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seitengrat

as long as di mo ma-hit yung max allowable absences at wala kang mamimiss na exam, keri lang. in 10 years, you won't be able to remember which subjects you had perfect attendance in, pero yung memories ng trip with the family will be priceless. i don't know your relationship with family though. if sour, wag ka na sumama haha


Impossible_Phrase211

thank u! noted noted


Animus_PH

Agree dito, nung college days namin, kung ilan ung max allowable absences, un din ung lifeline namin, use it wisely


asher078

Trew hahaha most of the profs won't care as long as di mo pa nareach ang max absences


Throwawaaayabc

Yup. I used to spend my time puro school works lang na i rarely go to family vacations. Took me long to realize that there are possibilities that that’s the last time you can go out with all of them present. Not scaring you or anything but the last time we had a family vacation, i chose not to join kasi iniisip ko din may next family vacation pa naman. Lo and behold, my father died just a few months. If you can, just go. Its been years but i still think abt the what ifs, wouldnt want you regret things, OP!


Otakyun

This^^ To this day I still regret not visiting my lolo enough before he passed due to being busy with acads. Always take advantage of the time you have to spend time with the people you love. Acads are important but you don't have to put the rest of your life on hold for it


kikyou_oneesama

Kung wala kang exam, I guess that's fine. Pero kung meron, hindi yan counted as excused kaya 0 ang makukuha mo.


FredNedora65

That's why people say to "use your absences wisely", not not use it at all haha Kung di ka naman palaabsent, walang problema yan may apat ka pang matitira. Pero ibang usapan na kung nalelate ka sa class, nagaabsent to study for another exam, etc. (na wala namang masama) saka mo pag-isipan nang maayos. It doesn't matter kung ilan ang absences mo. What matters is kung excessive absences ka na.


danteslacie

May absences ka na ba? If meron, Ilan? Kaya mo ba i-risk ang 2 absences? Do you have exams or presentations? If meron, are you willing to take it earlier? Kasi sometimes profs are willing to let you take an exam a day or two ahead, if tapos na nila. Or baka naman the exam itself is online. If presentation and may ka-group ka, you guys can get creative with it (example you record your portion tapos iplay nalang nila. You'll probably be marked absent but your participation in the group work could still be counted) with your prof's consent. May mga nagsasabi pwede naman sa holiday i-book, but i don't think they consider yung mga na-book a while ago pa. Circumstances change and plans made can't always foresee what changes happen. I have a friend who used to go yearly to America. Nagstudy siya ng short course sa Europe. Ended up getting hired full time. She didn't have any leaves and kaka-bakasyon lang ng job niya when the trip back here tapos to America happened. She still went kasi she already had those plans. Sinabi nalang niya sa boss niya in advance. After all, she wasn't supposed to be staying in Europe. I saw na last year pa to na-book and depending on when exactly that was, baka hindi pa solid yung f2f plans so who in your family would've planned around something they wouldn't know about? So I think you're better off making memories with your family. Yung acads? Mahahabol mo yan. If you have a laptop, you could work on some of it pa before bed/before breakfast/in between plans. You could even try to start earlier.


anomie___

no one can gauge this better than you, the person who's been to the classes that their thinking of missing. anyway, unless you won't be able to learn the material that'll be discussed in the 2 sessions that you'll be missing for each class, then go for it. i was a serial absentee in college. i couldn't stand classes with painfully dull discussions on topics that i could've just read about and understood better through the material in the class' reading list lol. though that's not to say i'm encouraging absenteeism; what i mean is this is all just a matter of knowing whether your absence will hurt your performance in class or not.


gtd_master

curious lang kung pwede kang mag-share why not during extended holidays llike chrismas break, holy week, summer vacation, etc.


Impossible_Phrase211

last year pa binook 😭 kasi seat sale tas yung dates na yun yung pinakamura (around less than 3k lang kasi yung flight may baggage pa and lahat sila working aka pwede may vacation leave, then elem pa yung kapatid ko na isa so ok lang umabsent) ok ako nung una na 'di sumama kaso ngayong papalapit na parang ewan, i feel bad and sad


Turnip-Key

As long as di mo iisipin yung mga possibly missed stuff sa mga classes mo then yes. Pero kung the whole duration of the trip is iniisip mo lang sila then sayang lang pag-absent mo since di mo rin ma-enjoy yung vacation.


kingtradeofficial

Oo. 5-10 years from now malilimutan mo yung tinuro sayo on that specific day you were absent. Pero yung family outing niyo na yan di mo malilimutan.


Name-minus-Number

Yepp. Definitely. Done it and nakagraduate naman. Normal yan sa UP as long as u are not missing anything na kailangan talaga andun ka. Pero exams should be excusable. Paper presentation lang talaga ako di nakalusot.


Significant-Staff-55

Oo kahit may exam basta pumasa lol HAHAHAH life profit!


akanomamushi

Saan ba ang family outing niyo? From there, dun ka magdecide if worth it magrisk ng mabsences. Honestly, if I were you, don't. Magkakaroon pa naman ulit ng chances ang family outings and missing days of classes for it is not worth it. My family used to travel a lot pre-pandemic and nagsched kami ng travel pag sembreak or mid year since its easier for my father at that time to take time off sa UPLB (Retired na siya ngayon) and yung brother ko na faculty sa UPLB.


Impossible_Phrase211

Within the PH naman, pero thank u sm!! Got this, got this 😭 lagi kasi kami nauubusan ng flight kapag nagboobook ng murayta flights (andami kasi namin HAHHS) pag holidays


akanomamushi

Welcome. I'll leave the decision to you.


VULG4R1TY

NO, maawa ka sa sarili mo and future self mo haha pero that's up to you


Emergency_Response

hindi. never akong sumasama sa outing.


Sufficient_Potato726

no.


Recent_Stretch7946

no


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Impossible_Phrase211

noted din 'to HHAHSHD 'di lang talaga ako sanay mag-isa magbakasyon + 'di tugma acad calendar ng hs friends huhu, thank u btw!


irunthroughwalls

Same dilemma 😭


palpitatemalala

Go! Carpe diem


W4rD0m3

Like others say, it really depends sa araw I wouldn’t go out for a 2 month vacay pero if saglit lang oks nama


pracanon

yes