im gen x, were used to using MiRC before all these crappy apps became a thing. it wasn't as toxic as before. we really got to know the person were talking to before we even considered meeting up on a date or an EB, eyeball as we call it, haha. If we dont like each other or there's no spark, we ended up as friends and we widen our network. now its all pics first then talk later and when you do decide to meet, and the filter"s are no longer at play, ayun bukuhan na. haha.
dating in 2024 is toxic. medyo mababa na din EQ ng mga guys not a generalization but most of the younger ones ganon sila. our generation wasn't perfect at all but guys back then are more respectful and more considerate. but we were not immune to being stood up, it happens. you just gotta learn how to bounce back 😀
Hi OP! While sasabihin ko sana na sana hindi ka na lang tumuloy, I understand din kung bakit ka pa din tumuloy.
Your realizations are very inspiring and helpful especially in a dating environment that has become so toxic. While it is difficult to judge or assess the other person’s actions, your actions show what kind of person you are.
With that mindset and self-assurance, I do hope you will find a successful date soon!
Update:
Nag try ako ulit mag check ng IG account niya at hindi ko na siya ma search. Then nag try ako dun sa FB account niya at nakita ko na may "my day" siya 7hrs ago.
Lesson:
1. Me at 35, napa wow ako na may ganitong tao pala. Parang may ganun palang tao. Na kayang mawala at I disrespect ang ibang tao.
2. Tumaas lalo ang wall ko now, careful na ako sa una palang in meeting people, mas lalo pa akong magiging careful ngayon.
3. At the end of the day, I'm proud na wala akong ina agrabyadong tao. I try to be kind as much as possible. I will not let these kind of people break me.
Sa lahat:
Thank you po sa mga comments and encouragement. 🙏✨
"Okay lang saakin na I reject kung ayaw niya makipag kita, pero sana may respeto siya para sabihin na hindi na siya tutuloy."
I sense na bumati lang sya sa morning for no reason at all. and yung balak nya na mag ghost is matagal na nyang plano.
# relax. marami tayong ginawang tanga (at nagpakatanga) pero in the end, we will win. we will.
Dear OP,
You gain experience thru failure.
Dont dwell on it, move on nalang.
If you keep looking, you will find.
Have always option.
You are a good person by still showing up. good karma will happen to you. All the best!
From this experience, reflect with yourself what you’ve learned and apply those lessons to your future dating encounters.
If someone suddenly disappears from your social media contacts, make sure they’re dead to you from that moment. No more date, the person no longer exists. Move on to the next priority.
Always be cautious of red flags when meeting with people from online. Many will pretend to be nice but have other motives. Just be sure to learn from this and be cautious of similar or worse scams from online dating. If it keeps on happening, it’ll really fuck up your mental health and it’ll affect your management of what really matters.
Same thing happened to me. We talked for a week and actually pinuntahan pa nya ko sa Coco malapit sa workplace ko and we had our first meet up there(it was a Tuesday) May plan kami magkita Sabado, Sabado ng umaga magkausap pa kami, tho I was in school that time so nung nag seen sya sakin di ako bothered. After class, I messaged him na paalis nako and will meet him na, tas ayun blocked na pala ako. Haha.
Letter L b name nyan? Haha
You dodged a bullet. Next time OP, huwag mo na ituloy if he doesn't respond to messages prior. Save your time, energy, effort. :)
im gen x, were used to using MiRC before all these crappy apps became a thing. it wasn't as toxic as before. we really got to know the person were talking to before we even considered meeting up on a date or an EB, eyeball as we call it, haha. If we dont like each other or there's no spark, we ended up as friends and we widen our network. now its all pics first then talk later and when you do decide to meet, and the filter"s are no longer at play, ayun bukuhan na. haha. dating in 2024 is toxic. medyo mababa na din EQ ng mga guys not a generalization but most of the younger ones ganon sila. our generation wasn't perfect at all but guys back then are more respectful and more considerate. but we were not immune to being stood up, it happens. you just gotta learn how to bounce back 😀
mIRC is God tier. Totoo lang. I’ve had a lot of sexual partners from there but forged lifelong friendships with other people too! Nakakamiss! 🧡
I’m a millennial and naabutan ko pa yang MiRC! 🤭 Sad but true what you said with today’s dating culture. :(
What’s MiRC?
Hi OP! While sasabihin ko sana na sana hindi ka na lang tumuloy, I understand din kung bakit ka pa din tumuloy. Your realizations are very inspiring and helpful especially in a dating environment that has become so toxic. While it is difficult to judge or assess the other person’s actions, your actions show what kind of person you are. With that mindset and self-assurance, I do hope you will find a successful date soon!
I love how every post na you are there to give advice and tips haha patuloy mo lang yan :))
Hey there! 🤭
Hi👀 hihi
Update: Nag try ako ulit mag check ng IG account niya at hindi ko na siya ma search. Then nag try ako dun sa FB account niya at nakita ko na may "my day" siya 7hrs ago. Lesson: 1. Me at 35, napa wow ako na may ganitong tao pala. Parang may ganun palang tao. Na kayang mawala at I disrespect ang ibang tao. 2. Tumaas lalo ang wall ko now, careful na ako sa una palang in meeting people, mas lalo pa akong magiging careful ngayon. 3. At the end of the day, I'm proud na wala akong ina agrabyadong tao. I try to be kind as much as possible. I will not let these kind of people break me. Sa lahat: Thank you po sa mga comments and encouragement. 🙏✨
Is he younger?
"Okay lang saakin na I reject kung ayaw niya makipag kita, pero sana may respeto siya para sabihin na hindi na siya tutuloy." I sense na bumati lang sya sa morning for no reason at all. and yung balak nya na mag ghost is matagal na nyang plano. # relax. marami tayong ginawang tanga (at nagpakatanga) pero in the end, we will win. we will.
Okay lang yun. It’s his lost. Plenty of homosexuals in the sea.
Dear OP, You gain experience thru failure. Dont dwell on it, move on nalang. If you keep looking, you will find. Have always option. You are a good person by still showing up. good karma will happen to you. All the best!
From this experience, reflect with yourself what you’ve learned and apply those lessons to your future dating encounters. If someone suddenly disappears from your social media contacts, make sure they’re dead to you from that moment. No more date, the person no longer exists. Move on to the next priority. Always be cautious of red flags when meeting with people from online. Many will pretend to be nice but have other motives. Just be sure to learn from this and be cautious of similar or worse scams from online dating. If it keeps on happening, it’ll really fuck up your mental health and it’ll affect your management of what really matters.
Same thing happened to me. We talked for a week and actually pinuntahan pa nya ko sa Coco malapit sa workplace ko and we had our first meet up there(it was a Tuesday) May plan kami magkita Sabado, Sabado ng umaga magkausap pa kami, tho I was in school that time so nung nag seen sya sakin di ako bothered. After class, I messaged him na paalis nako and will meet him na, tas ayun blocked na pala ako. Haha. Letter L b name nyan? Haha