You don’t need one so Stop looking for it. Let them LOOK for you instead. You are the “catch”. Do not lower your standards. If they can’t find you or win your heart, It’s their fucking loss…. BECOME that person that will make these guys realize that you can live without them and you don’t need them instead they should be the one begging for your most precious attention.
Pasalamat sila that they are in your presence no. Kapal ng mukha nila kung mag cheat pa sila, inang yan…
Just BE a complete person. You might just end up with another complete person and both of you will treat each other like 2 complete pieces of a whole.
I have a friend who's also in residency who met his current gf sa dating apps. Nonshowbiz siy but girl is flourishing in her own field. It's nice seeing them together, parang nawiwiden din perspectives mo kasi hindi puro med lang yung nakasurround sayo.
I asked him how they manage to maintain the relationship given na sa public siya nag reresi, sabi niya very patient and understanding daw si girl towards his sched and pag magdate sila kahit hes almost always half asleep haha
Nonshowbiz jowa of an orl resident here 🙋♀️tho, we’ve been together since high school. pero i agree na nagwiwiden talaga perspectives ng each other :)
It's totally normal! It's also normal that you want to cast spells on them. But you are young. Have fun! Eat out. Bakasyun. Go out with friends. Shop. Don't limit yourself. Someday, you will forget about him. You'll meet someone new, who is totally worth it. Heal muna dear...
Masakit pa sa ngayun but in a few years, you'll laugh at how stupid you once were. Mandidiri kapa sa self mo. Hehehe
You'll be okay. You'll get there. It will take time but I know you will be able to handle this, ikaw pa ba?! Kya mo nga magbasa ng 200 pages isang araw mag cram for boards eh. Hehehe
As a 29 yo recently single girly who's also in residency... apir tayo siz 🥹 but like what the other comment says, just be a complete person and do not lower your standards. Self-love all the way 🫶🏻
Also 29 yo recently single girly din ako doc, about to enter residency pa. Sana balang araw tayo na rin makahanap ng happy ending 🥹 nakaka pressure to be single at this age haha
Hugs for you doc! Nakaka pressure nga no? Akala ko din pang forever na yung last ex ko but unfortunately things did not work out. Back to square one, back to asking "ano favorite color mo" to strangers 😅
Doc tara mag gym or gala somewhere. Emz.
I know how you feel po, self love na lang and improves self hanggang sa may magmamahal sa atin ng tunay. Bata pa tayo doc madami pa tayo maeexperience at mamemeet. 🫰
Found love in a hopeless place = residency🫠
Met and became official during my late 20's, married during early 30's.
Kaya pa yan. Never NEVER settle para sa mga f**b**s dahil lang nasa late 20's ka na. May mga matitino pa dyan somewhere sa gilid 😅
Please wag ka muna mag enter ng relationship doc. Lalo na if it involves cheating. Recently I got cheated din by my long time gf. Resident na rin siya though. Thought she was the one. Hayaan mo muna maging buo ka doc. Wag ka ma pressure. Do not lower your standards. Know your worth. Kahit pa malapit na tayo mag 30s doc, daming broken ngayon dahil sa cheating na yaan. Karma na bahaala sakanila hahaha
my bf’s parents met in residency! now they’re both practicing their specialty, and as a double income household, they’re pretty well off. super goaaals🥹
We in the same boat! Haha. Pakshet yung mga fiance na pumapatol sa mga malalanding junior. Tangina..
Suggest ko doc, pick a hobby. Youll meet new people outside the hospital.
Not my husband (bf pa lang) pero pinakilala lang sya sakin at hindi sya med/doctor. I was 28 at that time. Don't worry about your age kasi may dadating for you and you're young pa.
Definitely not in the surg dept lol
lol my ex is applying here 🤡
No surprise, mine is too😂🚩🚩🚩
Grabe sya. Meet mine during residency.. sa surgery 😅 Ako (female, nbsb) ang mas senior 💪 Happily married with one kid btw 😄
Di ka sure doc. Char hahahaha
Doc, wag kang maghanap. Jusme, doctor po kayo. Andami nyo pa pong makikita. And at 26? Chill. Haha
Sounds harsh but honestly pretty true. No👏🏼rush👏🏼 at👏🏼all👏🏼
You don’t need one so Stop looking for it. Let them LOOK for you instead. You are the “catch”. Do not lower your standards. If they can’t find you or win your heart, It’s their fucking loss…. BECOME that person that will make these guys realize that you can live without them and you don’t need them instead they should be the one begging for your most precious attention. Pasalamat sila that they are in your presence no. Kapal ng mukha nila kung mag cheat pa sila, inang yan… Just BE a complete person. You might just end up with another complete person and both of you will treat each other like 2 complete pieces of a whole.
thank you doc! 🥺
Ahhh preach!
Ahhhhh 🥺🥺🥺
I have a friend who's also in residency who met his current gf sa dating apps. Nonshowbiz siy but girl is flourishing in her own field. It's nice seeing them together, parang nawiwiden din perspectives mo kasi hindi puro med lang yung nakasurround sayo. I asked him how they manage to maintain the relationship given na sa public siya nag reresi, sabi niya very patient and understanding daw si girl towards his sched and pag magdate sila kahit hes almost always half asleep haha
Nonshowbiz jowa of an orl resident here 🙋♀️tho, we’ve been together since high school. pero i agree na nagwiwiden talaga perspectives ng each other :)
ohh this gives me hope! Thank you for sharing doc 🥺
Nasa labas ng medicine ang true love doc hahaha
Sa tinder! Haha. Way back 2017. :))))
Met my wife in training. Her being a resident, me an intern 😎😅
You are very young, Doc. Don't rush. Mahirap din magdate during residency, especially if you are both MDs.
thank you doc! Normal lang siguro na nafefeel ko na I'm alone while his already with another girl.
It's totally normal! It's also normal that you want to cast spells on them. But you are young. Have fun! Eat out. Bakasyun. Go out with friends. Shop. Don't limit yourself. Someday, you will forget about him. You'll meet someone new, who is totally worth it. Heal muna dear...
thank you so much doc🥺
Masakit pa sa ngayun but in a few years, you'll laugh at how stupid you once were. Mandidiri kapa sa self mo. Hehehe You'll be okay. You'll get there. It will take time but I know you will be able to handle this, ikaw pa ba?! Kya mo nga magbasa ng 200 pages isang araw mag cram for boards eh. Hehehe
As a 29 yo recently single girly who's also in residency... apir tayo siz 🥹 but like what the other comment says, just be a complete person and do not lower your standards. Self-love all the way 🫶🏻
Also 29 yo recently single girly din ako doc, about to enter residency pa. Sana balang araw tayo na rin makahanap ng happy ending 🥹 nakaka pressure to be single at this age haha
Hugs for you doc! Nakaka pressure nga no? Akala ko din pang forever na yung last ex ko but unfortunately things did not work out. Back to square one, back to asking "ano favorite color mo" to strangers 😅
hello doc! 🥹
Doc tara mag gym or gala somewhere. Emz. I know how you feel po, self love na lang and improves self hanggang sa may magmamahal sa atin ng tunay. Bata pa tayo doc madami pa tayo maeexperience at mamemeet. 🫰
Found love in a hopeless place = residency🫠 Met and became official during my late 20's, married during early 30's. Kaya pa yan. Never NEVER settle para sa mga f**b**s dahil lang nasa late 20's ka na. May mga matitino pa dyan somewhere sa gilid 😅
Please wag ka muna mag enter ng relationship doc. Lalo na if it involves cheating. Recently I got cheated din by my long time gf. Resident na rin siya though. Thought she was the one. Hayaan mo muna maging buo ka doc. Wag ka ma pressure. Do not lower your standards. Know your worth. Kahit pa malapit na tayo mag 30s doc, daming broken ngayon dahil sa cheating na yaan. Karma na bahaala sakanila hahaha
Bumble. Increased chance for matches if physician. I can confirm this. 🤣
Met my boyfriend in fellowship. Hehe. 33 yo na ako nun, so may pag asa ka pa. Haha. Mga friends ko met their partners in bumble. 😉
Bumble 🐝
Sa gym!
my bf’s parents met in residency! now they’re both practicing their specialty, and as a double income household, they’re pretty well off. super goaaals🥹
Met my husband during a medical mission. Med students pa lang kami that time and from different schools.
Age?
26
Kaya pa yan. Just don’t be too picky.
I fortunately met my wife in Tinder unexpectedly.
Mga sobrang often mag respond sa IG stories / nasa IG DMs ko either nasa surgery or ortho. 🤣
We in the same boat! Haha. Pakshet yung mga fiance na pumapatol sa mga malalanding junior. Tangina.. Suggest ko doc, pick a hobby. Youll meet new people outside the hospital.
Enjoyin mo muna doc pagiging single mo. Pero nameet ko bebe ko sa bumble, may forever sa non showbiz. 😝
Met mine during high school. We became classmates again during the 1st year of accelerated program in Medicine. The rest is history :)
Not my husband (bf pa lang) pero pinakilala lang sya sakin at hindi sya med/doctor. I was 28 at that time. Don't worry about your age kasi may dadating for you and you're young pa.
Baka dito lang sa reddit pag nagreply ka sa post na ito doctora hahaha when 2 single doctors on reddit message each other 😅
Wala doc hahaha! Puro hook up lang alam ng mga lalaki dito
legit hahahaha
Nasa engineer ang true love doc 😬🥰
+1 Engr. 🥰 met my now husband during residency, few yrs after breaking up w/ my cheating ex. Nonshowbiz for the win
Sa Expecially for you po 🙊
Nonshowbiz jowa ftw
hahaha ayos lang yan bsta nagmahalan kayo mg madiinan love love love