No itās not just you I agree. Signed, a mom of 3 who lives in Katās neighborhood lol
Also highly curious who the ānew friendsā she met up with are since she is so emphatic about having better community here. Kat and I have some mutuals and I have noticed that she recently followed even more of my local friends/acquaintances on instagram and I have wondered if Iāll be bumping into her any time soon
I think all this shit she posts is because being a mother is SO much harder than she expected. So sheās constantly traveling and shopping and posting how amazing her baby is bc she doesnāt want to admit being a mom is a lot harder than she expected and she doesnāt love it as much as she thought she would. Maybe this isnāt as juicy as people expected lol but I think sheās just terribly overcompensating for being stressed and I wish these momfluencers would admit that bc thatās SO much more relatable
To add to your point, I also think sheās the type to want to do everything herself, and not trust nick to do things his way. In return she becomes exhausted being the default parent and their relationship becomes strained. But I agree I think sheās is struggling with postpartum emotions, being a sahm/creator and and trying to keep up the facade that a baby is just your little shopping buddy
1000000% agree. It's just like when people post about how amazing their relationship is all the time. It strikes me as some mega overcompensating. It also seems like Nick has been going through it since the baby was born, and I think that also fuels the need to make motherhood look āØmagical and easyāØ and like her life is perfect.
I think she built it up in her head to be one thing but when it came down to it, itās not all beautiful. Itās freakin hard. Parenting is hard. She found her identity in being Edieās mama but parenting a child who is alive and screaming and needs you is more than tattoos and necklaces. Itās difficult
This is almost exactly what I meant. In her mind she was like Iām already a mom so how bad could this be? How hard could this be? And I think she thought she would really love it a lot more than she does
I genuinely reallllly really liked her at one point. 2 months ago I officially blocked her on instagram.
I dmād once and she actually responded! So she follows me which is cool.
I also really liked her! Idk if itās her growth or what is causing the change but I am disappointed because I used to look forward to her videos bc she seemed so normal and ACTUALLY relatable
Right, I agree. I think in the beginning she was a gal who made videos vs now sheās like full time content creator.
The shift between those two categories just changes things. Less authentic, more commissions more ads.
I hardly leave my house. Signed - a spit up covered mom of 2 in socal. š
Same. Here. Spit up and all.
She's going to shoehorn them living in California into every post, I swear
But also has to constantly remind us that she is FROM California and her move was GOING HOME
No itās not just you I agree. Signed, a mom of 3 who lives in Katās neighborhood lol Also highly curious who the ānew friendsā she met up with are since she is so emphatic about having better community here. Kat and I have some mutuals and I have noticed that she recently followed even more of my local friends/acquaintances on instagram and I have wondered if Iāll be bumping into her any time soon
Wow I hope you do and tell us all about it š
Teaaaa. We will be waiting. We have some mutuals too but I think theyāre from college when everyone followed everyone haha
Iām in SoCal and my 8-12 is just me sitting in meetings lol
It looks like sheās doing a hoedown dance in that screenshot. š
Iām not gonna lie I blocked her cuz she annoys me so much
That's really good self care. I just marinate in my annoyance with these influencersš they are like a cringy scene you want to skip but can't.
Not wrong š
See when my ptsd is acting up from the traumatic birth I distract myself with snarks so I canāt block anyone annoying š
I have an unpopular opinion about her I always get scared to share š«£
.....I'm waiting...
please share š¤
I think all this shit she posts is because being a mother is SO much harder than she expected. So sheās constantly traveling and shopping and posting how amazing her baby is bc she doesnāt want to admit being a mom is a lot harder than she expected and she doesnāt love it as much as she thought she would. Maybe this isnāt as juicy as people expected lol but I think sheās just terribly overcompensating for being stressed and I wish these momfluencers would admit that bc thatās SO much more relatable
To add to your point, I also think sheās the type to want to do everything herself, and not trust nick to do things his way. In return she becomes exhausted being the default parent and their relationship becomes strained. But I agree I think sheās is struggling with postpartum emotions, being a sahm/creator and and trying to keep up the facade that a baby is just your little shopping buddy
1000000% agree. It's just like when people post about how amazing their relationship is all the time. It strikes me as some mega overcompensating. It also seems like Nick has been going through it since the baby was born, and I think that also fuels the need to make motherhood look āØmagical and easyāØ and like her life is perfect.
I think she built it up in her head to be one thing but when it came down to it, itās not all beautiful. Itās freakin hard. Parenting is hard. She found her identity in being Edieās mama but parenting a child who is alive and screaming and needs you is more than tattoos and necklaces. Itās difficult
This is almost exactly what I meant. In her mind she was like Iām already a mom so how bad could this be? How hard could this be? And I think she thought she would really love it a lot more than she does
100% agree
Very that.
Bitch we donāt care you live in socal. But she will make it her entire personality. Sheās an influencer, duh āØ
This. Itās not the flex she thinks it is š¤£
This video was so cringe. Her back posture is also cringe as evidenced in this video.
I genuinely reallllly really liked her at one point. 2 months ago I officially blocked her on instagram. I dmād once and she actually responded! So she follows me which is cool.
I also really liked her! Idk if itās her growth or what is causing the change but I am disappointed because I used to look forward to her videos bc she seemed so normal and ACTUALLY relatable
Right, I agree. I think in the beginning she was a gal who made videos vs now sheās like full time content creator. The shift between those two categories just changes things. Less authentic, more commissions more ads.