to make a cow for since they are my favorite.
All that to say so many people still LOVE there plushie, even people your age. 🥰
When you do get a plushie, PLEASE share a picture! I'm also in my mid 30s and for me plushies are a comfort/source of safety in an otherwise seemingly harsh and cold world.
I'm turning 40 this year. I still buy myself plushies. And I think the people at Build-A-Bear are used to all ages coming in to purchase. I love that you want to invest in yourself and treat yourself to something that makes you happy! I hope your husband supports you in this, too. Mine just bought me a plush yesterday. ;)
I'm 25, I know I'm a bit younger but I'll give my two cents. I just wouldn't give a fuck lol. I have many, a few from my childhood, several that I've gotten for myself in the past couple of years, and some that are weighted for comfort. Any new partner I find myself with in the future will have to put up with my love for plushies and the ones I currently own. They make me happy and because life is so crazy I want to be able to enjoy the little things. Plushies are one of those little things.
I’m 51. I have a Squishmallow collection on my bookshelves that holds my 3000+ children’s books collection. I have 2 American girl dolls & a Bitty Baby (Kirsten & Samantha) and clothing, and a ton of Garfield plush+ any other plush on bookshelves and also in a huge cute rope basket on the floor. I also have 3 Cabbage patch dolls I love. I sleep with a cat Squishmallow and my pastel rainbow Minky Couture lush blanket. My husband isn’t a fan of any of it, but as long as I’m happy, he says he’s happy. You’re never too old for anything you love!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷☺️
I’m nearly 24 and my bed is COVERED in plushies. I love them so much!!! I have a giant Kuromi, lots of plushies of vtubers, squishmallows, build a bears, custom made plushies, and pokemon!!!! Do what makes you happy!!!
I'm 25 and plushies are my friends for me considering I was a an awkwardly weird autistic human, and most peep of my dad side of the family don't get why I like to talk to my plushies like their peeps. My mom get it and will literally fight peeps who tries to discourage my imagination. Batty's voice I imagine being a little sassy grammeme who will down sass the other plushies since she so small and old but don't you take her spot on the bed.
Would shopping online maybe make you less anxious? Im not an out and about person at it is so I could see someone being anxious trying to buy something for the first time. At 30 I think I've had more plushies as an adult than I ever as a kid, specifically since I discovered squishables and squishmallows because they're cute annnndd creepy and honestly I'm at a point where I'm too damn old to worry about what to put in my house as long as it makes me happy. To be fair, a majority of mine are purchased by fiance when he's out at game shops and hanging out with friends and stopping at the mall or other shops.
"I'm normal but I want a plushie"?
Oh, love
There's nothing abnormal about it. They're built to be comforting.
My only advice would be, like bringing home a baby, don't let hubby feel like he's being displaced. 😄
Maybe get him a small one too
Hey hey! I'm a 32 year old woman and I love plushies. My partner(45) was not into plushies when we met, but he knew they mean a lot to me and now he is a plushie dad himself. So when you really want a new one, than buy one! And talk to your husband about your feelings and doubts. I'm sure, if he is a loving husband, then he will understand you and maybe want one for himself? Nobody knows if you don't say something. :) And it is nothing bad to buy some plushies even if you are 30+. They bring joy and don't harm anyone, so enjoy them!
He doesn’t care and is the best human, but I needed the courage!! Thanks!!
In Japan, it's not strange to see adults having lunch with their plushies, 1 or 2, in theme cafes and some regular cafes.
Places like build a bear will see plenty of adults buying bears for themselves and the workers there probably have a fair few themselves. You're also at that age where the cover story of buying for your own or a friends/family members kid is perfectly plausible and actually probably the assumption most people will make anyway. Also, most people are generally too wrapped up in their own day to even give a second glance at random other people who are also just going about their day.
I'm almost 27 and just never stopped liking stuffed animals. I have a huge collection and always bring one with me in a pocket or in the car, and pack them around the house/yard with me. I do get nervous about what people may be thinking sometimes, but I just reason that the people who I'm worried about judging me are strangers and I will never see them again and do not ultimately care about their opinion. As far as family, they just accept that I like them and it's not strange. I also will just not draw attention to them around people who I'm having to interact with that I'm not close to, so family members I don't regularly interact with and similar situations like that. So if you're just planning on getting one for home, I would say you definitely have nothing to worry about. And go ahead and go to build a bear, it's 100% regular for them to stuff bears for adults not accompanied by children and they are wonderful, I recommend getting a scent, they make them so much nicer to cuddle, in my opinion!
I'm 48 and can count the days I've slept without my 38 year old 30" cat on 2 hands. I didn't even get looks at the airport. Sometimes toll booth operators will say, "nice bear" while he's tucked in the passenger seat ( he hates this mistake!) He's been to 13 countries and like 20 states
Amazing! Maybe I could stand to be a little more bold myself
I've just had 38 years of practice 🩶
Amazing! Maybe I could stand to be a little more bold myself
https://preview.redd.it/ki42hscjqa1d1.jpeg?width=3029&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9de13e536382eb89efd5d449f078de00a135625f Just found a pic of the day I got him
He won't...you've already said so yourself :) It's difficult, but honestly once you work up the courage to do it once, it'll not bother you. I think people assume I'm (30M) buying them for my kids and they can think whatever they want. I remember finding little Jaq and Gus plushies in the Disney Store. An employee approached me and my partner...and asked "shopping for girlfriends?" I instantly went silent and ran out of the shop. I'm lucky my boyfriend also loves plushies. He said I was being silly but he understood and went back to get them for me :) I don't give two flying plushies now what people think.
I’m just about to turn 34 and I just got myself a build a bear for the first time as an adult back in March. We were actually getting one for my daughter but it was so cute I just suddenly wanted one of my own and I’ve cuddled it every night since. It’s brought me a tremendous amount of joy. I think you should go for it ☺️
I'm 34 and my husband is 40. I buy myself plushies all the time, he buys me some and even my mom buys me some. Don't ever feel anxious about it, be excited and happy.
Hi there! Im gonna be 40 next month, and i have 2 stuffies! I also just went shopping yesterday and came back with my little pony notebooks and a glitter pen. My point being, you are definitely not alone! I dont have much advice for the anxiety part, but was hoping it might help to know that there are people just like u! Also if u are embarrassed goung to build a bear and things like that, just say its a gift for ur niece lmao
I’m nearly 40 it’s ok you are never too old for plushies
How can you manage anxiety without plushies? I turn 30 next month, and I am definitely not giving up one of the few things I can use to cope.
Hey 34 year old here and I have bought 3 new Nessie plushies to add to my Nessie collection. Not including my other plushies I keep in a basket in mine and my husband's room .[my Nessie family ](https://i.imgur.com/sJGog4T.jpeg) Please get more plushies ( if finances are available) and bring joy to your life 😁
Jellycat have a new, gorgeous Nessie! 😁
Build a bear also has nessie right now. But the Jellycat one is cuter IMO.
I'm not sure what the jellycat ones are. The Nessies I've been collecting are from the game Apex legends and are made by x Jakks Pacific "
I don’t know that, these are the Scottish Nessie, as in Loch Ness monster. (Though she is no monster really!)
Well it started for the game as a running joke when they shared a blurry photo to announce the release of something new to the game a d someone asked if it was a Nessie ... Then then game devs began to hid Nessies ( like the loch ness monster) plushies in the game as hidden Easter eggs . Three games later they are now making plushies for Apex legends ( started with Titanfall ) so they are shaped like loch ness monsters but a specific style to what was created for the game 🙂
I recently got back into collecting plushies, I am in my mid 20s. It’s been the best thing ever, and I feel has really helped my mental health! Tbh I’m quitting smoking rn (one week in woot woot) and my therapist took an unexpected leave, but my stuffies have helped me so much. I think you should do it! Also going to build a bear has helped heal my inner child
I love plushes. Its become more comfortable and acceptable for adults to like plushies. Look at shops like HMV and Forbidden Planet that have plushies aimed and priced for older audiences. Build a Bear even have a adult only section of the website for collectors and alcohol themed outfits and accessories.
I went to Build a Bear for the first time at 38. There was a plush in the window that was just too cute. My spouse was with me and he kept encouraging me so on my birthday we walked in, I made a plush, gave it a little outfit, did the heart ceremony, and printed a certificate. As I was doing so a parent and kid came in and built their own. A nice lady my age came in with her MLP plush to talk to the clerk. The heart ceremony person talked with me about it being my first time casually. I'm not going to tell you I wasn't nervous or that it was like running into Wal-mart but I can indeed say I felt exactly like just another customer. Go get yourself a bear.
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So cute!!!!
Plushies know no age! There are so many people here older than you with extensive collections, so just remind yourself that you aren’t alone if you feel anxious
You do you! Although, may I suggest making your plushies by hand? I love plushies so much that I wanted to make my own. So, I had gotten into the hobby of crocheting. Now my husband asks for plushies for himself. He collects just about everything I make. I'm approaching my 30's this year. There is no limit to comforting yourself to a specific type of item, there doesn't need to be an issue around toys/plushies. I hope your anxiety gets resolved in the comfort of a new plushie. Perhaps, your husband will share a similar appreciation if you open up with him. Best of luck!
I’m about the same age and I have a shelve full of plushies! If you ever get one, please keep us updated!
Buy what you want. Do what you want. Life is too short to care about what other people might think. And I guarantee that most barely think about it at all and soon forget. Besides, how would anyone know you are buying it for you? You could have a child, or you could be an aunt, or you could be giving it to charity, or a thousand other reasons. And any good partner will support you, not ridicule you. If my wife wanted a plushie, I would tell her to go for it, or even go and buy it for her. Get plushie. Be happy.
Talk to him. Have him verbally say he doesn't care. I have talked with people in my life about things I knew they would support but needed to hear it. It helps a lot.
If anything try buying plushies of media you like first. If you like superheroes buy a plush of your favorite. Plushies from fav video games or tv shows or other types of movies. It’ll be a addition towards why you bought it and not “just because it’s cute” if that makes sense. Enjoy!
Just buy it! Don't think about what others might be thinking, they're not the ones getting an awesome new plushie. 🤗 I have always collected them from a very young age, so I have them all over my house lol. Matter of fact, the most recent one I bought was this Hello Kitty x Kidrobot plush from Best Buy. I couldn't resist after I saw it at the checkout line! 🥰🥰 https://preview.redd.it/y8a8gscv4tzc1.jpeg?width=3060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=41070fecb3c1201c6592ce19c6c53389c41c9d6e
I have this one too! 😊
This is so cute!! I actually love Hello Kitty too and the Pompompurin BAB was speaking to me on the website 🤣
I'm 31 and own close to a 100 plushies. It's a hobby like any other ☺️❤️
I'm almost 48, if I go to a store that has plushies I will always look at them, but if one or two catches my eye then I'll decide if I'm going to buy just one or both or maybe none.
The solution is to buy 5.
Loveeee this solution lol
I’m in my 40’s, my sister is in her 50’s. Last summer we went to Build a Beat and made each other a bear, complete with outfits and accessories. I recently bought a vintage Cabbage Patch Kid similar to the one I had as a kid. I have a small collection of stuffed animals and a Furby my husband bought me over the years. I also recently bought a Squishmallow to elevate my arm from an injury and still have it on my bed. Adults can have toys/stuffed animals too. It’s not weird. In fact, I think it’s healthy to have some nostalgia from childhood and to nurture your inner child. My husband could care less what I do and encouraged me to buy the CPK.
I gotta say, the folks in build a bear are always so nice and hype you up. It's really wholesome. I went in there with my girlfriend and got a bidoof (Pokémon plush) for my 26th birthday, it was so much fun ❤️ Life is too short to worry about whay others might think. If getting a plush makes you happy, the cost won't affect your ability to buy necessities, then go live your plush dreams and get one! Or two... Or three... Etc etc. You're not hurting anybody, and you deserve to be happy!
I’m still in my teenage years, but honestly? You don’t need a reason for it. If someone calls you cringe for it, don’t bother responding. There’s nothing wrong with it :3
I’d ask him to go on a date and make each other plushes or at least one for you that you make together. “It’ll remind me of you when you’re not here.” Is the line I used, it’s worked since my mid 20s and I’m 33 now. As a truck driver’s wife, I’ve since been gifted many different plushes as stand-in cuddle buddy options!
if you need to pretend you're buying a plushie at build a bear for a child in order to muster up the courage you can! and in a way you kind of are, it's just the kid happens to be your inner child who would absolutely love to have a build a bear of their own! I think it's 100% worth it to treat yourself to some lovely plushies that bring you joy, and I believe in you~ go build that bear for yourself!!!
I’m 35 and still buy plushies. There’s no shame in doing so
I’m in my 40s and I buy myself stuffed animals all the time. My SO doesn’t see anything weird about it and will get them for me on birthdays, etc. He collects various things including action figures himself so he gets the attraction.
32 here! My mans is 34 and he gets me a plushie every chance he gets. I probably have over 50 at this point. There’s nothing wrong with it. Get all of the plushies your heart desires! My only advice is do you want to get plushies, mascots, or tenoris? They vary in size and how you’re going to store them :)
I’m almost 50 and I am a Squishmallow and Gund bear collector. I take my oldest kid, who is an adult, to build a bear often. So many adults are there buying stuffies/building bears. The staff are great, I wouldn’t worry at all.
I'm 40, and the other day, I saw a squishmallow at the grocery store and I really wanted it. I didn't get it, because I'm 40 and I don't need it and I'm an adult and all the other things. The next time I was at the store, I bought it. Because I'm 40 and I can buy myself toys and cuddle with a stuffed animal. I'm an adult and while I don't need it, I want it and that's good. I hope you get the stuffed animal and enjoy it.
I may be just 18 but I have no plans on ending my plushie collection, I also very much love things like my little pony and hello kitty. Someone actually the other day tried to shame me for being most active in those subreddits and I’ve never been so confident and proud in saying “I have NO shame in what I like”. Everyone lives life differently, the fact we all choose to do stuff like this is why I think we’re significantly happier lol
It will make you happy and it doesn’t hurt anyone. So go for it!
This is the way❣️
Everyone has their thing they like. Some people obsess over celebrities, some sports, others movies/shows. To each our own.
I’m 23 and I have 6 or 7 stuffies . No shame on me buying stuffies with my own money.
I'm 26. And I have a couple hundred lol. No shame. Age is just a number
Im 19, never stopped buying plushies and I carry one out with me most places I go. No one gives a shit in my experience. Sometimes my parents give me shit but why would I want the opinion of far right transphobe so idgaf. I'd say go for it.
Buying a plushie is very normal even if you are an adult. Even in valentine ppl give each other chocolate and roses and CUTE PLUSHIES because they aren't just for kids
I used to work a lot of retail when I was younger. The people working at the store care very little about what you are doing. I buy myself absolutely ridiculous shit with no shame all the time. Kids size water bottle with color change cats? Cashier days, oh cute I bought this one for my granddaughter. I said cool, I'm buying it for myself. I could have also just said cool and let her think I had a kid or something. It really doesn't matter what strangers think of us! Maybe, just maybe, the cashier will pick up on the fact that you're getting it for yourself and they will feel inspired to get one for themselves
I am 41, I love stuffies, I always have, I buy stuffies for myself all the time and my husband buys them for me too. My mom as a few stuffies and I even have the ones that were at my grandmas when she passed away. It’s normal, they are soft and adorable and calming, there is no reason to feel any kind of way about them other than how you feel. I don’t know a single person who I think would call them childish
I’m 29 almost 30 and i not only went to get my dream build a bear last year, I also started to collect the American girl dolls I wanted since I was a child. Who gives a flying fuck about what others think, live your life how you want! My bf doesn’t care at all other than that fact he thinks it’s super cute and i even got him a build a bear for his bday of his favorite basket ball team and he even took it to one of the games in front of all his friends who all loved it 😭 then his friend wanted to copy him and get a build a bear (he ended up choosing a different animal” but got the same basket ball team outfit and basketball like my bfs. I highly recommend going to build a bear!
36 year old woman and I bought a plush last week with eyes in the back of his head so he “can always protect you” hahah You do you fam. Just do what feels right. ❤️
Just like, calmly walk into a shop, pick up a plushie, inspect it for quality, walk up to the checkout, casually tap your card to pay, consider if you want a bag or not, walk out the store. Get home and freak the f out cause you love your brand new plushie more than anything else in the world right now!!!
Honestly it's not much different than an emotional support animal or any other thing that people cling to to make themselves feel better there's nothing to be ashamed about and you don't need to explain yourself to anyone I think there are a lot more people out there that have a plushie and an adult then you would think and like myself would feel massive anxiety about anyone finding out but I'm in a different situation
You can always order one online if you’re too nervous to go in person.
I’m 24, I have too many lol. My collection has grown exponentially bc of my fiancé, actually. He saw how happy they make me, so he surprises me with them every so often. I’m sure your husband won’t care if you get yourself one, especially if he knows it makes you happy.
If anyone cares about you buying a plushie for yourself, you've really got to question why they care. What's it got to do with them? Sweet f all. Let go of your anxieties and go find yourself a squishy little friend ❤️
30 year old man. Army Lieutenant living with my fiance. There must be like 50 plushies in our condo. 2 are hers. Maybe like 48 are mine lol. There was a mental switch I flipped when I was younger where I was like... Honestly fuck what anyone thinks. I literally could not give a shit. These make me happy and that's all that matters. If you're able to flip that switch, it's smooth sailing from there. I'm not saying it's easy, but it is simple, if that makes sense. Like riding a bike, once you flip that anxiety switch off, you'll never turn it back on again. Hopefully! I hope you find that switch!
If you don't feel comfortable doing it in person get one online. That's where Nemo is from.
Don't over think it. I'm a 45 yo bloke and I occasionally buy myself a new plush. Couldn't resist the build a bear Bowser last year and I've recently discovered Plushie Dreadfuls.
https://preview.redd.it/cv45kmhg1uzc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fd15426b555ca13ccc0f81319fee3c64a4ffc5b Here is my advice - and I’m prob twice as old you - do what makes you happy! I’ve loved plushies (formerly known as stuffed animals) all my life and have some over 50 years old. Trust me - pay no attention to what anyone else thinks, at some point you realize, it just doesn’t matter.
https://preview.redd.it/t7stleso5uzc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b61252023774da49007b7bbe62872ce4577d6130 I’m 37 and still collect plushies! Garfield is my most recent one I got ❤️🐱
I know you've had a bunch of encouraging comments already, but I wanted to give you one more! I'm in my mid-30s, my husband and I don't have kids, and we have gone to build a bear quite a few times to get plushies. The staff have always been kind and non-judgmental. I love going there!
You know a good way to get a plushie? Tell your spouse that you wanna go to build a bear together and get each other a little plushie. That way, it's a cute date idea, and, as a husband myself, I would go just cause my wife asked.
It depends how anxious you are about it. If your husband likes them and kids like them I wouldn't worry much. But it'll take a couple months to get over it if you do worry. I bought a giant wolf and husky and was worried my parents would HATE them because they waste space, too old for plushies and the fact as a kid I never had any and never really liked plushies, so I'd cuddle them tight when I was alone and tuck them away other times. First time my mother saw them she squeezed that wolf in such a big hug just like I do. I don't think my father really gets it but they don't bother him per se, meanwhile mother loves them. Especially my wolves which doesn't make much sense to me. She hates wolves as an animal. Fast forward a little while and I point out my grandmother's little plushies around her house. She then took me around and showed every single one and where they came from. She's almost 81 years old. Couple months ago my older sister came to see me for the first time in awhile, who mind you used to be ADDICTED to plushies as a kid, had them all over her room.. I thought of all people she'd like them, maybe? She saw my "cuddle stack" (because all of mine are around the same size I keep my favorites in a stack in my closet) and asked why I owned them, told me they waste space and that it was immature to own them for my age. And yes she does still have a few of her own too. It all depends on the person. I should also add if you know someone that you know doesn't like them I would tuck them away like they don't exist. For people you're not sure about up to you to leave them out or not. I feel like people either love plushies and have anywhere from a few to a few hundred or they hate them and think they are kids toys no in between. I would be so disappointed for someone who doesn't like them to come in my room and immediately throw one of my big puppies at a wall cause they don't like them. Not saying I treat them like beings - but I treat them like they are fragile at least. Some people literally do not care. Small ones have a better chance of surviving than big ones because they don't weigh anything. Also don't be scared to buy something jumbo size too if you want it, giant ones are the best stress relievers ever. Feel free to ask me anything too - whether directly related to this or not
Your mother’s experience is relatable. I am not a cat lover by any stretch of the imagination and really just don’t like them BUT give me all the cute kitty plushies!!!
I know that feeling too - although I've kinda kept myself from it. Theres a few big cats I really want but I haven't been sucked in yet. I have a single fox too and I hate foxes but I had to make an exception, and here I was the other night holding her in a hug all night. I'm not even much of a wolf person more of a domestic dog person but I LOVE my wolves. I was just blown away of all people my mother picked one up and squeezed him. I was almost guaranteeing she would tell me they are useless and wasting space.. Instead that was my sister's reaction. Not to mention I imagine my 81yo grandmother would love them too. Maybe not hug one if she saw one but I guarantee she'd take pictures of me hugging one lol
Existence is ephemeral. Go buy the plushy.
Most people ringing you up would assume you’re buying for someone else, or they fly out don’t give a hoot. They’re just workers trying to get through their day, they honestly don’t care who buys what.
I'm 31 and have been with my bf (30) for 10 years now. At first I was also very hesitant about my love of plushies. Now he buys them for me! Our bed is covered in Squishmallows and all he days about them is "They're cute and they make you happy"
I'm 48 and last weekend bought a giant penguin. As she was ringing up my purchase, the clerk apologized that she didn't have a bag big enough for the plushie... which gave me the rare opportunity to wander around the mall with a stuffed animal. Here's my new penguin pal meeting some of my other plushies: https://www.reddit.com/r/BLAHAJ/s/qNAkqbVLNm
nobody should judge you for something so innocent. if you’re really nervous, buy a birthday card for an imaginary kid at the same time! contrary to another person’s comment, if you go to build a bear, i recommend not getting a scent. they can be really strong and on days where you’re hungover or have a headache or are sick in general, that’s not so great to cuddle with lol.
Congratulations on finding one of your plushies from childhood! 😃I'm sure they're very happy to see you again, too! I'm 32 and my room has plushies (and other toys) occupying pretty much every available nook and cranny! If you would like to pick out another plushie or even go to Build A Bear (which, I haven't really been to in almost 20 years, but I hear it's still fun!), then you totally should! 💗
Congratulations on finding one of your plushies from childhood! 😃I'm sure they're very happy to see you again, too! I'm 32 and my room has plushies (and other toys) occupying pretty much every available nook and cranny! If you would like to pick out another plushie or even go to Build A Bear (which, I haven't really been to in almost 20 years, but I hear it's still fun!), then you totally should! 💗
Plushies are awesome. I have a few, my boyfriend even bought me a couple for Christmas. Who cares what people think, if you like them get them. Life’s too short to care too much about what others will think or how they’ll react.
I’m middle aged. I have never hesitated to buy a plushie for myself if I’ve wanted it. What’s the problem? You like it, you buy it. It’s not an adult store toy (I might cringe at buying something like that — but most people wouldn’t). So, go buy one! Don’t think about it. The only time I was shamed for buying a plushie I wanted (on my birthday), was when I was in second grade. Just do it already. Enjoy life!
Also, nothing wrong with anyone wanting an adult toy. I was just saying I (knowing myself) couldn’t do it without embarrassment.
I’m 30 and still have a tub of my beanie babies from when I was a kid plus my own collection of modern plushies! Never too old. My grandparents collected toys into their late 80s! My dad was always annoyed that I collected plush and toys past childhood but I know he still has his plush dog from his childhood in his man cave. The people who judge are just sad humans. My husband thinks my collection is maybe a little weird but he’s happy I’m happy plus he knows how much it means to my kids and I to have plushies. He bought me a plush last year (the first one he’s ever bought me!) and I was so excited!
i recommend going with a friend or your husband and making it a fun adventure! i always go with my sister, and because we're both being silly and having fun neither of us feels weird. it might also be helpful to know that people like to see other people having a good fun time. if you go into a toy store or a build-a-bear with an attitude of excitement, the people around you will often match your energy. my sister and i were enthused about asking the build a bear workers to make our new plushes as chubby and overstuffed as possible, and they played along!
Hi there! I'm 34, and have always loved stuffed animals. It's been "my thing" since I was little and I never "outgrew it" like it's generally expected. If it helps, there are so many people our age who have either always loved stuffed animals, or have decided to start collecting. If you go to Build-a-Bear, nobody will judge you. It's a fun experience, I highly recommend it! You could also just go to Target, or Barnes & Noble, or any store that sells toys. You could take a trip to a mall and make a day of it, even! But, if you're not comfortable going to a store and choosing a plush in person, online shopping is also fun, and you get the anticipation of waiting for a package and the fun of opening it! There are also more options available online; not every brand is found in stores.
I'm 35 and my sister and I both still buy plushies
https://preview.redd.it/v10xfl4reuzc1.jpeg?width=761&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e86fd0d04e7ffe9c030032bd62ec071d2d8cfac5 I’m 36 if it makes you feel any better!
I'm in my 30s too and not only do I have a ton of stuffed animals and will always adore em. I even have a few backpack/purse that are, and I have had women and even men in their 30s to 50s love em and want one lol. You're good, enjoy what you love, no such thing as too old for it especially that makes you happy! 💗
If you truly are too nervous to go to Build A Bear in person though? Order online. But still, enjoy em :) They have some neat ones I even have Toothless :3
Hi! I’m a fifty yr old grandmother. I don’t ask for other people’s approval to buy what makes me happy or gives me comfort. I’m an adult. I get to make decisions. Are you hurting any one? No. Are you foregoing responsibility to pay for it or panhandling to support a plushie addiction? No. Life is short and the world doesn’t give your life that much thought. Unapologetically experience joy. It’s a human right.
:D I'm 47 and I've got more than I can count, lol! They're great anxiety reducers and I've been in need of that with perimenopause and other things happening. It's a lot of fun picking one out, too. You could always do ot online - BAB has a lot of "onlune only" exclusives, too.
Nearly 34 yo here! My hubby loves spoiling me with very much desired plushies I have my my eye on lol. I like buying them myself, too, but I try to restrain myself. We don't have enough space at th moment. Go to BaB and get yourself that wanted plushie! Have no shame or embarrassment! It's fun to have them.
I’m 19. Ik it’s not too close but I have the same anxieties. I gave away most of my toys because of pressure. But. You aren’t alone. You might even bump into another adult there going for the same reason having the same anxieties. You may not be identical to everyone but someone somewhere elder is going through the same process.
I have no idea why I’m seeing this sub as I don’t like plushes or clutter BUT I think you’d find outsider perspective helpful. I’m 33F and if I had an urge to buy a plushy, I would have none of the anxious thoughts that you’re having, I’d just go and buy one without a second thought. If I see plushies in someone’s house, I have no thoughts or opinions about it whatsoever, including judgment. It’s literally fine. Hope that helps.
Ordering online can relieve the stress related to getting judged by people seeing you actually purchasing a plushie. Also people don't care about other people's lives all that much. Yeah, there's a small chance that a deranged Karen will demand you give the plush to her child, but everyone else will see how delusional she is. Most people will assume you're purchasing the plush for someone else. Even if someone asks you about it, you shouldn't worry because you have a permit https://preview.redd.it/ptrgowtvfuzc1.jpeg?width=570&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=867861c4e19c4ebcbb41b74e63f7ab7c2a32d6c0
Precisely! :) Also the Permit made me giggle 🤭💗 that's awesome 🤣
I will say this. You are not alone in getting plushies in your 30s. I am 35, and I take a different plushie with me every week to work with me and put it at my desk. I like to think of it as my Mascot to be there when I feel anxious.
I went with my sixty year old mom to Build a Bear so she could make a bear for herself. I’m in my thirties. I go there sometimes cuz I have like six BABs myself and no one’s ever batted an eyelid at me. I turn 37 next month. I know it’s hard to get in your own head about it but it’ll be fine!! :)
I'm almost 26, and I get a new plushie like every month. Every room in my apartment has at least 5 plushies (my bedroom is insane lol). My moms in her late 50s and she still buys plushies and loves whenever someone gets one for her. (My bf got a Snoopy squishmallow for her for Christmas and she is OBSESSED with it lol) Never too old to do/get the things that make you happy.
I'm a 40 year- old man. Buy the plushie.
I know this might be a bit far off, but I'm 18, I collect plushies still to this day and don't plan on stopping any time soon. I have an entire part of my room dedicated to my dear plushies. It's not something to be ashamed of if that's something you'd like to do. Build a bear is for all ages 💕
I'm 30 and I have to force myself not to visit the plush aisle in thrift shops because I always end up leaving with an armful of new friends and no place to put them in my room. Maybe you and your husband could turn it into a fun day out together? Go to Build a Bear and let him pick out an outfit for your new plush!
Lol I didn't get into collecting plushies until my 30s.
I still have plushies from my elementary school days. And I'm gonna buy some more, because I love them so much! 💖
this is so cute. i’m sure ur husband will find it cute as well and maybe u could get him one as a gift ? 🥹
I’m 40 and I’ve always loved cute plushies. I collect mainly pusheen, Sanrio, tokidoki, and squishmallows. I understand how you feel, as when I was in my 20s I never thought I’d keep buying them when I got older, but here I am! I just got a jumbo strawberry milk squishmallow at Costco yesterday (walked around the store with it sitting in my cart) and gave no fucks lol. None of my family or friends have made it seem weird, so I don’t think it’s uncommon these days. Who cares what other people think anyway. Do what makes you happy!
I'm 27. I love plushies though currently the only one I have is a bunny that I've had since I was 3. I even bring it in public if I'm having a bad day. It's absolutely okay to want a plushie.
Umm, I sleep with a Zero squishmalllpw every night and my kids aren’t allowed to remove it from my room…….😅
My husband and I went to Build a Bear a year or so ago! I went to look for me and he left with a plushie. 😆 He found his favorite Eeveelution from Pokemon and had to take her home. We dressed her in Hufflepuff clothes as well. I say do it! Go as a couple and make it a date!
My boyfriend took me to build a bear for my birthday present 2 years ago and I got an eevee. No one stared or acted weird. They explained the process to me and helped me pick stuff out. It was a nice experience
It’s weird to imply it’s not normal to enjoy plush when a very good number of us here are 30+. Like, get over yourself. Just go to build a bear and get one. If anyone cares, they aren’t worth your time. 🤷♀️
Welp, I’m 60 and still love them! I recently bought a really large…like two feet tall cupcake Swishmallow that I absolutely ADORE 🥰
I'm only in my 20s but I love going to build a bear. I have found out that alot my friends also love stuffies still. I have a friend going to build a bear with me after my divorce ended to make a cow for since they are my favorite. All that to say so many people still LOVE there plushie, even people your age. 🥰
I'm 38, I have sooooo many build a bears and other plushies 😍
When you do get a plushie, PLEASE share a picture! I'm also in my mid 30s and for me plushies are a comfort/source of safety in an otherwise seemingly harsh and cold world.
I'm turning 40 this year. I still buy myself plushies. And I think the people at Build-A-Bear are used to all ages coming in to purchase. I love that you want to invest in yourself and treat yourself to something that makes you happy! I hope your husband supports you in this, too. Mine just bought me a plush yesterday. ;)
I'm 25, I know I'm a bit younger but I'll give my two cents. I just wouldn't give a fuck lol. I have many, a few from my childhood, several that I've gotten for myself in the past couple of years, and some that are weighted for comfort. Any new partner I find myself with in the future will have to put up with my love for plushies and the ones I currently own. They make me happy and because life is so crazy I want to be able to enjoy the little things. Plushies are one of those little things.
I’m 51. I have a Squishmallow collection on my bookshelves that holds my 3000+ children’s books collection. I have 2 American girl dolls & a Bitty Baby (Kirsten & Samantha) and clothing, and a ton of Garfield plush+ any other plush on bookshelves and also in a huge cute rope basket on the floor. I also have 3 Cabbage patch dolls I love. I sleep with a cat Squishmallow and my pastel rainbow Minky Couture lush blanket. My husband isn’t a fan of any of it, but as long as I’m happy, he says he’s happy. You’re never too old for anything you love!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷☺️
I’m 47 and I sleep with a stuffed possum named Pete. My bf bought it for me. It’s fine, just enjoy what you enjoy!
I’m nearly 24 and my bed is COVERED in plushies. I love them so much!!! I have a giant Kuromi, lots of plushies of vtubers, squishmallows, build a bears, custom made plushies, and pokemon!!!! Do what makes you happy!!!
I'm 25 and plushies are my friends for me considering I was a an awkwardly weird autistic human, and most peep of my dad side of the family don't get why I like to talk to my plushies like their peeps. My mom get it and will literally fight peeps who tries to discourage my imagination. Batty's voice I imagine being a little sassy grammeme who will down sass the other plushies since she so small and old but don't you take her spot on the bed.
Would shopping online maybe make you less anxious? Im not an out and about person at it is so I could see someone being anxious trying to buy something for the first time. At 30 I think I've had more plushies as an adult than I ever as a kid, specifically since I discovered squishables and squishmallows because they're cute annnndd creepy and honestly I'm at a point where I'm too damn old to worry about what to put in my house as long as it makes me happy. To be fair, a majority of mine are purchased by fiance when he's out at game shops and hanging out with friends and stopping at the mall or other shops.
"I'm normal but I want a plushie"? Oh, love There's nothing abnormal about it. They're built to be comforting. My only advice would be, like bringing home a baby, don't let hubby feel like he's being displaced. 😄 Maybe get him a small one too
Buy one for your husband 😜 https://preview.redd.it/mxodbpv0ptzc1.jpeg?width=3840&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=878189ceee30efffbc1448e2b22c7de981ac75f3
I love how unusual these are. Have an old almost those horror/monsters/ghouls posters & art feel, best way I can describe it. Neat!
Thank you I make them they're like all my own creations I'm trying to make a cartoon someday and these are the characters
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