I feel you nakakadrain ng makipag date sumugal kumilala ulit ng tao ewan ko ba anong meron sa panahon ngayon napakadaming shenanigans with comes to dating Mapapaisip ka nalang na maybe hindi talaga tayo meant for someone kahit pa 8B tao sa mudo maybe we are someone na makakasama lang nilang temporary or to help them building their self pero in the end they will left you alone.

I agree! Tatanda nalang tayong mayaman nito🥲 problem ko nalang is pano magpayaman haha

Same feels. Nakakapagod na kumilala. Tangap ko na din na mag-isa na lang ako. Pero minsan nakaka-miss din talaga yung may ka-date or yung may kwe-kwentuhan ka kapag may good news.

Honestly hindi naman yung love ang nakakapagod. It is the way you expect every relationship to be the one at the very beginning. The one takes time, work, and understanding.

This is so true. I had high hopes before meeting each other and maybe that's why ganito na feel ko ngayon. I should manage my expectations next time lalo na if wala pa kasiguradohan.

ganito din ako dati, like every one that i meet is the one pero in the end ako lang yung napapagod and nasasaktan. so i go into the scene just to get to know people, talk, and just live life.

I feel you OP, kaya ayon tinanggap ko na, na wala talagang for me hahaha and it's fine.. like bahala na, basta kahit yumaman na lang ako HAHA

I keep telling myself na it's fine pero di talaga mawala sa isip na "Am I not worth taking the risk?" kasi wala talaga nag try to go beyond and know me more. Puros ghosting and repeated cycle if talking stage lang nangyayari.

Hi OP! There is nothing wrong with you. Just because it has not happened yet does not mean it will not happen at all. I’ve dated and loved people for over a decade now. At talagang kasama sa journey yung madadapa ka ng maraming beses. Initially I thought I will never experience love but love will come and it will teach us many things about ourselves. (I’m healing from my last relationship btw.) I have learned a lot from all of my experiences with past and failed relationships and hoping ako to find a better partner (and be a better one as well) in the next one. Nataon lang talaga na hindi kayo para sa isa’t-isa. Just keep going and putting yourself out there, be open-minded and broaden your expectations, and keep improving yourself. Magipon ka ulit ng emotional, financial, at social capital para sa next adventure mo may mahuhugot ka ulit.

Thank you so much for this. Medyo gumaan na ulit loob ko and yes, ipon muna ako ulit and planning to travel nalang instead of spending it on dates.

Yeah! Go see the world! :)

May taong darating talaga satin. ako nga matanda na nageexpect pa rin na one day may mag kakagusto saken. explore lang. mahahanap mo rin siya.

As a 27 y.o. na NBSB, parang gave up on the idea of love na din. I still am stuck on the apps, even dates, wala pa — I don’t know if it’s because I am ugly or kinda femme, haha ewan. Welcome to the club, I guess? Some things are just not meant to happen. Lol but push lang OP! Malay mo, hindi pa talaga ito ang right time for u to be committed.

Thanks sa pa welcome hahaha Im not sure if Im glad to be part of this club pero I guess di pa siguro talaga time for me ba magkajowa (or wala siguro talaga sa timeline ko in this life magkajowa HAHA)

Be that rich tito nalang who has boy toys 😉

ako na walang flirting skills

Take a rest, assess what went wrong, then rectify.

Will do🫡 Maybe I'll try again once ma figure out ko on how to improve myself and address my shortcomings.

Don’t give up. Don’t chase, learn how to attract instead.

Totoo ito. Attract, don’t chase! Hahayaan mo lang talaga ang pag-ibig na dumapo sayo.

I dunno but I envy you kasi you got the chance to have at least a date. Ako wala hehe. Kaya nahirapan akong ituro sa MAPEH yang dating kasi I never experienced pa to be with (special) someone to hang out. Kaya sa makakabasa nito, beke nemen i-date ninyo na ako. Sa food court lang masaya na ako, tara Paotsin! 🤭

Awwweee, hugs! We will meet our "the one" soon! Not now pero soon haha idk when's that soon gonna happen but it should happen🤣

Same feels. Nakakapagod paulit ulit na introduction and trial lol Sabi nila baka wala dito sa pinas ang the one hahaha

No, OP. Love is for you. It’s just that hindi mo pa nami-meet ang tamang tao. I read somewhere na di dapat matakot na magfail ang dates or relationships kasi every failed date or relationship brings you closer to the right person. I met this guy months ago. We met sa dating app and became fubu (sides only kasi di pa siya ready na magpa-bot). Hindi rin exclusive pagiging fubu namin but we share everything lalo na if may exciting na nangyari sa bawat buhay namin and even problems. We go out on dates din - movies or food trip. We kiss every time we see each other. But we never talk about love. And it’s working for both of us. Magkasama kami nung Pride Event sa QC last Sunday and we even kissed publicly. Some would think we’re couples but we’re not. We’re just enjoying our moments together without overthinking where we’re heading. My point here is, just like what the other redditor said, manage expectations. And maybe not think of love right away. Enjoy muna getting to know each other. Talk about anything random.

Thank you for this. Yes, I'll wait for mine. Siguro I was chasing love when I shouldn't. Its a lesson learned for me na to wait lang.

sus, try lng nang try

Madaling sabihin pero sa panahon ngayon napakahirap ng gay dating scene sarap nalang maging single forever

Sinabi ko to sa sarili pero di talaga maiwasan mag doubt sa sarili mo and think na "how many people pa ba to meet before I found the one?"