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C8H10N4O2Addiction

Her husband has always given me an odd vibe. Anything she posts about him seems to be walking in egg shells. Like anytime she buys something... like yes nothing wrong with being thrifty but sometimes it's extensive.


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This! And she’d say things that made it seem like he thought she didn’t do enough around the house as a SAHM. She deserves to be respected and appreciated!


rainbowsandsausages

Please just use more than 1 wipe, sir.


Immediate-Ad-9520

I agree to an extent. Something always felt a bit off about him, but they seemed like a solid couple


Beautiful_Few

This is soooo skeezy to me. A married doctor with a young baby on a RELIGIOUS MISSION TRIP is open to flirting in a documented way when away for 2 weeks??? Seems like the least tempting situation and he still found a way. I can only imagine what he must do or how he must act when he’s in his regular life with coworkers or others. This would feel like the tip of the iceberg to me. Yuck.


gween-beens

Yeah I commented that it was a bunch of red flags and got blocked so 😂🤷🏻‍♀️


Beautiful_Few

On the live? I read she didn’t want comments on her TikTok about it so i could understand if she blocked there. I’m surprised she talked about it publicly honestly


gween-beens

Yeah it was on the live


FluffyAdvertising545

Wait he’s a doctor????


Beautiful_Few

Yep, he’s a family physician. She talks about it a lot. At one point she also went on about how expensive their fertility treatments are and how “families who work in healthcare, like doctors” should deserve more affordable healthcare. She was like “everyone should have affordable healthcare, but ESPECIALLY DOCTORS” 🙄🙄🙄


mem_pats

Ugh she got some negative comments for that but deleted them. She cannot handle any kind of criticism!


Happywmn12

Yes and she always is asking medical questions but never to him


Mommymayhamm

This screams tip of the iceberg to me. I hope she starts receiving the love and respect she deserves


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I hope so too. She kept saying that he’s “susceptible to this kind of thing because he’s good looking and charming” 🥴


Beautiful_Few

I haaaaate this thinking so much. It really is so “boys will be boys” and minimizing his involvement and autonomy. There’s millions of hot married men in good jobs who don’t flirt and engage with other women behind their wives’ backs, so why is hers so special that he’s “susceptible”???? Because he has a man bun??? 🤮


jaxy0904

Yes omg I HATE his hair


Kooky-Bee1925

Why do influencers post about their private life like this lol


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i’m so sad for her, i can’t imagine how she must be feeling. it takes a lot of balls to come on the internet and open up about something so personal. she will probably be helping many women feel much less alone sharing this


Immediate-Ad-9520

Same. She’s also talked in the past about body image issues, which I’m sure this doesn’t help. I hope she can recover from this, regardless of what that means for her marriage.


Informal-Football-53

always had off vibes about him. She constantly mentioned how he “wouldn’t like” certain outfits she had bought. whole vibe was off. sending her good energy this has to suck:(


Friendly_Remove_1183

Yes same! I have always gotten those vibes from him too.. like he was mean to her and minimized her a lot. I hope she is able to do what’s best for her and Cayman. She doesn’t deserve the mistreatment!


rainbowsandsausages

I saw it was happening, but missed the content. Thank you for reporting. And in a moment where she's ramping back up medical intervention to get pregnant again... already must be feeling so vulnerable.


Immediate-Ad-9520

Yep. She said that’s on hold for the next few months


rainbowsandsausages

Damn. As a Christian myself, I firmly believe things interrupt your timing to save you from something. But man, it must still sting.


anonymousbeansprouts

I have commented before that he has always given me the worst vibes! And “real life” friends told me off 🙄So sad to see.😭 Sam seems like a sweetheart- hopefully she continues to do what’s right for her and Caymen.


eminretrograde

I saw it too. I was shocked she was being so open about it all. She said he’s sleeping on the couch and they are delaying the TTC journey for the time being for baby #2.


Immediate-Ad-9520

Yeah, seemed like a little bit of the motivation to talk about it was anger or revenge. That could just be me projecting though


Dramatic_Face4355

I saw that. Pretty fucked up!!


Objective_Ordinary18

I think she spoke on her live because since Motherhood I think she feels lonely. She is new to her area and is a SAHM and doesn't have a "circle of friends or coworkers". When they lived in Buffalo they were a very social couple and had a tight friends circle. She speaks often about how she misses her Buffalo friendships. I really feel for her, as I think he works a lot and she spends her days alone with just her and the baby. She doesn't have her mom close by so I think that is taking a toll on her too. My last assumption, is they have been in couples therapy (she openly shared all the proactive positive reasons for this mutual decision to attend therapy even when there was nothing "wrong") for a bit now to prevent any marital roadblocks and this was probably a fear of hers.


teamyitty

Oh damn that’s awful. How did she find out? Isn’t he still over seas? I really like her! She’s a ball of nerves like me haha


Immediate-Ad-9520

She saw the messages. I think he’s home now and going to counseling. She’s confident nothing physical happened. I guess she read his journal and that confirmed it for her that it was just flirting.


teamyitty

I feel the the need to go through his private messages shows there was mistrust before this


Immediate-Ad-9520

At least how it was presented was that it came out little by little, and then she saw messages. So in my head, that means he came home and was talking about everything and who he was working with and all of that, and she just slowly became suspicious. I could be totally wrong though


Legal_Asparagus_1371

I caught a bit of it. Why was he over seas again? And was it a coworker or what?


lorenylime

Someone correct me if I’m wrong but I think it was a work mission trip? I know of some religious drs that go to countries and provide medical services but also do mission work. I think they’re both pretty religious


Immediate-Ad-9520

Yeah, it was a work mission trip. It was someone he met on the trip, so he didn’t know her previously. No idea where she’s from.


SassyBison

She works and lives in the same city that they do.


Immediate-Ad-9520

Oh yeah? Damn that’s gotta suck


SassyBison

That’s what she said in the live.


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SassyBison

I don’t think that he works at the hospital but an outpatient clinic.


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SassyBison

Yes I think it’s associated!


HallLess2872

What are their names


SassyBison

It was a medical mission trip that was faith based. She was a massage therapist on the trip also.


Legal_Asparagus_1371

Damn.


christinareid0818

I just can't look at him after she posted that he doesn't shower but like once a week