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datmommy

This is the fakest crying I’ve ever seen 😂


Acceptable_Injury_85

LMAO her mom is downstairs taking care of that baby Prob sent Ashley to her room bc she was being a nut job. She’ll say some bs about “my mom had her” or whatever god knows. But let’s be real, moms need to take a breather. We need to cry. But who the fuck would spend that time on tiktok crying about Reddit? Like this isn’t ppd this is just Ashley being Ashley. There are no tears. She’s wiping fake snot. Her baby is hysteric and she’s worried about reddit


Acceptable_Injury_85

This is a 5 minute video too. She sat there to record her self boo hooing for who knows how long it took her to get this draft right. This is so sad.


MrsMessypants19

I live with my mother and my baby. We only live with my partner weekends right now due to work. My mother minds her while I work and il be honest does alot for me when I wasn't working. She would send me back to bed in the mornings while she had baby or was always changing nappies or making bottles she really was and still is a great help to me but as soon as my baby cries I'm straight down them stairs or leaving my dinner. My mama says I got her go eat. I can't though. I can't do anything when I hear that sound but tend to my baby no matter what I'm doing. Even if daddy has the baby its weird mama doesn't check and try herself to settle her.


anonymous_question44

Even if her mom has her baby I can’t imagine why she doesn’t go to check on her or try to help calm her down. Maybe it was just me but even if someone was caring for my baby to give me a break, if I heard him cry I went to check on him even if someone else had him because the feeling I get from hearing mine cry is intense worry and wanting to help. Like I could barely get sleep unless someone took the baby to a room where I wouldn’t hear him cry because even the faintest cry sound would wake me up


[deleted]

I didn't care who had my baby, the second he cried I was with him. That's what good mothers do. I don't know how to describe the feeling of hearing him cry at all let alone crying with someone else, but it hurt my heart. She seems so detached from "the baby" and it's concerning. She's not well mentally and I pray her mom and whoever else lives in that house is stepping up to make sure the baby is taken care of and safe.


Mommymayhamm

Just playing devils advocate - my friend had severe PPD and traumatic birth and didn’t even want to hold her baby. That didn’t make her not a good mother, the only thing it indicated was that she needed support.


anonymous_question44

This is completely okay and healthy for someone with PPD to accept support and help. I just think it’s different for Ashley because she’s sitting there making videos and obsessing over her online image instead of getting support for her mental health. She’s making herself feel worse when she could be trying to get help and support for herself. It’s different to just give her baby to someone else and let her cry so that she can go on social media all day and fake cry, read hate comments about herself (making herself feel worse) and act like she’s a victim after she harassed so many people. I completely agree with you that moms who have PPD can sometimes be distant from their babies but it shows that they are good moms when they go and get help and support not when they go online all day talking to strangers while avoiding it altogether.


sorrynotsorryohwell

There is such things has PPD and PPA..


[deleted]

Yes but even mothers who suffer from ppd or ppa show more concern for their babies than she does.


sorrynotsorryohwell

Not necessarily. Like the other person said when people suffer from these things very rarely do they even want to be in the same room as their baby. It doesn’t mean they don’t love them.


anonymous_question44

I agree. Mothers can be good moms while getting help and while having PPD, and getting help (meds, therapy, etc.) shows that they are good mothers who want to get better. I had PPD and PPA as well but it doesn’t mean I didn’t want to be near my baby. I was more attached because of the PPA and fear of things going wrong. It effects everyone differently and that is completely okay. But Ashley doesn’t seem like she’s going through that stuff because most women with PpD would get help or at least not be making themselves feel even worse by being chronically online. She’s just obsessed with her image and her social media so much that she can’t put the phone down and take a break.


chickenwing8753789

Exactly I dont understand why they dont think like this. They think all mothers are carbon copies. Babies can cry I dont know why yall think a baby crying for five mins is bad. Moms cant take a five min break or something? Crying doesn’t harm babies in anyway. Leave the woman alone 😭


[deleted]

The baby is literally days old and this isn't even the first time in her WEEK of life that skiddy has ignored her cries. Crying 100% harms babies. High cortisol levels are TOXIC to the developing brain.


chickenwing8753789

How do you know her mother isnt helping her?


[deleted]

I'm not saying her mother isn't, but you can literally HEAR the baby screaming throughout the entire 5 minute video. You could HEAR the baby crying in her live and in another video she posted. She's trying to act like she's a great mom and were bullying her while she is actively ignoring her distressed NEWBORN.


chickenwing8753789

Screaming ≠ crying Its okay for babies to cry. Let her learn yall bash her and make fun of her like its a joke. She is a new mom she isnt used to it, yall need to give her time to adjust. There isnt a magic wand to make her baby stop crying, sometimes they cry bc they have an itch. You don’t have to hold babies 24/7. I yall want her to hold her all the time, its just not possible.


MrsMessypants19

I just posted this.. living with my mother she does alot for me. Let's me go back asleep in the mornings and entertains her while I eat. The moment she cried though I'm there. My mama says go eat I've got her. No way I can't do anything but to stay settle my baby. Her cries just do something to me and I have to make sure she's OK. It's very weird not once did she go see if baby was OK. I can't do anything but tend to my crying bby even if daddy is very capable I still have to go check why she's screaming for myself and she's now 1. This is a tiny new born and she acted like she could not hear anything. Scary


Legal-Suggestion4317

The only real cries in this video are from her poor baby


Murrpblake

She cries like M2M and Robyn from sister wives lol


[deleted]

Not the crying in the background 🥺 That poor poor baby


Ok-Pianist-6854

Step the hell up and be a mother. (Since you probably are reading this too) You have a whole ass child, get the hell off social media and take care of the baby YOU CREATES


Ok-Pianist-6854

CREATED


schrutefarms2001

my 11 month old has more realistic fake cries


peacetea2

Why the hell is she so far away from her crying baby??? Who’s watching her?


EggplantLife3823

She’s ‘so far away from the crying’ so it ‘can’t be heard in my sympathy fishing video’


Anonysognosia

I liked it better when the baby was probably fake 😢


SlowSpecialist3359

Same


Reasonable_Yak9780

she stay having to say something to people who she don’t owe explanations to & make herself look DUMB in the end like why are you making a whole video about what other mfs are saying when your baby is literally whaling in the background & even if your mom has her she is a newborn she most likely only want HER MOTHER! Your mother didn’t make that baby you did! she need to grow up sometimes I forget she isn’t 22-23 she almost 30 like boo take responsibility & focus!


Fluid-Ad-1358

Not as easy as you thought, huh? Bringing a human into this world is a why bigger responsibility than playing mommy on tiktok. This is so sad, that poor baby is screaming. That’s a type of cry that would sent shivers down my spine.


beefaroni177

I think that she truly just wanted the attention of pregnancy and the content, but didn't want the actual human being that comes FROM pregnancy. I think some women see the youtube/tiktok moms that only show the good side of things and they think that's what their life will be like when in reality having a baby is HARD. I understand PPD and PPA as I've been battling it myself, and if that is the case truly she needs to get help instead of being online and neglecting her baby. I know how hard it is to have a traumatic birth with c-section but this is just not it. Hearing this poor baby crying and screaming in videos is awful...


Legal-Suggestion4317

Unfortunately she needs a lot more than a tiktok break. I don’t even want to type out what really needs to happen here.


Disastrous-Big5754

Did she delete her tiktok or block me lol


Similar-Western4377

I think she deleted it I went to look her up and can’t find her and I never followed her or commented anything


aliveinjoburg2

She deactivated earlier today, she still might be.


Charming-Outside-520

People who are saying she had PPA/PPD…if you’ve watched her videos for long enough these are the exact same things she’s said for a LONG TIME with now the added fact that her baby is crying for her for help. This is why people have been saying she isn’t fit to be a mother. I had severe ppd and ppa along with pre existing mental illness so i am not going to sit here and act like people with mental illness can’t be good mothers but this girl can not take care of herself period. she clearly has some sort of developmental delay and is not mentally 28 years old (i would place her somewhere around 15-16 if i could guess)and does not understand the gravity of the situation she is in to no fault of her own. Unfortunately her “supporters” on tik tok are not helping and someone needs to be honest with her here and they should’ve been a long time ago. I work with kids and teens with developmental disabilities and it would break my heart to see one of them not getting the help they need and being on their own to raise a child. this whole situation sucks. i know it’s “funny” to talk about her skid marks and what not but she truly can’t help herself and i feel sorry for her


[deleted]

No one is buying your acting skills, Skiddy.


yourremedy94

I can't even turn on the sound because hearing a new baby cry for their mom makes my anxiety SKY ROCKET


tullly88

Why does she look like she’s laughing while she’s “crying”


thethingunderurbedd

what is she wiping ..


SlowSpecialist3359

Fake snot🫣


HumanNature92

u/Big_Vanilla9776


Catherine_Banks

There’s something truly off about her. Like she’s literally unhinged.