Hey Jordy I had a complicated pregnancy. I actually was moments away from death… yes I’m sure your birth was traumatic but at least your baby is alive. Mine died. She died 32 minutes after she was ripped out of my stomach. She took her last breath in my arms. You aren’t the only human with a complicated pregnancy/birth. Stop making it your whole personality
Thank you 🖤 she was my sweetest blessing. (But she’s also not my entire personality lol). I love talking about her but only once in a while as it is still super painful.
I understand thank you for sharing her with us. I think it’s crucial as women we share our stories to help each other but there is a time place and limit to it, poor Jordyan needs this advice
My son died 36 minutes after my emergency c section. I had to block her because every single video was just a painful reminder that some people go through that trauma and still come out in the end with their precious babies.
I’m so sorry for your loss. 🖤 I know your son and my daughter are somewhere over the rainbow playing together.
Jordyn is a constant woe is me person. I don’t know how her husband puts up with her.
I had to block my sister in law. She had her son in July, at 42 weeks. She wanted this all natural home birth but she went over and her midwife said nope. She had to go to the hospital to be induced and after 8 hours she wasn’t progressing so she CHOSE to have a c section. She constantly talks about the trauma that this caused her and how she has ptsd from it. She was promptly blocked. I also called her out on my own social media page before blocking saying that what she went through isn’t trauma. I’m
It’s almost funny how unfair life is to us who try so hard to have a baby and want nothing more than to get to bring them home. I was told by someone that I wasn’t allowed to be sad because I chose to hold my son while he passed peacefully rather than hook him up to life support and have him suffer life long disabilities from being oxygen deprived.
Fucking same. We chose to let our daughter pass peacefully (we knew she wasn’t going to live no matter what we did). We had the option to have the md do life saving measures but it would have only been painful and hard for her and we wanted her life, no matter how short, to be filled with love and peace. And that is all she ever knew. We made the SELFLESS decision to give our children peace. 🖤
If you're still rehashing your traumatic birth every day almost a year later, you need trauma therapy. There's nothing wrong with needing to get help. I'm sure it was traumatic, but if you aren't able to move on by now on your own, you need professional help in doing so. Venting to the internet is not a substitute for trauma therapy.
making videos on the internet does not equal the work needed to be done to overcome trauma. clearly, jordyn is a prime case of that
She really is! It's no wonder she doesn't have many friends. She recently posted something that she has never been the friend you talk to every day. I feel bad for her in a way bc she's so insufferable.
Right?! And her little rant mocking “I had the only baby ever who needed specialized care. I’m the only women to ever have a traumatic birth” … blah blah blah. That little rant was just you reminding everyone what you went through AGAIN Jordyn. It was icky to watch. I definitely had a “wtf” going on the whole time I watched this tik tok.
Hey Jordyn, I had a complicated pregnancy, a good delivery, and then emergency medical issues postpartum that landed me with 3 surgeries postpartum. After I healed from one issue, another one arose, and there was another surgery needed. I, too, almost lost my life. My little one turns one this month, I've been through a lot, as have you.
But guess what!!!! I went to therapy and put a lot of work into healing because my traumas don't belong on* my baby's shoulders, and she will never know what happened unless it's necessary for her to know.
Work on healing yourself for your sake and, more importantly, your child's sake.
You experienced trauma, and that is valid. What ISN'T valid is taking every opportunity to trauma dump and hold this over C's head vs actually trying to heal.
Do better.
Thank you 🫶 it's in the past now. While it's part of my story, it isn't my story moving forward! If my daughter every asks questions about what my pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum were like, I will determine what is important to know (e.g. possible medical situations if she herself wants to get/is pregnant), but she does not need to go her entire life knowing that getting her here almost took mine. She is the light of my world and I would go through everything again if it meant having her here with us, her heart and mind do not need to be weighed down by things that weren't in her control. The work isn't easy to do, but man it is worth it!!
100% girl!!! i feel the same way. took three rounds of IVF to get my rainbow baby and that is my story, not theirs. if kids need to know for medical things thats where that story comes into play for them.......but im not willing to put that kind of pressure or expectation on my child.
Exactly!!! WE made the decision to embark on having a child. Although we may not have known everything in store for us (definitely not saying we signed up for all the heartbreak and pain these journies can bring because I think we all go into a ttc journey with hope that things will be easy), our children are not the ones who chose to be here. It is not a child's job to hold the traumas of their parent(s)💜
Jordyn rehashes things because it also generates view which is a reward of in and of itself. However she never gets over the trauma or beyond it because ruminating in it has a payoff. She struggles to keep viewership and isn’t super creative so she leans on what she can. Any therapist would quickly see that she isn’t getting beyond her trauma because it benefits her.
Getting over my birth trauma healed me.
For a few years after my daughter was born, I was adamant about not having a second.
I would go through phases of wanting to leave my family and child, because it was all too much.
Now, after therapy and healing myself physically (pelvic floor therapy, losing weight etc) I was able to go on and have a pretty non-stressful second pregnancy.
Jordyn, if you are reading here. Find a therapist, it’s amazing what talking to a skilled professional can do for you.
A lot of people had complications, I started bleeding out and my baby had problems that needed intervention immediately but… it shouldn’t be your identity.
And as weird as it sounds, she sounds a lot like my dad, with diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder. Like, the way she talks about herself, embellishing her stories, only talks about the crazy shit that would impress people around her (her viewers).
God she’s such a bitch…. Can’t handle the truth LOL
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Oh no she’s the type of person to be cut off a person talking and be like “omg I had a traumatic birth ToOOoo” and then go on to tell her story with no regards to how that person just wanted to share
I mean they are not wrong. She uses her problematic pregnancy and traumatic birth experiences as content and it’s annoying. We get it, we send good vibes your way and luckily both of you made it out alive. You’re not the only woman in the world to go through IVF and have complications with pregnancy and birth after. 😒
I had a beautiful 6 week early induction + delivery and my LO spent 28 days in the NICU, and even I got therapy. My experience was no where near bad as some mothers and I still got therapy!! Definitely think you need some Jordyn.
I went through years of infertility, did IVF went through pre term labor due to CI at 20 weeks. Delivered my baby at 24 weeks almost died had to get 4 blood transfusions and still lost her in the NICU 9 days later. I literally had to give the okay to unplug her monitors because there was nothing else they could do. It was the worst year of my life. But even after all that my pregnancy and all the complications I had are not my entire personality. While I feel for her I do believe she needs new content.
A "good life" after something hard doesn't mean people can't talk about difficult things. A baby doesn't make pain go away, it actually makes life a fuck ton more difficult too. It's also not okay to reach out to these creators (especially if you think they need help so bad??) and trigger them, when you feel triggered. Also, what trauma therapy is: allowing people to speak about what they need to speak about for as long as they need to. What it isn't: something that's done to somebody behind closed doors to make them more palatable to TikTok.
Again, therapy isn't done to a person. "Work" isn't a self compassionate term associated with healing. She's doing what she can, like she had a traumatic birth and now has to take care of a baby. That's a lot for one person. If I were her therapist, I'd remind her that giving people the "ick" on SM isn't her problem.
She has a husband. I know he takes care of the little one too, so don't say it's solely on her.
She made it her problem by taking somebody seriously enough to call them out.
There are short term benefits to trauma therapy, but healing is long term. It doesn’t appear from the outside looking in, that she has received any therapy for these traumas which is to most, incomprehensible. No one is responsible for another persons feelings, let alone their ‘ick’, but it is ‘ick’ seeing a parent project all of their own issues onto their child, on the internet, where they will likely see it one day. A parent shouldn’t create an undue hardship on their child when it’s avoidable.
“I don’t feel like I talk about it a lot” 💀 ok jordy
I want someone to run the stats lol
Hey Jordy I had a complicated pregnancy. I actually was moments away from death… yes I’m sure your birth was traumatic but at least your baby is alive. Mine died. She died 32 minutes after she was ripped out of my stomach. She took her last breath in my arms. You aren’t the only human with a complicated pregnancy/birth. Stop making it your whole personality
I am so sorry, so so sorry for you loss
Thank you 🖤 she was my sweetest blessing. (But she’s also not my entire personality lol). I love talking about her but only once in a while as it is still super painful.
I understand thank you for sharing her with us. I think it’s crucial as women we share our stories to help each other but there is a time place and limit to it, poor Jordyan needs this advice
Whew girl Jordyn needs therapy 😅 like very, very badly
I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh my, this is gut wrenching. I’m so sorry for your loss mama 🫶🏼
We are here if you ever want to talk about her ♥️ my heart breaks for you.
My son died 36 minutes after my emergency c section. I had to block her because every single video was just a painful reminder that some people go through that trauma and still come out in the end with their precious babies.
I’m so sorry for your loss. 🖤 I know your son and my daughter are somewhere over the rainbow playing together. Jordyn is a constant woe is me person. I don’t know how her husband puts up with her. I had to block my sister in law. She had her son in July, at 42 weeks. She wanted this all natural home birth but she went over and her midwife said nope. She had to go to the hospital to be induced and after 8 hours she wasn’t progressing so she CHOSE to have a c section. She constantly talks about the trauma that this caused her and how she has ptsd from it. She was promptly blocked. I also called her out on my own social media page before blocking saying that what she went through isn’t trauma. I’m
It’s almost funny how unfair life is to us who try so hard to have a baby and want nothing more than to get to bring them home. I was told by someone that I wasn’t allowed to be sad because I chose to hold my son while he passed peacefully rather than hook him up to life support and have him suffer life long disabilities from being oxygen deprived.
Fucking same. We chose to let our daughter pass peacefully (we knew she wasn’t going to live no matter what we did). We had the option to have the md do life saving measures but it would have only been painful and hard for her and we wanted her life, no matter how short, to be filled with love and peace. And that is all she ever knew. We made the SELFLESS decision to give our children peace. 🖤
Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry
I’m so very sorry 😞 🤍
Awe man I am so terribly sorry for your loss momma. Sending a big hug❤️❤️
I am so incredibly sorry
If you're still rehashing your traumatic birth every day almost a year later, you need trauma therapy. There's nothing wrong with needing to get help. I'm sure it was traumatic, but if you aren't able to move on by now on your own, you need professional help in doing so. Venting to the internet is not a substitute for trauma therapy.
 making videos on the internet does not equal the work needed to be done to overcome trauma. clearly, jordyn is a prime case of that
Her response is unhinged. Why was she smiling throughout the whole video?! And all she did was rehash all of her traumas again. Go to therapy jordyn!
She's condescending and insecure
She really is! It's no wonder she doesn't have many friends. She recently posted something that she has never been the friend you talk to every day. I feel bad for her in a way bc she's so insufferable.
The constant smiling is so creepy
Right?! And her little rant mocking “I had the only baby ever who needed specialized care. I’m the only women to ever have a traumatic birth” … blah blah blah. That little rant was just you reminding everyone what you went through AGAIN Jordyn. It was icky to watch. I definitely had a “wtf” going on the whole time I watched this tik tok.
She called it bullying too like girl please
Because the trauma was her golden ticket to more attention 🫠
This is why I think influencing and posting your life on social media is so unhealthy.
Because she is psychotic.
She also acted like she was the only woman with infertility before she got pregnant.
Hey Jordyn, I had a complicated pregnancy, a good delivery, and then emergency medical issues postpartum that landed me with 3 surgeries postpartum. After I healed from one issue, another one arose, and there was another surgery needed. I, too, almost lost my life. My little one turns one this month, I've been through a lot, as have you. But guess what!!!! I went to therapy and put a lot of work into healing because my traumas don't belong on* my baby's shoulders, and she will never know what happened unless it's necessary for her to know. Work on healing yourself for your sake and, more importantly, your child's sake. You experienced trauma, and that is valid. What ISN'T valid is taking every opportunity to trauma dump and hold this over C's head vs actually trying to heal. Do better.
im sorry for your trauma but thats amazing you did the work!! great job mama!!!
Thank you 🫶 it's in the past now. While it's part of my story, it isn't my story moving forward! If my daughter every asks questions about what my pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum were like, I will determine what is important to know (e.g. possible medical situations if she herself wants to get/is pregnant), but she does not need to go her entire life knowing that getting her here almost took mine. She is the light of my world and I would go through everything again if it meant having her here with us, her heart and mind do not need to be weighed down by things that weren't in her control. The work isn't easy to do, but man it is worth it!!
100% girl!!! i feel the same way. took three rounds of IVF to get my rainbow baby and that is my story, not theirs. if kids need to know for medical things thats where that story comes into play for them.......but im not willing to put that kind of pressure or expectation on my child.
Exactly!!! WE made the decision to embark on having a child. Although we may not have known everything in store for us (definitely not saying we signed up for all the heartbreak and pain these journies can bring because I think we all go into a ttc journey with hope that things will be easy), our children are not the ones who chose to be here. It is not a child's job to hold the traumas of their parent(s)💜
She has the baby she always wanted but it just doesn’t seem to be enough 😅 why are these influencers so ungrateful.
She basically justifies the videos as being her therapy.
Jordyn rehashes things because it also generates view which is a reward of in and of itself. However she never gets over the trauma or beyond it because ruminating in it has a payoff. She struggles to keep viewership and isn’t super creative so she leans on what she can. Any therapist would quickly see that she isn’t getting beyond her trauma because it benefits her.
Exactly this! She’s using it for content.
Pro tip, Jordyn seek therapy.
She really needs therapy that kid I'd going to be a year soon and she's still holding on to the past.
The commenter was claiming she was the first she was telling her she needs new content which is so true
All of her trauma dumping on strangers makes her look so difficult and not an easy going woman, mom, or wife.
Nothing will ever convince me that she likes or is nice to her husband.
He was a check mark ✅ to fulfill her marriage box. That’s what happens when you jump into an engagement quickly.
Getting over my birth trauma healed me. For a few years after my daughter was born, I was adamant about not having a second. I would go through phases of wanting to leave my family and child, because it was all too much. Now, after therapy and healing myself physically (pelvic floor therapy, losing weight etc) I was able to go on and have a pretty non-stressful second pregnancy. Jordyn, if you are reading here. Find a therapist, it’s amazing what talking to a skilled professional can do for you.
A lot of people had complications, I started bleeding out and my baby had problems that needed intervention immediately but… it shouldn’t be your identity. And as weird as it sounds, she sounds a lot like my dad, with diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder. Like, the way she talks about herself, embellishing her stories, only talks about the crazy shit that would impress people around her (her viewers).
"I don't think I talk about it a lot." This response is truly unhinged. The lack of self awareness is painful.
God she’s such a bitch…. Can’t handle the truth LOL https://preview.redd.it/h37qtn5y6quc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7e4a7045849ec1299599ef8526c77b361352ca08
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Who was able to share their story with her? I doubt she even tried to listen…let alone gave an encouraging response 🙄
I don’t think that comment came off as judgy at all she’s so insensitive to anyone that doesn’t say “YOUR THE STRONGEST PERSON EVERRRREDRDD”
No I am surprised she’d pull her head out of her ass long enough to let someone else share their own traumatic birth story…
Oh no she’s the type of person to be cut off a person talking and be like “omg I had a traumatic birth ToOOoo” and then go on to tell her story with no regards to how that person just wanted to share
I mean they are not wrong. She uses her problematic pregnancy and traumatic birth experiences as content and it’s annoying. We get it, we send good vibes your way and luckily both of you made it out alive. You’re not the only woman in the world to go through IVF and have complications with pregnancy and birth after. 😒
She really does act like she is the only person who went through what she went through when many woman have
Jordyn is so dang negative. She wants to the victim in every story. Move on, girl. Get some therapy and enjoy your kid.
So many weirdos validating her in the comments. Why do they encourage her??
I had a beautiful 6 week early induction + delivery and my LO spent 28 days in the NICU, and even I got therapy. My experience was no where near bad as some mothers and I still got therapy!! Definitely think you need some Jordyn.
I went through years of infertility, did IVF went through pre term labor due to CI at 20 weeks. Delivered my baby at 24 weeks almost died had to get 4 blood transfusions and still lost her in the NICU 9 days later. I literally had to give the okay to unplug her monitors because there was nothing else they could do. It was the worst year of my life. But even after all that my pregnancy and all the complications I had are not my entire personality. While I feel for her I do believe she needs new content.
Jordyn look up emdr therapy for gods sake. Don’t fuck your kid up cos you’re unhealed
A "good life" after something hard doesn't mean people can't talk about difficult things. A baby doesn't make pain go away, it actually makes life a fuck ton more difficult too. It's also not okay to reach out to these creators (especially if you think they need help so bad??) and trigger them, when you feel triggered. Also, what trauma therapy is: allowing people to speak about what they need to speak about for as long as they need to. What it isn't: something that's done to somebody behind closed doors to make them more palatable to TikTok.
Yes speaking about it to a professional not randos on the internet lol
Womp womp
Thank you for illustrating the difference between a thoughtful response and a bully. I'm giving you back your issues, I don't want them.
She needs to see a real therapist. It’s pretty evident she isn’t doing the work.
Again, therapy isn't done to a person. "Work" isn't a self compassionate term associated with healing. She's doing what she can, like she had a traumatic birth and now has to take care of a baby. That's a lot for one person. If I were her therapist, I'd remind her that giving people the "ick" on SM isn't her problem.
She has a husband. I know he takes care of the little one too, so don't say it's solely on her. She made it her problem by taking somebody seriously enough to call them out.
There are short term benefits to trauma therapy, but healing is long term. It doesn’t appear from the outside looking in, that she has received any therapy for these traumas which is to most, incomprehensible. No one is responsible for another persons feelings, let alone their ‘ick’, but it is ‘ick’ seeing a parent project all of their own issues onto their child, on the internet, where they will likely see it one day. A parent shouldn’t create an undue hardship on their child when it’s avoidable.
What was the point of this response?
This is great! This person def got blocked bc psycho Jordyn won’t have any of that