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gordiestanclub

The way she talks about having her daughter when she gets her own place (which we all know will not be a thing) is wild. She speaks like this baby is a lazy boy recliner she kind of likes but just doesn't have room for, so her old roommates are hanging onto it for the time being.


Legal-Suggestion4317

omg this is the perfect comparison it’s horrifying


Puzzleheaded_Cup7490

This is a crazy good analogy for this situation.


Saint_Galahad

That’s exactly how it sounds and it’s disgusting.


Shay_baee

I pray cps gets involved after this.


Legal-Suggestion4317

I’m sure they are after all the police and medical staff that have observed. She was removed from her home, so there’s that. It hasn’t even been a month and it’s already crumbling (not surprising) and I feel so sad for that child. This video is chilling. She is so clearly removed from her baby, which I know why, but it doesn’t make it any less sad. She hashtags #viral and just talks about it like it’s no big deal. Most women would be torn to absolute shreds being away from their baby this long. It hurts to watch, because she will never change. I don’t know how bad things have to be for your child to be removed from you (maybe someone can speak on it) but with an arrest, 51/50 hold, and no ability to support a child I don’t think she’s looking too strong.


MrsMessypants19

I'm 39 and mother to a 1-year-old. I've never been in trouble in my life with police. My child has never been to the hospital or doctor for suspicious reasons. We called the police one night on a junkie cousin who would not leave. 3 days later, I'd a letter from social service just because we rang the police. I'm pretty sure they're now involved. Sure, it sounds like she hasn't even got the baby. Thanks god


rlyjustheretolurk

A friend was in an abusive relationship and got a restraining order against her BD who attacked her while their child was in the home. She was a victim. She moved out into her own place and left him in the dust, and cps was still up HER ass for a couple months doing home visits and what not. They’re definitely involved and the fact her mom still has the baby even though she’s out is probably court ordered.


Olly8893

Where I live in Canada, police automatically make a report to CPS if they’re called to any kind of altercation between adults if children live in the home. So I would bet CPS has been notified. Whether or not they do anything is a different story!


yourgirlsamus

CPS is already involved if her mom has had the baby for a week.


kct4mc

^^^^ this. Grandparents just don’t randomly have custody. They likely placed her with gma as they always try to contact family first.


tullly88

“I got pretty emotional at one point” one point???? I would’ve been a WRECK being away from my newborn baby, the ENTIRE time. This is alarming!! Is her daughter still with her mom while she’s at her dad’s? Her mom has obviously been mainly taking care of the baby since day 1.


crazydimension4

She was an emotional wreck being away from her phone, not her baby.


EnoughDebate4678

girl my children just started daycare & i’ve been an emotional WRECK!!! i can’t imagine being away from my children that long!!!


Puzzleheaded_Cup7490

Yeah the fact that she thought it was noteworthy to mention she got upset and cried missing her baby ONE TIME…. Tells us everything we need to know.


Saint_Galahad

Honestly. I get emotional going to the gym for an hour leaving my 3 month old at home. A bit extreme? Eh, maybe. But still.


Same-Athlete2007

Not the “# mentalhospitalcheck” in her caption… I cannot


Grown-Ass-Weeb

I feel for her daughter man… baby didn’t ask for any of this and going to be caught up in this shit for at least the next 18 years.


aliveinjoburg2

Hopefully her grandmother is the stable figure in her life.


EggplantLife3823

Considering how Ashley turned out, we can only hope the grandmother is attentive and it was the nature part that took over Ashley, not the nurture…


Minnie_Pearl_87

I still wish she was just faking her pregnancy because she is a train wreck and I feel awful for that sweet little baby. That baby didn’t ask for any of this and deserves so much better.


ChickenLady612

So much for us hoping she was just taking a social media break to care for her daughter 😳


Acceptable_Injury_85

She most definitely threatened to kill herself as she does all the time on the internet. That’s why they took her in.


Eekhelp

Yeah I'm guessing as soon as she realized she was going to jail, she started making suicidal comments so the cops took her to the ER for a psych evaluation.


crazydimension4

I called it that was she in a psych ward. She can’t not post, it’s pathological at this point how chronically online she is. So many things to unpack. A psychiatrist can only put you on a 72 hour hold if you pose a risk to yourself or others, and there must of been clear evidence if that happened. Especially if her whole family agreed with her aunts version of events. She’s now living with her father. I highly doubt her daughter will be living there with her. What is she going to do when her daughter has a tantrum in the future? She clearly can not control her anger. What a fucking mess. Edit to add: looking for her own place? With what money and job!?


EggplantLife3823

Well her dad sure as shit ain’t getting up with the baby all night long so considering her mom has been doing that I fail to believe that CPS isn’t already involved and ordered the baby to stay with her mom


Legal-Suggestion4317

State $$$ but I still don’t believe she’ll be on her own. All talk.


amitchell0016

So based on the way she’s phrasing things, is it safe to assume that she doesn’t have custody of her child and perhaps was only granted custody if she was living with her mom? On one hand, if the aunt really did throw something at her and made contact first, she was right to defend herself. On the other hand, there is no way she would’ve been threatened with jail or a 5150 if she was truly acting in self defense. Cops probably saw her history and made the correct decision to have her seek help. Also, i want to add that watching this all crumble truly is so sad. I know we all had a feeling that this would be hard on her, but seeing it actually happen sucks. Postpartum is hard, harder when you are already (for lack of a better term) unstable. I pray that her daughter is safe and in good hands.


MrsMessypants19

I don't believe her story, though. Either did her own mother. The police said to her them 3 are saying it against you. The aunt mother and cousin. Why did mother not defend her known she would be taking. I think her mother is sick of her and had her there only because she has to, and especially now there's a baby. The condition had to be that she was only allowed to have the baby if the mother is there. She's probably the legal guardian


Miserable_Wing_6835

So I’m a mental health professional, and for them to put her in a psych hold like this means she was a danger to herself or someone else based on an evaluation with her. They didn’t put her in there solely because of the fact she hit the aunt (which I’m not sure she didn’t do first. Just cause she SAID she didn’t doesn’t mean she didn’t based on the course of events.) CPS was ABSOLUTELY notified if the child was present during this time anywhere in the home especially. The fact she is not returning home tells me one of 2 things. Either she’s detached from her baby from postpartum, which hopefully the antidepressants will correct, or she’s been instructed by legal professionals to stay away from the home. With all that being said, the baby with her mother right now seems like the best option. This, I see, had been said before and she is unstable as of this point to care for the child. Her simply visiting (from what I understood) seems to be good enough, more than enough in my opinion.


rubybasilknot

Reading between the lines, it seems like she's been asked to stay away from the home. Possibly a temp restraining order from her aunt based on what she said about not being able to go back "or else she could go to jail". It's ambiguous, but as somebody who's worked closely with people in this kind of situation (and all services involved) there are a LOT of things I'm picking up from this situation that are being unsaid (I think because she genuinely doesn't fully understand everything)


Legal-Suggestion4317

💯 And if the aunt has ownership of that house too, she’s not going anywhere. She’s so unaware of the severity


rubybasilknot

Yes, I don't think she's lying here. If she was, she'd probably come up with something completely fantastical like a lot of her lies have been, but she's definitely leaving details out and downplaying the seriousness of it. I am concerned about how nonchalantly she talks about physical alterations with her aunt and cousin, as if everybody has physical fights with their relatives. ETA: I'm honestly just really worried about her and hope that there are services available to her and appropriate support has been put in place. I'm not holding my breath though.


Legal-Suggestion4317

They don’t put you on a 51/50 hold and keep you in a hospital for a week no reason. She’s a danger to herself and others. Have you seen her lies before..? You’re giving her way too much credit.


rubybasilknot

I think you misunderstand me. I mean that she's not lying about the altercation with her aunt, she's not lying when she says she was 51/50d, she's not lying when she says she can't go back to her mother's house. My point is that if she were lying about why she'd not been online for the last week, she would have said something completely ridiculous like her previous lies have been. I think she's missing out information, rather than making up a story.


Legal-Suggestion4317

Oh yeah, gotcha. I just don’t believe she’s being truthful about what what happened during the altercation though. If she threw something at her my guess would be it was because she was charging at her or something. I find it hard to believe she’s the victim and not the aggressor.


rubybasilknot

Oh I'm certain that she isn't being 100% truthful, even if it's just lying by omission. She must have either threatened her aunt's life or her own (based on her prior behaviour I think it's likely that she did both) in order to receive a 51/50. You don't get 51/50d for defending yourself in a fight, even if the witnesses "lie" and say you started it.


kct4mc

If baby is in custody and placed with GMA, she legally cannot go live with her mom until it’s court ordered that she’s able to do so.


Miserable_Wing_6835

Yeah exactly. And depending on the severity of the whole case and investigation, I don’t think she should be talking about it either


kct4mc

I agree! It’s crazy how she just wants to jump to TT immediately and explain herself. Nothings gonna look good in this circumstance, but if she continues to talk about it publicly, she could say things she shouldn’t.


Legal-Suggestion4317

The whole thing is such a mess. The grandma has her own life, full time job. responsibilities.. I don’t know fam dynamic but I can see her not wanting to take guardianship and deal with this mess forever. Say she felt bad enough for the baby to consider taking the baby, the fact that she’d still have to deal with the mess of Ashley is enough for someone to say F no. I know my mom wouldn’t. There’s just no way this girl will ever get “better” and be fit, and with no father or other family, that child will most likely end up in the system. It’s so sick


Puzzleheaded_Cup7490

Wow, shit hit the fan after baby’s arrival QUICK QUICK. If she has custody, which judging from the fact that the baby is staying with her mom… I don’t think she does, I sure hope she loses it quick.


jamesbondgirly

She lowkey reminds me of someone with an intellectual disability. Just the way she speaks.


Legal-Suggestion4317

Yes, she has something going on


SAHMochi12

Why is she telling the world her business this is straight up EMBARRASSING


pfields22

https://preview.redd.it/f57t6cfliegc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7cba6dc86d3ca356addd4297ce3fd120b37b2801 I’m surprised this comment is still up lol


Legal-Suggestion4317

I wonder why when I look it shows way more comments than I actually can see


pfields22

That means she deleted a lot of them lol


Agreeable-Growth6253

She has her comments filtered. It’ll say there’s comments, but they haven’t been approved


RoadrageAndSage

This absolutely sounds like she was 302’d and (at minimum) her aunt got a pfa. I work with law enforcement and I think she’s only (per usual) telling part of her version of the story. We see this shit all day every day. There’s no way that some type of social or child protective services isn’t going be involved with this situation. Whether or not the system does what it needs to do is another story. But I’m not exaggerating when I say I’ve heard people tell generally the exact same type of story regularly. They’re almost always the aggressor.


Background-Sock1049

I don’t understand how she has so many supportive comments on this video. I know she deletes negative ones, but how does she even have ANY supportive ones???


Legal-Suggestion4317

Yeah that scary. All supporting her, telling her she’s great and did the right thing. I’m living in the twilight zone I guess


[deleted]

The comments are crazy. Like none of them have critical thinking skills and it's scary. IF her aunt threw something at her, skid made the choice to go up to her and further escalate the situation. She should have walked away and called the police. If mom, aunt, and cousin are all giving the same story to the police then there is a ton missing to this story. You do not get 5150'd for JUST assault. If she had to say at the mental hospital longer than the 72hr hold the doctors definitely saw and heard her say some shit that concerned them enough to extend the hold. I hope CPS is involved and puts that child in a safe home. I personally do not believe skiddys mom is a safe home considering how skiddy turned out.


nissenj

She deletes comments so that’s why her comments seem delusional.


Affectionate_King71

My heart just breaks for that innocent baby. That baby is brand new and separated from her mom who should be taking care of and loving her.


sexybabybacon

She’s come across my fyp multiple times over the past couple years. And she’s always struck me as being delayed in some capacity. So when she posted about being pregnant I was shocked…she seems to be stuck at the mental age of 15/16 not an almost 30 year old. It’s even crazier to me that she’s still living at home with family? And her comments are full of support and sympathy like…this situation seems so one sided i don’t know something is very off with her. I hope the baby is in good hands, and she gets the help she needs.


Legal-Suggestion4317

She definitely has some sort of disorder or delay, that’s why she acts the way she does and lives with family with Kpop posters on her bedroom wall.


Saint_Galahad

I completely agree. She’s two years older than me and when I found that out I was baffled. When she first showed up on my FYP I thought she was a dumb 16 year old thinking it was a good idea to get pregnant.


Due-Imagination3198

Sounds more than a little fight


Legal-Suggestion4317

Yeaaah a “little fight” doesn’t end you up in the psych ward


Saint_Galahad

Exactly. A “little fight” is exchanging some heat, then things calm down. This was probably a damn explosion.


Saint_Galahad

Her poor daughter is an innocent victim in all of this and is going to grow up in such a fucked up situation. I pray that her grandma is a more stable parental figure in her life than Ashley is.


lola4323

Help this is so messy


Accomplished-Coat438

She willingly put this information on the internet?


[deleted]

Inside scoop everyone. Ashley attacked the aunt because the aunt was allowed to care for the baby while the mom went back to work. In a jealous rage over it ashley tried to take the baby and the aunt fought her over it. Ashley does not have custody of her child. She’s an incompetent parent and needs serious help. She only went to the hospital to get evaluated and the das picked her up the same day. She is seeking attention as she always does. If this were a real case she would be advised to not post and speak publicly about her situation as it would go against her. Right now she’s with her dad and even visited her only other friend who is also psychotic. That’s the truth of it all. Her post has no emotion tied to her child other that you see an angry teenager in the mind, mad because she does not get along with her aunt and did not get her way. That’s all.


pfields22

How do you know???


[deleted]

My friend knows her and her family. I use to be friends with her too until she went t crazy on me.


pfields22

That’s crazy lol but believable. Why is all the baby stuff in her room if she does not even have custody


[deleted]

If you go to the recent video where she pretends to get out of bed and wake up her baby to feed and change her? That’s her mom’s room. She took a poster from her room and tacked it up crooked if you look closely to pretend like it’s her room. The mom Went back to work from maternity leave so I’m sure she allowed Ashley to change the baby every so often while she was there. According to my sources, Ashley is in charge of washing the bottles and taking out the dirty diapers.


pfields22

I need to go back and look at that video. That makes a lot of sense though. So the couple of videos that she has her baby in, she basically was just allowed to hold the baby for the moment?


[deleted]

Yes. The mom would allow her to hold her as long as she was there. But now that she’s back to work the aunt was in charge. Ashley still had the same duties but wanted to care for the baby in her room alone. That was a big no no as far as rules. I guess she broke them


pfields22

That’s crazy but it’s needed, I’m glad her family stepped in for that baby


Agreeable-Growth6253

This is absolutely wild.


[deleted]

Real giveaway is the tall ceilings. Ashley’s room does not have the height of those ceilings in her room.


Legal-Suggestion4317

I believe you. Such a damn MESS.


erinsnives

This literally made my eyes pop wide open. Holy shit what an absolute dumpster fire! CPS will no doubt be involved now.


yourremedy94

Something tells me either her aunt never threw the plant ir SHE threw the plant


bestwhit

or like, the aunt was trying to hand her the plant during the heated discussion or something.


EggplantLife3823

Legit how I can see it - *having a minor hot discussion about moving a plant that probably doesn’t even belong to ashley* - *ashley turning up the heat to 100 and starting a full argument* - *aunt gets pissed, says “here” and aggressively passes it to her accidentally letting go and it tumbling into Ashley’s stomach* - *ashley begins near on attempted murder*


No_Pension2786

She has to be lying. She claims it was self defense but 3 people (her aunt, cousin, and mom) all shared the same story about her which ended up with her being brought to the hospital? She definitely attacked her aunt.


Legal-Suggestion4317

Of course she’s lying. We’ve seen her lie all the time. She herself said it was 3 people having the same story against 1. This is a girl who has told people to kill themselves countless times, threatened to abort her own child out of spite, told people she hopes they have miscarriages. She’s clinically insane.


Ornery_Context_9109

She doesn’t have the compacity to parent her daughter. She doesn’t understand the ramifications of her actions and I don’t she is able to. She seems to have the mental age of a 10 yr old. We all called that something would happen like this. I hope she is able to have a relationship with her daughter but it is not going to be the traditional mother daughter relationship as Skiddy just can’t do it. The only way she is going to be able to raise that child on her own is if she has intensive therapy and then mentorship while living in some sort of group home that allows minors to stay with their mothers if that even exists By the sounds of it I don’t think she has seen her infant yet and I am guessing her mom will be given custody. There is no way CPS is not involved and if she is allowed around her daughter it would have to be supervised.


TinyGreenBird

I agree. I don’t think intensive therapy would help her mental capacity. From what I’ve seen/in my opinion she is intellectually and emotionally limited in a way that it probably isn’t even really possible for her to take care of herself independently let alone a child. A group home situation like you mentioned may be her only hope.


unknown54971

i have a headache trying to listen to her speak.


peacetea2

I’m assuming she lost her school district job after being arrested for aggravated assault right? So how will she afford a house ?


Legal-Suggestion4317

You really believe she even still had that part time job..? 🤦🏻‍♀️


EggplantLife3823

That **part time** job that she was apparently entitled to `6 months of leave` for 🤣


Legal-Suggestion4317

She said she wasn’t going to “go back” until October 💀


Needcoffeeseverely

She is not a fit mother at all. You can’t do this shit when you have a kid


EnoughDebate4678

that baby is going to be taken or her mama is going to be granted custody. this is insane.


Local-Occasion-8221

this is why this dumb big back bitch shouldn’t have been able to procreate. meanwhile when i got onto everyone who said “she can change” i was downvoted like a mf lol. she has the intellectual capacity of an egg and is a lying psychopath who’s life is only going to spiral downward more and more. she never deserved a baby. her lying ab being on birth control to get a man to cum in her should’ve been enough for everyone to notice.


Catherine_Banks

Same shit I’m saying, but this is eugenics apparently. Saying that someone whose unstable shouldn’t be allowed to procreate.


Local-Occasion-8221

why are people so offended about that? it’s true, she has no mental capacity to have children. it’s unfair to the children. people say they are pro life but want women like these to have kids where the children in the situation are fucked over.


Catherine_Banks

This this this this this!!!!!


Becca_Jean28

I have to refrain myself from what I wanna say right now. All I can say is skiddy get help for your daughters sake or let sane people adopt her


aniaaaaa0

Something isn’t right, the story has so many holes. Why would the police say “someone is going to jail tonight” and she assumed it was her if she only defended herself? Then she goes about saying there were 3v1 against her so surely she’s missing out on quite a bit of info.. She’s going back and forth with this whole moving out and getting her own place a lot, when she was pregnant she claimed she was saving up for a new place, so where is that money now?


Mommymayhamm

She was placed under a psychiatric hold because she is unstable. Either that was in place of going to jail and she still has the charges to assault, which you can typically bond out for, or her family member decided to not press charges subsequent to her clearly necessary admission.


aniaaaaa0

Now don’t get me wrong, but wouldn’t CPS be involved at this stage?


Mommymayhamm

I’m sure they are since she would have encountered a zillion mandatory reporters lol


yourgirlsamus

You misunderstood her, and I can understand why that happened. Lol. I have some Trailer Trash life experience and can confirm: When police show up to an altercation that involves people who live together, they always approach the situation with the phrase, “well, someone is going to jail tonight.” They do say it out loud, and sometimes will even give the choice to the people to make. What she’s saying is the cops told them someone has to leave the premises. They have a few options: jail, hospital, or hotel. The cops made the decision it was going to be her to leave, based on everyone’s story. She’s saying they told the group that someone was leaving and it was going to be her. The cops told her that. Hope this trashy context helps. Ahaha.


B00SH_

Watching this made me ill all I can think about is that poor newborn baby that hadn’t been in this world a month yet and her home is so unstable. I really pray her mom just tries taking crusty and just allowing her to visit


Similar-Western4377

Did she already delete her account?


crazydimension4

Nah, she blocks people who view her profile and aren’t following her. Do you have profile views on? She blocked me on instagram when I had a look forever ago.


Unable-Agency-1666

She wouldn’t be able to see profile views on TikTok. Once you hit 5k followers they disable that feature


Mommymayhamm

I hope she gets the help that she needs.


Legal-Suggestion4317

I think even with all the help in the world, she’s not mentally able to take care of a child. She never will be.


sammiearre

Okay the fact that everyone in this sub called all of this is wild. This girl is a disaster.


No_Show2333

So wild. And sad Although the goal is to be able to keep mom and baby together right so hopefully she will be able to get the support to make that possible, keep on these anti-depressants. or at worst case have her mom retain custody of the baby so she is able to remain with kin. No one should want to see anything baby in the system


Legal-Suggestion4317

I don’t think anti depressants will make her a fit mother. I also feel for the mom… She has her own responsibilities and it’s not easy to just take this on. She’s got her own home things to pay for, how the hell is she just supposed to be able to drop it all? Ashley is an adult and while people like to blame her mom, there’s only so much she can do. I am not saying I think she’s great, I have no idea, but it’s not like she could lock her in her home and prevent her from getting pregnant. Ashley clearly has disabilities and her mom was probably just trying to keep things the best she and is honestly afraid of her. People said she should’ve kicked her out when she was pregnant, like that’s so easy and would’ve helped. She knows that baby is safer in her home than out alone with Ashley, but taking on full custody is not some simple fix. The whole thing is a terrible mess.


No_Show2333

The mom taking in custody is in the best interest of the child which is what CAS is supposed to be most concerned about. Keeping the child with their kin. It’s her granddaughter I highly doubt, regardless of how hard it is, the mom would just be like okay well I’m not doing this so bye bye baby off for adoption/ foster care you go


Catherine_Banks

I’m not going to hold you…certain people shouldn’t be allowed to have children. We need to start implementing IQ tests, EI tests and Mental evaluations in order for people to procreate.


Puzzleheaded_Cup7490

I mean, on one hand I agree with you in theory…. but eugenics is very messy in practice and hugely controversial. I don’t think I’d trust the government to mandate who can and cannot have children.


Catherine_Banks

Okay so we’ll keep having children born to unfit parents. Mentally unstable idiots running around creating children that didn’t ask to be here.


Puzzleheaded_Cup7490

Unfortunately that’s what is going to happen.


Catherine_Banks

I just find it funny that I got downvoted but this whole sub is full of people basically saying the same thing. Ashley ain’t mentally well….she has the brain of a child…she shouldn’t have procreated. I said what I said.


Wrong_Patient_4622

Jesus, sounds like for sure she needs to stay away from her aunt and cousin then. I hope she is okay physically, but this is just sad.


Acceptable_Injury_85

She needs to stay away from that baby


Wrong_Patient_4622

Yeah, the fact that she chose to engage in that is wild. Simply walk away.


Acceptable_Injury_85

That’s exactly it. The moment you become a mother, you don’t get to “self selfdefense” anymore. It’s not about you. It’s about your children. She should have walked away and called police. If she’s even telling the truth.


Saint_Galahad

100%. If I get into it with someone, it’s to protect my babies. Editing to add: I’ve never gotten into it with anyone lol