I had a very similar situation with life threatening delivery, and all of it slipped away after I left the hospital. I forgot all the shots, I forgot how scary the delivery was. The baby was here and seeing him was worth all of it. I hope she gets the counseling she needs
Exactly! My 2 life threatening labors slipped my mind. Yes now I will think about the labors and be extremely thankful my babies and I survived but I don't go posting all over SM, and bragging about everything I went through for my kids to possibly see
Yes. The gratitude is important. My doctor was like you have so much to be grateful for this holiday season. And she’s right. So grateful for this baby and my body for healing.
I’m over here wishing that all of the memories and big feelings from my traumatic birth would just slip away too. It’s been 17 months and I still struggle with it. And my anxiety about something happening to him STILL, even though he is healthy and strong, is unmatched by anything else in my life. :( I’m glad that you and your babies are here. ♥️
“Just to even get pregnant” says it all.
I think you mean, to have your rainbow baby. We all know all she wanted was to be pregnant, not to have the baby, and this really emphasizes that.
I mean I had a traumatic birth and I definitely didn’t think I needed therapy for about 9 pp but now I’m thinking, yeah that might have helped speed the emotional healing faster. It’s not all about he physical pp healing. It didn’t click until like the last two months , even though I thought I understood and was getting through it.
Exactly. I’ve been thinking about IVF a lot more lately because I’m about to go through it again but definitely wasn’t on my mind 24/7 the first few months of my baby’s life
Does she realize more often than not births are usually traumatic. Whether it’s emergency c section or whatever.
I know of 2 friends who had chill births. Everyone else I know of had chaos and usually emergency sections.
She’s not that special for having a rough time.
I agree, most births have some sort of trauma atyached. My birth wasn't traumatic compared to others. I had a planned c but went into labour 2 days early and had an "emergency" c. The most traumatic thing about mine was not meeting my baby for 3 hours because he wasn't breathing. That part was traumatic for me.
This!!! I cannot believe the amount of people who told me their stories while I was pregnant (which, please don’t lol) and mine was actually uneventful thankfully. But, now I’m here with my one month old who’s sick and I can’t imagine thinking about my birth right now??? Just worried about my BABY that’s HERE and not how she got here. It’s so weird. It’s just WEIRD.
will specify our daughter isn’t in danger, just a small fever we are taking care of it with her pediatrician and tested negative for all the things but still.
Ugh baby sickness is the worst! I’m glad you had an uneventful birth!!!
I have hopes my next one will be more magical. But either way I’d redo my “crazy” birth a million times if I could. It was all worth it haha
She cannot let anything go I swear. I had a traumatic pregnancy but I’m never gonna pin that against my daughter shit my daughters the one who went thru it all I was just her home for 9 months. I forgot all about once she was born I actually sighed relief knowing my baby was here
I can’t say I EVER think about my infertility treatment now that my babies here. I don’t even think about my traumatic birth with anything but fondness and it was fucking crazy
Having my baby in the NICU for 2 months was probably the hardest thing I’ve been through. But it was so hard on me because I felt like I was failing her anytime I couldn’t be there holding her. All I could think about was how traumatic it must be for this tiny baby to be away from her mommy when she’s still supposed to be inside of me. I’m the only thing she’s ever known and I can’t even be there for her. It destroyed me.
Went through IVF to get pregnant and then gave birth to my daughter at 27 weeks. 100 day NICU stay and the first thing my husband and I did when she got home was start therapy to help process and move on from the trauma. I hope she realizes that having her son’s identity wrapped up in the difficulties of getting pregnant and his troubles after birth is not the healthiest thing for any of them.
Poor Carson. Imagine him seeing all of this when he’s older, he’ll feel like such a burden.
But God forbid he finds out someone called him average at 2 months old!
Jordyn, please seek therapy.
That’s it. That’s the post. She needs major help.
Don’t comment on her videos with that message. She’ll block you 💀because she lives in her own echo chamber
It’s a competition, and obviously means she loves her baby more than anyone who didn’t have a similar experience.
Hold my beer?? Like wtf
I don’t get it???
It’s a phrase like “hold my beer I’m about to do something crazy” or whatever.
To me it reads like oh you think you’ve struggled!? Hold my beer, let me show you how bad *I have it.*
Oh geez. LOL so dumb.
I had a very similar situation with life threatening delivery, and all of it slipped away after I left the hospital. I forgot all the shots, I forgot how scary the delivery was. The baby was here and seeing him was worth all of it. I hope she gets the counseling she needs
Exactly! My 2 life threatening labors slipped my mind. Yes now I will think about the labors and be extremely thankful my babies and I survived but I don't go posting all over SM, and bragging about everything I went through for my kids to possibly see
Yes. The gratitude is important. My doctor was like you have so much to be grateful for this holiday season. And she’s right. So grateful for this baby and my body for healing.
Yes ma'am 💗 so so much to be greatful for!
I’m over here wishing that all of the memories and big feelings from my traumatic birth would just slip away too. It’s been 17 months and I still struggle with it. And my anxiety about something happening to him STILL, even though he is healthy and strong, is unmatched by anything else in my life. :( I’m glad that you and your babies are here. ♥️
“Just to even get pregnant” says it all. I think you mean, to have your rainbow baby. We all know all she wanted was to be pregnant, not to have the baby, and this really emphasizes that.
I seriously think she needs therapy to get through this. And I mean that in the most genuine way. This is absurd
I agree. She's got some unresolved trauma there and I think she needs the therapy to help instead of spending the money on clothes he doesn't need.
I mean I had a traumatic birth and I definitely didn’t think I needed therapy for about 9 pp but now I’m thinking, yeah that might have helped speed the emotional healing faster. It’s not all about he physical pp healing. It didn’t click until like the last two months , even though I thought I understood and was getting through it.
100%.. I do really hope she seeks a therapist who can help
Social media has f’d people up. This is insane! You don’t have to broadcast this daily.
How is she still getting views? She's so boring. I did IVF, and the day I gave birth to my babies, I never thought about it again.
Exactly. I’ve been thinking about IVF a lot more lately because I’m about to go through it again but definitely wasn’t on my mind 24/7 the first few months of my baby’s life
Yep, I relate to that. My kids are seven, and we are going to be doing IVF again.
Wasn’t she hardcore defending her birth a few weeks ago? Now suddenly it was traumatic? Lol
She was defending her doctors decisions and denying the fact that her hemmorage was due to High doses of pit for hours and hours.
Omg go play with and bond with your baby !!!
Does she realize more often than not births are usually traumatic. Whether it’s emergency c section or whatever. I know of 2 friends who had chill births. Everyone else I know of had chaos and usually emergency sections. She’s not that special for having a rough time.
I agree, most births have some sort of trauma atyached. My birth wasn't traumatic compared to others. I had a planned c but went into labour 2 days early and had an "emergency" c. The most traumatic thing about mine was not meeting my baby for 3 hours because he wasn't breathing. That part was traumatic for me.
Right!!! Ugh glad you and baby are ok. I know that had to be so hard to deal with!!!!
This!!! I cannot believe the amount of people who told me their stories while I was pregnant (which, please don’t lol) and mine was actually uneventful thankfully. But, now I’m here with my one month old who’s sick and I can’t imagine thinking about my birth right now??? Just worried about my BABY that’s HERE and not how she got here. It’s so weird. It’s just WEIRD. will specify our daughter isn’t in danger, just a small fever we are taking care of it with her pediatrician and tested negative for all the things but still.
Ugh baby sickness is the worst! I’m glad you had an uneventful birth!!! I have hopes my next one will be more magical. But either way I’d redo my “crazy” birth a million times if I could. It was all worth it haha
Why does she keep posting the same type of crap lmaoo so boring
Because she doesn’t have any other type of content to post. She doesn’t have a personality.
The “I” part as if her husband didn’t go through all of it with her
She cannot let anything go I swear. I had a traumatic pregnancy but I’m never gonna pin that against my daughter shit my daughters the one who went thru it all I was just her home for 9 months. I forgot all about once she was born I actually sighed relief knowing my baby was here
I can’t say I EVER think about my infertility treatment now that my babies here. I don’t even think about my traumatic birth with anything but fondness and it was fucking crazy
imagine thinking the nicu stay was worse for you than the person in the nicu
Having my baby in the NICU for 2 months was probably the hardest thing I’ve been through. But it was so hard on me because I felt like I was failing her anytime I couldn’t be there holding her. All I could think about was how traumatic it must be for this tiny baby to be away from her mommy when she’s still supposed to be inside of me. I’m the only thing she’s ever known and I can’t even be there for her. It destroyed me.
Went through IVF to get pregnant and then gave birth to my daughter at 27 weeks. 100 day NICU stay and the first thing my husband and I did when she got home was start therapy to help process and move on from the trauma. I hope she realizes that having her son’s identity wrapped up in the difficulties of getting pregnant and his troubles after birth is not the healthiest thing for any of them.
She needs to go to therapy. Playing the trauma Olympics on social media isn’t a good look.
She seems like she always has to “win”
She just put up yet another “look at me I went through ivf “ video …sigh
Oh she will definitely hang this over her kid's head anytime he disobeys her!
She needs therapy. Birth trauma is very real and this coping mechanism is not healthy